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Just had a video call with a new match this morning and she actually gave me some valuable info: she (32F, attractive) literally just recreated her Tinder profile a week ago and she paid for Gold to see her likes - within one week she topped 10k in a city of about 2m. That’s A LOT. Also, girls have their own lives, they don’t stay on Tinder constantly and most of them have their notifications muted due to the sheer number of likes and messages (if she matches). What seems to be working for me is…
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:17 PM
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Dude, you don’t get it. I had already let her go, she just didn’t take it well.
/r/seduction22/08/22 11:27 AM
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I’m genuinely sad to see how miserable your life is - you genuinely think that fucking as many girls as possible is a proper goal in life to have, despite so many people telling you here that it’s a miserable thing. Do you really only see girls as vaginas and nothing more? Do you not get turned off when she says something that proves that she is inconsiderate, self obsessed, paranoid or stuff like that? I went on a date with a very attractive girl two days ago, we seemed to click during out text…
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:06 AM
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Facetiming a girl without prior planning won’t go well, especially if you only just got the number. She doesn’t just sit at home all day, dolled up and waiting for a video call - she does have a life. If you insist on showing off your “masculine face and voice” try recording a video and sending it to her instead.
/r/seduction22/08/22 02:46 AM
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Bro, if you’re not needy, insecure, desperate and have your own life there is absolutely no way that texting her to ask her how she’s doing or just sending her a meme you found will do any damage. If you’re just trying to project that image then yeah, you shouldn’t text. But you won’t be able to keep up that image for long until she realizes who you actually are; it’s best to first work on yourself, not lie about who you are.
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:51 PM
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The point of the advice is that there ARE women out there who are truly into you and will not flake, will reciprocate your interest and will be invested as much as you. If you’re wasting time with a girl that just likes to be chased you’re missing out on a meaningful match - I also cut off all matches that take forever respond or respond quickly but never want to find out anything about me. That way I can focus on the few quality matched that get me dates and more. Honestly, we as men are not th…
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:45 PM
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Okay, so a couple of red flags: By saying “I’m not evil” you’re basically saying I’m not a good person but I want others to think otherwise. A normal, decent person doesn’t need to advertise that - they just are decent and people just feel comfortable around them. You really just want sex - if you’re looking at every single woman that you find attractive as a potential sexual partner you’re definitely on the wrong path. She also needs to be into you, you need to be able to start and maintain a c…
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:31 PM
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Bruh, if all you want is sex why not just hire escorts? It’s cheaper and much simpler - in and out, zero complications.
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:28 PM
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Oh boy, the comments here … absolutely awful. This sub is pretty much full of incels. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with texting, even after setting a date. This “being mysterious” approach is just bullshit - just be yourself; if she likes you for you then you won’t have to keep up a fake persona whenever she is around. There are some girls that you just click with from the very beginning - you feel like you could both talk for hours on end, without it feeling exhausting. It’s rare to have th…
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:45 AM
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How do you just know that she’s into you? Presumably, you talked in person before and you have at least one or two topics of conversation. Start with those directly and it won’t be creepy. Asking her out on a date, when you took her number from a group chat, if you have not had any conversations before that so you don’t reallt have anything in common is creepy - regardless of how much you feel that she is into you.
/r/seduction14/08/22 05:04 PM
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Is this your first time asking someone out?
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:59 PM
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They’re throwing the “they have a lot of options” or “she got dicked by someone else” excuse because all they do is drool over popular instagram models - so they just assume that’s what all women are like. What I found is that treating women with respect and generally keeping it cool makes them not want to resort to ghosting - even if she’s no longer interested, she will send a brief message saying this.
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:31 AM
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Everywhere - literally. Clubs, OLD, carpools, gym, etc. Last night I went to a bar at the beach and had a few drinks with a family member. The waitress seemed very interested but it was still the client-server thing; immediately after I paid the bill the service was over and she started chatting with me about the city, her studies, etc. and we hit it off. Another time I used a carpool service and drove a cute girl to another town. She really liked the 4-hour drive and conversations and we realiz…
/r/seduction10/08/22 11:08 AM
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Dated 8 of them, some of them multiple times. Meeting one of them for the 5th time the day after tomorrow and will ask out the 9th one a week from now, when I’m back in her town.
/r/seduction09/08/22 08:39 PM
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My response rate is more than 90%. I literally only had one girl not reply back in the past three months (out of around 30 conversations in total).
/r/seduction09/08/22 08:24 PM
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Jesus fucking christ, if you’re into the girl you got the digits from just have a good time with her for the rest of the stay in that venue. You’re there, in person, and she likes you for fuck’s sake. I could throw you in a barrell of titties and you’d still come out sucking on your thumb
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:41 PM
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Had me in the first half, ngl
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:35 PM
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How the hell did you get to that from what I said? When a girl gives you her phone number it’s usually because she enjoyed talking to you, she likes you after your initial interaction and wants to continue talking to you later to see where it leads. No commitment is made at any point, you don’t own anything about her and neither does she. If you’re openly trying to pick up someone else after you got the digits you’re essentially telling her that you’re not really interested in her - so why shoul…
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:34 PM
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Just stick to online dating, there you can get away with multiple conversations at the same time.
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:33 PM
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Do you really not realize that hitting on other women after getting their numbe is the exact reason they’re not interested afterwards?
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:06 AM
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Exactly. Why would a second girl, who just saw him get her number, give out her number too? He’s not Tom Cruise to be able to do this kind of things
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:53 AM
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If the girl rejects you it’s totally fine to talk to someone else. If she’s clearly interested and you still hit on others at the club you’re just a douchebag. Yeah, it may not work out with the girl but why would you sabotage yourself immediately after getting her number?
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:50 AM
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Okay, the information is technically true but the way you’re applying it is totally wrong. If she sees another girl hitting on you (not the other way around), then she will “fight” to win your attention. I’ve been in this situation before and it’s actually quite fun as all you have to do is sit and watch, she does all the work. If you start hitting on other women in front of her, that’s just poor taste and you’re essentially telling her that you’re not interested in her, making her lose her inte…
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:48 AM
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Yeah, you’re an animal, you need a minimum of three per venue to go back home with you. Bro, we can’t even properly have three separate conversations with different women at the same time - it’s very easy to forget what you told each one, especially if it’s not a text conversation where you could scroll back to see the history. If all you want is phone numbers, do carry on with your approach knowing full well that’s where it ends. If you want to actually seduce and then date the woman, change yo…
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:43 AM
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There’s nothing stopping him from approaching women, OP is literally doing that and it’s not going well. If all you want is a large list of phone numbers from women who will never pick up or reply to your text then by all means, do what OP did. Otherwise, show some human decency and change venues at the very least.
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:39 AM
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Just to add to that … girls talk among themselves, about guys, A LOT. If you’re absolutely confident in yourself and don’t give a shit it’s totally fine; however, even if you do get access to one of her friends, you should assume she already knows a whole lot about you and not all will be positive stuff.
/r/seduction06/08/22 09:27 AM
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You must be a very young girl - going on an island with a guy, as his date, and sleeping in the same hotel room as him means sex has happened already. If it hasn’t, then huge red flag.
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:43 PM
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So what then, good girls can only go out to church and otherwise their place is in the kitchen?
/r/seduction03/08/22 08:52 AM
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I’m sorry but that’s just very wrong. If she thinks he’s hot she would definitely consider having sex with him. Telling him “he’a an alpha” is just a way to stroke his ego and keep him hooked and paying the bills - this whole “alpha” shit is fake as fuck and no, women don’t fall for “alpha behavior”. OP should just sleep with her ASAP if all the signs he says she’s giving are true. If she’s down for that, fine, there’s still a small chance that the trip won’t be a failure. If not, cut her off an…
/r/seduction03/08/22 08:49 AM
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Nah, it’s all wrong. If a guy won’t even do common courtesy around an “unattractive woman” it’s almost always because she gives off a bad vibe and she seems clingy; I wouldn’t change a woman’s car tire regardless of her attractiveness, if I get the feeling that she’ll misinterpret things. “Attractive” people are usually more confident though and there’s no risk of misinterpreting things like this. But what if she likes him? It’s exactly the same story for the guys: not all the girls that we like…
/r/seduction25/07/22 01:37 PM
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That was definitely it. I was more than 100lbs heavier than I am now and, occasionally, women would show interest in me anyway (there are women out there that actually prefer bear hugs). Because I was still confident despite my size they felt comfortable approaching me.
/r/seduction25/07/22 01:28 PM
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Completely agree with this, with one caveat: not to treat the girl as your therapist. It’s totally fine to share personal stuff as long as it doesn’t portray you as seriously damaged (like “I can’t stop murdering puppies”) and also doesn’t put any pressure on her (like you need her to help fix you). I have recently lost a lot of weight and I’m reasonably attractive now, despite the fact that I still have around 12kg to lose. I actually use that fact, saying that I’m kind of insecure about my bod…
/r/seduction25/07/22 09:36 AM
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It’s actually better like that. If you go with a group people will just assume you’re only interested in spending time with that group. Yeah, you can use the “got to get back to my group” thing to see if she if her interest is genuine (or as an exit strategy) but, if you go alone, you’ll have more opportunities to chat with someone new. I usually go for the “cheat mode”, where I wait around for a bit and then identify which girls are checking me out (even if they are in groups) - that way I don’…
/r/seduction25/07/22 04:58 AM
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So … I just had coffee in a shopping mall for about 1.5 hours and, since I was alone, I chose a table facing the mall entrance and just looked at all the people going in and out. You’re not correct. There are a lot more “ugly” men (fat, bald, way underdressed, not groomed, even sweaty, wearing flip-flops, etc) with beautiful women by their sides. You don’t need to be handsome to get women, you just need to be a fucking proper human being. I’m fat and I consider myself unattractive and I still ge…
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:45 PM
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