tslextslex Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Do you see any way to simultaneously be able to live a committed Christian life and get married, but avoiding a situation where you become the classic pussywhipped husband? "Is there any hope in the prospect of finding a wife that will allow me to be as kind as I'd like to be, while still being ready to be helpful enough, playful enough and loyal?" Yes. I did 25 years ago. Lots of guys do. One thought: If you wanted to catch a fish, you'd probably spend your time at sea, and not in wheat field. You have to be where women like the woman you want are found.	/r/askTRP	30/05/18 05:36 PM
6	What do you guys make of being constantly being threatened with divorce? Well, if you want to be helpful, photo from inside of house showing location of front door. Use drawing tool to highlight. Send via text msg. ETA: @Persaeus, GMTA. I just take too long to type. To OP, assuming you are not a troll, if this is the disease she has likely named the cure.	/r/askMRP	16/03/18 08:21 PM
3	Why do our mothers lie to us and tell us the exact opposite of what women really want? Because AWALT. Even your mom. Nothing nefarious in it. It's just that AWALT.	/r/askTRP	08/03/18 04:16 PM
1	So, can marriage work? This. See my longer post above. AWALT, even my amazing wife of 26 years. AWALT. So making the marriage work falls to you. Do or do not.	/r/askMRP	22/01/18 09:25 PM
1	So, can marriage work? Married at 31. We are 26 years in, two sons. And it works very well. Why? A lot of reasons but here are two that you can apply. First thing: She wanted to be a WIFE. She is lots of things -- a professional, an artist, etc -- and yes, AWALT, but she came at the marriage from the perspective of wanting to be a wife. Second thing: I was tremendously explicit from the outset about what I would expect from a wife and what she could expect from me. That is: What was it going to mean to be MY wife. We …	/r/askMRP	22/01/18 09:21 PM
1	A situation I don't know how to handle (she checked my phone) "Have you been a nosey Parker?" "Yes. I've been a nosey Parker." Points to first response that cites the source.	/r/askMRP	22/01/18 06:47 PM
2	Anyone had a chance to read her diary of her time before you? Wait. What? You mean . . . AWALT? Nah!	/r/askMRP	08/12/17 03:24 PM
1	Pissy wife- ignore, or up the fun? Take the mini-vacation if you can afford it and it would be good for this kids, but let her enjoy the drive drive sitting on a spanked butt. You don't engage in family stuff as reward, or withhold it as punishment. Making sure the kids have a good variety of activities and you all have time together is part of the basic obligation. This kind of petty whining (my friend from NZ calls in "whinging") needs to be punished, then ignored. It shouldn't be elevated or dignified into anything important e…	/r/askMRP	20/07/17 08:32 PM
2	I need advice on my anger... Why would you let a girl who isn't in your life be in your head? Move the fuck on.	/r/askTRP	14/07/17 07:51 PM
1	How do you know when it's time to end a relationship? "Hmm. Should I end this relationship?" This.	/r/askTRP	30/06/17 03:44 PM
1	New here. This doesn't seem to be working If you were to draw a Venn diagram of all the things you can control and all the ways she feels about things, the total area of the intersecting circles would be. . . . zero. Always.	/r/askMRP	13/06/17 09:24 PM
1	Explosive AM This is a parody post, right? Because, if not, someone needs a spanking.	/r/askMRP	13/06/17 09:21 PM
1	Cuckoldry. SJWs. Hamstering. Everything so wrong with modern sexuality, in this one comic. (Not Safe For Work) NOT satire: http://www.thecsph.org/ojst-volume-three-interview/	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/17 09:46 PM
1	How to respond? Cognitive dissonance is a powerful force. You are in the full sweep of it now. Try this: Read your post as if it were written by another man about another woman. See?	/r/askMRP	06/04/17 09:34 PM
3	Need advice on cheating LTR that just broke up with me. "Can this relationship be saved?" A. No. B. What relationship? C. Both A and B. Answer is . . . . . . . C	/r/askMRP	06/04/17 09:32 PM
1	AM I RAMBO??? REALLY??? You are the head of your household. You have abdicated that role, to some degree, for some time. You are now reasserting that role. So of COURSE there is going to be resistance and push back. If you are a believing family then do not neglect to put this re-assertion in that context. You've failed (at least to a degree, at least for a while) so be honest with yourself and with your wife that you are reforming behavior that wasn't optimal. But she needs to understand that this isn't some sort of r…	/r/askMRP	05/04/17 04:07 PM
1	I need your help girls Well, good on you for being willing to listen. That's a fine quality. At my advanced years I can assure you that 25 is still plenty youthful. But yes, it's time to be a grown-up. A question you don't have to answer: Are you sharing these posts with your SO? In my view, if your goal is captain/first mate, you ought to be.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/17 02:36 PM
2	I need your help girls Hmm. Someone needs a spanking. Now, it's not that I don't mean that literally -- because I do (more below). But I also mean it metaphorically. People change their behavior, if they change it at all, for reasons -- they want to attain a positive outcome or they seek to avoid a negative consequence (or both). I know. This is so fundamental as to seem silly. But my point is that all your hand-wringing about "oh how can I stop being so awful?" and "why am I so awful?" really boils down to this: You …	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/17 09:12 PM
1	Question about boundaries A couple of thoughts: You need to get wife focused on a conversation when the kids are asleep. Your points are simple: We will not undermine each other in front of the the kids because that is confusing and, ultimately, scary for them. They need limits and boundaries and will be happy, and grow up well, when they are imposed. But nothing is more destabilizing for a small child than to see Mom and Dad at odds. So it is not going to happen again. Not ever. We can discuss child rearing as much as y…	/r/askMRP	24/03/17 03:52 PM
1	Hold Onto Your Butts You know, let me add something. You do not need to be into any sort of BDSM to spank your wife. Just spank her. Heaven knows I do. How she responds will tell you all you need to know. And it sounds like you already know. Don't expect her to verbalize anything positive. Some girls will. Some girls will even tease you into it. (Mine does.) Other girls will only protest. But 1. Unless you are getting a hard no, what you see is what you get (and as you have described her your actions are not going t…	/r/askMRP	23/03/17 09:50 PM
3	Hold Onto Your Butts Just a reply and an up-vote to say I thought this was a great post.	/r/askMRP	23/03/17 09:24 PM
1	Petty Behaviour In every marriage, every day, someone is in charge. In yours, she is. That's not to rip on you, it's just true. She's willing to do what she has to get what she wants and your feelings mean nothing to her. You are not willing to do what you have to to get what you want, and her feelings (the immediate, temporary ones) mean too much to you. The irony/sad truth is that you BOTH will ultimately be much happier if you are in charge. She is doing what she is doing because she wants you to be in charg…	/r/askMRP	23/03/17 09:12 PM
1	Tired or manipulative STEP ONE: "when I returned she was sat in an armchair, engrossed in her phone." Remove phone from her hand. Grasp her gently but firmly by her arms above the elbow. Lift her from the chair to her feet. (You CAN lift her, right?) Cover her startled mouth with a kiss. Continue kiss to count of 30. Spank her very firmly on the bottom. Re-seat her in the chair. Hand her back her phone. STEP TWO: "Came back a few minutes later and she was reading a wildlife book." Remove book from her hands. Toss boo…	/r/askMRP	22/03/17 07:13 PM
2	Problem with In-Laws Paying for Stuff "We are a team. We are THE team. We are not taking money from your folks. If they want to take us out to dinner as a thank you, when they stay with us, fine. If they'd like to buy you a nice present at your birthday, swell. But we are the team. We are not taking their money because there is no such thing as money without strings. You will tell them nicely, 'thanks, but we're good.' If they give us money otherwise, I'll write a check in that amount to the NRA (Red Cross, MSF, whatever charity the…	/r/askMRP	21/03/17 02:12 AM
9	How do I stop thinking about revenge on my ex? "I tried to kill myself." "I want her to suffer." ". . . I cannot get it out of my head." "Nothing's helping. . . .vengeful thoughts came back." ETA: "The feeling of hatred and revenge comes really randomly." I do not say this lightly: You're suffering from a degree of mental illness and you should seek professional help. ETA: These are called "obsessive ideations." I am not being a smart-ass. I am offering my best advice.	/r/askTRP	16/03/17 04:02 PM
1	Q4MEN: Married women, do they better control their sexuality? While it may not be perfectly diagnostic, the degree to which a married woman is willing to flirt with other men tells a lot about the marriage she's in and her view of her husband. The degree to which a married woman will flirt with other men with her husband present? Now THAT is just about perfectly diagnostic. My lovely bride is a charmer. She has a tremendous, innate gift for making anyone, in any circumstance, feel interesting and attended to and cared about. I have seen this with everyone …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/17 02:45 PM
1	Am I handling outbursts properly? When a child has a tantrum, it is nearly always because they simply lack the emotional control to moderate their reaction to a set of circumstances (often exacerbated by being tired, hungry or similarly stressed). It's not really the child's fault, exactly. All children are like that (ACALT) to a certain degree -- their emotional control has limits. You respond by making sure they're safe -- moving the flailing toddler from the tile floor onto a carpet, or put them in their crib -- then you IGNO…	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/03/17 07:18 PM
1	Fork in the road There is always someone in charge. Always. In OP's marriage, it is Mrs. OP, for abundant reasons set forth in the OP. I'm a married guy pushing 60 (57) very happily married for 25 years. For every day of that, there has been someone in charge and it has been me. It STARTS with, as folks here like to say, "owning your own shit." Make yourself someone whom a woman wants to follow. The rest, after that, is details and dealing with the occasional AWALT behavior. (For a vision of what it's like to le…	/r/askMRP	13/03/17 06:48 PM
2	Chores Think how you would handle this if your child failed to to do the necessary chores. Then do that. Her: "Thought we were going to the art festival today?" You: "Nope. Art festivals are for girls who clean up their mess." Her: "Thought we were going out to dinner." You: "We can leave when you've put away your laundry and loaded your dishes into the dishwasher, if there's still time." Her: "Hey . . what are you going to to do with that hairbrush?"	/r/askMRP	13/03/17 06:39 PM
3	Please, Tell Me I'm Being Crazy. Please. She is clinically depressed. Depression of that sort is chemical. It gets fixed, for the most part, with chemicals. Doctors can prescribe those chemicals. No, I'm not a psych doc. Yes, diagnosing people on the internet is BS. But this isn't terribly complex. Try this: Take the post you have above and strip out everything except factual descriptions of her conduct and direct quotes of her statements. Show the result to literally any MD. Hint: Most docs will read ". . . my wife in a fetal ball, fa…	/r/askMRP	10/03/17 04:58 PM
2	How can I push myself to study harder when my brain just won't let me? Exactly so. Conditioning isn't just for the gym.	/r/askTRP	10/03/17 12:43 PM
1	How do you guys stay faithful?? An up-vote for you, my forthright friend.	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/03/17 12:52 AM
3	How do you guys stay faithful?? Fair enough. And for me with JLo I'm not sure I want a blowjob because I would want to make sure I could see that ass. Other activities come to mind. But that said, the answer really is as simple as I said I wouldn't so I won't. I would definitely be taking that home, though, and my wife would have some work to do to take care of what JLo sparked. But I gave a lot of consideration to making the promise I made. And I don't judge anyone who does not make that promise. But make it and break it? Yea…	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/03/17 11:23 PM
2	How do you guys stay faithful?? I'm sorry. My first response may have been confusing because it was so wordy and confusing. In answer to your hypothetical, will try again: I keep my word. I'll add this: I cannot imagine how anyone can be committed to many of the principles discussed here, to establishing and maintaining themselves as a man worthy of the name "man," and NOT place his honor above nearly everything. I can't get how anyone can imagine himself the leader of his house -- or his woman -- if his word is not to be trus…	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/03/17 10:25 PM
3	How do you guys stay faithful?? OP asks: "How do you guys stay faithful?" I gave my word. I keep my word. Next question.	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/03/17 10:11 PM
3	How can I push myself to study harder when my brain just won't let me? My plan may not be your plan, but the advice still holds about being brutally honest with your own strengths and weaknesses -- not judging them, because how you learn is largely how you learn and has a lot of physiological and development causes you likely cannot revise now; just planning to succeed in by tailoring your plan to those realities. [Although, if you have never been evaluated for ADD, it may be worthwhile to do so. I'll tell you that it is real and chemical and can be made much bette…	/r/askTRP	09/03/17 10:09 PM
5	FR: Kids, your dad is in charge..... Someone needs a spanking. And it is not either of the kids.	/r/askMRP	09/03/17 09:56 PM
8	How can I push myself to study harder when my brain just won't let me? When I went to law school I was second career, had a job and a wife and a kid. Without dedicating 10 hours every Saturday, there was going to be no way to accomplish the results I wanted. Step 1 was to make studying an absolute household priority. From 9 to 7:30 on Saturdays everything in that house was dedicating to me studying. My wife would feed me, keep our son entertained, handle any errands that had to be done that day, fend off family requests to socialize, answer the phone and refuse to …	/r/askTRP	09/03/17 09:22 PM
2	My ex broke up with me on Friday because we argued that men and women can't be just friends "My ex broke up with me on Friday because we argued that men and women can't be just friends" Tl;dr: Friday was a good and lucky day for u/ggpurehope.	/r/askTRP	06/03/17 09:10 PM
2	Tips and advice for pregnancy You'll have to spank her standing up. And if you go at it the right way, sex is amazing during pregnancy has a calming effect like nothing else. So win-win.	/r/askMRP	06/03/17 09:04 PM
8	Shit tests abound... "are you going to do anything about it?" bad girl wants a spanking? Seriously, exactly this.	/r/askMRP	27/02/17 05:21 PM
3	[Rant] There's a darkness inside of me. Look, I know it's hard to believe this, but at 24 -- unless you've been to war and failed to mention it, or unless you've worked your way around the world stoking the boilers on a tramp steamer and failed to mention it, or unless you've been the piano player in a Singapore whorehouse and failed to mention it -- there is so much of the world and -- much more importantly -- so much of yourself that you haven't glimpsed yet. So, on the one hand, spare us your heroic self-encomium AND your existenti…	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 06:21 PM
30	How would you deal with this? To be clear, you're asking about the best way to "deal with" a girl who will do coke in a house with a baby? That's your question?	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 04:39 PM
3	How to handle a girl who's fuck the whole crew? Don't. (Answering question posed in thread title.)	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 04:35 PM
2	Older Men, Younger Women: How & When It Can Work. For certain. It's just natural for a girl who's about to be over your knee, or already is. I'm just adding that inserted into a more neutral setting, it's a tell.	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/17 05:14 AM
2	Older Men, Younger Women: How & When It Can Work. Speaking of signs, I find this is tremendously consistent tell: Early in the interaction, call her "young lady" and see how she reacts. I.e., "So, young lady, cosmopolitans are your drink, are they?" Just that simple, but watching her face when you say it. Is there a blush? Did she dip her eyes? Slight smile? Could very well be group C. Paradoxically, a sharp negative response CAN be a positive, if she's just a Group C girl who's used to being shamed about her leanings and reflexively pushes bac…	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/17 05:56 PM
1	Older Men, Younger Women: How & When It Can Work. Darn you, McDuQuesne, I hate when a guy says exactly what I would say, but says it before I say it. Seriously, ql3, evolution. It's a thing. Here's a source. http://www.akademiai.com/loi/1126 Here's the wiki if you aren't a big reader: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evolutionary_psychology	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/17 05:51 PM
1	A guy in my office takes every chance he gets to put me down but acts pissed when I talk back to him the same way... what's wrong with him? He's an asshole. Next question.	/r/askTRP	07/02/17 01:09 PM
1	Plate was on her period. Didn't tell me because she wanted to see me. What's the proper response to this? Someone needs a spanking.	/r/askTRP	01/02/17 08:44 PM
2	"I may be busy Friday, if I am I'll be free Saturday though" how do I approach this? Radio silence until Wednesday of the following week. No messages sent or received. ZERO. On Wednesday, ask her out if you like, for a specific event at a specific place at a specific time.	/r/askTRP	10/01/17 08:13 PM
2	How to emotionally scar a girl? If you are putting energy into revenge -- into even thinking about revenge -- she is inside your OODA loop and your frame is for shit. Just next and move on. No drama. She is who she is and being who she is. . . . that's her punishment. (Only variance is I more or less always figure the girl can benefit from a good spanking. But that could just be me.)	/r/askTRP	10/01/17 08:00 PM
2	Plate Wonders why I'm not Angrier at her for Being Late If the girl is asking for a spanking, for goodness' sake, GIVE her a spanking.	/r/askTRP	30/12/16 06:21 PM
5	LTR wants to try celibacy for a month as a way to "grow closer" A little girl is telling you how to conduct your sex life. Negative.	/r/askTRP	07/12/16 12:54 AM
1	LTR wants to abstain from sex entirely because of pregnancy fears "No sex or no relationship" So. . . .choose.	/r/askTRP	10/11/16 10:27 PM
2	Slowly becoming beta in my relationship This. See my comment for further "yes."	/r/askTRP	08/11/16 08:40 PM
3	Slowly becoming beta in my relationship This girl is crying out for you to take control. If you are capable of doing so, you should. Mind you, that's not foregone conclusion. Some men are, some aren't. But this girl wants and needs you assume that role and she has explicitly told you so -- then demonstrated her need and desire for it over and over. A good spanking would be a fine way to start. (I mean that literally.) Then proceed as mentioned in other comments here regarding this nonsense with the texts. If you have it in you to take…	/r/askTRP	08/11/16 08:36 PM
25	Dating older, very successfull woman. You are a plaything for her. If you enjoy that, then ensure you maintain whatever it is about you that interests her. She knows you have no money or life experience. So that's not what she values in you. [You enhance her position with the people whose opinion she DOES value. Google the term "arm candy." That's you.] When she is bored with you, or ready for a new toy, or ready to stop playing with toys, you're done. Do you enjoy the status quo? Can you maintain some self respect in this scenario?…	/r/askTRP	05/11/16 02:40 PM
5	How to handle disrespect from girlfriend? Never underestimate the efficacy of a good, sound spanking.	/r/askTRP	02/11/16 11:27 PM
3	Disrespect from a woman? Someone needs a spanking. 99% chance you get fired. 85% chance you get arrested. 0.05% chance it turns into "meet cute," she's taken by your virile mastery, and surrenders herself to you.	/r/askTRP	20/10/16 02:35 AM
1	Negotiated job offer and got it - feeling like shit now You took a reasonable position in your own favor. They went up 3.3% on their initial offer. And it was just their initial offer, my friend. At the professional level, there's not some official pay scale to which they have to adhere. Not for nothing, you likely could have done a little better. And far from thinking less of you for negotiating, any manager worth working for will think some version of "OK. Well done."	/r/askTRP	29/09/16 08:46 PM
6	I fucked up, help. You are not ready to be in any kind of relationship. You have a lot of work to do on yourself. Yes we all do, always, but you're at a stage where you need to not even be thinking about pursuing women. Sort yourself out, then think about women.	/r/askTRP	28/09/16 08:08 PM
2	new plate busting up the stack "Yes. Yes I do." Key is, using dominance to set frame -- really using her submission. And, to be honest, if you cannot get some submission from her . . .	/r/askTRP	06/09/16 07:03 PM
2	new plate busting up the stack In addition to some of the other suggestions here, you can also introduce more pure dominance to the interactions you do have. If she pulls the thing where she gets naked and summons you to bed, try telling her to get out of your bed and get her clothes. Then -- only then -- tell her NOW she can get undressed. She shows up in sweats, tell her you don't mind waiting "while she gets dressed." When are you are bedding her, you still want to make it mind blowing for her, but go after that in a littl…	/r/askTRP	06/09/16 06:26 PM
1	Is she cheating? If you have to ask, then you already know the answer. Next.	/r/askTRP	05/09/16 08:40 PM
1	Living home in a shitty environment and being unemployed is killing my confidence and frame ". . .shoulda took that bar exam check. . ." You might want to hold out until you see the bar result. Judging from "shoulda took" it may not turn out exactly as you are hoping it will.	/r/askTRP	02/09/16 07:16 PM
1	Found this text and am paralyzed. Need advice This is over. In fact, it's been over and you just didn't know it. This is awful, but it happens. Think of what comes next as a Civil War style amputation, where the only virtue is SPEED and a clean cut, but with the advantage that the limb will, in time, grow back. Protect your legal rights (vis-a-vis your lease, common property, bank accounts, whatever may apply in your case) and be gone from this.	/r/askTRP	02/09/16 07:13 PM
1	How to survive monk mode and not go insane? Step 1: Stop fucking whining. Really. Just stop it. Step 2: Decide whether you want to be in school. If so, quit dicking around and get to work attaining excellent grades. School is your job. Do your job. If you do not want to be in school, then leave. GBS had Prof. Higgins say it in Pygmalion: If you can't appreciate what you've got, then you had better get what you can appreciate. Step 3: If you want to meet people, you are going to have to leave your fucking house. (Unless of course the only …	/r/askTRP	02/09/16 07:00 PM
-1	What do middle aged women (40+) mean by an "alpha male?" Oh my. You really haven't been with a lot of women, have you? Because there are plenty who at 40 will utterly rock your world. And while AWALT still pertains, many of those have grown out of the worst of it. They can be more honest about what they want, they shit test less, and they know what works for them and you.	/r/askTRP	02/09/16 06:55 PM
1	Any advice on how to save my dad from getting fucked over? There's a good saying about this: "I can explain it TO you, but I can't understand it FOR you."	/r/askTRP	30/08/16 07:15 PM
2	"Are you a feminist?" "Do you want a spanking?"	/r/askTRP	25/08/16 08:32 PM
-2	Need help from RP very badly Next.	/r/askTRP	02/08/16 10:37 PM
1	[X-post] "My BF broke up with me because I booked a week vacation with my EX in Amsterdam" or "How my BF held frame" Nope. I meant a literal spanking.	/r/TheRedPill	01/07/16 02:05 AM
1	[X-post] "My BF broke up with me because I booked a week vacation with my EX in Amsterdam" or "How my BF held frame" Hmm. You think a spanking would have been "beating her up"? That's . . . interesting.	/r/TheRedPill	30/06/16 09:07 PM
2	[X-post] "My BF broke up with me because I booked a week vacation with my EX in Amsterdam" or "How my BF held frame" You could be right, and that would be OK. But, perhaps surprisingly, my comment comes off as maybe just to the right side of the mean. It's kind of encouraging that with the exception of a few "You go, girl" type comments, most tend this way.	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/16 05:00 PM
6	[X-post] "My BF broke up with me because I booked a week vacation with my EX in Amsterdam" or "How my BF held frame" Yeah, I know. "Bounder." But I was trying to make a point. From her perspective, to act for two seconds like Dave isn't planning to hit that is crazy. In fact, as I suggested, no adult woman is that dumb. She knew where she was going and why, and just trying front-load deniability.	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/16 04:36 PM
13	[X-post] "My BF broke up with me because I booked a week vacation with my EX in Amsterdam" or "How my BF held frame" My post in that thread: Pete did exactly the right thing, in exactly the right way. -- You deceived him. -- You were so dim that you didn't understand that Dave was looking for party sex. Or (and I think this is more likely) you were so little invested in your fidelity to Pete that you were happy to toddle off to Amsterdam and if a bit of something happened with Dave . . . well, it would all be down to the drugs and the holiday, right? Not REALLY your fault. -- When caught, you tried to manipula…	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/16 04:33 PM
1	If a woman asks if you are a nice guy Ask me again after your spanking.	/r/askTRP	18/06/16 09:13 PM
53	Girlfriend Behaved Inappropriately, How do i respond? Drunk. Drunk in public. Undressed in public. Undressed on social media. Out with guys after she said there'd only be girls. Seriously, what more do you need to next her? Does she have to combine all these in one act? Pictures of her drunk, naked and in flagrante dilecto on social media? Next.	/r/askTRP	07/06/16 09:19 PM