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| 1 | Passport Bros aren't leaving the western dating scene for genuine desire, they are leaving for a chance at genuine desire, which is more than they would ever have in the west.A certain Melania would like to talk to you about that. The trick to keeping a gold digger is to have infinite gold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 04:00 AM |
| 0 | Passport Bros aren't leaving the western dating scene for genuine desire, they are leaving for a chance at genuine desire, which is more than they would ever have in the west.Unequal power isn’t her issue, it’s what you use it for. In the beginning they shower the lady with gifts, her after marriage it just becomes a slog where they are controlling everything and pampering no one. It’s almost as if what attracts you to marriage is what keeps you there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:56 AM |
| 4 | Passport Bros aren't leaving the western dating scene for genuine desire, they are leaving for a chance at genuine desire, which is more than they would ever have in the west.What if the reason is the dire lack of Thai girls in Birmingham? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Passport Bros aren't leaving the western dating scene for genuine desire, they are leaving for a chance at genuine desire, which is more than they would ever have in the west.This is like no true Scotsman. Any guy who goes, marries an gal and live happily ever after will look from fine from the outside. And people will say oh, he’s not a real passport bro, he speaks the language, she’s from a good family, he is young and hip, etc. Those guys will also never call themselves bros so the only ones left to hold the flag of passport bro are the losers who cry they could never seduce anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:51 AM |
| 6 | Passport Bros aren't leaving the western dating scene for genuine desire, they are leaving for a chance at genuine desire, which is more than they would ever have in the west.They’re not here for the debate. They are just here foe a chance… which is than any other sub would give them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?You're right, Musk is Gex-X. But I wasn't referring to young millennials. I meant 'relatively' young people, like Millenials, who are relatively young compared to the 80 year olds in congress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 11:08 AM |
| 4 | Men aren't supposed to be seductiveOP would you characterize this GIF exchange as flirting or just existing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 09:04 AM |
| 3 | Men aren't supposed to be seductiveIt’s interesting how OP vanished as soon as pictures against his point came out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Men aren't supposed to be seductiveNo. Mate, I won’t support the PUA crowd but guys who have a lot of casual or non casual girlfriends do so because they put a lot of work into it. If you knew one of these men, you’d see they are constantly on their phones, and constantly approaching new women in public. Sure, they may have some advantages versus the average, but they also put in the work. It’s like pro footballers. There is probably some dude with better genetics than Messi just sitting around because being only okay at athletic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 09:00 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ?Exactly why we shouldn’t do it... which is also what the paper says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do women get so much more leeway in terms of being insecure/jealous in dating/ relationships?Is there a comparison for men? Like if a man starts posting gym shots, or dressing up to the nines in suit and tie … can his spouse be rightfully annoyed that he’s attracting women’s eyes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 11:40 PM |
| 8 | What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ?You can't. From the paper "Such policies would likely exacerbate male marginalization, but new technologies are on the horizon that could offer men reproductive equality". They're implying artificial wombs will allow men to have children without pair-bonding with a woman. Already, you can technically hire a surrogate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 01:05 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ?That's already what the paper said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 01:03 AM |
| – | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesI think you two might be talking past each other. You're talking about personal attraction, without regard to any quasi-objective standard. In that particular study, men rated women purely on looks. Women rated men on personal attraction; like you are speaking about. The study was more useful in showing how genders segment on definition of 'attraction'. Men were willing to rate older conventionally beautiful women as attractive purely on looks, where as IRL it's unlikely they would actually date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 12:19 AM |
| – | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesYes that too, but I think the whole site is based on a misunderstanding of relationships. People date people similar to themselves. To give an example, 0.2% of the world is Mormon. As mormons must marry within the faith, this site would tell them they have unrealistic standards, but I guarantee you they'll find someone. Mormons marry at higher rates than the general public. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 12:10 AM |
| – | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesThat site is stupid. The moment you put in a race, and exclude married men then you reduce it to the point that the site claims you must be an aspiring cat lady. This is a trap. No girl in NYC is realistically looking for a married Nigerian pauper. Nor should she have to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 10:00 PM |
| 7 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesStatistically, I think it’s been shown women prefer men who are not so athletic to have a 6 pack because while the attraction exists, being in a relationship with a gym rat leads to you always making upwards comparisons and feeling self conscious at not measuring up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:28 PM |
| 13 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesBur she doesn’t care about being alone romantically. As she said, men are optional, so she can opt out and be happy. For many people, romance is a requirement for personal fulfillment, but that’s not everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:25 PM |
| 12 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesThis seems like a false premise. Is anyone saying they are only attracted to the tippy top of the spectrum? They may choose to only pursue the top, but that’s just a matter of time management. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:22 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about the patriarchy theory being used in therapy?If you want but on Reddit you’re taking to people from different counties so this is an inane take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 03:01 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about the patriarchy theory being used in therapy?Gender roles are culture. Who teaches culture? Everyone within it. Your friends, your colleagues, your school, even random strangers will comment to tell you to do things the right way or else they’ll think you are weird. And you certainly know what the “right” way is thanks to all of those people being object examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:59 PM |
| 7 | Women control the grey areaI didn’t know she did that. I must have missed it reading the original post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Women control the grey areaDid I not defend him enough? Must also lionize him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:08 PM |
| 12 | Women control the grey areaFor many people it’s hard to tell if it’s a yes or no based on the first date. But if pressed it’s a no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:07 PM |
| 19 | Women control the grey areaHe asked. She didn’t say yes. Thats pretty basic. Is this his first time talking to a human being? People obfuscate to avoid arguments. He isn’t being coercive, but he is being purposefully dense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 12:38 PM |
| 3 | A guy swiped 2 million times on Tinder and only got one unsuccessful date from it. That tells us alot about dating.I can’t believe his story. I’m an old man, and I downloaded Bumble on a lark. Several of the obvious sex workers they shows me matched up. How can he be so dismal that even pay for play commercial teams will swipe left? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 12:34 PM |
| 5 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?I think we largely agree. I am an old fellow myself, and I think too many people our age are insisting on running the show. Traditionally, you are supposed to retire and take an advisory position. Be a council of elders for the younger generation. Be a voice of reason. Be an elder statesman to help settle disputes since people trust your judgment and track record. But instead, especially in politics, everyone seems desperate to die on the job. This calcification of power might be okay for a reli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?I cannot make such a broad comparison, and I don’t think anyone is doing that. What average girl in London is asking herself if a villager in Burundi would treat her better? How is she supposed to get accurate info about him, or even act on her interest? This whole topic is unrealistic. I am a man, and I can’t even say if women in the UK are better, worse, or the same in almost any regard as men in the USA and I lived in both countries for 10+ years. As far as I can tell, every woman is differen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:47 AM |
| 4 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?Yes, basically determining what is hateful and what is not is done on a case by case basis. Do I think some women hate men? Sure. Do I think some men hate women? Sure. But generally speaking? No. Asking if men in other countries are better or worse is irrelevant as that's a broad social topic, and I view this is a a matter for individual treatment and not generalization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 07:07 AM |
| – | Men should be allowed to walk away when the child is not theirs to prevent moral hazard.I agree, and honestly am surprised it's not more common. In Ghana, under the Children's Act 1998, any man legally recognized as a father is obligated to provide for the child's upkeep. However, if a man discovers the child is not biologically his, he can petition a Ghanaian family tribunal or court for a revocation of maintenance. However, recovering past costs is usually not done because the courts rule for the 'best welfare of the child' and view liquidating familial assets as impractical. We … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 07:04 AM |
| 6 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?It's generational. The patriarchy is real, but it consists pretty much only of old men. Sure, there's relatively young millenials who are billionaires like Musk, Zuck, and ilk, but they have yet to truly control things. Musk was able to dip his toes into the waters of real power for what? Two months? And the younger men regardless of how much or little power they have aren't as biased against the capacities of women as older men are. However, the so called patriarchs oppress *everyone* younger t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 06:57 AM |
| 0 | Why are western women so hateful toward men?You're right, but its' a judgment call which is why it's a topic that one person can argue one way, and another person can argue in another way. Operationally speaking, I don't think genders can hate or war with one another like other human subgroups (class, race, nationality, religion, etc.) can. Men and women are biologically wired to like each other, and if we spend any length of time with one another affection takes the forefront. There are exceptions in history, but those tend to be movemen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 06:54 AM |
| 18 | Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger womenExactly. When you are old, you have past memories of being far more attentive. You can’t lie to yourself when mirrors are so cheap. About DJT, not a supporter, but Melania nortiously hates political events but thats all she’s been forced to do for the past ten years. To her, being made to give speeches about drones to the military is more worrying that DJTs liver spots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 10:16 PM |
| 4 | If you were born male, do you think you'd be doing better than other men in areas that you criticize men for?Yeah, I am not sure what the point of a counter factual that rewrites your DNA and makes you into a completely different person is supposed to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Women are hypocritical about sex work.2X explicitly isn’t about men, so why would they lionize them? By defending female sex workers, they are already implicitly defending the male clientele who provide them with income. Does anything more have to be said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Men Love Objectification, When it Benefits ThemPassport bros love being objectified because they're stupid. They're no smarter than women who do a full maga face makeover to prove their bonafides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:42 AM |
| 2 | It's not "men act, women are", it's "men's skills are recognized, women's are taken for granted".Well you're not wrong, which is why I admit I'm biased, and because of that I don't push it too far. I certainly don't assume my friends and family in this situation are deadbeats by default, it's just when strangers are gossiped about, I know I reflexively believe the gossip. I feel at my age (or any age really), it's important to note your biases, keep them small, admit them publicly, but understand you can't truly rid yourself of all stereotyping so if your flaws are small enough, then maybe … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 05:33 AM |
| 5 | It's not "men act, women are", it's "men's skills are recognized, women's are taken for granted".I will admit to being a little biased. I'm pretty traditionalist, so if I see a single mother and the dude isn't dead and buried, I think he's trash. Even if the parents are separated, the guy has to glomp onto his kid and make sure they're raised up to family standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 01:37 AM |
| 11 | It's not "men act, women are", it's "men's skills are recognized, women's are taken for granted".Father here. I have never once seen anyone wish a woman a happy father's day unless she was a single mother, and it was well known that the man was absolute trash. Maybe you can find someone doing it ironically or as ragebait, but in no way can it be common unless words are losing all meaning. People even wish men happy fathers day because they're the right age to be fathers, but to me that's just banal politeness. What really matters is what your own kids think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 12:19 AM |
| – | A lot of people don't really know who they are or what they want, and that makes them incredibly frustrating to dateWhat are the expectations for hobbies now days? She had 2 hobbies, that’s the real limit for most people. Adults don’t have infinite time or mental space so tend to keep one hobby throughout life, and rotate a second or third in every decade or so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 08:52 AM |
| 0 | Kindergarten teacher finds Legos are good for cognitive development in young children and bans boys from playing with them in order to "close the gender gap"She says its a misrepresentation of the facts; so we don't really know if she should be punished. Presumably the parents of the kids are involved and unlike us actually have standing to sue in court. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/17 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Kindergarten teacher finds Legos are good for cognitive development in young children and bans boys from playing with them in order to "close the gender gap"That's unfair to our boys, so I proposed we starve little girls of affection so girls will have a lower emotional intelligence and in that way boys won't be left out, sounds sane right ? Actually this is a common proposition. If we cannot treat everyone fairly at the higher bias, then standardize treatment at the lowest standard because it is at least equal. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/17 04:43 PM |
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