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I thought men are the gatekeepers of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:51 PM
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My husband used to wear it like a badge of honour that in 17 years he never apologised.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:06 AM
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Children of females survive to reproduce but children of males don’t at the same rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:34 PM
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Yet a man is still involved. I’m confused by this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:12 PM
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Maybe I’m stupid but how does that work? Females children? Doesn’t it take a man and a woman to make a child
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:42 PM
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Some people just don’t want to be seen as the bad guy or answer questions of why not and be persuaded. They rather put that in their partner. Such is life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:11 AM
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Yep my husband always used to say he can’t or had to check with me when he didn’t want to or couldn’t be bothered. Didn’t want to be the bad guy so used me as an excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:30 PM

Refusing to have introspection and thinking everyone is against them. No thank you. They will forever be in competition with me, not a teammate to build a life with and will never take any accountability for their actions, behaviour, habits etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:36 PM
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There really wasn’t any birth control then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:00 PM
1

What do you mean by testing you?
/r/seduction02/05/24 04:01 PM
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Drinking ocean water will kill you though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:06 AM
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I’m finding research papers that state women are more likely than men to blame themselves if they fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:36 PM
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You aren’t debating though. You are simply saying go read this persons work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:35 PM
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Can you link the research papers you allude to? He has over 200 published papers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:32 PM
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Mistakes I’ve made recently are listening to my mother when she said she didn’t need the doctor, next morning we found her on the floor. I knew I should have trusted my gut instinct and just call the gp but I let my domineering mother make me feel bad for wanting to do so. I now know next time I will just go ahead and do regardless of if she agrees with it or not. 2) I drew up and gave a patient the wrong injection while distracted by them and a colleague asking me questions. I should have been …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:31 PM
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I’m a woman and my female friends and I talk about mistakes we have made all the time. I don’t know who you talk to but my friends, colleagues and wider circle we are constantly talking about the things we mess up in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:19 PM
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As a European woman I concur. I’d rather have an intact penis anyday
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:43 PM
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He’s diagnosed aspd, so either a psychopath or sociopath. His thought pattern is nobody is allowed to try something and discover they don’t like it, if they tried or accepted any type of messed up behaviour in the past due to psychological problems, learned behaviour, not knowing better as young and no life experiences they are not allowed to grow and not accept those same messed up behaviours from present partners. Not allowed to psychologically develop and grow up and not allowed to discover t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:46 PM
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Do women not work as many paid hours because they’re also doing the childcare and household chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:46 AM
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How can you complain about women’s body count if you are deceiving them into sleeping with you whilst they think you guys will end up in a relationship? So if every man does that where does that leave society? A lot of hurt and traumatised people walking around
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:29 PM
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What are the general things women lie to you about? How many women have you dated that wanted your money and what is the much more?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:26 PM
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You literally said to lie to manipulate a woman into letting you into her body, that if you were up front wouldn’t let you do that. And then you’ll probably also be a guy complaining about women with baggage and a high body count. How can women have a low body count of men lie to her telling her they want a relationship only to hit it and quit it. Also surly you can decline paying for her meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:24 PM
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It’s not fine for a woman to use a man. I don’t know what kind of woman you attract but those women are rubbish human beings if they just use a man. You are literally talking about using a persons body and them letting you into their body compared to a meal. How does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:44 PM
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That’s because they don’t just want sex they want a relationship, not to be hit and quit. At least if you’re honest you can find a woman who is also only looking for sex and not anything more. Surly that way you align with the woman instead of deceiving one thinking you want also more out of her than just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:42 PM
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How is it not the same if it just sex you are after. That’s literally what they provide and nobody gets hurt in the process
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:04 PM
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I don’t lie, I prefer being honest and putting my cards on the table. That way if someone is interested in me they know who I am for the get go and not say later I duped them to get into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:03 PM
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What do women lie about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:02 PM
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Prostitution exists. Go get it if them instead of hurting innocent women in the process of getting your rocks off
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:57 PM
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This sub is ridiculous. So you say lie to women to get what you want and then they say to women choose better. How can women choose better if lying to them is encouraged?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:30 PM
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Some people become emotional attached to people through sex. So it can be a double edged sword I guess. I personally prefer to wait. It usually takes around 3 months for a mask to slip. So I give it 3/4 months before becoming sexual. If they dip beforehand not much invested anyway and I haven’t become emotionally attached. And if the mask slips I bow out. Not dating after a 17 year marriage but this is what I would do going forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:27 PM
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Vetting he isn’t just in it for sex maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:07 PM
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What if they where ltr/marriages that fell apart?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:59 PM
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Every woman? Are you taking your frustrations about a few women out on other women who didn’t do anything to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:58 PM
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What have these women done to deserve being fucked over, lied to and being impregnated and dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:40 PM
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Usually though they are hired by other men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:55 PM
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It is recommended that women and men pee after sex to avoid uti’s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:58 AM
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So they could have had kids but decided not to. Yet you are saying they were unable to have kids. You are taking away his autonomy in all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:54 PM
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How? She doesn’t say her mother was hooking up with guys before meeting him. It simply says she was 36 with 2 kids. She could have simply been with OP’s father for her youth until they separated and then she met op’s stepdad. Also 36 is hardly an age where they couldn’t have had any children if they would have decided to have them. Not like she was a woman in her mid 40’s or older going through menopause. Most women can have children until menopause which usually happens closer to the age of 50
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:50 PM
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Neither were men tbh. People lived on the owners land and cultivated it for them in return they got shelter and food
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:29 PM
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What are they used for instead of paying for all public services, military, roads, infrastructure etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:28 PM
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Do you know what taxes pay for?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:30 PM
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The only woman who didn’t work in history were high society women. Women have always worked, around the farms, been maids, looked after the elderly and infirm, etc. the women being at home and not working has never been a universal thing. This was only a short period of time mid last century. That was the American dream that was sold. Again a dream because it’s not real and it’s imaginary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:28 PM
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Unfortunately men and women are likely to be victims of men not women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:32 PM
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Most attacks on women are carried out by men not women. So unfortunately men are dangerous to men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:27 PM
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Nobody said men don’t deserve sympathy. But unfortunately it’s still men committing most violent crimes in society towards other men and women. It’s the unfortunate reality of the world we live in. Maybe men need to be more present with other men, mentor, support, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:26 PM
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So men are more likely to be victims of other men not women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:39 PM
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Who are men more likely to be murdered by? Women or other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:37 PM
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Well if you were to become the best version of yourself. How and what would have to change within you firstly then to the things thereafter you can change. Ie the things we read, watch, who we hang out with. Are they serving our best version of self we are trying to become? It’s not easy work. But very rewarding becoming at peace
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:50 AM
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80% or so men become fathers over the course of their lives. That’s literally “most” men have access to relationships like you are looking to achieve. Also over the time of recorded history I believe the around 60% or so of men became fathers. That means that now more than ever “most” men are included
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:47 AM
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Of course there’s other things involved but the question regarded sex. You can be in a relationship with someone and not yet share finances etc and it’s still something that is different than any other relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:56 PM
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It’s not what defines it but it does make it different than any other relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:53 PM
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That’s exactly what I said. Sex makes a romantic relationship different than any other relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:53 PM
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Tbh I’m a woman and agree with him. The only thing that makes a marriage or romantic relationship different to any other type of friendship is the sex. Sex builds intimacy of a different type and level between two people. I could not be in a sexless marriage either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:31 PM
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So you only expect the other party to compromise?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:18 PM
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How are they worse off? They both got a new couch
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:39 PM
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Both people have to compromise in a relationship, that’s my point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:38 PM
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She also isn’t getting the red one though. So both have compromised.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:14 PM
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Of course it would. But also they want the girls that love them to look a certain way I guess. I don’t know why any rational man would want to be a sugar daddy but that’s none of my business I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:18 PM
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Aren’t these actual choices in these type of situations actually make? Like the guys want to be a sugar daddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:23 AM
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A chance to what? A relationship? Marriage the lot? Or sex? Would you be in a relationship with someone you are not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:19 AM
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Because more women attend these groups compared to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:15 AM
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Doesn’t say she ignored all bar 3. It says she had sex with 3 out of 300+. What percentage should she have slept with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:07 AM
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Since when? What’s a man’s job in a marriage/relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:47 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:05 PM
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Have you been abused in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:44 AM
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I thought we’re meant to serve each other. But I know nothing. Especially not in this crazy world
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:32 PM
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Personally I think things are going to far now and people are playing god. I can not agree with the pregnancy robots. It’s literally taking living out of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:30 PM
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I’m sorry you hear you feel treated like a second class citizen. That’s awful. Can I please ask what aspects you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:28 PM
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Sorry. I’m not sure what you mean by “men don’t want to evolve like women have”. As in what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:26 PM
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In all fairness. If that’s what men want, who’s to tell them different. They can have kids with machines. Personally as someone who believes in god. Seems like we are really trying to destroy ourselves. What is the liability to men you mention?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:18 PM
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Who will be raising these kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:09 PM
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Why should she tolerate things she learned she doesn’t like etc in previous relationships just because she’s with you now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:23 PM
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You shouldn’t have to tolerate things though. I can understand compromising but tolerating usually breeds resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:22 PM
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So she’s not allowed to learn from her mistakes and anything she tolerated from someone else she must also tolerate from you as that is her best? Dude that’s some fucked up thinking. That is her worst. She would have been at her worst to “tolerate” things from people. Nobody tolerates something they like and enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:14 AM
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I understand that. But 3 miles isn’t far. If it takes 30 minutes to drive 3 miles I’ll rather walk and save on the fuel personally
/r/seduction09/07/22 02:13 PM
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I don’t know dude. I’m in Europe. We walk pretty frequently. Like a 30 minute walk isn’t far
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:33 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:30 PM
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You said it takes 30 minutes to drive 3 miles. I suggested walking instead of driving.
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:07 PM
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Just because you would doesn’t mean majority would.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:52 PM
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Walk. It’s quicker
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:20 AM
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It’s easier to become a billionaire if you start off as a millionaire. But trump has filled for bankruptcy 4 times if memory serves me right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:44 PM
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Tbf I see men saying same about women they perceive as beautiful and average women. Men will let a lot more slip from beautiful women compared to your average women. So technically this nonsense works both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:04 PM
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Would most men date women taller than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:57 PM
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I thought men don’t want women that sleep around
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:33 PM
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Same, I just presume he’s an fboy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:29 AM
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I actually agree with just about everything you said if I’m honest. My cousins did military service (Germany) and each of them left with a career in various things thereafter. They loved it and got a lot from being around peers and male role models, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:09 PM
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Can’t be much of anything without those foundational skills I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:12 PM
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Should count pre-k too I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:03 PM
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I know a good few women doctors that work part time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:02 PM
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I’m sorry but this doesn’t make sense to me. You put expectations on someone they weren’t aware off. She doesn’t owe you anything with regards to who she sleeps with. You clearly were not a friend to her if you where just waiting for your turn. Not only that but you never told her how you felt for years. How can she have broken your trust when she wasn’t aware how you felt, nor advised she felt the same or ever where in a relationship for her to break your trust. That isn’t trust issues with wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:35 PM
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As a woman I think this is a great question. This would really help in choosing a good partner. As a woman I would love to hear what qualities men admire in other men and what they think a good man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:21 PM
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Stockholm syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:13 PM
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That’s it? You think every woman is a sex worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:23 PM
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Who studies for 15/20 years? What kind of job are these people doing? A law degree like most degrees are 4 years
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:06 AM
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Ok, so who should be looking after the children and the household? Isn’t that what most men claim they want? A sahm or someone working part time? She can still work part time and make money no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:01 AM
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Tbh I just stumbled across this sub so I have no idea what is said in general. It’s actually sad to me that you say men only see their value through the eyes of others. Earning money or resources is nothing new and men for millennia where the once responsible for paying for things themselves as women were not allowed to work. Even though most average women held jobs as maids, nannies, laundry workers, kitchen aid, farmers etc. now the field has evened out and women can provide housing, food, clo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:01 AM
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I know they exist too, doesn’t mean I contribute anything to them. Men also get to choose their jobs, sometimes people get drawn to jobs they are better suited in. Nothing wrong with that. And can you please give me an example of how women think it’s a competition please? And why do men feel worthless?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:07 AM
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You understand that life is not a competition between men and women. Anyway, if half of those 7 billion people stop working all together how would you replace 3.5 billion with 3.5 billion. Makes no sense, since the men working will continue to work the jobs they do. Also are you in any of the fields you listed? Men often like to state fields and don’t work in them themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:31 AM
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Right. Where are you getting all these men from. We are talking about a whole section of population that stops working?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:58 AM
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Why would that be difficult to believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:55 AM
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Why not? Playing and roughhousing with children is important and children get a lot out of it. Father’s are great at playing more dangerous games than mums tend to do. Also sometimes a child needs the love and nurture of a father and that communication. That’s how you build relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:07 AM
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You know what. I actually agree with that. All the adults in my childhood provided nothing bar examples of what I don’t want to be like
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:04 AM
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Never said that. I asked you what the role of a husband and father is after you said that men don’t look after young children and look after teenagers. Then you said men nowadays teach them nothing and the only thing they do is police and set rules. Not my opinion at all. That’s what you said so I was asking what the role is and entails. And asking what the role of wife and mother becomes once the children are teenagers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:03 AM
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Well my son will probably disagree and say he’d rather I left long before I let it get to 17 years but that’s a different story
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:55 AM
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Both. You brought childcare up. The original comment was about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:54 AM
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I get them free at the pharmacy when I collect meds. So he doesn’t have to go. I don’t see it any different than me getting any other item anyone else in the household needs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:53 AM
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Is that it. Establishing rules. That all a father does?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:52 AM
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No not married to his father. But been married 17 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:51 AM
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Well should I not get them for him and have him become a young father when he isn’t ready for it? He’s 21 in a 4 year relationship. Things happen. Does this make me a bad parent? My son thankfully has the trust in me to confide in me and I’m thankful to god everyday for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:50 AM
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So is a relationship obsolete once the children get to teenagehood? I’m really confused
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:48 AM
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My soon to be 21 year old son listened to me just fine. The rules should be set by the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:47 AM
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Once I had my talk etc with my daughter she was able to deal with that herself and she just adds the sanitary products to the shopping list like my son does who I get condoms for. So again that’s an easy enough task. What else is a woman needed for once the children reach teenagehood and above. And what is a father needed for if like you said they don’t teach them anything nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:45 AM
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So if men don’t have to be involved in raring their young children and don’t teach them anything as teenagers anymore. What is the role of a father and why is he important then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:42 AM
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Well of course there are. Isn’t most childcare and household duties done by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:39 AM
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Lol ok. Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:38 AM
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Businesses could not survive without anyone doing the clerical work. Healthcare? Education? Until college generally female led Cleaning, cooking, sowing, looking after I’ll and infirm those are just some of the best known female led jobs. Are none of those important? As let me tell you. You could have the best surgeon in the world perform surgery and if the environment isn’t clean and maintain clean you will die of infection. The cleaner is just as important as the doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:38 AM
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What about the woman’s role in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:33 AM
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Are you saying that is the only role a woman plays as a parent? So are you saying men want to take care of children when they no longer need constant looking after?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:32 AM
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So what is the role of a father and husband then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:25 AM
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Ok. So what does a woman’s role become in the relationship at that point. And does the man then become a dad? Young children don’t need to learn and be influenced by a father until they become a teen?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:24 AM
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To which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:58 PM
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Also what survival skills are men teaching teenagers these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:55 PM
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Ok and how is this relevant to the question he asked what she thought a an should bring to the table? Are you saying men don’t play an important role in the raising of preteen children and mothers become obsolete once the boy or girl turns a teen?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:54 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:49 PM
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Who should be paying for the childcare? And the household tasks that need doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:48 PM
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Dating or more chances of casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:47 PM
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And if all women would stop working what industries would be affected and collapse?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:44 PM
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Or they are working part time and looking after children and homes. Is that not work too?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:41 PM
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Well we all seen him kill the man. And even if she was an off duty EMT she is still an EMT who could see clearly what was happening. I’m still a nurse when I don’t wear my uniform. Defence didn’t choose her. Prosecution called all witnesses to the murder as a witness. Don’t understand what you are trying to say
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/21 08:54 PM
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She was there as a witness to the murder. Not just a professional witness to give information on ambulance response time.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/21 05:59 PM
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Not necessarily, I’m a woman and for me personally I can only come multiple times when I’m doing the work. I’m in control that way and get to hit the right spot I need. Then he gets the big finale
/r/PussyPassDenied23/06/21 04:09 PM
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Could say something like “show me how you like your clit to be rubbed” throw a deep “hmmmm” in there and your bound to have her quivering with anticipation. Lean back and rub your dick while looking into her eyes first and then her pussy. I’m sure you’d enjoy learning about her anatomy and what pleasures her that way. And same for her. It allows her to see how you like to be touched yourself, etc. Then on to touching each other and exploring on how it feels for both of you, doing said act and re…
/r/seduction26/05/21 12:32 PM
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Give her your number. That way she has the choice to contact you. And if she is interested she will.
/r/seduction27/04/21 10:13 PM
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Why not? Internet is everywhere and people living together too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:52 PM
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You’d be surprised to hear that I’m 16 years with my husband. And we have basically daily sex. Thankfully we both feel happy and fulfilled with our sexlife. Both parties have to put the work in to keep the passion alive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 04:15 AM
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Hi, I know you may not want to hear from me being that I am a woman. But your post really called to me. I hope I’m not overstepping a mark here but I just wanted to say that you sound like a lovely young man and really hope you find the one you’re looking for. Try and find someone whom holds the same morals and values as you do. I’m not going to lie as that may not an easy task looking at what is going on nowadays in this world. I have been with my wonderful husband for 15+ years. From age 22 to…
/r/MGTOW18/01/20 01:34 AM
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