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I feel like this really depends on the relationship to be honest. I thought for a bit about my answer, because initially I was like “wtf no” because when I apply it to my current relationship the obvious answer is no. I want my partner to be vulnerable and open up to me when he feels he needs to, especially because he accepts when I do that and offers me the opportunity to, and I would never be disgusted by him opening up/being vulnerable. I think the issue is the time and the place, nobody want…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 04:46 AM
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No, it isn’t. But feel free to provide some sources of that information if you feel so strongly about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 09:50 PM
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No.. they don’t. Also I’m not here to criticize anyone’s habit, if someone does it multiple times a day and they’re healthy and happy with that, that’s fine. But there is a line that you cross when like I said you don’t want to do it but feel you have to, especially when paired with pornography it feels like unhealthy territory. There’s studies done linking excessive porn use to other issues, including some psychological/mental ones - like porn induced ED. Especially now when we are seeing gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 09:24 PM
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Sorry but this debate is about porn, not masturbation. We all know masturbation (in moderation) is good for your health. It’s when you’re addicted and doing it multiple times a day, every day, because you feel like you have to, not because you want to. You can’t sit and argue that it’s healthy to eat a piece of chocolate cake every day with out gaining weight and therefore it’s not unhealthy for people because you’ve personally never gained weight. That’s not how things work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:34 PM
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Yes.. there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 03:26 PM
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There have been studies done on this and you can even read men talking about it themselves and explaining their own experience. Also, not every man in the world has a porn addiction which is where porn usage becomes more of an issue. I never said every man in the world is messed up either, it’s weird how nobody is actually responding to what I said and is just either quoting something I didn’t even say and irrelevant to the point I was trying to make or taking something I said and totally misint…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:12 AM
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Nowhere in my comment did I even use the word realistic so I’m not quite sure what you’re quoting? I’ve heard your argument before, many times - the funny thing is it wasn’t even an argument I was trying to make? But I’ll address it anyway. Yes, there are young hot thin toned women in existence and they are realistic, but jerking it to them isn’t the same as actually fucking them. It’s galaxies away. There’s also an abundance of plastic surgery - the total opposite of real - in porn. As well as …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:59 AM
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Men recognized the issue themselves likely because they hide it from their partners so much that women wouldn’t be able to clue in that there is a problem until it’s too late. There are frequently posts made in various relationship subreddits where couples are experiencing sexual issues and the woman is always wondering what’s going on “is he cheating, is he not attracted to me, etc” and she explains asking many times and he denies all problems. Time passes. She finds out that whole time he’s be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:32 AM
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I disagree entirely. Porn messes with you psychologically, it warps your perception of reality and women. You can read r/NoFap and see just how it messes with people’s minds. Not only does it do that, it also can lead some people down a path of increasing deviation, where they are progressively desensitized to more and more intense imagery and need to watch increasingly fucked up things, but it’s even led some people to consume illegal content. I’m not sure a vibrator has that potential, especia…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:28 AM
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It’s interesting how society wants to treat 18/19 year olds like they are basically still children, but they are totally fine to go straight into porn if they want to? Makes no sense. I don’t think people in that age range understand fully the long term and future consequences of what they’re getting themselves into. They just see an opportunity to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:21 AM
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Yeah, but you said it was entirely dependent on genetics, avoiding UV, and staying healthy which is still only really effective to a point in which nature will then take over. No matter what. Doesn’t matter what race you are, nothing like that. My mom also smokes, drinks, tans in the sun and artificially, she also is generally not the healthiest diet wise, and for the longest time she passed as my sister. I am 25 years younger than my mother. She’s only started to really show signs of her age, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:41 PM
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That’s not true, you cannot avoid those things forever. Sure, the things you mentioned can help reduce or postpone those things happening but only to an extent. Nature always takes over.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 11:42 AM
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If you look through the comments, a lot of the men commenting aren’t even American. Also, many of their followers are women, also, many men blindly follow mass amounts of women that post revealing photos like the women you linked and they span across all kinds of various body types. ALSO I think men more often than not aren’t that good at spotting when a woman has had work done. There are cases where it’s obvious of course, but I find more often than not men are pretty fooled by it just like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:21 AM
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She was probably 72 and the joke was the numbers were flipped
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 06:01 AM
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I do, yes, very much so. It changes between my female friends though. Some really don’t want to, some seem to want to but maybe aren’t in a rush to do so and then the ones who wanted to really bad already have, it would seem!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 06:41 AM
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Love this photo of what I do twice every single day lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:25 AM
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Top middle is a.. 7..?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:51 AM
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Yes, because this is the scenario I’m in basically. I have a few friends but I live far away from them now, and we weren’t that close before anyway. I had one close friend and my SO, and then probably like ~20 closer than acquaintance type friends where we enjoy each other’s company and stuff but it never gets too personal. I’m comfortable with this because I’m a shy and introverted person anyway, and I find keeping up with many people in social settings to be a bit exhausting, especially nowada…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:03 AM
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Biologically speaking we aren’t really that materialistic. It’s just about how you choose to live, and how you choose to live will directly affect the type of people you attract. You don’t know if they didn’t truly love you, you just project that onto them because you yourself are unsure of what love is/if love even exists so naturally you assume other people don’t know what love is and since you question it’s existence it makes sense that you would assume other people don’t actually love you be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 06:21 AM
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Nope, all women don’t lie. I am a woman and I’ve never lied, never needed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 02:24 AM
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No lol, I think it’s just luck/partially people trying to flirt maybe/partially because I’m shy and people want to be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 11:10 PM
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Nope never have, likely never would if I became single again. Dates are uncomfortable, and going to them for free food makes no sense when I get free stuff going to random businesses anyway, other than that I’ll just pay for my own food
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 11:07 PM
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This is the best answer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 04:15 AM
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Madeline Stowe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 07:12 AM
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Maybe not that far, but I have experienced men pretending to like the things I like/like what I’m interested in only to later find out that they didn’t even know what it was or actually like that thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 07:52 PM
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Honestly as a female who just hit 25 and has seen all the posts saying men prefer women aged 20-24, and knowing some men would consider me to have “hit the wall” even though I look exactly how I did at 23 and 24 except I’ve lost weight ??? I wasted soooo much of my time from 20-25 caring about my looks and worrying about them eventually fading, I wanted plastic surgery, I still get sad thinking I’m running out of “good” years. I’ve just kind of gotten to a point where I don’t care. I’m still goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 05:25 AM
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No, they don’t treat women they aren’t attracted to like that. They treat them like they are a different species, unworthy of respect because they aren’t attractive to them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:53 PM
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Yeah, it’s stupid especially considering how they treat women they don’t find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 06:24 PM
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Yeah this is ridiculous. Not including working out, I spend hours a week grooming myself and taking care of my skin, my hair, shaving, grooming my eyebrows, apply sunscreen every day to maintain and reduce aging (do you do THIS op?), also doing things to improve my mental health. On top of working, studying, and focusing on my hobbies.. what do you think women do all day? I literally have entire days where I groom myself head to toe filing my nails, painting my nails, facials, etc. This is all s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 05:30 AM
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I feel like some of you need to get out into reality cause this whole Chad thing is ridiculous. I’m a woman who has been in a few relationships, as well as I’ve had friends who were the ‘Chad’ you all talk about. As for the friends of mine who were ‘Chads’, they had no issues getting sex and had women practically throwing themselves at them the entire time I knew them. They still chose to watch porn and masturbate despite getting sex from women of their choice. As for men in relationships, many …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:16 AM
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MEN. PORN. ADDICTS. Look at many of the posts by women and you’ll find porn or porn induced ED is at the root of the DB.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:58 AM
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Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:12 AM
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Exactly lol which is fine, as an introvert who doesn’t socialize a lot/with much depth, I respect that opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:11 AM
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Yeah, I’d say so
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:04 AM
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I’ve heard men say that they don’t find women interesting/worth getting to know/don’t think they have anything to offer except their body and it’s something I’ve read a few times on Reddit even.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:04 AM
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In all fairness, how many men realistically enter relationships with women genuinely wanting to get to know them/find them interesting/treat them well vs. how many enter to secure guaranteed(usually) sex. I fee like if a majority of men could just sleep around all willy billy like they want to/are wired to then they wouldn’t enter relationships at all so the FDS approach kind of makes sense in this way (I don’t agree with a lot of what is on that sub) but here is how I rationalize it in my brain…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 10:23 PM
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While I don’t agree with a lot of the posts/attitude in that sub and they banned me from participating in it, I do think some of the advice is good but of course not all. It’s not fair to say it’s all bad advice, because that is simply untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:51 AM
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All women you choose to surround yourself with are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:34 PM
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When did I ever say a man should alter his life for a woman? You’re just adding dialogue that I never even said, I wasn’t talking about men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:18 PM
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Nahhhhh, plenty of women have real interests and hobbies they’d rather spend their time doing than serving a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:11 AM
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Inaccurate, maybe you need to surround yourself with better women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:40 AM
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I’m not virtue signalling. I’m saying it’s wrong to lump all women together, when there are plenty who will date a guy purely because he has a good personality and treats them well. That’s doesn’t mean there aren’t women looking for a Justin Trudeau to sweep them off their feet but this is more of a problem with men, only wanting to date dime pieces and not lowering their standards to be more on their realistic level because most men view themselves as being more attractive and appealing than th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:15 PM
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I’ve literally never discriminated on a guy based on his height or on the money he makes. I’ve dated men who were much shorter than me and men who earned less or did less with their lives just purely because I liked their personality. It’s not fair to lump all women into the same category but people on Reddit seem to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:20 PM
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Lmao not surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:29 PM
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It’s not an appropriate label, I’m in my 20’s still and I’m in a relationship. I just don’t see how I’m happier settling down and getting married than I would be being single/unmarried and pursuing my hobbies and travelling and doing whatever I want with out a man dictating it for the rest of my life. And no, I don’t have ridiculous standards. I have fairly low self esteem so I usually date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:33 PM
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I will
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:53 AM
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Animals make better companions than most men Edit: oops I meant all men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:46 AM
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There’s more to life than marriage and the Hemsworth brothers. There’s plenty to complain and be disappointed about, it’s not like the male options for us who are walking around in the west are all prizes that we are ignoring. It’s slim pickings for a good man here in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:26 AM
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Agreed. I hate how marriage is supposed to be the ultimate goal in life and the only key to being “happy”. Like nah, I can grow old with out a husband and just do my hobbies and have pets BY CHOICE and be perfectly happy and not a “spinster” just cause I didn’t want a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:22 AM
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I don’t mind a man to be sensitive. Depends on the man though, nobody likes a person to be emotionally vulnerable all the time. Men don’t like it in women, and women don’t like it in men. I had an ex who was astronomically more emotional than me, I saw him cry many times in our relationship - he saw me cry zero times. It was off putting especially because I didn’t feel we were on that level. When my current SO expresses his emotions it’s in a normal and regulated way. I like to see vulnerabiliti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:25 AM
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I think this cannot be true for all men, or else how come in LTR the need for sex dies down from men? If sex was the only motivator, wouldn’t they be inclined to end the relationship and find someone new to sleep with once the initial excitement of sleeping with someone dies down?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:05 PM
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What first part? I have BPD, so I’m not really sure what you’re getting at here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 11:30 PM
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That’s stupid but I understand
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:07 PM
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I’m just talking about BPD specifically because idk anyone with BPD who would be content with just being a cum dumpster. But yeah, for men that also are looking for love I can imagine how it would take a toll on them and I feel bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:33 PM
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Sex isn’t everything. Especially with BPD a lot of them just want love and not being able to get it and keep it is extremely damaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:15 AM
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Younger girls often aren’t looking to settle down with these men. Often when they have low self esteem no matter how great they are, the attention from older men feels good to get. They tend to overlook a lot of flaws because the relationship isn’t expected to be a lasting one anyway and if it does it’s probably because they developed love and overlook the flaws that an older woman would leave them for. Source: I’m an insecure and low self esteem female who used to be really flattered by older m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:42 PM
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I mean lots of opinion I read online, but just from personal experience I know men are still bothered by it to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:37 PM
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I’m not really following the logic here.. Perhaps it’s poor wording? A man having the option of cheating is high value (I still don’t agree) but a man actually following through? Anything but high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:53 AM
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How the hell are men who cheat “high value”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:33 AM
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Yeah, it’s bizarre. I remember growing up being shamed for being a virgin still, being made fun of for being shy with men/“frigid” now growing up in 25, I’ve been with barely 4 men all who I was in a relationship with (I don’t really count the 3rd because we never really had proper intercourse) and I know there’s still men who would judge me for my count being too high... AT 25 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:08 AM
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No hookups Proceeds to post photo on dating app on underwear
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