turkeytumors Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
246	How can you ever truly know if this is what's actually going on or not? I know this is a meme, but seriously. What is the point in being with someone if you can't ever know for sure if they are honest or not? I don't want to live an illusion in a relationship. I don't want to be lied to.	LIES MEN TELL	turkeytumors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/07/20 05:01 PM
197	Josefina, 73, is the human embodiment of "age is just a number". This inspiring, wildly fit woman has such lovely, bright energy. She began bodybuilding at age 59. While this isn't really a basic talent show type of talent, she is so fun, energetic, and inspiring. Don't let your age limit you.	WHOLESOME CONTENT	turkeytumors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/06/20 02:26 PM
136	Pickmeisha Handbook: Watch Porn To Be Like The Women Your Husband Masturbates To. This lame shit makes me sick. I'm glad I never subscribed to this mindset. Other than this sub, this is basically the only kind of advice I used to find on reddit when looking for support about being porn-free.	PICKME CULTURE	turkeytumors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 11:20 PM
118	This person messaged me after I posted on this sub the other day. I checked my inbox today. Any man who sees this group as an "incel group" is a kind of man I don't want to run in to. Yes, I am an incel because I don't watch porn and because I am trying to value myself and better my life. Fuck off.	THINGS SCROTES SAY	turkeytumors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/20 02:57 PM
85	Jen Bricker is super inspiring. She is fit, glowing, and was born without legs. She went on tour with Britney Spears as a performer. She married a seemingly HVM and and lives a rich and fulfilling life. She doesn't let her physical disability stop her from living her best life and being a queen	WHOLESOME CONTENT	turkeytumors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/20 08:36 PM
69	What is your advice on dealing with insecurity about your looks? What is your opinion on the concept of "looksmaxxing"? I am relatively attractive, but not being "good enough" for a partner is a big fear of mine. I feel it's my responsibility to be perfect looking or else it's my fault if he strays.	FDS RESCUE MISSION	turkeytumors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/20 03:06 AM
63	I'll never look at a single man who adopts a child, especially a female child, and not think "This man is likely a predator, he could be abusing/ grooming her, etc". Sure, some men genuinely want to be a father independent of their relationship status. But it doesn't seem right. Sorry not sorry.	DISCUSSION	turkeytumors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/06/20 01:14 PM
38	My boyfriend tells me that I am "calling him a piece of shit" and that I'm basically straight up saying I think he's I think he's going to cheat on me and leave me when I talk about my insecurities and fears of abandonment, being cheated on, sexual inadequacy, etc. I guess that's what I am saying.	DISCUSSION	turkeytumors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/20 05:52 PM
37	What behaviors do you think a man "unlocks" from you, or "earns" when you go from his girlfriend to his fiancée, and from fiancée to wife? Looking for general and specific advice on giving too much too soon in a relationship	SEEKING ADVICE	turkeytumors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/20 07:56 PM
34	How much, if at all, does a guy's past sex life matter to you? What behaviors or details would be unacceptable to you? Is dating guys that have not dated before the safer option? What do you do if you can't get over one event from an otherwise perfect man's past (before you were together)?	DISCUSSION	turkeytumors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/20 12:44 PM
28	What did you personally do to absolve your abandonment issues/ self worth issues/ feelings of scarcity (that no one else would ever possibly want to be with you or be faithful to you)?	MINDSET SHIFT	turkeytumors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/20 03:40 PM
4	She finally told her long time crush about her feelings. He didn't feel the same. A week went by and he suddenly changed his mind. She's very reasonably conflicted. Everyone in the comments is acting like this is great that he changed his mind. I feel weird about it. What are your thoughts on this?	RED FLAG 🚨	turkeytumors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/20 02:34 PM
1	I have separation anxiety surrounding my boyfriend, and general fears about my boyfriend (and other family members too) dying eventually. It causes a lot of anxiety driven maladaptive behaviors on my part that I try to be conscious of. Does anyone here experience this as well? Any advice?	DISCUSSION	turkeytumors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/06/20 05:15 PM
1	One of the reasons I choose to be in a porn free relationship is because of this concept: As we age, will my partner watch porn of women his age? Will he keep watching porn featuring young women when we are old? Do men watch porn of women their daughter's age? No way. I'll never deal with that.	MINDSET SHIFT	turkeytumors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/20 12:01 PM
1	Trust issues ruining my life. Boyfriend's lie in the past made permanent damage. Thinking about my boyfriend being with other girls when we are broken up is something that stops me from ending it.	SEEKING ADVICE	turkeytumors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/20 04:29 PM
0	FDS does not support women, FDS supports the upper class. FDS only shows the upper echelon of attractive and rich women in the memes they post, and all the advice here is skewed towards wealthy people.	RANT	turkeytumors	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/20 03:13 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	My experience with a LVM made me realize that I was a LVW. Thanks for this, I'm happy for you that you are living a life you can feel proud of and enjoy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/20 03:28 AM
29	Need some bad bitch advice I doubt it will help you heal, honestly. It sounds like a horrible idea. Why do you want to fuck a dude who cheated on you? Please don't do that to yourself. It doesn't even feel good to hook up as FWB with a piece of shit like that	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/20 03:18 AM
2	Why 'playing hard to get' may actually work - aka why our tactics work! Thanks girl. Amazing advice. You sound very level headed. Or at least practiced enough in these matters to know how to tend to things calmly	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/20 11:52 PM
4	Why 'playing hard to get' may actually work - aka why our tactics work! What do you think is a good idea if some way to phrase my request for his behavior change? The issue is this: He spends so much time on Twitter. He argues politics all the time, with amazingly well written and well thought out points, so I can appreciate what he's doing, but it takes him away from me. (I know this is what he's doing on Twitter/his phone 99% of the time because I see his posts/comments/arguments on Twitter when he shows me all day long.) I'm glad he's not scrolling thru insta gir…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/20 09:42 PM
11	Why 'playing hard to get' may actually work - aka why our tactics work! My boyfriend chased me for years, missed me when he moved to a different country, and kept my photo there framed on his desk. We were not even dating anymore and didn't always talk during this time. The photo is there still, on his desk in a family members house. Some day we will visit that country, he says, we will get some of his belongings, including the photo, and bring it back with us. He thinks it's cute that the photo will be back in the country where it began. Unfortunately now that he h…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/20 06:14 PM
78	When a poly guy is trying to get you REALLY HARD to continue a conversation Girl yes, he is a zero.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/20 03:31 PM
11	Does anyone else think "Responsive Sexual Desire" is Horse Shit? I go through phases of being not horny and being horny. Sometimes it's being horny specifically for my boyfriend when I look at him, and sometimes it's just me feeling that desire randomly in the day.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/20 06:50 PM
10	Severely abused woman reports her Pakistani abusers, is being charged with 'perverting justice'. We need to talk about this #JusticeForEllieWilliams Here's another reason to abolish the police. Not reform them, not "PiCk oUt tHe BaD aPpLeS". Police aren't there to help anyone. Police are there to abuse and to protect other abusers. Why can't the police system be broken down into a few specialized jobs? Domestic violence response team, a team of body guards for the emergency medical personnel, a legal event reporter who records but does not intervene, and a third party member individual to be a supervisor to these specialists. Imagine the hel…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/06/20 01:13 PM