tuxedoedsoup Archive

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0	What’s Wrong With Western Society from an Anti-Feminist Perspective? i’m sure what you describe happens to many men which is extremely disheartening to hear, but men emotionally repressing themselves is a problem caused by society as a whole and traditional (sometimes toxic) gender norms which both men and women reinforce. women (and men) prefer that other men act this way because stoicism fits the traditional standards of masculinity. a lot of women and feminists call out toxic masculinity and try to encourage men to be more in tune with their emotions, but are …	/r/AntiFeminists	22/02/23 03:56 PM
0	What’s Wrong With Western Society from an Anti-Feminist Perspective? thank you	/r/AntiFeminists	08/02/23 03:40 AM
0	What’s Wrong With Western Society from an Anti-Feminist Perspective? nothing is wrong with being stoic if that’s just how you are. it becomes a problem when people who aren’t naturally stoic attempt to do so by dealing with their emotions in an unhealthy manner. many men are not naturally stoic and that is okay. i would rather them be able to express themselves rather than adding on to the sky high male suicide rates or becoming a mass shooter if they lash out.	/r/AntiFeminists	03/02/23 08:12 PM
-1	What’s Wrong With Western Society from an Anti-Feminist Perspective? but it’s true, women don’t need men and men don’t need women. people need each other but not because of their gender. the same applies here. two parent households are optimal but single moms and single dads can be great parents too. that’s terrible but how is it related to feminism? girls may perform better in classrooms, but for most of history girls have been excluded from seeking any kind of education. so it doesn’t make any sense that it’d be designed to cater to just them. what does this me…	/r/AntiFeminists	03/02/23 08:09 PM
1	What’s Wrong With Western Society from an Anti-Feminist Perspective? i think this is just a misunderstanding about what “toxic masculinity” is. feminists don’t think masculinity is bad or harmful. people say that masculinity becomes “toxic masculinity” when men start hurting themselves and the people around them for the sake of presenting masculine. for example, many men emotionally repress themselves in an attempt to be stoic or become violent when they feel their masculinity is threatened. this is why many men are suffering mentally and kill themselves and othe…	/r/AntiFeminists	01/02/23 05:14 PM
2	Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky? if they aren’t “picky” then they might have their time wasted with people like OP if they’re looking for an actual relationship	/r/AntiFeminists	01/02/23 04:54 PM
1	What’s Wrong With Western Society from an Anti-Feminist Perspective? in what ways does feminism tear men down?	/r/AntiFeminists	01/02/23 04:48 PM
1	Soo... Female Genital Mutilation is considered a crime against humanity but somehow this isn't? i’ve already provided sources from children’s hospitals claiming that blockers are safe, how they minimize any negative side affects, and recommendations on when to stop taking them to prevent any damage. i have no idea what else you want me to say. Most people suffering from GD generally have undiagnosed mental illness that causes them to think they’re trans do you have anything to back that? no one knows exactly what causes gender dysphoria, but there is some evidence that our biology plays a …	/r/AntiFeminists	25/01/23 09:29 PM
1	Soo... Female Genital Mutilation is considered a crime against humanity but somehow this isn't? puberty blockers is not the same as depriving children of food/nutrients. you would have to provide a source or evidence instead of just inferring how you think they work. people who suffer from gender dysphoria can definitely be trans before going through with treatment. being trans is an identity, medical procedures aren’t required to identify as transgender. detransitioners are quite rare and many of those even still claim to be transgender, but stop because of other outside influences like h…	/r/AntiFeminists	25/01/23 07:10 PM
1	Soo... Female Genital Mutilation is considered a crime against humanity but somehow this isn't? i don’t think blockers are the same as malnourishment and i already told you they have treatments, time limits and exercises to protect bone growth. gender dysphoria is the mental illness and it isn’t the same as simply being trans. it’s been proven time and time again that transition is the best and most effective treatment to improve their overall mental health and decrease the risk of suicide. if we could simply teach them that they’re cis, doctors would do just that.	/r/AntiFeminists	24/01/23 09:59 PM
1	Soo... Female Genital Mutilation is considered a crime against humanity but somehow this isn't? your bones will become stronger when you either stop taking blockers or go through with hormone therapy. it’s also recommended to take calcium supplements, vitamin d supplements and to dj exercises that make your bones stronger. but that’s also why when on puberty blockers your bone health should be monitored and you should follow the recommended time frame to be on them which is 2 to 3 years. so that no permanent or debilitating damage is done. being trans is not classified as a mental illness …	/r/AntiFeminists	24/01/23 06:19 AM
0	Soo... Female Genital Mutilation is considered a crime against humanity but somehow this isn't? gender affirming care for minors is reversible. no surgery happened. the kid was put on hormone blockers to monitor if their dysphoria is consistent and gives them enough time to decide if they’re really trans or not. it also makes transition easier when they become old enough to consent and greatly reduces the chance of suicide.	/r/AntiFeminists	24/01/23 05:51 AM
1	Soo... Female Genital Mutilation is considered a crime against humanity but somehow this isn't? the child was probably just diagnosed with dysphoria and put on hormone blockers. this isn’t the norm and being trans isn’t a war on anything.	/r/AntiFeminists	24/01/23 05:42 AM
1	Soo... Female Genital Mutilation is considered a crime against humanity but somehow this isn't? hormone blockers are reversible and appropriate to use if a child has been diagnosed w gender dysphoria. this greatly reduces the chance of suicide if they do turn out to be trans, and makes transition easier when they’re of consenting age. what doesn’t happen (normally or ethically) are permanent procedures like any surgeries or hormones like testosterone. children can transition with clothing, hairstyles and possibly blockers if they begin puberty (all easily reversible).	/r/AntiFeminists	24/01/23 05:39 AM
0	how would you deal with a rape accusation/lawsuit? a video of someone giving consent beforehand isn’t any good because that’s not how consent works. it’s an ongoing thing that can be given or retracted at any time, not a binding contract. i’d just recommend not hanging out with people who don’t take rape seriously or like pretend playing victim in other situations.	/r/AntiFeminists	07/01/23 04:21 PM
0	Soo... Female Genital Mutilation is considered a crime against humanity but somehow this isn't? this is more of a lgbt issue than a feminist one, and the equivalent to fgm would be smth like circumcision. hormone blockers (for kids who’ve gone through therapy and been diagnosed by a professional with gender dysphoria) are completely reversible and just give the parents, therapist, and child enough time to decide if they’re actually trans, and how they want to transition when they’re older and of age. so if later it turns out the kid isn’t trans, all they have to do is stop taking the medic…	/r/AntiFeminists	07/01/23 04:08 PM
2	How’s this an incel? i wouldn’t say they’re an incel, but blaming the bad actions/attitudes of men on women is pretty cringe.	/r/AntiFeminists	07/01/23 03:52 PM
1	This man just wanted to check that he wasn't going to kiss someone underage i don’t think feminists have an issue with this. if anything, i think even more dudes should be checking ages before making moves like that	/r/AntiFeminists	07/01/23 03:47 PM
1	How about stop sexually objectifying yourselves on the internet or on social media, stop saying "men needs to stop watching porn", and face your own accountability you shitlords. you’re the only one that’s mad💀	/r/AntiFeminists	07/01/23 12:25 PM
2	How about stop sexually objectifying yourselves on the internet or on social media, stop saying "men needs to stop watching porn", and face your own accountability you shitlords. you defend men watching porn but then complain about women dressing with some skin showing? however, they'll start screaming at men saying "RAPE!" or "CREEP!", follow by the "Do you have problem? STOP LOOKING AT ME OR OBJECTIFYING ME YOU MISOGYNIST INCEL!! REEEEEEEE". i don’t even know what you’re saying here. yeah, if you assault a woman, they might complain about the assault? I don't understand why even bother showing up at public gym while men just minding their own business, focusing on thei…	/r/AntiFeminists	06/01/23 11:54 PM
0	I have realized as a man that feminism has become misandry plain and simple and there are good feminist's out there but it's hard to find them. because misandry is real I have experienced it firsthand. i haven’t. even when talking to the ones that claim they hate men, it’s not simply bc they’re men or can’t get a date. it’s always bc they’re frustrated, traumatized or just scared of them. obviously this doesn’t justify hate or statements like kam though.	/r/AntiFeminists	06/01/23 05:23 PM
2	I have realized as a man that feminism has become misandry plain and simple and there are good feminist's out there but it's hard to find them. because misandry is real I have experienced it firsthand. he was literally arrested and charged for r*pe and human trafficking. and claimed himself that he moved to romania because of their more lenient laws on sexual assault. and i wouldn’t ever accuse something as serious as SA against someone for just disliking them. it’s disgusting, could get the accused person unnecessarily harassed and makes people wary of believing actual victims.	/r/AntiFeminists	06/01/23 05:10 PM
-2	I have realized as a man that feminism has become misandry plain and simple and there are good feminist's out there but it's hard to find them. because misandry is real I have experienced it firsthand. what makes them so different? saying kam is such obvious nonsense that everyone who says it don’t even stand by it and claim it’s just for shock value. (though, they are still stupid for saying it). the men that advocate for harm against women often actually support or practice what they’re saying on social media. for example, people like andrew tate, an actual human trafficker, misogynist and r*pist was trending in every social media platform. and even after his arrest still have people calling…	/r/AntiFeminists	06/01/23 04:09 PM
-7	I have realized as a man that feminism has become misandry plain and simple and there are good feminist's out there but it's hard to find them. because misandry is real I have experienced it firsthand. is family/divorce courts being biased caused solely by feminism? i often hear other feminists arguing against this bias too because the stereotype that women are natural caregivers and that men are the providers is problematic. and while i understand reading hateful bs online can be hurtful, it goes both ways. for every #kam you see, you have a misogynist saying r*pe isn’t real and that women belong in the kitchen etc. and to my understanding there was no actual movement or increase in murder or…	/r/AntiFeminists	06/01/23 03:10 PM
0	How about stop sexually objectifying yourselves on the internet or on social media, stop saying "men needs to stop watching porn", and face your own accountability you shitlords. i don’t think it’s possible to objectify yourself. whether you see someone as a person or not is completely on you.	/r/AntiFeminists	06/01/23 02:52 PM
1	Does bodycount matter? sometimes. men or women sleeping around isn’t a bad thing. promiscuous people see sex as more casual, and others see sex as more sacred. just find someone with similar values to you and don’t be hypocritical. as long as it’s practiced safely neither is better than the other	/r/AntiFeminists	06/01/23 02:47 PM
1	A man with minum safety in the process of laying high tension electric wire.When are feminsts going to fight for equal representation in this field of work? hello, feminists actually do want women to have equal opportunity for these kinds fields too and think girls shouldn’t be discouraged from pursuing them like they are now. the problem with women working in many male dominated fields is that they often face discrimination from their perceived incapabilities, sexual harassment/assault and generally not feeling very welcomed. feminists think that anyone should be able to pursue any career/job they want or need and probably better working conditions…	/r/AntiFeminists	06/01/23 02:27 PM
4	that’s what I was thinking wouldn’t this be considered toxic masculinity? i doubt a woman wrote this + the site is called masculine development.	/r/AntiFeminists	06/01/23 02:14 PM
-9	I have realized as a man that feminism has become misandry plain and simple and there are good feminist's out there but it's hard to find them. because misandry is real I have experienced it firsthand. in what ways have feminism or misandry harmed men? i consider myself a feminist but i’ve never met one who genuinely hates men or wants to harm them. /gen	/r/AntiFeminists	06/01/23 02:12 PM
0	Am I wrong for this comment? This was posted on r/tinder and the women’s comments were just mostly the same jist as this. Now I’m at -13 karma :( ….no one should be treating anyone like a sex object, dehumanizing people is never ok.	/r/AntiFeminists	06/01/23 02:09 PM
1	Why 60 years of feminism has not made women any happier the point of feminism was never to make women happier. it was just to give women a level playing field and more freedoms to do what they want. also why are some people here implying that women should not have financial freedom? i thought this sub was for mens rights, not taking away womens rights…	/r/MensRights	06/11/22 11:04 PM