twenty_minutes_late Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny?		twenty_minutes_late	/r/MensRights	20/04/14 11:29 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	What’s happening guys? I’m seeing millions of people saying KAM right now. It’s become a trend. What the fûck is happening? You're right. We should give up and let the next generation deal with these issues once they are more firmly entrenched.	/r/MensRights	07/08/20 07:56 PM
10	You don't get a pass if you're a woman. Rape is rape. According to that definition men can get raped. However, also according to that definition, women cannot commit rape.	/r/MensRights	02/08/20 07:32 PM
0	From a Fathers group on FB. Standing by him includes recognizing that his race was a contributing factor to his death. If you arent doing that you arent standing by him, your just virtue signaling.	/r/MensRights	03/06/20 05:15 PM
0	From a Fathers group on FB. Hard to say when nobody will present any data honestly. Does the degree of discrimination really matter? You concede it's there, why are you trying to undermine it? I asked for evidence and you have not presented ANYTHING. Just baseless claims Ok then. I thought you were familiar with these statistics. I didnt realize youd never read them https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/investigations/police-shootings-database/	/r/MensRights	03/06/20 03:28 PM
0	From a Fathers group on FB. first step to eliminating discrimination is to prove it exists, Do you not think black people are discriminated against? I don't support the notion that blacks are being killed disproportionately without any actual evidence being presented The evidence is there. You just wont see it.	/r/MensRights	03/06/20 03:17 PM
0	From a Fathers group on FB. you would have to assume violent criminals are no more likely than law abiding people to get into a dangerous encounter with police Your premise is backwards. Nothing your saying is new to me. I've heard all these racist arguments before and they dont add up. If you want to pat yourself on the back and pretend that police deal with white and black men the same then go for it. But you're wrong. But for the third time I'll ask, you dont support black men?	/r/MensRights	03/06/20 02:07 PM
0	From a Fathers group on FB. My stats are simple because they focus on one issue and the measurable effect of that. You want to dress up your white supremacy go ahead but you arent fooling anyone. Would you also conclude,on the same basis, that men and women commit exactly the same number of violent crimes, since they are each 50% of the population ... no. I would use the raw number of men and women who are killed by police regardless of perceived criminality. See that's where your racism shows. You keep trying to dismiss t…	/r/MensRights	03/06/20 01:34 PM
0	From a Fathers group on FB. You're starting from sn assumption and working backwards rather than actually looking at the data No I'm not. I'm using a simple formula and the stats it produces are equally simple. Many of your arguments want me to supply data that quite honestly doesnt exist, and often time if it does, its skewed by institutional racism. For instance, police in the us arent required to release the manner or number of deaths of people in its custody to watchdog organizations. In the case of George Floyd, they …	/r/MensRights	03/06/20 03:59 AM
1	From a Fathers group on FB. If black people are comitting more crimes, police are more likely to run into them, arrest them, and be in a situation where they can create a flimsy excuse for it. And this is it right here. Are they committing more crimes? Or are they being targeted at a higher rate? Cant really tell can we? That's a very contentious issue in and of itself. So instead, we look at the number of black men killed by police as a ratio of the entire black population. Then we compare that in the same way to the numb…	/r/MensRights	03/06/20 03:35 AM
0	From a Fathers group on FB. Because you're cherry picking the data. If I eat 12 out of 13 burgers and 12 out of 100 French fries then I ate almost all the burgers but not very many French fries even tho I ate 12 of each.	/r/MensRights	03/06/20 03:17 AM
0	From a Fathers group on FB. Its compared to total pop. That's exactly how the data should be presented. If you cherry pick the data you can make it say whatever you want. The stats are readily available if you care to look for them and it's clear that black men in the us are 2.5 times as likely to be killed as white men.	/r/MensRights	03/06/20 02:36 AM
1	From a Fathers group on FB. Is it vague and misguided currently?	/r/MensRights	03/06/20 01:33 AM
14	From a Fathers group on FB. Itd be nice if they guy who designed the image got a few bux too tho.	/r/MensRights	02/06/20 05:25 PM
1	i hope this doesn't break the rules, but this lady is an advocate for true human equality: not just women's rights but also men's. i think it's very important for us to remember that, as we do not want women to demonize us, we should not demonize women either, and that many of them are not bigots. I like the auto correct. It stays :)	/r/MensRights	30/05/20 09:33 PM
3	i hope this doesn't break the rules, but this lady is an advocate for true human equality: not just women's rights but also men's. i think it's very important for us to remember that, as we do not want women to demonize us, we should not demonize women either, and that many of them are not bigots. I agree. But I think we need to be honest about how some people see the movement from outside too.	/r/MensRights	29/05/20 03:56 PM
4	i hope this doesn't break the rules, but this lady is an advocate for true human equality: not just women's rights but also men's. i think it's very important for us to remember that, as we do not want women to demonize us, we should not demonize women either, and that many of them are not bigots. Lots of people say it. It's how they dismiss MRAs as toxic uncles.	/r/MensRights	29/05/20 01:34 PM
17	Posted by a large event page, the moment someone spoke up they deleted it. I think you hit the nail on the head when you said they need to feel validated. My friends ex was huge on female superiority and the mother earth/goddess ideal. However, she didnt work, cook, clean, homeschool (even tho that was her idea!), or excersise with her kids. In her mind she was a powerful independent woman who was raising her daughters to be free thinking feminists outside the patriarchy. In reality, she was neglecting her children and completely dependent on someone else. I feel bad f…	/r/MensRights	10/05/20 05:57 PM
1	The double standard that concerns feminists is that they cannot walk around topless. The double standard that concerns men’s rights activists is that men are likely to die about 12 times more than women at work. It also looks to me like it's the other women who look concerned or offended. Not the men in that picture.	/r/MensRights	29/04/20 04:08 PM
5	1 Japanese school girl gets raped by men from the navy who're shore leave which results in the navy going Crraazzyy. Nine Afghan school boys raped by a Afghan national & a few of his buddies on US Marine base, and the Marine chain of command shrugs their shoulders. Bold stance, but I support it.	/r/MensRights	15/04/20 04:50 PM
1	1 Japanese school girl gets raped by men from the navy who're shore leave which results in the navy going Crraazzyy. Nine Afghan school boys raped by a Afghan national & a few of his buddies on US Marine base, and the Marine chain of command shrugs their shoulders. No! To hell with your nuanced understanding of a complicated situation! They should have just gone in and beat up those beta cucks! Violence solves all problems, even the ones caused by violence.	/r/MensRights	15/04/20 04:47 PM
5	1 Japanese school girl gets raped by men from the navy who're shore leave which results in the navy going Crraazzyy. Nine Afghan school boys raped by a Afghan national & a few of his buddies on US Marine base, and the Marine chain of command shrugs their shoulders. No. Dont go on fds. It's one of those places that I had to see to believe (like incel forums). I honestly didnt believe there were that many like minded people who hate ALL men simply for existing. Its... a lot.	/r/MensRights	15/04/20 04:43 PM
3	Woman brags how she raped her husband. Not sure how this definition doesnt apply. (Assumably) her vagina was penetrated without the victims (his) consent. Its legally rape.	/r/MensRights	19/01/20 05:21 PM
5	Redditor thinks men don't need safe spaces and are the only dangerous think Pretty sure that autocorrect for dating	/r/MensRights	11/01/20 04:20 PM
10	Redditor thinks men don't need safe spaces and are the only dangerous think To be fair, very few opinions can withstand socratic inquiry.	/r/MensRights	11/01/20 04:18 PM
3	How do you ladies feel about the female dating strategy sub? I understand being quick to ban people, but, just banning ALL men tells me the sub isnt really interested in an honest discussion. They just want to reenforce their own views.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/19 12:46 AM
1	How do you ladies feel about the female dating strategy sub? FDS is femcel ideology. There are other ways to create safe spaces without gagging dissent.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/19 07:13 PM
2	How do you ladies feel about the female dating strategy sub? Male incels are promoting hate and misogyny. Its not ok. Its also not ok when women do it to men. Hate is hate is hate.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/19 07:12 PM
2	How do you ladies feel about the female dating strategy sub? I hope her advice was followed. That poor guy, dating someone who values finances as much as people.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/19 07:09 PM
1	All men and fathers are pigs, also buy my nudes. Perhaps its because your meaning is unclear. Whats the bet?	/r/MensRights	27/10/19 07:04 PM
4	How do you ladies feel about the female dating strategy sub? The reason so many comments are deleted is that they just delete and ban anyone whos opinion is different then theirs. Asaic they deserve the results that those toxic attitudes are sure to deliver.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/19 06:51 PM
3	How do you ladies feel about the female dating strategy sub? Female dating strategy blanket bans all male contributors. That tells me all i need to know about it right there.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/19 06:46 PM
2	"He deserved it" Unfortunatly in many cases it's not the identification of mental health issues thats gets missed it's the getting the help they need part.	/r/MensRights	11/06/19 09:45 PM
2	"He deserved it" I was being a bit rhetorical but it was because I've wrestled with the idea previously. I intellectually agree with Lewis (and certainly for crimes caused by mental health issues) but sometimes as the victim of a crime, I feel like deterrent is preferable. Obviously I know that's an emotional response to feeling powerless and in the long run not in anyone's best interest but it's a very real response that many people have.	/r/MensRights	11/06/19 07:09 PM
2	"He deserved it" She can be guilty and have some sympathy from the jury. I think that would translate into the method of sentanceing not the verdict. I mean is the intent to punish the perpetrator or to rehabilitate them?	/r/MensRights	11/06/19 05:29 PM
-4	The world in feminist's eyea Well... you may have changed my view on this sub. Or at least the people who upvoted you. This is the first comment I've seen that acknowledges not all feminists are inherently evil that isnt getting downvoted. Thanks for making my day a bit brighter :)	/r/MensRights	09/12/18 05:22 PM
1	Posted on a feminist sub about finding a male actor attractive instantly attacked for it......total sexists. Thanks for agreeing with me. Have a nice day :)	/r/MensRights	02/12/18 10:46 PM
0	Posted on a feminist sub about finding a male actor attractive instantly attacked for it......total sexists. The post you're responding to was in reference to the conversation I was having with the guy I responded to. Feel free to check it out further down this thread. In the other thread I'm talking about the conversation I had with a person there. Maybe I misstated that by saying everyone was all over me, but, the conversation I had in that thread wasnt polite and respectful. Probably not all his fault. Probably not all my fault. But, my point ITT remains valid. It is that this sub isnt only full of …	/r/MensRights	02/12/18 10:36 PM
-12	Posted on a feminist sub about finding a male actor attractive instantly attacked for it......total sexists. I'm not pretending. Have an awesome day! :)	/r/MensRights	02/12/18 09:26 PM
-13	Posted on a feminist sub about finding a male actor attractive instantly attacked for it......total sexists. You're still proving my point. You arent having a respectful discussion with me about differing viewpoints. You're attacking me. Have a nice day :)	/r/MensRights	02/12/18 09:18 PM
1	Posted on a feminist sub about finding a male actor attractive instantly attacked for it......total sexists. Good for you.	/r/MensRights	02/12/18 09:15 PM
1	Posted on a feminist sub about finding a male actor attractive instantly attacked for it......total sexists. Yes I've been insulting you and pushing you to explain yourself this whole time :) Have a nice day reasonable and respectful MRM member!	/r/MensRights	02/12/18 09:14 PM
1	Posted on a feminist sub about finding a male actor attractive instantly attacked for it......total sexists. I didnt directly link because I'm on mobile. I didnt address false accusations because that wasnt what I was talking about. Those are obviously bad. Join the circle jerk. My point was that if you arent qualified and committed you shouldn't be a teacher. Male or female matters less than those two things. I may not of expressed my point perfectly but that's what it was. You're still proving my point. This sub has many toxic members. I wonder why I dont post here more often?	/r/MensRights	02/12/18 09:10 PM
1	Posted on a feminist sub about finding a male actor attractive instantly attacked for it......total sexists. I listed the OP and thread title. Feel free to search for it. I didnt attack an entire sub. If you read back I said the truth usually lies somewhere in the middle. Didnt you start by saying what an open and positive sub this is? Do you think you're being open and positive to someone with a differing view right now?	/r/MensRights	02/12/18 08:54 PM
2	Posted on a feminist sub about finding a male actor attractive instantly attacked for it......total sexists. What % of reddit lurks again? You can see I'm subbed. You can see this account is 6+ years old. Get a grip.	/r/MensRights	02/12/18 08:51 PM
1	Posted on a feminist sub about finding a male actor attractive instantly attacked for it......total sexists. U/daktush posted: "Schools Need More Male Teachers" about a year ago.	/r/MensRights	02/12/18 08:50 PM
1	Posted on a feminist sub about finding a male actor attractive instantly attacked for it......total sexists. So, you cant adress what I'm saying now and need to go through past posts instead? You're proving my point.	/r/MensRights	02/12/18 08:47 PM
1	Posted on a feminist sub about finding a male actor attractive instantly attacked for it......total sexists. It was my experience in that thread. What do you mean by "people like you"? I object to people like you dismissing my perspective because you dont agree. There are thousands of people in this sub. Do you seriously believe they are all thoughtful, rational, and well balanced?	/r/MensRights	02/12/18 08:41 PM
-1	Posted on a feminist sub about finding a male actor attractive instantly attacked for it......total sexists. There was a post about how few men are elementary school teachers. Through the entire thread people were saying we should hire men over women if if they weren't as quallified. Feel free to use the search function.	/r/MensRights	02/12/18 08:35 PM
-14	Posted on a feminist sub about finding a male actor attractive instantly attacked for it......total sexists. Meh, theres a shit ton of hypocrisy in this sub too. If you put a post up about why a tech company hiring women based on gender instead of ability is a bad thing you'll be lauded as an intellectual giant. Mention that men should be hired based on ability in women dominated industry's and you'll get crucified. A lot of the people here are toxic. MRM earned their reputation same as rfems have. The truth is somewhere in the middle, as always.	/r/MensRights	02/12/18 08:29 PM
-11	Men who commit suicide are emotional abusers as per this feminist It's not. Bullshit statements like that are just as dumb as the feminist post they disagree with.	/r/MensRights	30/11/17 10:28 PM
1	(x-post) /r/daddit feeling pretty unappreciated in this post Isn't that what /s is for?	/r/MensRights	04/10/17 11:36 PM
-1	(x-post) /r/daddit feeling pretty unappreciated in this post It's no different than selling a bike lock with instructions on how to keep your property from being stolen by black people. Which is also unacceptable...	/r/MensRights	04/10/17 09:26 PM
1	Schools Need More Male Teachers You know there is no point continuing a conversation when one side doesn't even understand the point they are making. Ciao! And in terms of logical fallacies so far on your side I'm counting; 2 strawmen, A slippery slope, and multiple ad hominem. Gotta tighten that up.	/r/MensRights	04/10/17 08:25 PM
1	Schools Need More Male Teachers You still aren't answering the question tho are you? My point: the guy I responded to initially would've been a shitty teacher and I'm glad he chose another career. You know anything to show this to be false I'm all ears.	/r/MensRights	04/10/17 08:09 PM
0	Schools Need More Male Teachers You can't answer because you're just talking shit.	/r/MensRights	04/10/17 07:35 PM
1	Schools Need More Male Teachers Answer the question. What's your point? I've stated many reasons why I don't think he'd be a good teacher. I'm glad he didn't pursue it. He's glad he didn't pursue it. What's your actual point?	/r/MensRights	04/10/17 07:30 PM
1	Schools Need More Male Teachers What did i move the goalpost away from? Im still waiting to hear your actual point.	/r/MensRights	04/10/17 07:18 PM
1	Schools Need More Male Teachers So someone who doesnt make it over those hurdles won't finish their degree right? Doesn't matter if it's fair. Doesn't matter if it offends you. Doesn't matter how great a guy he is. He isn't a qualified teacher. I don't want unqualified teachers. Do You?	/r/MensRights	04/10/17 07:14 PM
1	Schools Need More Male Teachers Nice goalpost move, since this was never the discussion OK then distill your point to a few sentences so I understand it. Right... because anyone not willing to starve would be a shitty teacher... Again, I've never said this. You're arguing against points I'm not making.	/r/MensRights	04/10/17 06:49 PM
1	Schools Need More Male Teachers They didn't finish. They aren't qualified. Not controversial at all. You don't like my gloating that fine. Doesn't change the fact he would have made a shitty teacher and I'm glad he pursued another career.	/r/MensRights	04/10/17 06:41 PM
1	Schools Need More Male Teachers Can't/won't/choose not to finish university? Then you can't do the job that requires you to have that degree. Not complicated and uncontroversial. Just because we need more male teachers doesn't mean that they should be held to different standards. Even the guy I responded to said he was glad he did something different.	/r/MensRights	04/10/17 06:34 PM
1	Schools Need More Male Teachers And we discussed willing vs able. So I should support a teacher who isn't able to do their job? If they can't do it I'm glad they aren't a teacher. You should be too.	/r/MensRights	03/10/17 10:01 PM
1	Schools Need More Male Teachers No. I said if he wasn't willing to finish his degree he wasn't committed enough. I said I was homeless before I went back to university. Trying reading responses before you reply to them.	/r/MensRights	03/10/17 02:36 PM
0	Schools Need More Male Teachers I never said anything like that.	/r/MensRights	02/10/17 09:14 PM
0	Schools Need More Male Teachers What the fuck are you talking about? Who is killing and starving teachers?	/r/MensRights	02/10/17 08:51 PM
3	Schools Need More Male Teachers Luckily things fell through and I didn't waste my life doing that. Sounds like you're happy with your choice. Don't blame an imaginary little bitch.	/r/MensRights	02/10/17 08:35 PM
0	Schools Need More Male Teachers Like i keep saying If someone isn't committed I don't want them at my school. The person I responded to said it fell through and they were happy. Guess what? I am too. I don't want a shitty staff member just because they're male. It's a hard and thankless job. If you can be easilly dissuaded then go start another career you'll like more. And I was starving BEFORE I was a teacher. Would you like some reading comprehension help?	/r/MensRights	02/10/17 06:55 PM
1	Schools Need More Male Teachers When I decided to go back to university and become a teacher I was homeless. If it's important to you you'll find a way. If not then you're not the caliber of human I want teaching in my school. You keep clinging to that one excuse tho. Nobody has ever done anything after a car accident I'm sure.	/r/MensRights	02/10/17 06:38 PM
0	Schools Need More Male Teachers Thrre are 100 000 reasons not to do anything hard. If your committed to it you'll find a way. In the 6 years it took me to become a teacher I took in ~90k debt, had 3 deaths in my immediate family, had a daughter, and had to fight like he'll to graduate both my degrees with a 3.8 gpa. If I had gotten into a car accident I still would have graduated because I was committed to being a teacher. Just being male isn't enough you also have to want to do it bad enough that you'll push through obstacles…	/r/MensRights	02/10/17 06:28 PM
-1	Schools Need More Male Teachers Not that I've seen them claim this is what happened but a committed academic could return to thier studies.	/r/MensRights	02/10/17 06:12 PM
1	Schools Need More Male Teachers A dick whos speaking truth. "Things fell through" for them which means they weren't committed enough to post secondary education and most likely would've been a shitty teacher. Downvote me all you want I'm not wrong.	/r/MensRights	02/10/17 06:11 PM
-1	Schools Need More Male Teachers Things fell through for them long before they got to that point. They weren't committed enough to do well in post secondary they weren't accused of anything.	/r/MensRights	02/10/17 06:08 PM
-14	Schools Need More Male Teachers We're all lucky that you didn't do it by the sound of it. Edit: What? Teachings hard. If you're not commited you're a shitty teacher.	/r/MensRights	02/10/17 09:20 AM
18	I'm seeing more and more of this: feminists using "mansplaining" accusations to deal with being publicly proven wrong I love it when people call me a cuck. It's not insulting and it lets me know exactly the kind of person I'm talking to.	/r/MensRights	07/09/17 06:10 PM
14	I'm seeing more and more of this: feminists using "mansplaining" accusations to deal with being publicly proven wrong Ya I'm really glad the election went the way it did /s	/r/MensRights	07/09/17 06:03 PM
15	Found at r/mildyinteresting I find it more r/mildlyinfuriating	/r/MensRights	12/08/17 06:29 PM
15	Posting screenshots of titles or portions of articles is not sufficient. Thank you.	/r/MensRights	11/07/17 08:09 PM
8	The Solution to Manspreading! You mean calling someone a cuck doesn't immediately change their mind? Shit. I've been internetting all wrong.	/r/MensRights	19/06/17 08:15 PM
1	Now imagine what would happen if the genders were reversed I remember members of 'outrage' chaining themselves to churches and many other radical approaches I don't consider nonviolent protests to be particularly radical. A radical approach would be gunning gown the congregation. parades and events after we're also amazing ways gays got recognition. And the parades are incredibly inclusive. Straight cis gendered people are welcome at pride which is kinda the point. If you weren't allowed to go unless you are LGBT they wouldnt be nearly as effective at n…	/r/MensRights	12/06/17 08:10 PM
2	Now imagine what would happen if the genders were reversed I don't recall hearing about much more than parades and court challenges. The inequality and oppression of lbgt people was shown to be unjust by highlighting things like gay beatings and discrimination. Then constitutional challenges ensured they had legal recourse against crimes based on their sexuality (aka hate crimes). Where exactly do the radicals fit into this?	/r/MensRights	12/06/17 05:39 PM
6	Now imagine what would happen if the genders were reversed I'm pretty sure LGBT rights came through supreme court challenges.	/r/MensRights	12/06/17 04:52 PM
7	I just finished "The Red Pill" and I swear it freaked me out more than an Alfred Hitchcock movie That's good. You don't want to be so open-minded that common sense falls out. There isn't a single viewpoint which has it 100% right just like none are 100% wrong. If you remember to respect others as you search you'll be better off than most.	/r/MensRights	10/03/17 10:57 PM
5	I just finished "The Red Pill" and I swear it freaked me out more than an Alfred Hitchcock movie Truth.	/r/MensRights	10/03/17 10:21 PM
3	I just finished "The Red Pill" and I swear it freaked me out more than an Alfred Hitchcock movie Glad to hear. Open-mindedness and understanding are rare virtues these days :)	/r/MensRights	10/03/17 09:19 PM
6	I just finished "The Red Pill" and I swear it freaked me out more than an Alfred Hitchcock movie Just don't overcompensate and go off the deep end friend :)	/r/MensRights	10/03/17 08:12 PM
9	I just finished "The Red Pill" and I swear it freaked me out more than an Alfred Hitchcock movie Don't bail afterwards. Have a conversation about it. No point in just presenting something controversial and then not engaging about it, it's important to talk about ideas that don't align with yours if you have any hope of processing them.	/r/MensRights	10/03/17 08:10 PM
3	Just saw this in my course selection. Computer science courses are now segregated by gender. I'm surprised feminists aren't pissed about this too. It uses the diminutive "girls".	/r/MensRights	12/11/14 11:16 PM
1	24-year old male raped at Oktoberfest Could someone please post a mirror?	/r/MensRights	29/09/14 05:34 AM
-1	This sub is overlooking serious issues relating to men's rights in favour of bitching. I've also found this sub to have many confrontational members. I've posted a few times with questions that I thought were legitimate and which I seriously wanted to discuss. Most of the responses I get are inflammatory name calling and insults about how uninformed I am. Because of this I'm pretty much just lurking now and it has also affected my willingness to participate in the MRM in the real world.	/r/MensRights	03/09/14 06:10 PM
1	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? Oops, didn't notice it was your post. I guess I got something different from that than you intended. I'm asking questions, if you don't like them then you don't have to answer them and I'm certainly not being negative.	/r/MensRights	24/04/14 05:40 PM
0	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? You should hear me beatbox.	/r/MensRights	23/04/14 01:35 AM
2	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? I wish you had attempted to put it in your own words. It's that style of rhetoric which I believes hurts any movement. Substitute the word feminism/feminist in that post with any other group of people; political affiliation, religion, race, socio-economic group etc. and many people would regard this as hate speech. I'm not saying he doesn't have any points but when expounded like this aren't we just bringing women "down to our level" rather than bring ourselves up? Isn't that what MRA's think fe…	/r/MensRights	22/04/14 05:24 PM
0	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? Thanks! Congrats on your relevant username!	/r/MensRights	22/04/14 05:07 PM
1	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? This argument had been bothering me and I finally figured out why. It seems to me like you keep saying it's okay to hate feminists without bothering to make the distinction between the people and the movement. If you change "feminism" (or buddhist) to "christian" it sounds like this is what your saying: "Anti-christian is valid viewpoint because Christianity has done terrible things throughout history". While this would be a true statement it doesn't address the fact that individual christians c…	/r/MensRights	22/04/14 05:05 PM
1	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? I wouldn't think you hated asians but framing it in a way which is "anti" anything is combative.	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 07:02 AM
2	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? explain please?	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 07:01 AM
1	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? No such thing as bad press? Okay	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 02:46 AM
2	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? Well said. Thank you.	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 02:45 AM
0	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? I have a complaint with anyone who won't engage in a meaningful conversation unfortunately those people rarely listen. I don't expect rfems to go away any more than they expect the "cigar-smoking-backroom-boys-club" to disappear. I just think the language is needlessly divisive and that isn't helping people respect each other.	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 02:44 AM
0	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? True enough. I just think that some people will mistake the term "anti-feminist" to mean just that attitude but towards all women instead. I don't argue the definition or weather or not it's a valid argument. I just think it will turn moderates away from discussion when they hear it. It's seems millitant and non-inclusive.	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 02:37 AM
1	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? Shouldn't we be trying to broaden everyones perspective? Ya, okay. That makes sense. It just seems difficult to see an ideal that is negative as a good thing. The term just seems so charged to me.	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 02:31 AM
4	Feeling irritated A way to frame this which may help you be less frustrated may be to think of it as for your protection. If you always have a third party nearby then you will never have to worry about baseless allegations.	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 02:26 AM
0	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? You don't see the correlation between saying that "feminists dug this hole" and the assertion that men "deserve this for past transgressions"?	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 02:00 AM
0	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? Yes... I'm the troll...	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 01:17 AM
0	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? Thank you for actually answering my question. Cheers! Edit: Also, thats kind of my point. If something as trite as a mis-identified label can actually undermine us in the popular discussion wouldn't we be better served to find another way to express that attitude?	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 01:11 AM
1	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? Isn't that similar to the Rfem view that "men deserve it for all the past oppression"? Isn't this attitude (on both sides) disruptive to any meaningful discourse?	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 01:09 AM
2	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? Insightful commentary. What an addition to the team you are!	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 01:07 AM
0	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? No doubt. Do you think the "anti-feminist" rhetoric alienates the moderate feminists and works against the MR movement?	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 01:05 AM
5	How do new members start, and where do we learn? What is the current state of our rights? I try to keep the conversation away from generalizations and talk to them specifically about how my views from theirs and why. If they can't have a civil discussion I don't care who they are and I certainly don't need to waste my time arguing with someone who is too close-minded to hear another opinion.	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 12:37 AM
1	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? If that's true then it logically follows that the radical feminists assertion that "all MRA's advocate the oppression of women" is also true. I think we can both agree that it isn't. Feminism is diverse. A good example would be the support given from feminist organisations across Canada to /u/William_Red in his efforts to start some shelters for men.	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 12:26 AM
1	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? Good point. I'm still naive enough to believe we should be working towards equality for everyone regardless of gender	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 12:17 AM
1	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? PM'd by /u/a_personification as they are not a member and therefore cannot contribute (seriously?): Maybe you would like to share this; I agree with you that the title 'anti-feminist' can polarise the issue and push supporters away. I can't stand some of the extremist views from a vocal minority within this sub, just as many MRAs can't stand the comparable element within feminism. The extreme element keeps me away from both. Then, just five minutes ago I came across a subreddit "againstmensright…	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 12:14 AM
2	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? Thats a pretty broad generalization. Do you honestly think that all feminists care only for women? What about feminist activism in the LBGT communities?	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 12:07 AM
0	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? Okay but disagreement can take many forms. My question isn't whether you accept that title or agree with feminists, rather, if it is too aggressive and takes away from the conversation by increasing the conflict. Some people may not understand what is meant by that term and the confusion garnered by people who mistake "anti-feminism" for "anti-women" seems to be pretty prevalent. Seems to me like a lot of effort is wasted in making that distinction when we could be advancing the agenda of equali…	/r/MensRights	21/04/14 12:03 AM
1	Is the title "anti-feminist" too loaded to stand next to the assertion that MR's promote equality not misogyny? I'm not sure all feminists are part of a hate movement and I'm 100% sure they don't feel they are. It seems to me that educating "small 'f' feminists" could really add to the discourse and that by having such an inflammatory title it could actually work against us. There are definitely radicals who do preach hateful bullshit but we are never going to reach them so who cares? If we frame the debate in a way which immediately puts people on the defensive then we are makeing this much harder don't …	/r/MensRights	20/04/14 11:44 PM