tumqintee39 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
29	How do I stop picking LVM? I don’t think I’ve ever dated a HVM!	SEEKING ADVICE	tumqintee39	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 05:31 AM

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3	How do I stop picking LVM? I don’t think I’ve ever dated a HVM! Thank you. I think you’re right. Because he showed me who he was by being disrespectful, cowardly, nasty, and unapologetic. That wasn’t an act. That was who he is too the core. A toxic person. These people are toxic no matter who they’re with. He may take longer or try to hide it, but it’s who he is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 05:06 PM
3	How do I stop picking LVM? I don’t think I’ve ever dated a HVM! Yes! This is one of my biggest mistakes. I am honest, authentic, have good intentions, don’t lead people on, treat others with respect, empathize, etc. I’m projecting these things on the LVM/NVM I date when they don’t deserve it. I’ve done this for years. I’m done. I’m not projecting my own good qualities onto them any longer. I’m not going to mistake some basic acts of decency on their parts as them being HVM. I’m done.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 05:01 PM
2	How do I stop picking LVM? I don’t think I’ve ever dated a HVM! I agree. He said a lot of crazy shit right before he dropped off. That was nothing compared to some of the other things unfortunately.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 04:57 PM
3	How do I stop picking LVM? I don’t think I’ve ever dated a HVM! Good point.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 08:51 AM
3	How do I stop picking LVM? I don’t think I’ve ever dated a HVM! I misplayed it. In the past, some guys have been honest that they don’t want to be exclusive, so I wanted to stick to what I wanted and mistakenly thought he’d be honest if he didn’t want it. Shouldn’t have brought it up and should have waited. With guys like him, do you think they eventually show who they are if you refrain from having sex? Or do you think he’d keep the mask on until after sex even if it took a lot longer? Or would this guy suddenly become a great guy if he had to wait longer f…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 08:33 AM
12	How do I stop picking LVM? I don’t think I’ve ever dated a HVM! Yeah, I’m definitely changing my approach to sex. Exclusivity isn’t enough. I need to be much more sure about these men before I do it. I rarely feel attraction so when I do, I make a lot of dumb choices.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 07:41 AM
7	How do I stop picking LVM? I don’t think I’ve ever dated a HVM! Thanks. I’m so upset at myself for falling for it and being delusional about what a great guy he is. It’s one thing to be indifferent and not interested in me. That is part of dating. But he was being hostile. It was the worst I ever felt on a date with a guy I had been dating for awhile. Oh and lol - this guy said he didn’t believe in apologies and people who said them were fake. As if that’s something you can opt in or out of? Human decency?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 07:39 AM
1	How do I stop picking LVM? I don’t think I’ve ever dated a HVM! This is amazing. Thank you. Haven’t read it all yet, but I will.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 07:34 AM