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tsibutsibu/r/seduction25/10/10 04:06 AM
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Your question is perfectly spot on. And it's the hardest one to answer, by a mile. I just came here by coincidence to see if things are any different from 4 years ago when I was really into this stuff. Lunch breaks and every possible spare time I had was spent reading reports and books about body language. After a while you start seeing this small similarity in all of those traits you're trying to mimic from the books: Confidence... Being in the flow. Feeling whole! Seeing yourself as you could …
/r/seduction30/09/15 09:14 AM
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I've only had bad experience with this. I don't understand how you guys get it to work. Fapping makes me super-relaxed around women, relaxation = fun, fun = getting in state, getting in state = magnet to other people.
/r/seduction16/03/11 05:12 AM
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He's just trying to say that you're making things rough on yourself when you're saying you crashed and burned! To me it seems you did better than a normal chump, who in that situation would've gone all awkward and ejected without a word.
/r/seduction24/02/11 05:28 PM
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I have the exact opposite effect. I become anxious if I don't fap at least every other day. And when I didn't fap for a week and went out, I NEEDED to pick up a girl! Needing is not a good feeling to have, I think we can all agree with that. Doesn't really put you in a place of abundance. When I've fapped I feel totally relaxed and totally indifferent to the outcome, making me much more fun and outgoing. But yeah, needless to say, I can't get myself to orgasm.
/r/seduction10/02/11 08:26 PM
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The Circle of Seduction?
/r/seduction15/12/10 07:59 PM
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I've tried this and had only negative experiences. It makes me WANT a girl so bad, which makes me suspicious of my own actions... "How's my posture? How's my tone of voice? What could I be doing wrong right now?" Makes me go inside my own head instead of living outside of my head, relaxing and living in the moment and having fun, which works like a magnet to everyone.
/r/seduction10/12/10 05:56 AM
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go on...
/r/seduction08/12/10 10:21 PM
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Realizing that I'm an excellent guy who shouldn't spend his energy chasing women! Plus the fact that most women enjoy sex more than most men, they're just afraid of being labeled as a slut or "easy".
/r/seduction24/11/10 07:34 PM
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By the way, do you smile at her first? I'm so blown away by this... do you get smiles or any reaction back from girls often? I've made eye contact + a small smile with my eyes with hundreds of people here and only ONE foreign girl has smiled back at me! I went to Rome a month ago and this one girl smiled and even said "Hi...". Your culture is just awesome.
/r/seduction08/11/10 08:27 PM
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"You" is a very dangerous thing if you think about it too much. Makes one easily develop an ego, a false image of self. It consists of things what you made in the past, and what you're going to do in the future. These things don't matter! I've come to the conclusion that the most relaxed, attractive people mostly live in the moment and don't talk almost anything about past things or their goals. They somehow can get all their ideas from the ongoing situation.
/r/seduction07/11/10 11:41 AM
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That's what I was saying. A neg can easily become an insult with an insecure girl, when done wrong obviously. That is why it's risky.
/r/seduction31/10/10 08:12 PM
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herpa derp derp!
/r/seduction31/10/10 07:53 PM
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From my experiences, it's very risky. You can get massive damage done that way! Most women, even the most beautiful, are very insecure.
/r/seduction31/10/10 07:34 PM
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You're correct. All 19 year olds aren't the same. I'm guessing Ancalgon was saying that generally 19 year olds are more immature, flaky and basically useless as a stable LTR than, say, 23 year olds. And btw who seriously wants a socially in-adept, shy, immature and all-the-time-nervous AFC-girlfriend?
/r/seduction05/10/10 10:07 PM
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How hard is it to blow a girl off? Txt her "Not interested, sorry.", it's that simple. "Oh man it's so hard blowing girls off or keeping them as friends when you're this successful with them... how do I do it, guys? I know this subreddit is about the exact opposite but I'm just too advanced for that stuff."
/r/seduction02/10/10 07:07 AM
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Just make sure you have fun! Don't make it a date, because dates usually consist of two nervous strangers having a boring resume swap during a dinner and a movie afterwards where you can't communicate at all. Horrible! Do something that entertains you. Go somewhere and take her with you, e.g. shopping for clothes or walking at some event in your city. And I'd say if you asked her to come with you, you pay for everything so you show her that you're responsible and care-free, not some chump who ge…
/r/seduction24/09/10 06:41 PM
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It'll only seem awkward if you feel awkward doing it! Do it with confidence, but gracefully, and you will get good results. And of course this applies to all kino. It's much more powerful than words.
/r/seduction18/09/10 06:29 PM
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You say she cut you off from the main group, the girl were obviously interested! If she's near you, the game is on! She always has the option to leave or at least push you away if she doesn't feel attracted. Next time, try holding her hand for a while. If her hand feels like a dead fish, she doesn't feel attraction. If she holds on and squeezes back when you squeeze lightly, the game is on. Touch, touch and touch! Though not with your dick.
/r/seduction18/09/10 06:04 PM
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You found it interesting that people didn't like the bad photo of your face as much as the better photo of your face?
/r/seduction25/08/10 03:06 PM
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Dude, those two pictures are too different to compare just hair length. With shorter hair, your face is also oriented away from the camera, you're keeping your shoulders more relaxed AND your face isn't over-exposed.
/r/seduction25/08/10 02:23 PM
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We all have our excuses. Look at someone you know, who is naturally the alpha male, and copy him totally! We learn with copying and mixing the copied stuff to create our own style in everything in life. Soon the copied behavior will be part of you and you don't have to fake it at all.
/r/seduction10/08/10 06:26 PM
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Because we are still cavemen in a modern society. And a nice guy is often seen as a weak male.
/r/seduction10/08/10 06:15 PM
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Seems powerful. How does fractionating work?
/r/seduction03/07/10 09:51 AM
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Holy shit. I've read half of The Game now... and You, sir, have changed my life completely. Thank you!
/r/seduction24/05/10 07:19 PM
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Now that you mentioned it, no! I just read the title. Fortunately the article has an example of a nice guy having a happy ending with his attitude.
/r/seduction08/05/10 04:38 PM
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So I should start treating my girl like crap, not care about her schedule and completely ignore her when she's talking to me and that would make her like me more? Or does this only work for getting one-night stands? In my opinion, every relationship should be based on sincere honesty and not on some tough guy -acting. Maybe I'm being naive and shows what I know about treating the ladies. But what do you guys think?
/r/seduction08/05/10 07:37 AM
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I was about to say How to Win Friends and Influence People when I saw the title. It has helped me out BIG time with social skills!
/r/seduction07/05/10 02:25 PM
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