tweakmymeter Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	How do you maintain a strong frame when another guy comes into the set? Shine... be friendly with the guy. Make yourself look confident and approachable. Make the people, men and women, around feel as if you are admirable, easy to get along with. Women admire a great deal men that are admired by other men. Alpha by dominance is not nearly as attractive as Alpha by default. If the other guys like you, the women have a strong potential to like you too.	/r/seduction	11/03/16 07:50 PM
1	Getting emotionally attached to girls I've slept with and it sucks Communication is key. Talk more. Ask questions. Take more time to develop the relationship before having sex. You said 'none' of these girls? But there are only two? What do YOU think would cause these girls to ditch you after sex? Was the sex good or bad? Are you clingy? Was there an uncomfortable exchange?	/r/seduction	25/09/15 01:43 PM
3	I forgot how much girls like to snoop Looking at someone's book shelf... I don't know, that doesn't qualify as snooping in my mind. I mean, it's out in the open right? A bookshelf is where we look to see what kind of a person someone is... what they read has a fairly large potential impact on who they are. Natural curiosity. You brought her back to yours and she's checking you out. If you don't want people to see your pickup books, be responsible and put them away.	/r/seduction	29/06/15 04:18 PM
5	What do you do in situations when you lose your train of thought? Own it. Just straight up say that you lost your train of thought. Ask, "What the hell was I saying?" We all do it at one time or another, and if the situation has both of you a little anxious, surely she'll understand.	/r/seduction	04/06/15 12:04 PM
2	Creating true charisma/ amazing social skills. Anyone know any good programs for this? I spent a couple of summers as a club/event photographer. That shit will give you a crash course in dealing with people on the quick and serious.	/r/seduction	20/05/15 06:40 PM
17	Met with ex , lessons about oneitis , relationships, mentality and cures I'm old, but I just get downvotes.	/r/seduction	05/03/15 05:12 PM
2	"All guys want is sex" shit test The root of this, the thing that people should take from this is that within that sentence is the bright show of empathy in the two words, "I understand". There's a lot of power in saying this to someone as an affirmation of their grievances, no matter what they might be.	/r/seduction	26/02/15 05:56 PM
1	How to overcome being unaware of your attractiveness level? Stop overthinking. Go out and have fun with the intentions of making friends, both male and female. If you can get yourself to the point where you have a group of good folks around you, the rest will generally/usually just fall into place. You're getting the cart before the horse in trying to figure out too much too fast. Relax, slow down. Stop categorizing people into groups. This or that league, or level of attractiveness or whatever. What is or is not attractive to folks changes day to day, a…	/r/seduction	26/02/15 03:08 PM
5	How to spin living at home? No need to go real far with it. Just say that Mom and Dad are getting a little older and are needing some help around the house, so you're doubling down on your savings while helping them mow the grass and do some repairs. Then... mow the grass and fix something for Mom and Dad AND get a date. Win, win and another win. ;)	/r/seduction	06/02/15 08:24 PM
3	The cold approach Always find things to say or ask about her. Questions are the easiest ice breakers imo. Wardrobe, hairstyle, etc... are things you can comment on or ask about that are usually within a woman/girl's interests. Just a safe bet for striking up a conversation. "Hey nice hat, where'd you get it?" "Hi, I dig those shoes" "Is that the new i-phone" Cheezy I know, but an ice breaker is just to get you started. If she seems interested it might be a good idea to work the comment into a compliment... "Nice …	/r/seduction	06/02/15 08:20 PM