tukipenda Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	It was really nice meeting you You're overthinking it. If you want to go out again, ask her out again. The worst that will happen is she'll say no. Don't comment on it being awkward, that just makes things awkward when she might not feel like it's awkward now.	/r/seduction	01/05/25 04:30 PM
22	What are my chances of me catching herpes from this girl Very low if she does not have an active outbreak. If she is taking a medication to suppress outbreaks such as valtrex your risk should be negligible.	/r/seduction	29/04/25 09:14 PM
1	when a girl says on bumble that she has a belly Just meet her in person, if you don't like her, don't go out with her again.	/r/seduction	26/03/25 05:21 PM
40	I feel like this "always stay persistent, it’s your fault if she’s not interested" mentality is messing up my head Terrible advice. Some women won't be attracted to you no matter what you do. Focus your time and energy on women who are attracted to you.	/r/seduction	31/10/24 05:52 PM
1	How to tell if it’s your looks, your personality or both? What do you like to do for fun? It can really help to have a hobby where you make friends with guys. Having guy friends will help you meet more men and also help you build confidence. Hard to know how attractive you are without seeing a picture, but improving your social skills can only help. Lots of great activities you can do with plenty of guys (or even a higher ratio of men than women) - some examples would be board games, sports, D&D, martial arts, chess. Climbing, dancing, biking, running …	/r/seduction	04/07/24 07:53 PM
1	How to get over my insecurity of my lack of experience There are some great books you can read to gain confidence in the bedroom and learn about sex from a woman's perspective. I recommend Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski and She Comes First by Ian Kerner as good places to start.	/r/seduction	11/06/24 11:57 PM
6	How to use use money to improve my attractiveness? Invest in some social hobbies that women enjoy - highly recommend dance lessons, a climbing membership, or becoming a regular at a local concert venue. I agree with the comment on tailored clothes, good shoes, skin care products and a healthy lifestyle.	/r/seduction	08/06/24 03:35 AM
13	"Dont worry, I'm not hitting on you sweetheart"/"my intentions are pure" This seems strange to me. You are hitting on them, you know it, they know it, and there's nothing wrong with it. Pretending otherwise comes across as awkward or like you're trying to hide your intentions. I would own your intentions confidently.	/r/seduction	26/05/24 01:45 AM
24	Any tips to attract women as a rising senior I highly recommend taking a social dance class if one is available - Latin dance (like salsa or bachata) or swing dance gives you a chance to dance with lots of different women. You learn how to connect both socially and physically as part of the dance. Gives you a chance to make friends with women (which is invaluable). Also, often there are more women than men in classes. Definitely is helpful in overcoming shyness.	/r/seduction	26/05/24 01:41 AM
2	How to get laid ? There is absolutely hope! You're young, this is totally something you can get better at! Sounds like you just need to work on your conversational skills. Finding a hobby where you can meet women in person will help a lot. You'll have something to talk about with them, and even if you don't meet someone to date right away, making some female friends is invaluable for practicing your conversational skills. Good luck! I promise this will get easier!	/r/seduction	26/06/22 02:32 PM
4	How do I stop being a virgin loser? Totally agree with this. Your worth as a person and your ability to do well with women are separate things. It's great that you get interest from girls. It takes time to develop the courage to flirt back. Start small and work on your anxiety over time. My experience with approach anxiety has been very similar to exposure therapy (like for fighting a phobia of snakes). Find the point where something makes you a tiny bit anxious and do it until you are less scared of it, then try something harder.…	/r/seduction	17/06/22 09:04 PM
5	Should I have sex with some prostitutes for sexual confidence? A few thoughts: I don't know if I am the best one to answer your question re sex with a prostitute, so I'll let others respond to that. It sounds like the biggest problem is that you are psyching yourself out re sex. Getting experience with sex may help with this, but it might also be worth talking to a therapist about these feelings. A good therapist can help you find the cause of your insecurities and help you figure out how to overcome them. Remember, lots of other guys worry about this same …	/r/seduction	05/06/22 02:38 PM
2	Attempted to flirt with girl at amusement park, friends started teasing me, so I got shy and stopped. Get better friends	/r/seduction	20/05/22 03:29 PM
1	Cold approach I think that's a great idea. There's a book called Tiny Habits which talks about starting really small with a habit so that later you can build on it.	/r/seduction	19/05/22 03:24 PM
4	How's this for a pick up line? Agree with other comments here. The line itself is clever, but the subtext is that the woman is too hot for you and also that she is bitter (no one wants to be thought of as bitter). I would be careful with this line.	/r/seduction	13/05/22 10:21 AM