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his baggage and your baggage are NOT in the same league
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/24 10:47 PM
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I mean everyone judges everyone lol, it just depends on how charitable of a judgement you give. but considering he’s coming on a subreddit for advice to get girls I think hopefully he will appreciate the constructive criticism lol. I’m sure he’s not a bad dude, it’s easy to feel like things are beneath you but it’s always good to try new things!
/r/seduction17/10/22 05:20 PM
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yeah op this post reads really uppity and immature ngl😭 it’s okay if people are coasting through life at a different pace, no offense but you’re not above them. just try meeting people with an open mind and appreciating their differences
/r/seduction17/10/22 04:17 PM
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Just read this post to your self. How are you dating this dude??
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 04:52 PM
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What did he do to try to make you less uncomfortable? Anything?
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/21 05:56 PM
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It’s fine to be insecure, but not fine to make her feel this bad about an honest mistake that’s only hurting because he is insecure. He needs to ask for reassurance, not make her feel shitty.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/21 05:07 AM
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Take the credit card back. Then what? The only control he has over you is the control you give him. Unless you’re in an abusive situation, where it is different. Do you feel like you will get hurt (physically or emotionally) if you say no to him? Financial abuse is often an early sign of abuse, even if you gave him permission initially. Because I don’t think you gave him permission to “take away your card”. If he is pushing the boundaries you agreed upon you need to have a conversation and reass…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 09:27 PM
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Holy shit girl this sounds so sad. You need some confidence desperately. No one is unworthy. Of course we can better ourselves for our relationships and things but our innate worth is not wavering. Please talk to someone or a professional about your deep insecurities. I’m worried if you and your partner do split you’d be a prime candidate for an abusive man. looking for a vulnerable woman to manipulate. Please, try to love yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 07:08 PM
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Dear god, please never assume someone is wonderful just cause they treat you well for 2 months. Every boyfriend is perfect in the first two months. No one ever shows their bad sides in the first two months. No one
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 11:28 PM
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It’s not a plus. I think you may be misunderstanding me. All the growth you do to get to that stage of life will be missed and you will find yourself fully dependent on him. this is not a good thing. I just ask you to imagine yourself dating a 16 year old. You wouldnt, right? No because his mental maturity is much younger than yours. There are testimonies of thousands of woman your age who got into relationships with older men and regret it and wish to tell anyone one who was in their position n…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 11:26 PM
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This is 100% too much. Also often it’s not an age thing, but stages of life. He’s had kids (that are almost half your age). He’s had jobs and I presume been through college. He’s done all these things that put him at a more stable place of life than you which may be good if his intentions are good but to be frank it’s unlikely. There’s so many men, why settle for one with so many downsides.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 05:25 PM
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This is very controlling. How other people respond to you isn’t your job. You should feel free to share your life with family and friends. It sounds like he’s projecting cause he know he’s trying to cheat so he expects you to try to cheat too.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 09:58 PM
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I don’t know what other avenues there are to exhaust when one is being treated so poorly though? I don’t mean this to be rude, it just seems like this amount of disrespect is irreparable
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 09:55 PM
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e. coli is different than your average UTI
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/21 08:18 PM
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Yeah i’m sorry but sometimes it’s just 1+1 = 2 and this sounds like a case of that. E. coli doesn’t just magically appear. And frankly even if he isn’t sleeping with them the only other way he’s giving this to you is due to his obscene lack of hygiene... 1 time is 1 time FARR too many. Please find a man that is clean and also hopefully not cheating on you. 5 months is really not too long. I hope you can cut your losses. You sound very kind and deserve a man who is hygienic and treats you well. T…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/21 08:18 PM
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It’s called negging and it is emotional abusive.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/21 06:39 AM
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Eh this is kind of a patronizing response. Social media reflects the things people think in real life... and people frequently demen traditionally feminine habits like how OP described. It is based in misogyny
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 01:24 AM
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This is kind of a turn off lol
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/21 06:23 PM
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Yes! I wish you the best of luck. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Although I tend to have little sympathy for men who do this... I will admit in some instances it can be a trauma response from never learning how to properly communicate your emotions, so it causes you to just shut down and runs away. I think if he is willing and open to change, and willing to attend couples counseling and learning about why his behavior is very detrimental to your relationship then there is good potential fo…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/21 03:41 AM
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that’s called stonewalling, and it’s textbook manipulative and in some cases emotional abuse. I’m not just saying that. Stonewalling is reallyyyy bad. please google it. in fact, here even if it is not intentional, he is not communicating with you and communication is foundational to a heathy long term marriage. You shouldn’t be having these problems at 25. It seems like couples counseling is an option here, but if he refuses that, I don’t see much else happening other than increasingly (warrente…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 07:20 PM
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“he never cared for my feelings” why are you with someone who doesn’t then? that’s the issue at here, and also an issue you cannot easily fix
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 04:24 AM
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Yes, he wouldn’t be thinking about that if he wasn’t doing it himself
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/21 08:20 PM
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it’s all good!!! sorry if i sounded like i was attacking you :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/21 12:10 AM
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It’s fine to prefer femininity! Just to say “forgotten societal roles” implies women SHOULD be going one way or the other, but it’s nice that women who prefer femininity get to be more feminine, while women/men who don’t can act how they prefer too:)
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/21 12:07 AM
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I think you can appreciate someone’s femininity without talking poorly about women who choose to present themselves in their own preferred way
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/21 12:02 AM
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Therapy
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 04:55 AM
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It’s gambling. It’s not “day gambling”, it’s gambling. There’s ways to do investments effectively, day trading is not it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/21 09:57 PM
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The fact he also makes you walk home alone at night really bothers me too. (as much as the sex thing). Those are some pretty mighty red flags in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 11:03 PM
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Classic case of projecting. He knows he’s an ugly slob, he has to bring women down to make himself feel better.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 04:19 PM
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I’m curious at the weight and attractiveness of that pastor...
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 03:49 PM
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You want us to congratulate you for having a husband that doesn’t seem to respect you? I dont really understand why you posted all of the negative details if you want people to ignore them. This was a long post too. I don’t know what you want me to say. I hope your therapist is aware of the hoops you jump through to try to suppress your very valid uncomfortable feelings just to appease a husband that isn’t doing the same
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/21 08:29 AM
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I understand the initial reason, but the second he disrespected you it’s time for him to find a hotel. That man should be constantly thanking you for helping him. You say you like this sub because it’s not a bunch of “dump him” advice, but we aren’t going to tell you to accept disrespect in the name of being a “good wife” either. A good husband wouldn’t allow for that, there’s no point acting with so much joy for someone who is very much okay with seeing you be mistreated like that. Please dont …
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/21 06:49 PM
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I’m sorry but why is that man allowed in your home if he disrespects you that much?
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/21 11:54 AM
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You don’t sound very compatible. I also don’t think you needed to be that jealous over the twitch subscriptions, people gift subs frequently. In this context it sounded like nothing more than networking and jealousy isn’t a good look. But he also could have just assured you it was platonic rather than getting angry when you expressed insecurity. In that context so long as you addressed it unaggressively he should have comforted you. Faults on both sides in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/21 04:05 PM
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“I can’t get past that you stayed with someone years after they raped you” implying it’s her fault for being in a lousy relationship where her ex lied to her the entire time? and she went through a vulnerable traumatic experience? Maybe be more open to criticism when you’re called out. Your female friends would thank you
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/21 06:40 PM
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Way to victim blame. It’s already been established she’s deeply insecure, you don’t need to make her feel worse about it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/21 06:25 PM
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your describing a lot of things that improve your health. makeup doesn’t improve your health. i’m talking about makeup and attractiveness, you’re jumping to broad generalizations. never once did i say the majority of things we do in our day to day life are “for men”. most things aren’t. wearing makeup in your home when there’s no men around either isn’t necessarily “for men” either, but the internal motivation to put on makeup is a product of the male gaze and how it influences us to perceive ou…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 06:10 PM
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I’m not saying you mean that either! I totally agree with you. Makeup and filters have gone so far that standards are unattainable now without them. Here’s a great short video on how bimboificafion (extreme version of sexual organs, like boobs, butts, lips, doe eyes, etc) has become so prevelant to us that we hardly even notice it now! https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMedvqhsB/ The video isn’t perfect to describe what i’m saying but it talks about how we’ve become so desensitized to what we are seeing tha…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 05:14 PM
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I totally understand what you’re saying, because I used to feel this way too, but then it dawned on me; why do i feel “prettier” with makeup on? It’s because I look better! Aka am more attractive, and am more appealing to men. Because the patriarchy places so much value on our looks, we literally feel better, when we look good. This is coming from someone who also wears makeup at home. I posted another comment but so much of our own self perception is impacted by the male gaze because it’s been …
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 05:09 PM
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This is actually in line with radical feminist literature, only liberal feminism pushes this narrative. We are all impacted by the male gaze! In my personal opinion it’s important to acknowledge the male gaze, but how you “appeal” to it is up to you. Not everyone’s life goal is to dismantle the patriarchy. And it is irrefutable to argue that appealing to it doesn’t benefit women in some ways, depending on how they want to spend their own life. No one should feel shame for wanting to be sexually …
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 05:04 PM
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14 months is very short. I would not commit my life to someone I have only known for that long. I don’t blame him for feeling that way. That doesn’t mean he’s stringing you along, he probably just wants to figure some things out and know you better before he promises that commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 08:42 PM
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this simply is not true and is god awful advice... have the separate account, just TELL your partner about it
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/21 11:53 PM
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I think it is a turn off younger personally. Coming from a 21 year old. Hate to be honest but it’s true in my findings
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/21 04:12 AM
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this is so smart! hopefully i never need to use this idea but wow smart
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 03:04 AM
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God she sounds like the incels who are obsessed with forehead dimensions. People just have different genes and eat different amounts of foods??? It’s that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 06:32 PM
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Dude you’re really down the hole lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 11:27 PM
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Yes. I can be emotional with my female friends but in any other context i’m punished for it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 07:07 PM
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Stop putting you want intelligent and mature men in your dating bio. That makes you sound the opposite of those
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/20 07:23 PM
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Yeah, I walked to & from the bathroom at a restaurant when I was dating my first boyfriend and he said I looked really “womanly”. I was 16. Still traumatized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 07:59 PM
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Leading theories on dreams all agree that they mean nothing about internal desires, rather a culmination of thoughts and catagorization of memories throughout the day. Even if they did, they’re not under your control, and you should not be judged for them. Nevermind the real issue here, that he ignored you for three days (???) and read your personal diary AND used it against you?? This is 100% an abusive relationship, he’s gaslighting you, telling you to apologize when you’re fully in the right,…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 05:11 AM
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I guess that’s kind of what he gets to at the bottom of the post & what I entirely agree with. It’s completely fair to both men and women to not desire someone who doesn’t present their best selves. Desirability is a factor and shouldn’t be given up on just because of the guilt & pressure of exclusivity. But making sex a power dynamic ploy? That shits weird. It shouldn’t be a power exchange (i mean unless that’s your kink), it should be a mutual experience. Using it as a tactic to manipulate som…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 04:00 AM
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I hope I don’t get deleted or banned from this sub, as a women, but I can say for certain when I had sex with a past partner that was WILDLY un-intimate, I ended the day feeling like shit and angry at them and ended up breaking up with them shortly after. When I’ve had experiences that were more intimate and made me feel closer to them, I craved them even more. Please don’t listen to this if you wanna fuck. At least not if you wanna fuck women like me.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 02:52 AM
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