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| 9 | For those in LTRs or Marriage, was the spark, ‘butterflies’ , feeling always there? | Discussion | twa1988 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 11:29 PM |
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| 3 | It’s not that hard to be attractiveFair enough Thanks for the discussion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 02:17 AM |
| 1 | It’s not that hard to be attractiveUnfortunately I am barely a wallet for myself let alone women. A victim mentality is not gonna help you in dating or in any aspect if life is all I’m getting at. So best of luck bud, hopefully you meet someone one day and realise both genders have it tough in the dating game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 08:14 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that hard to be attractiveAs is apparent by the majority of men posting on here about how difficult it is to get in semi decent shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 12:41 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that hard to be attractiveWhat is difficult about this? Don’t eat like shit, take some time to set up a plan where you eat less calories than your body needs, and hit the gym 3+ times a week. Unless you have some sort of medical condition this should be more than enough as long as you are consistent Fuck, some of you guys really think the world is against you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 12:37 PM |
| -2 | It’s not that hard to be attractiveHow do I downvote this nonsense? I am 30 bald as the’rock, don’t eat shitloads of protein, and am not super tall. Have had zero problem dating or having relationships. I just don’t expect to be dating 10s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 12:32 PM |
| 1 | It seems "Cock Carousel" describes normal dating in 2020; why do you have a problem with normal dating?Where the fuck do you get “most men” want one women. All the guys I know including myself wanted to chase tail throughout their 20s and get laid as much as possible. Now that we’re getting older and had our fun in the sun we are looking for partners to settle down with. Why wouldn’t women do this exact same thing? And why would you care If they do? Fuck I don’t why this thread irritated me so much, but I’m fucking embarrassed by some of the men’s comments on here. Maybe things are different here… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/20 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Men who've had 25+ lays, do you hide your nerdier hobbies from girls you wanna fuck?I didn’t read that, but regardless it doesn’t change my response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Men who've had 25+ lays, do you hide your nerdier hobbies from girls you wanna fuck?You sound young? No offence. I have never had a problem finding relationships/ hook ups and have never hidden my love of fantasy lore from any of my partners (think LoTR, warhammer etc) in fact many of them thought it was cute. But then again you’ll probably counter this by saying it’s because I’m 6’1, play rugby/ go to the gym and have a good job. Bottom line is NO it has not affected me at all having a live for “nerdy” hobbies. BUT they don’t consume my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Men who've had 25+ lays, do you hide your nerdier hobbies from girls you wanna fuck?And I would point out that at a certain point when your SMV is so low, playing Pokémon or not won’t get you laid. Your average man can have his hobbies and still fuck girls if he aims for his looks match, and isn’t socially retarded I don’t really see the point of this post though? If you feel your playing Pokémon is hurting your chances then stop? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Men who've had 25+ lays, do you hide your nerdier hobbies from girls you wanna fuck?If Thor or Ryan Reynolds played Pokémon they definitely would stop getting any pussy Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Who do you think risks more by saying "I love you first, men or women"?1 month?? I guess the word love means different things to different people. I love my family, the thought of them not being around would utterly destroy me. So to say that to a women I have been dating/ known for a month, haha definitely not. And I’m sure many men (and women) place a far greater meaning to the word love than you might, I don’t think this makes them pussies, or incapable of loving you in the future? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How can a man who is average/below average become attractive?He can chase after his looks match rather than aiming/ thinking he deserves the stars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Boyfriend left me :(You did nothing wrong. Your response to his interview had nothing to do with it, or possibly was the tipping point for what was going to happen regardless. He told you the problem, he doesn’t love you. He is not wrong and you are not wrong. Not every relationship is meant to work. No contact. Heal up. And try again xx | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/20 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Women exiting as soon as they are no longer "in love" with their partner could be categorized as AWALT behaviorThis is a massive generalisation. I have numerous mates of mine who have ‘settled’ for girls because the sex is good and I quite “I can’t be fucked dating anymore.” Honestly half these posts can be looked at from both sides evenly. Men settle and women settle. Argument over haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Is there a RPW way to break up with someone?A guys perspective for you. Possibly don’t use not wanting kids as the only reason for the break up. From reading your posts, you have fully checked out, regardless of kids or not. There is a good chance if he loves you he will do whatever he can to make it work, including having kids with you. This has nothing to do with changing him, he will do it because he is willing to make that sacrifice to keep you in his life. And like I said the way you have worded this really does sound like this will … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/19 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Do women find being daygamed by betas as annoying/repulsive as straight guys would find being hit on by gay men?This sounds about right, form what my sister and her friends have always said. I’m a guy. I could never understand why some guys would just go up to random girls and try to force a conversation if there wasn’t any IOIs. If a gal is interested at the very least she will try to make eye contact and give you a smile. It’s not difficult lads | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 09:33 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men who have sex every day, do you want it every day?Yes every day when I have had enough sleep, not stressed, not over training in the gym or being over worked. But I have noticed a gradual decline with age. From 3 x a day in teens and early twenties, to 2x a day mid twenties, to now over 30, 1 x a day or 1x every second day is more than enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 01:30 PM |
| 3 | I love him, he's not ready to say it back. Now what?Rather him not say it than him saying it but not meaning it. He will say it when he is ready | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/19 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Why do men believe that women are not being fair towards men?I’m really surprised at the number of guys on here who have this same view ‘ that women tell them being beta will get them laid.”?? I (a male) grew up with a sister who always had her friends around etc And other than not only being told directly by my sister and her friends that, no they are not attracted to overly nice guys, I also constantly witnessed this IRL interactions. I mean where do you guys think the idea “friend zoned” came from? What my sister and her friends did say, and displayed,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 12:16 AM |
| 1 | "Stop focusing on women, follow your mission and women will come to you" Does this Red Pill tactic actually work in reality when it comes to getting women?I really think this shouldn’t have anything to do with chasing women / a relationship. It is about being a balanced whole person who doesn’t need a relationship to be happy. A relationship, or with another man or women, should enhance your life not define it. Be as happy being single as you would be in a relationship. There is nothing more attractive (in my opinion) than someone who has no problem walking away because they KNOW they will find happiness whether or not they are on their own or wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 12:43 PM |
| 1 | For those in LTRs or Marriage, was the spark, ‘butterflies’ , feeling always there?That is very reassuring. I can see how committed she is and how much she is investing and the idea of hurting her is horrible. Why were you unsure in the early stages? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 11:49 AM |
| 1 | For those in LTRs or Marriage, was the spark, ‘butterflies’ , feeling always there?I am 31. The ex relationship was 4yrs together and the first proper LTR I have had. I am fully aware that I am inexperienced with LTRs and what makes them work. Im sure a large part of why i fell head over heels for the ex was because of the novelty of a proper LTR (moving in together, Pets, saying I love you etc). But having said that I think the reason that last 4yrs and not my typical 6months r/s was because I had such intense feelings and always saw her as a person I would one day marry and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 08:27 AM |
| 1 | For those in LTRs or Marriage, was the spark, ‘butterflies’ , feeling always there?Nice and honest. I think for most people there is always going to be a certain level of increased attraction towards someone who has their own stuff going on and doesn’t just let life revolve around you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 08:22 AM |
| 1 | For those in LTRs or Marriage, was the spark, ‘butterflies’ , feeling always there?What changed in the other 2? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 07:40 AM |
| 1 | For those in LTRs or Marriage, was the spark, ‘butterflies’ , feeling always there?Funny coincidence! I had this conversation with my sister last night actually. My ex was my first LTR, from 26 to 30yrs, and she was the first of many things including, liking together, saying I love you, having pets together etc. So I can acknowledge that those butterflies might not necessarily only have been for the ex herself but rather the novelty of these new experiences that a LTR brings with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 02:32 AM |
| 1 | For those in LTRs or Marriage, was the spark, ‘butterflies’ , feeling always there?Agreed. It has already planted a huge seed of doubt but I can see the benefit in my current relationship to not simply throw it away because there is the possibility that ‘the grass is greener’ with someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 02:29 AM |
| 1 | What would it take for you to cheat on and/or leave your SO?Honestly, one of the more honest replies in this thread. I’d think most people believe they would never cheat on a SO....... until they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/19 11:17 PM |
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