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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Got a job working with my ex LVMs girl.When my ex-husband cheated on me at work with an associate at a job I got him, I left within a few months. I had started on the ground-level floor and was a manager making good money, but it wasn’t enough to keep me around. I decided I was going to go back to school and obtain the education they both wish they could, and began to pursue my dream career. I ended up with a full ride at my top university and then my top graduate college. Yeah, I’ve come a long way since being that young, dumb, naiv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:21 PM |
| 3 | I COMPLETELY CUT OUT LVM THAT'S BEEN KEEPING ME DOWN 1-/2 YEARS!!!!The real question is what actions are you taking daily to ensure he no longer has access to you? I’m asking out of concern as I was in a similar situation, I wasn’t seeing straight, I was very much all about him and he was very much about anything else. Every time I was excited that I had managed to gain some self-respect and be done with him, he would be sweet for a bit and suddenly I was hooked again. I backslid and got hurt again. Every. Time. Every. Single. Time. So what are you doing to act… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:51 AM |
| 62 | I hope he picks the second girl 🥴😴A man using tools he has at work (sensitive client information) to access women outside of work is the first overstepped boundary. I’m concerned a grown-ass woman doesn’t see this and comes to his defense because he’s being “nice”. So was Ted Bundy with his arm in a sling asking for girls to help him, fuck off with your “nice”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:45 AM |
| 33 | Has Porn Ever Enhanced Anybody’s Relationship?I’ve never opened up my relationships to porn and it’s been pretty fun regardless. I usually have a higher sex drive than my partners so I push the envelope with different ideas, toys, concepts, practices, etc...really just stuff I want to try with someone I feel safe with. And not just safe as in making sure I won’t be hurt, but safe to admit my fantasies and not be judged. The absolute BEST sex comes when there’s a healthy emotional connection, so to me a man’s ability to open up, communicate … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:35 AM |
| 56 | The message I got after the last comment I posted here...lol can we talk about the manipulative language that this asshat used? “Probably 15lbs overweight” dude yes, you CAN be 15lbs above the weight category in your height and still be curvy bc ass, tits, thick thighs. I think we know by now men don’t understand women’s bodies so this guy trying to insinuate 15lbs would deem us unattractive is a joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Hard passSir, I don’t even have the patience to let this microwave burrito cool off before I scald my tastebuds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:35 AM |
| 12 | Saw this on r/cringe - anyone who gets married at first sight certainly can't expect a happy marriage, but his level of deception and gaslighting shown is horrendous. All because he can't admit who he is even to himself.By this clip it seems he is gay but struggling with his sexuality, everything else he’s saying is a distraction to deflect from focusing back on that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:03 PM |
| 7 | Is it my place to tell her?I still think about the women I’ve worked with or known in passing that I withheld information from regarding their cheating POS men just to not be nosy/that girl/cause drama. I regret each one and wish I would’ve said something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:00 PM |
| 7 | My friend likes me...If you keep having to tell him sexy jokes are unacceptable, he is already disrespecting your boundaries. This is the type of guy friend who’s just waiting for you to slip up, get drunk, and be less guarded. Ask yourself if he is safe enough to even be friends with because he doesn’t sound like it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:10 PM |
| 2 | He really thinks God gave me tinder for him. Oh, where his job title, he put “not looking for anything serious fr” so clear contradictions.beam me up softboi 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 58 | Oh well“I’m sick of you making me feel bad about myself!” He said this bc I was trying to get to the truth of his lying, liking girls’ provocative photos on IG, sending photos of his dick to co-workers, keeping me hidden on social media. So to recap: He was upset at me for making him feel bad about being terrible to me... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 07:29 PM |
| 24 | I've been studying FDS this past week for the first time and now I'm able to spot LVM on OLD that think they're the prize. My old pick self would probably agree with him 😑I mean I hope you didn’t need FDS to know this dude’s whack. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 07:25 PM |
| 87 | Hey ladies, want to laugh/cringe at my old pickme reddit post?I read it because I believe in having perspective and seeing how far you’ve come. By your other posts, it looks like pretty far. Be proud. We’ve all been this woman before and we’re all constantly evolving, that isn’t you anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 06:02 PM |
| 6 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?I wasn’t attracted to him at first and had no intention of crossing any boundaries beyond friends but something clicked, we shared a stupid sense of humor, taste in music, he was gentle, attentive and moved at my pace. I was coming off of a traumatic event months earlier and he understood and took things slow with me, and checked in with me a lot, I found it endearing. Looking back, it came down to: I was vulnerable. Had I been myself, all this wouldn’t have been enough to make up for some serio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 06:49 AM |
| 15 | It's time to decenter men in your life, period.This is awesome. My mom was the opposite, completely available for anything we needed. My brothers didn’t respect her or their wives until they each had a daughter, and even then they’re more appreciative maybe but still don’t give these women the love, appreciation, care and respect they deserve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 03:43 PM |
| 59 | I often feel like the black sheep of the family being single, but when I compare it to my sisters…My ex-husband called one day to tell me he quit abruptly because he wasn’t being valued for what he was worth. I believed him, felt sorry for him being so wronged, even got him a job at my job. Turns out he was let go for sexually harassing a co-worker’s girlfriend AND a female co-worker he drove home. I guess the girlfriend came forward which is what prompted the co-worker to also reveal he did the same to her. Meanwhile I have this man playing video games in his room all day while he’s suppose… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 03:13 PM |
| 2 | 👏👏I find them more intimate than sex bc: A.) men won’t wear a condom for a blowjob, so we welcome STD’s by oral transmission but not vaginal?? B.) men don’t pay attention to themselves/get tested as often as we do so it’s a higher risk for us C.) your most private area is inside my face, that’s intimate as FUCK... It’s either we’re committed AND oral is reciprocal or nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Raise your hand if you’ve been personally victimized by an ugly dusty you gave a chance and he ended up playing you?He wasn’t ugly but he definitely wasn’t the catch I am; I’m ambitious, educated, talented, and beautiful. He started treating me like an option. I believe he knew how much I was aware of my own worth when we met and that’s why he wouldn’t compliment me more or build me up. His past exes weren’t bad looking, but as a whole they were the classic type of party girls that never got out of their hometown, partied, and fucked local dudes in the scene. He once told me “you’re the most beautiful girl I’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Know your worth girls!If I had concentrated the time I spent texting men and explaining how they should treat me and instead poured it into writing for myself I’d be a poet laureate nominee by now... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:59 PM |
| 5 | 1 month free of a LVMMy mom was telling me a story today about a self-help book for women she read like 10 years ago where it described all the symptoms women may experience but not associate with an unhealthy and/or abusive partnership. Aside from the mental and psychological effects, the physical effects included chronic body aches and pains but to my shock, she recalls it even went as far as stating that your glabella (the skin between your eyebrows and above your nose) can become more pronounced from frustration… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:00 AM |
| 14 | 1 month free of a LVMI was drinking daily, seltzers mainly due to the low calories (100 calories x can) but before that it was beer. I would say about 4-6 drinks throughout the day, all day, really without thinking. It was a cope for my situation, for the ball of nerves I had become due to him keeping certain women he hooked up with still around (mind you, we’re 3 years into his excuses for not creating boundaries). It was a cope for putting in so much effort and time and love for someone only to end up feeling abso… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 07:41 PM |
| 18 | 1 month free of a LVMI’m proud of you and I encourage you to keep building that support system around yourself steadily and forever. We’re easier to pick off when we’re isolated and vulnerable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Male socialization means earnestly expecting women to act as charities that do everything for themYou just made me realize what a manipulative line that is...he wanted an enthusiastic chef and a maid for free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:06 AM |
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