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| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 21, 2018OYS 22.8.2018 -Divorce, things going to shit but it will be better in the future- Family: Me, SBX, 3 kids W: 92kg, H:196cm, BFI: 12%, Bench: 95kg Sports Lifting 3 times a week + 2 times a 11km runs. Doing good. Physically fine, but psychologically having a hard time (divorce). Feels like cutting your own hand off while hurting your kids too. Cheering me myself up with male friends and dating sites girls that seems to be attracted to my appearance. No wonder nowadays men with dadbods.. Family Hav… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/18 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Cucquean ex?Just don't do it. Do not go through garbage. If I would do something, I would make sure that she sees more of those nudes pics from other girls (not directly to her but somehow covertly/indirectly/it should be seen that you did not send those pictures to her). | /r/askMRP | 21/08/18 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 26, 2018OYS - 28.6.2018 History A blue pill drunk captain that woke up in Feb. 2018 and found MRP. Age: late 30's. 4 kids and a wife. Physical Already been in the gym lifting 3 times this week. More times to come to letting the steam out. Due to starting holidays my schedule has been quite hectic. Therefore has been skipping runs. Gotta fix that. Also big family party coming this weekend. Feeling good, looking good (about myself). Still trying not to redpill-rambo too much. Economical Workwise everythin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/06/18 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 12, 2018What you said makes sense. Starting now working at it. Thanks! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/06/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | From personal experience making your plans clear instead of asking grants you more successThe reason you do that is because it makes you look assertive but at the same time it flips the question. The question is "do you want to go to the event?" If she wants to go it makes you look assertive. If she doesn't want to go then she is saying no to an event instead of saying no to you. Event better is make the question as follows: "I'm going to the arcade bar Thursday night at 7pm. Want to join?". This way the question is casual, no pressure and really see if the girl is into you. And go e… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 12, 2018OYS - 13.6.2018 History A blue pill drunk captain that woke up in Feb. 2018 and found MRP. Age: late 30's. Physical Revving up my physical training. Now doing gym 3-4 times per week. 2 x 11,5km runs per week. Current BFI is 14%. Body beginning to look like an athlete. Feeling fantastic and energy is high. Wife started to notice the change. Asked in April if I'm having an affair. Told the truth: 'No, I just want to be the best version of myself'. Knows I'm working out, but dread is obvious. She h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/06/18 12:43 PM |
| 1 | The Double Standard: Body CountI agree. https://youtu.be/AgiWz0x4Bfs | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 05:03 PM |
| 5 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 08, 2018One of the most powerful sources of dread are the IOIs from other women if your wife cares about you. Those are the real metrics of your SMV for your wife. Be attractive, not unattractive. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/05/18 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Experiment.1.MAP, 2.Lift, 3.Frame (you are the prize), 4.Realize that you can not change her. You are the change., 5.Be attractive and do not be unattractive (looks, clothing, posture, kino, keep frame, STFU, be mentally ready to let her go (abundance mindset)), 6.You will have setbacks. Do not quit. Fake it till make it., 7.Have social life (join a sports club, have male friends, talk to other women and flirt), 8.Read sidebar, 9.Enjoy life. | /r/askMRP | 06/04/18 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Awalt situationsTrue. | /r/askMRP | 23/03/18 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Married 19 yrs (40m). Lost frame and respect. Can i get it back?Realize also that you can NOT change her. You have to change yourself and if god's will, she tags a long and changes with you. Be the change in your life. | /r/askMRP | 23/03/18 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Awalt situationsYou have to act quick. Own your shit. This is also your fault (do NOT say to her), own it. Read sidebar! Recognise your limits/boundaries and build frame. Keep the frame. Do not be unattractive. You have to start raising your SMV: Lift (body in shape), buy new clothes (especially new underwear), get a hair cut. Read Married Man Sex Life Primer (Chapter 27) ASAP! Plan your MAP and follow it. Learn to STFU. Keep frame and talk shortly with your wife. Keep things short without feelings. Communicate… | /r/askMRP | 23/03/18 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Married 19 yrs (40m). Lost frame and respect. Can i get it back?Read "Read Married Man Sex Life Primer". | /r/askMRP | 23/03/18 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Married 19 yrs (40m). Lost frame and respect. Can i get it back?You have been too passive with your limits. You have a lot to do now. Recognize your limits and enhance them. Build frame and your physical attractiveness. LIFT, new clothes, haircut. Read the sidebar. Read Married Man Sex Life Primer ASAP! Own your shit. Start a MAP. Start gaming (common activity, kino and flirt) your wife and keep her hamster busy. Start improving yourself. Do not get stuck in life. Always move forward. This buys you time to correct your relationship. I can not overemphasize t… | /r/askMRP | 23/03/18 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 20, 2018Ok, gotcha. I got 4 kids to feed, so here is what I DO with my "me-time": I run 7km at least 3 times a week. I lift at gym at least once a week. Today had 60min proper workout at work gym in the morning. At home I have a basic set of weights and dumbbells which I use almost daily. I read. See books above. I renovate the house (because I want to). I do kino and some flirt with my wife. Just to keep the game on. Lost 10kg from the beginning of December. Results are starting to show. Now 196cm and … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/03/18 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 20, 2018We had seriously sick kid (now everything is well). That really took a toll in our relationship. Basically wife was seriously depressed (probably still is). So was I but in 6 months I started to make a change and found TheRedPill. About 60 Days of Dread, I have take that one to my reading list. I'm currently going throught the sidebar and repeating reading it. The book of Pook is great. Already read Rational Male and currently reading Married Man Sex Life Primer. This book really opens my eyes a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/03/18 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 20, 2018True. My main idea about was keeping the frame and acting decent (decent= calm, logic, keep it short, no feelz). Usually slippage from these gives me the "asshole" impression about myself because trying to impress somebody. "I'm the prize". | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/03/18 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 20, 2018Found the RedPill a month ago. Still working on it, but it is hard. Few lapses here and there. My current program: Lift and be fit 4 times a week. Be a better man. Keep frame. Don't be an asshole. STFU is a good advice. Improving my social status. More "man time" with friends. Bought new clothes. Improve your working status. Asked for a raise an got it. Be more available in family life. Make decisions. Do more. Being more relaxed with wife. E.g. slapping her ass and smiling and keeping her hamst… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/03/18 10:13 AM |
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