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| 1 | I am going to my local mall when it opens at 11 AM tomorrow morning, and I refuse to let myself leave until I get 10 numbers. I have never cold approached a girl in my life.If you've never approached in your life, then just getting out there and approaching even just once is a pretty big deal in itself. | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Honestly at a loss here. What to do next? Help!Just ask her out again in a non-needy fashion. It would have been more ideal to set up the second date during the first one but texting is still ok. If she says yes, take her somewhere cool/fun and remember to shuffle her from spot to spot (i.e. mini golf/go-karts -> coffee shop -> city park). Always lead! | /r/seduction | 12/01/14 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Overwhelming amount of things to keep in mind, how does everyone manage to keep tabs on all this stuff when in action?Focus on 1 or 2 things you need to work on per outing. That way your mind won't be overloaded with 50 different things and you'll become much more proficient at whatever you need work on. For example one day, practice kino escalation and focus on holding eye contact. Next day, focus on conversation threading and so on. Eventually, there will be no reason to really practice anything as everything will be ingrained in you. And most importantly of all, have fun! | /r/seduction | 12/01/14 05:22 AM |
| 6 | Conversation opener mega-thread"Excuse me, this might sound random but I thought you looked very nice and I had to meet you." "I feel like meeting girls tonight/today. You can be my warmup." "Nice shoes, let's fuck." or just "Hi, I'm insert name here." | /r/seduction | 07/01/14 06:22 AM |
| 1 | How Can I stop getting overly emotional whenever a girl doesn't text back?Girls (well, people) in general are flakey. Even girls themselves can't explain why. The sooner you can wrap your head around that fact, the easier it will be for you. And yes, keep multiple girls on the wire, that seriously does help keep your mind occupied. | /r/seduction | 01/01/14 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Next step after NYE K-close?I personally don't like asking girls out in the first text. Just "Hey [name], I really enjoyed spending time with you last night." will be ok for the first one. After a little back-forth texting (about 3-4 texts), then I would ask her out. It always pays to build a little more comfort and rapport through phone/text to avoid a flake. | /r/seduction | 01/01/14 09:32 PM |
| 0 | I'm asking a girl out for the first time in my life tomorrow.Play to win, be steadfast when defeated. | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Never thought I would ask thisNo need to be insecure about it. Enjoy it and move on. | /r/seduction | 02/10/13 08:34 AM |
| 3 | Never thought I would ask thisJust nail her already. | /r/seduction | 02/10/13 07:40 AM |
| 2 | New to Seduction and PUA. Need advice on avoiding STDs.Everything Tenmagnet said and its also a good idea not to give oral to her if its a 1-night stand. Once you've built a good amount of rapport with her, just casually discuss her sexual history. A needy and desperate guy will not ask any questions at the risk of being slapped in the face and not getting laid. A non-needy man will screen a woman and fearlessly make himself vulnerable (to a slap, drink in your face, blue balls, etc.). | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 05:30 AM |
| 3 | Am I dumb for thinking that women making more eye-contact, facing me, and actively listening to me recently means they're more interested in me than previously?Always assume attraction! | /r/seduction | 24/09/13 05:59 AM |
| 3 | Ever felt like just giving up?You're going through what they call the pain period (when nothing goes your way for a long time). It could last months, depending on how much you approach. Power through it and you'll see yourself getting the results you want. Just remember to be outcome independent (don't give a fuck) and have fun. Your really wanting a girlfriend might be shining through a bit too much and could be scaring your targets off. Also, try recording yourself (audio) and have a friend come along and observe you, you … | /r/seduction | 24/09/13 05:50 AM |
| 2 | 18, no car. What to do?Get license. Get job/money. Get car. Get insured. If you are really strapped for cash, you could buy and own a running vehicle for as low as $500 (you may want to have at least an extra $500 lying around in case the car needs something). | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 07:40 AM |
| 11 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!High risk, high reward, my friend. | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to game in the gym?You can game pretty much anywhere...Except elementary schools, unless that's your thing... | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 05:19 AM |
| -4 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!"Only if you give me a kiss." | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 05:15 AM |
| 7 | [FR] Started 100 Set today in hopes of breaking crippling AA - did not expect success but it happened [x-post from 100sets]Awesome! Keep at it. Do not let up on completing the 100 sets even if you get an f-close. | /r/seduction | 18/09/13 06:09 AM |
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