turnoutthelights Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
45	When I want them they don't want me, when they want me I don't want them	Outer Game	turnoutthelights	/r/seduction	04/06/24 09:53 AM
23	I hate texting	Outer Game	turnoutthelights	/r/seduction	10/05/24 10:42 AM
3	Met a feisty one, not sure how to pursue further	Field Report	turnoutthelights	/r/seduction	13/05/24 10:49 AM
3	Back in the game after a long hiatus and nothing is working	Fundamentals	turnoutthelights	/r/seduction	10/11/24 04:35 PM

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5	When I want them they don't want me, when they want me I don't want them You are right sir, I was thinking the exact same thing. I know enough not to overtext or come off needy or make any stupid mistakes but there must be something subtle I am still doing	/r/seduction	04/06/24 03:23 PM
9	When I want them they don't want me, when they want me I don't want them ha, i got the opposite problem, I'm too thin. I work out 4-5x a week and am super lean and muscular but I'm not big. I just don't eat enough I guess. Also I'm going bald	/r/seduction	04/06/24 03:19 PM
1	I hate texting thanks for all the feedback bro, much appreciated. I have 0 idea what you did IN SET (When you too are talking face to face) you're right i don't really remember, but to be fair this was weeks ago. it was just a conversation like any other i suppose. she had never been to that venue before, i know it well, even played there before. we talked about where we're from, etc etc. i guess i don't see how an initial conversation of 10-15 minutes can be so memorable, unless the circumstances are very uni…	/r/seduction	11/05/24 11:07 AM
1	I hate texting good advice ill take it into consideration, thanks!	/r/seduction	10/05/24 04:56 PM
2	I hate texting yeesh, hard core. how in the fuck was i getting girls before i wonder	/r/seduction	10/05/24 04:55 PM
1	I hate texting if you are seen as a guy who likes to fuck. i interpreted it based on this but to be fair i'm not sure what this sentence means, maybe if you clarified it?	/r/seduction	10/05/24 04:36 PM
1	I hate texting set the date the day of getting the number . good call, i'll start doing this. When has this ever happened ? I mean 2 to 3 text in a row yes . But a convo ? I'm old school i guess, i like to have long conversations with friends and others via text. sometimes for literally hours. If you can share a typical set and I will point out the problems for you :) was at a live music venue i go to every week. saw a girl standing alone listening to the music, walked up to her and asked what she thought of t…	/r/seduction	10/05/24 04:32 PM
1	I hate texting You want to be seen as a cool, sociable guy, who is fun. Uh, yeah, I thought this was basically all it takes. this was what i used to do 6-7 years ago and while i wasn't mr big time player i never had trouble getting girls. has something changed? you'll get better results if you are seen as a guy who likes to fuck. meaning what exactly? i'm not really jumping to be known as a fuckboy because lots of these girls i meet at places where i regularly go and know many others. some of the girls know so…	/r/seduction	10/05/24 04:19 PM
0	I hate texting For what purpose do you approach women and talk to them? What is your desired outcome? i approach tons of people, mostly because i'm in a new city and in general i'm very social. i approach attractive women to hook up with them, obviously. i see what you're getting at though that maybe i'm not making that very clear to them. When you take the phone number, describe the situation and how you do it. so i usually talk to the girl for i dunno 15-20, maybe 30 minutes. maybe on and off throughout the …	/r/seduction	10/05/24 04:17 PM