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| 22 | What’s something I should never do or say to a man if I want him to take me seriously? | Logistics | tsireya_metkayina | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 02:54 AM |
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| 1 | How Can I Flirt More Confidently Without Overthinking?In my personal experience as a woman, us girls have a lot of power to steer the conversation through the questions we ask and the answers we give—especially with younger guys. Get into that mentality! It’s crucial to truly believe that you are in a position of power when talking to a guy. He can think whatever he wants, but it shouldn’t matter to you. Unlike us, men don’t usually give their time and attention to women they don’t find attractive. So, to them, even basic attention is often a sign … | /r/seduction | 08/03/25 08:20 PM |
| 2 | What’s something I should never do or say to a man if I want him to take me seriously?lol I already have this book | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 04:12 PM |
| 3 | How do I make the first move on a guy?Super shy men are a whole other situation though 🫤 | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 09:42 AM |
| 3 | How do I make the first move on a guy?If he looks at me a certain way, I usually just smile, wave, wink, or say hi. Then, with good eye contact, I gesture him over with my whole hand or just my pointer finger. If he’s brave enough, he comes to me. When he’s standing or sitting in front of you, don’t say anything. Just wait for him to ask what’s going on or say something first—then go from there. That’s always worked for me in most settings. If he doesn’t approach, move on, and a silent rejection is better than a spoken one, in my op… | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 09:39 AM |
| 2 | What’s something I should never do or say to a man if I want him to take me seriously?They are queer reserved liberalist. The complete opposite of me :) Does that help? | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 09:24 AM |
| 2 | What’s something I should never do or say to a man if I want him to take me seriously?Oh okay I see, where I grew up western traditional gender roles aren’t really a thing. Men as the sole provider of a nuclear family unit is a concept I wasn’t really exposed too but I’m learning a lot about it now that I’ve moved to North America and trying to wrap my head around it. So I do agree a woman demanding to be cared for like a young child without giving back is odd. | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 09:09 AM |
| 6 | What’s something I should never do or say to a man if I want him to take me seriously?Mmm 🤔 trauma dumping noted. I’ve never done that yet so I guess I’ll avoid possibly doing it in future | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 08:59 AM |
| 2 | What’s something I should never do or say to a man if I want him to take me seriously?Thank you for the perspective check. I would definitely date myself. I think it’s getting lost in translation because I didn’t really go into detail on what I meant by “ reciprocate their interest”. But people seem to assume I’m getting hit up by men taking less then hot minute and jumping in bed with them 😂. You phrased it nicely so I’ll share some context. I throughly get to know the guy I’m talking to. Roughly 3 months minimum then another couple of months getting to know them irl. Their like… | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 08:58 AM |
| 2 | What’s something I should never do or say to a man if I want him to take me seriously?Is this directed at me? I didn’t give a lot of info in my og post so let me shed some context. I like to know a guy really well before I sleep with him typically three months of constant talking and another 2-3 of actually vetting irl. Getting to know his likes and dislikes. Fears, trauma, ex’s, ick, etc. And I’m very clear with my intentions and expectations from the start but yet still ghosted or cold turkey after sex 🤷♀️ I’m just really confused on how I would be perceived as only having sex… | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 08:40 AM |
| 2 | What’s something I should never do or say to a man if I want him to take me seriously?😂 oh how wrong you are. | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 08:35 AM |
| 3 | What’s something I should never do or say to a man if I want him to take me seriously?“It seems like OP has a pattern of someone vying very hard for her energy, attention and time- only to waste it when she gives them intimacy” — Yup 😞 And it’s not like I even mind being a hookup. However leading me on and hinting that a relationship is on the table when he’s not ready, or fully over an ex, or still has trust issues is so annoying. Like for gods sakes guys just admit it to yourselfs! | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 08:26 AM |
| 5 | What’s something I should never do or say to a man if I want him to take me seriously?THIS 👆!!! Thank you | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 03:00 AM |
| 4 | Is it rude to approach a girl while she’s eating?Personally I think it depends on what she’s eating. If it’s MacDonalds or a packed lunch in a casual setting then go for it. But if it’s a sit down restaurant or cafe be a little more discerning :) | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 02:38 AM |
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