I think the guy treated her like a sister but she suddenly wanted more and was trying to rope him into being what she wanted regardless of what he likes. You can also tell she’s got that rosy colored glasses on the way she described him at the beginning. He was like a saint and could do no wrong. A knight in shining armor compared to all the shitty ones she’d dated in the past. And then when he was going through some “huge tragedy”, she only mentioned briefly about how she wanted to there for hi…
$100 bucks says this woman reads too many BDSM romance novel growing up. Like the list of her bullshit is literally the main character from any generic romance novel out there.
Lol he was just passing the time or was just being polite. If he had wanted her he would have asked for her number. This broad expected a man with resources to seek her out? And to post this on the trashiest website. This reeks of desperation.
I got a give the counselor props tho. “Be sure your profile isn’t all about who Mr. Right should and shouldn’t be, because even good men get turned off by profiles that just demand.” Only reasonable thing I’ve from any self professed dating coach.
So she’s eating herself to death but only strictly looking for validation. Ok. Also in her regret no where did she mention the loss health. It’s literally all about her tits and face. And she thinks people telling her to lose weight is shallow. Lol.
“It’s just the nature of dating.” Lolll. I’m pretty sure after 15+ years of dating you would have met someone nice to settle down. Unless you’re an unbearable train wreck.
I’m not sure which is more delusional the girl who asked or the one who replied. The latter sounded bat shit crazy for me. Literally just word diarrhea and rant.
“Even if we take our standards, expectations, and delusional hopes off the table and really look at the situation for what it is, we can clearly see that we are not to blame for the lack of good men.” I stopped reading after that.
So many people blaming the guy for staying rather than hanging up and doing “the right thing. “ I thought this thread isn’t about blaming men? Also y’all judge him based off logic. When you’re insulted and your weak points being poked at by someone you love, it’s a different mindset. I’m not saying what he did was right but he probably did he best he could so get off your high horse.
This happened a lot. Even at med student level. The female ones have ridiculous expectations and end up just hooking up with random people or just go on long stretches of being single. When asked all of them say men are too intimated to date them lol. Like I’m sure being a med student is SOOO prestigious that guys can’t even think of standing next to them let alone being their partner.
Wait. What the fuck did I just read. Who approved of this shitty show. Competing to impregnate a 41 yo is like competing to eat a rotten mango at the grocery store.
Women want men to be able to do 2 opposite things at the same time. Adventurous but chill. Nice but calls her out on her bullshit. Normal life but also constant adventures and thrills. Like wtf. It’s impossible for one person to be at both extremes of the same spectrum.
Honestly that woman who gave advice just shits out of her ass. She wrote so much but when you read it they’re just word vomit. None of it has any weight. You finish her novel of an answer and learn nothing.
