tuesdaysatmorts Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Why is there such a deep discrepancy between the type of man some women says they want, and the type of man they actually engages with? That's not true because men consistently say they want sex and the party girls are the ones having sex. There is no contradiction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 07:37 AM
1	What's YOUR experience with dating apps? It's always the things women say they dislike that gives guys the most success.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/25 02:43 AM
1	What it means to be settled for sexually If society didn't make sex so important Oh so the women cheating on this men are doing it because society said so? Yeah sure. Nice blame shifting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 07:43 PM
3	Why is it more rare for Women to fall for their guy friends? Think you need to change your flair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 10:23 PM
7	"Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie. They are already in the relationship. So they cleared the bar. If the bar is in hell, it means women allow men to get away with almost anything. Women are at their pickiest at the dating stage Clearly... By that point it's harder to leave him, so the guy gets away with more He always got away with more and it was never a problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 10:20 PM
1	What happens to men when they finally get sex and are no longer interested in it? Technology. Normalization of sex toys/dolls for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 01:47 AM
13	What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?” I think the issue a lot of guys have is not when the guy is more secretive in their manipulation, but when the guy is clearly a douchebag and openly disrespects his partner. If someone is a sweetheart and angel 90% of the time and then one day does a switch and becomes abusive, that's a sad situation and we can feel empathy for the woman. But a lot of times it's obvious to everyone around that a guy is no good and is clearly using the girl yet she's the only one that refuses to acknowledge it. H…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 09:56 PM
–	Sex is a need. I think this culture of shitting on men for expressing themselves goes far beyond forums like this. It's just built into people to downplay men's experiences and not offer actual help or sympathy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 06:40 PM
–	Sex is a need. So are we supposed to be vulnerable and share our feelings as men or not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 06:22 PM
-1	Feminism largely ignores women's part in shaping men and causing men mental issues. Immediate dismissal of their feelings and downplaying their experience. Bravo 👏	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 06:17 PM
2	“Just be nice” is told to little boys. If a guy’s understanding of romantic interest didnt evolve with age, he’s the problem. Maybe because you didn't grow up as a male? I don't go telling women what was pushed to them growing up. The number one thing that was drilled into my head as a boy was being nice and respectful to women. That they have hard lives as it is and I should go out of my way to help them. And also yes that women want nice men as partners. This was coming from everyone and everywhere. Parents, teachers, friends, media.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 09:56 PM
1	CMV: Males really need to do more for their SOs in hetero relationships She's a conservative stay at home mom and in the video said they're trying to be "progressive". You can't make this shit up lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 10:57 PM
6	Madonna/Whore: the male dual mating strategy, and how women can protect themselves from male resentment they preach using a high level of scrutiny when determining who to fuck No they don't. They still keep rotations of fuck boys while complaining/making fun of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/25 12:59 AM
1	Telling men that they've no romantic option because it's self-imposed logic should be used for women too who say there are no good men, bar is in hell and they would rather be single. I know it happens, but I reject the idea that seemingly kind-hearted men do complete 180s into abusive monsters. I'm not saying it's not possible or never happens, but there had to have been red flags along the way. A lot of the times it's obvious to the people outside the relationship, but the people inside become blind to it. I don't know what the solution for this is because all day everyday people talk about protecting women from these kind of men. Yet many still willingly choose these peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 10:01 PM
2	CMV: Women are more shallow than men by virtue of having a much higher looks threshold and placing more emphasis on things men have no control over The vast majority of men are NOT in relationships. That's how.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/22 01:19 AM
3	If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"? I know this might shock you but, there are plenty of women who are okay with no strings attached sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 08:27 PM
2	Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspective You're just wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 06:28 AM
3	Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspective You're delusional if you think women face less risk in dating. Men don't worry about getting raped and murdered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 04:28 AM
2	Q4MEN: What are the clues a woman can use to tell if a man only wants sex and not commitment? If you're in consistent contact and see each other frequently then yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/22 06:35 PM
2	Q4MEN: What are the clues a woman can use to tell if a man only wants sex and not commitment? Similar values and lifestyle. Mutual attraction. Able to spend hours with each other without feeling bored. So yeah if I can find all that with someone I don't see a reason to keep looking around for someone else who meets those requirements but better. Sure I can keep my options open and keep dating around. But to me that's just a waste of time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 06:20 PM
4	Q4MEN: What are the clues a woman can use to tell if a man only wants sex and not commitment? It's not that hard to know whether you're compatible with someone or not. After a while it's just looking out for red flags. So if I like someone I don't mind being exclusive and investing into that relationship rather than casting a wider net. If it doesn't work out that's fine with me. I don't mind being a lone for a while to find someone I really connect with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/22 02:49 AM
4	Q4MEN: What are the clues a woman can use to tell if a man only wants sex and not commitment? I mean, I know a lot of people like to date for a while to get to know someone better and see where things go. But for, after a few dates and weeks of talking I know that I like a girl enough to want to be exclusive and I make that known. If the guy never mentions wanting a relationship then he probably doesn't. It's that saying that if he really wants it he'll make it known. No reason to risk letting you go. So really if he seems unsure about you in general then that's the biggest sign.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/22 09:37 PM
-1	As a guy Imma be honest, I think more guys should really work on self-establishment and self-actualization before getting into any relationship, even if it isn't serious You're saying that AFTER they secure emotional and physical intimacy they begin to act that way? Not really disproving my point. I cannot imagine that the majority of men, people even, want to be in a relationship just so they can show off. Intimacy is a need in its own right. That is the entire point of a relationship. Next you want to argue that people only wat food so that others can see they're able to afford it. How about no people need to food so they eat it. End of discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 05:00 AM
0	As a guy Imma be honest, I think more guys should really work on self-establishment and self-actualization before getting into any relationship, even if it isn't serious I understand that his argument is bullshit. Yeah some behaviors are influenced by that. Wanting to be physically and emotionally intimate with someone is not one of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 03:38 AM
2	As a guy Imma be honest, I think more guys should really work on self-establishment and self-actualization before getting into any relationship, even if it isn't serious I still don't believe an inate human need can be on par with wanting nice things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 07:00 PM
1	As a guy Imma be honest, I think more guys should really work on self-establishment and self-actualization before getting into any relationship, even if it isn't serious Wanting intimacy, a natural human NEED, is equivalent to owning a Ferrari? No. It would be like having to walk hours to get to work everyday and wanting at minimum a bicycle. Yes guys need to work on themselves. But treating intimacy as a luxury only few deserve is incorrect. We all need intimacy. And going your whole life without it fucks you up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 02:03 PM
2	If a high % of men would be down to hook up with a female friend/acquantince anytime, what % of men would still do it if it's the girlfriend of his friend who wants to cheat? lend me his gf Gross	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 09:03 PM
0	Women love "high value men", but it's not actually that hard to be one They aren't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 08:13 PM
5	What is asshole behaviour? See to me if a girl did any of those things it would instantly disqualify her. So the fact that a guy making fun of someone else isn't a deal breaker is what we mean when we say girls like, or at least tolerate, asshole behavior. Am I saying the guy needs to be sunshine and rainbows 24/7? No. But it's little things like this that get dismissed time and time again that has guys believe that being a bit of a dick isn't going to ruin your chances. So long as you're hot of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 07:24 PM
8	Women approaching makes a lot more sense in contemporary society That's already happening so, not really a downside.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 06:34 PM
3	CMV: Self-improvement is an incredibly poor substitute for a companion when you are lonely male Just buy intimacy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/22 08:49 PM