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I appreciate the examples, and I wish neither was the way it is. It sucks that that particular group didn’t include us. I am really frustrated by that too… however their activism did not hurt us! If a statute did get passed that outlawed such mutilation, it would make it much easier for us to advocate for the same thing :). I agree with you on the second one. Shit like that sucks. Two steps forward one step back. That’s a good place for men affected to stand up and advocate too! Not all feminist…
/r/MensRights15/03/25 05:04 PM
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If anyone wants a legitimate answer to this question pm me. I lurk here. The short answer is that patriarchy fucks men too, and by liberating others we also liberate ourselves. The future is not zero-sum
/r/MensRights11/03/25 08:35 PM
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Don’t? It’s not a competition?
/r/MensRights09/03/25 03:31 PM
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In general men are privileged, but not in every case. Also men’s privilege can actually be a curse in the long run, as it contributes to our poor mental health and hypermasculine problematic ideals. Class also comes into play, as society is structured to benefit rich (and cis and white) men in particular.
/r/MensRights11/01/23 05:48 PM
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I agree with this. Please stop the hate and self destruction
/r/MensRights07/01/23 05:14 AM
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I think you are experiencing an odd microcosm. Dating in my experience is better than it has ever been. People are more communicative, more mature, and less judgmental than ever. There could be differences depending on the city though, or how you go about dating in the first place.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 01:18 PM
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All gender bathrooms usually allow men. In my university they do at least.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 02:30 PM
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No it is not common. Super toxic
/r/MensRights01/11/22 02:04 PM
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This is reasonable. In a Culture where you were not ostracized it would be horrible to keep from the father, but he cheated and her life would be ruined if she disclosed so I think all is fair in love and war
/r/MensRights31/10/22 11:25 PM
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Lmao I literally do this with my GF
/r/MensRights18/10/22 03:22 PM
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https://getyarn.io/yarn-clip/b0da950d-417e-4959-b58f-7dd22b7ebe2a
/r/MensRights18/10/22 10:48 AM
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“Hasty Generalization A hasty generalization is a claim based on a few examples rather than substantial proof. Arguments based on hasty generalizations often don't hold up due to a lack of supporting evidence: The claim might be true in one case, but that doesn't mean it's always true.”
/r/MensRights18/10/22 09:44 AM
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Bad people and Radicals misrepresenting a movement
/r/MensRights17/10/22 07:44 PM
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That’s not feminism. Feminists feel men need spaces like that too. Your mom is expressing some ingrained ideas of the patriarchy (men can’t be abused because they are too powerful/ macho/ they would like it anyway). You should point her to some of the sexual abuse statistics (not rape statistics because rape is only penetrative according to law) but also bring up your lived experience as a man. There is a stigma around abuse help, and men do get assaulted. Do not discredit women’s experiences at…
/r/MensRights17/10/22 11:56 AM
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Check out r/menslib if you want to see some good intersectional stuff
/r/MensRights06/10/22 10:39 AM
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I am still a feminist actually. Lots of what we see on the media today is extremist on both sides. Feminism is about equality and dismantling the patriarchal systems (like not enough paternity leave, mens mental health neglect, etc) that hurt men and women alike. I don’t let the movement be defined by radicals, because I know myself and my reasonable feminist will continue in peaceful advocation for true equality.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 06:31 PM
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It very clearly does. I would agree with them
/r/MensRights24/09/22 09:42 AM
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Life for ANYONE in Russia sucks massively right now
/r/MensRights23/09/22 11:07 PM
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This seems fair enough. It’s what I’d do if I got to be a man for only a day. Maybe also go for a run or something to see how the mechanics of the body felt. If I was a women for a day I would definitely do the functional equivalent by playing with my boobs.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 01:34 PM
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“Appeal to Hypocrisy An appeal to hypocrisy — also known as the tu quoque fallacy — focuses on the hypocrisy of an opponent. The tu quoque fallacy deflects criticism away from oneself by accusing the other person of the same problem or something comparable.” “Hasty Generalization A hasty generalization is a claim based on a few examples rather than substantial proof. Arguments based on hasty generalizations often don't hold up due to a lack of supporting evidence: The claim might be true in one …
/r/MensRights21/09/22 02:17 PM
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I am a feminist man and I focus mostly on men’s issues. I don’t expect people who don’t actively live with my issues to focus on how to help me more than how to help themselves. Likewise it is possible to me an activist for men’s rights within feminism. I also seek to understand and advocate for women-specific issues, and I have experienced almost universal support regarding my male-focused advocacy from women in the movement.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 11:44 AM
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They do call for that. I just read a piece advocating against the draft actually.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 06:19 AM
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That’s fair enough. Extremists hijacking are bad for sure.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 06:19 AM
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I don’t understand wtf MRA’s actually want lmao. Like I am an advocate for men’s rights too! Most of the shit we face (emotionlessness, paternity leave, violence, incarceration, etc) are all products of “the patriarchy” and things feminists fights against. What feminism at large seeks is a dissolution of inculturated gender norms (they call this the patriarchy) that fuck over everyone. If MRAs do not want the same thing I am confused. The fact that some men disparage feminism as a movement is a …
/r/MensRights20/09/22 08:51 PM
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This is definitely bait. Only a few people think like this, and now if you have to date them. Be commutative about boundaries and find someone who agrees with yours
/r/MensRights14/09/22 05:13 PM
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I did not say that, and the reversal of the argument does not hold. What is true is that not all hot guys get laid, in large part as a product of red flags and/or shortcomings in EQ.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 07:08 PM
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Except his advice is pretty good lol
/r/MensRights12/09/22 02:34 PM
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Well said
/r/MensRights12/09/22 02:33 PM
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That’s not how this works lmao. Physical appearance could be awesome but if you ooze red flags it’s not going to keep someone’s attention for long
/r/MensRights12/09/22 02:32 PM
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When people complain about this kind of thing happening to them once or twice, I agree some people suck. When you claim you are completely likable, not racist, and cool yet literally everyone around them seems to indicate otherwise, it is time to realize that you are the only common denominator.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 02:30 PM
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He used to have some cool ideas but now he has sold himself to profit
/r/MensRights04/09/22 10:59 AM
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Don’t let these bros be pessimistic. Your relationship sounds awesome. Just remember to communicate and be receptive of each other’s needs always, and everything will be awesome
/r/MensRights02/09/22 06:48 PM
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Because nudity is something to be celebrated.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 08:20 PM
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I’m a dude, but I support laws like this within reason because I want men and women to feel comfortable and safe. I have a bro that was falsely accused and the process worked exactly as it should have. The horror stories we read about are just that, horrifying stories propagated to inflame and radicalize. They are as rare as shark attacks but just as sensational.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 02:37 PM
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Not really. There needs to be proof. That’s the reason why most of these cases do not actually go through. Court of public opinion is a different issue, but actual prosecution is very rare
/r/MensRights27/08/22 01:34 AM
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No. The law says you don’t need to verbalize your “yes”, you just need to show it through actions. Seducing and stripping would be enough in this example
/r/MensRights26/08/22 03:27 PM
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This law is great y’all. It also removed rape distinctions which helps men, and it says “Consent can only be considered consent when it has been freely manifested through actions that, in accordance with the circumstances, clearly express the person’s wishes.” This means that a person must either say yes OR express their enthusiasm some other way. This seems totally great and a boon to all genders
/r/MensRights26/08/22 03:26 PM
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I disagree fundamentally. If one chooses to engage these minorities maybe, but ultimately most good people seek goodwill and fellowship before animosity. Feminism as a group, like mens activists as a group, are not represented by the radicals on the news. Rejecting radicalism on the news, on social media, and in our own minds is a choice we all can make in an effort to make real change.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 11:40 PM
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Look up Emma Watson discussing feminism. She is a pretty good example.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 04:26 PM
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That is why I am on this sub. I like MensLib better because the people on here are slowly becoming radicalized, but everyone once in a while I see some interesting points
/r/MensRights25/08/22 04:25 PM
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Not correct. A vocal minority does not represent the beliefs of a whole group
/r/MensRights25/08/22 04:24 PM
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Real feminists do not say this.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 04:44 AM
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DeSantis is a career politician and generally not a solid dude.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 03:25 AM
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Bro that C section scene was horrifying. I was expecting violence, but the pure emotional weight of having to decide to kill your wife and to hold her hand while she dies was unreal.
/r/MensRights23/08/22 08:20 PM
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Idk what people are downvoting you for lol. They are just salty that you are being too positive
/r/MensRights21/08/22 07:35 PM
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He is not good
/r/MensRights19/08/22 08:03 PM
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Wow. Usually people on this sub just say random BS without any backing, but I just learned something today. Thank you
/r/MensRights16/08/22 03:22 PM
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They do this. Also the perpetrators of rape are often the same people are I doubt someone asking them nicely would change their serial behavior. For some situations like when alcohol is involved having conversations about consent and such is super important, and schools already do this (at least in my experience)
/r/MensRights16/08/22 03:19 PM
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Not common with younger people today. This kind of thing is problematic and tied to the old patriarchal societal system we have begun to move past. Boomers and millennials might still subscribe, but men and women today do not. Sex is fun for everyone involved
/r/MensRights07/08/22 03:22 PM
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He is not humiliated because it is made clear that Thor in his culture is not bothered by nudity. Because of our own society, it would be harder to establish a women character like this because nudity for women is more harshly controlled, but if Jane foster were an alien from a planet of gods I think it would be more acceptable. In fact, many books/ movies I have seen depict gods (all genders) as nude or almost nude. A Celtic fae, for example, would be totally normal naked.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 03:33 PM
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It’s pretty minor to be sure.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 01:52 AM
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You can if you want, but I feel like using either male or female regularly is overly scientific and a bit odd
/r/MensRights30/07/22 01:51 AM
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None of them are better lol, just different. The new Thor movie was great too.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 01:46 AM
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No I don’t think anyone seriously thinks that. Also female isn’t a direct synonym because it connotes more to gender at birth rather than identify.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 01:31 AM
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Say women not female if you can. “Female” Is just weird
/r/MensRights30/07/22 12:49 AM
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Because some people here use incel terms and do, in fact, hate on women. People also attack feminism with the same rhetoric feminists use themselves yet attack feminists for being anti-men (the patriarchy is why us men commit more suicide, get no paternity leave, etc. Feminism supports men and mens rights too). Go to r/menslib if you want to see an example of a group without the misogyny this sub has. Note: I am a lurker on this sub because I find it interesting to compare and contrast with othe…
/r/MensRights24/07/22 10:16 PM
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The typical surgery removes both the labia and the clitoris. The goal is to make sex painful. The male equivalent would be the whole penis
/r/MensRights23/07/22 05:48 PM
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Female is definitely worse because there are more nerves contained in what they cut off and it has more long term pain. Both are absolutely horrible, though, and should never be done
/r/MensRights23/07/22 03:14 PM
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I agree with some of what this guy told you but this dude in the post is spot on mostly. Feminism is fighting against this isolation too.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 03:39 AM
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I would really recommend therapy. Her experience in the past definitely explains how she feels, but it also makes you feel uncomfortable today. It seems like it is possible for you two to be together, but working through this issue seems important. I think you should go to a group/couples therapist and see what you can learn about each other.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 01:55 PM
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We do not have to worry about the risks or costs of pregnancy directly
/r/MensRights29/06/22 04:07 AM
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But most of them do not.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 03:08 PM
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That math does not quite work out.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 11:46 PM
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Bros, if we truly want rights for men, we need to advocate for rights for everyone. No if ands or buts. We must support women’s right to choose unequivocally, and we must advocate for our own reproductive rights just as firmly. There should be no talk of reproduction rights exchange like they are some sort of bargaining tool. This is a step back for us, not an act of eye opening justice. Everyone deserves their freedom.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 11:41 PM
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Guys. I am reading the comments here and I am disappointed. I have not been on the sub for a while, and we seem to have backslid to antifeminist self-destruction. This sub is about shedding light in men’s issues, not demeaning women or trying to justify bad behavior. We can be better
/r/MensRights27/06/21 05:04 AM
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Because it is sometimes used by fucked up old guys to justify cat calling or assault.
/r/MensRights27/06/21 05:02 AM
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Let’s get Rank choice voting and remove First past the post!!! Fix this f’ed up BS
/r/MensRights23/04/21 05:11 AM
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That makes sense. Personally my solution has been to independently participate in both men’s and women’s rights advocation. I see the benefit in the distinction, as it helps me focus on a more approachable set of issues. The only thing I worry about is how polarized we can get. People love to group themselves into warring clans that are, in practice, extremely similar. Men’s rights misogyny and feminist misanthropy are great examples of the destructive potential of this factionalism. I think mov…
/r/MensRights12/01/21 12:43 AM
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Feminism, generally, tries to fight what they call the patriarchy. Most people define this struggle as one that INCLUDES men’s issues such as emotionality, paternal leave, and mental health. These inequalities, many argue, are a product of a patriarchal system that assigns roles and regulations to genders. I think excluding the radical misanthropic extremists, feminism is actually synonymous with gender equality. I think many women feminists focus their protest on women’s issue because, well, th…
/r/MensRights11/01/21 07:41 PM
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Yay! It is really great that women like this support men too. Most people want everyone’s situation to get better
/r/MensRights21/11/20 05:23 PM
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And he was evidently sexist also lol
/r/MensRights29/09/20 02:03 AM
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Private. No one liked the boss. He was basically a drunk and an ass
/r/MensRights29/09/20 02:03 AM
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Maybe generally, but she literally ended up getting fired for asking for the same pay as her husband (she taught one more class than he did, and at a higher level). I am a dude on this subreddit, so I agree with you to an extent, but it definitely does happen and we should at least keep an open mind
/r/MensRights29/09/20 02:01 AM
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Same grade same classes (literally, except she taught one more at a higher level). I swear to you it was, as far as I can tell, simple gender discrimination
/r/MensRights29/09/20 02:00 AM
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The wage gap, for certain careers and under certain bosses is legit. I had a great professor in high school who literally did not get paid as much as her husband (who joined at the same time and taught the same number of classes), even tho she had a PHD. It’s not as bad as people say but it is still important to be mindful and to work for equality of opportunity.
/r/MensRights29/09/20 01:23 AM
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Feminism is not the issue. It’s ‘traditional values’ that put us down. We need to work with those feminists (not the rare crazy ones) who are advocating for gender equality and openness. Their goals focus on women’s issues, true, but their work dismantling traditional systems will help us significantly
/r/MensRights16/09/20 11:17 PM
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