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| 2 | The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulationThe question is, how much of those women actually like short guys? and how much of those liking tall guys, and how much they are non-discriminative with the height? in percentage wise? There isn't any statistics to tell and give us a guarantee of what we can look for, we are all go blind and crash, and we will make completely different conclusion, regardless of what's objective that's not even observable yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 04:15 PM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?I really do girl, I didn't know it wasn't an invitation for bragging. But I was going too far, and I don't know you don't like it. I am really sorry and I want to back off from it. Let's just end it here once for now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:12 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?Alright I am really sorry and I won't justify my action | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?Okayy i'm sorry, I'll unsend it, I didn't know it was too far | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:10 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?Well I just love the pleasure of proving myself and making a huge plot twist. It's a treat and a thrill for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:08 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?Even after I get them off and do a little dirty talk to them to change their mind from being pity to be something unexpected chemistry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:04 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?Well I would love to be pity fucked. But I'm not going to be the one that receive all the pleasure passively, it would be me pleasuring them to get off as I want to show my potentials of what I can be and what I can offer in intimacy. I am happy to see someone happy because I make them happy and that would be a great pride for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 01:39 AM |
| -1 | Baby bro is getting redpilledGod as a person that has 10 cm penis, this is just a horror situation for me. It's heartbreaking to see this, then she got a BBC (big black cock) afterwards then mocking him about it Fuck that's a deepest hell | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/25 01:31 AM |
| 5 | As a man, "decentering" women is one of the best things you can do for yourselfAnd will you get that in 70 years old time? Most old people are alone and died alone, too tired to even meet each other unless they have a family or a partner getting old together, or if you are extremely lucky enough that you still have a close friend in that age But again, that's a privilege. Most people die alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 11:03 AM |
| 0 | Have your views on women actually changed?I am not a white male, I am Indonesian guy actually. I don't have a privilege that these white people have as I think Indonesian guy like me will be a bit invisible in white girl's eyes. Hell, they don't even know where Indonesia is, they only know Bali. And most of Indonesian girls get approached a lot by white men while some of us are just invisible. Not to mention, a lot of my local friends are short, as we are among the shortest country in the world Yeah basically the privileges as they have… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/25 11:41 PM |
| 7 | Have your views on women actually changed?I am not really ex-redpiller nor I was a red-pill myself. But every time I encounter red-pill or incel videos and narratives, my internal monologues and thoughts trying to battle this seductive narrative for hating women for some privileges, which in reality is much more complicated and can't be seen in one-sided view. I am trying as best as I can to find the balance and positive-negative over everything, find the grey side, not falling into black-and-white thoughts that try to invade me. I don'… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/25 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Society should encourage Women to become single moms.Growing up without any positive masculinity figure as effective as father or communal where there are a lot of father figures is going to hurt the kids in future and stunted their psychological growth as a full adult when they happened to grow up and stunted their ability to connect with males. You simply put a recipe for disaster | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Being called a “mommas boy” had more negative connotations than being called a “daddy’s girl”You know what? This is exactly my problem too with most women, like why they want to be "protected" by men while they can do so much on their own? Is it just "sexual energy"? So biological instinct puts limit on woman to be that "weak"? And they fine to infantilize themselves? In somewhat Lolita fashion? It kinda off-putting sometimes actually. That's why I love dominant woman because they're just unique and different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 10:08 AM |
| 2 | Being called a “mommas boy” had more negative connotations than being called a “daddy’s girl”Well that's just incredibly weird type of dynamics actually. I can't imagine babying a lot of people especially my future wife and kids if situation is like this. That seems incredibly exhausting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 10:00 AM |
| 28 | Anyone else hate the attack on male spaces?So they want to genocide us into 10 percent of human race? For what? So that they can control and invade the rest with polygamy? They're seriously fucked up man. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/25 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Question for woman: are the good looking guys always better in bed?"Sounds like he wasn’t good in the beginning but actually fumbling and unconfident. But then you gave him grace and “taught” him how to perform. A lot of girls will be inherently turned off by needy men who need direction and patient to perform well" Well that's how it works with most of virgin men trying to learn how to have sex, that's how it works in most of marriage where two parties are virgin and trying to learning together how to do it. What matters is not the knowledge you have, but the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Question for woman: are the good looking guys always better in bed?At least explain the threshold. Are you talking about Hunchback Notre Dame type of guy? skinny/scrawny guy? physically disfigured guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Sex Isn’t Special—You Just Think It IsSo it is mentally need then, not physiological. I think in that sex alone, what they need is not just putting your dick inside the hole, it's the content of it. The emotional intimacy, the connection. The mental and spiritual side of sex, that's what they're looking for. But I think in order to be categorized to be "basic primary need" as a whole, you need to put in physiological level instead of mental, which is upper than physiological, and human can survive without sex physiologically, what y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Sex Isn’t Special—You Just Think It IsSex is not the most basic primary individual survival need since virgins can live until death in 100 years old without any sex at all. You can't withdraw from water from more than 18 days in comparison. But it is important for the basic survival of our species at large, even smallest unit of a society as family itself. Survival for our own kind ofc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 03:32 PM |
| 12 | Q4M: Why don't males shoot their shot anymore?Seriously it's all about the perception of power. Man will do anything and be called dangerous because they are looked as "strong or aggressive" in many sense possible no matter how meek we can be, women are looked as "weak and meek" so they can do whatever the fuck they want and no one bats an eye even they are encouraged to do so. A seemingly weak people can manipulate the perception of power and influence the people psychologically and emotionally and often in intagible ways while the seeming… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 12:53 PM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.I thought when you said "why women has to solve men loneliness when it has to be them", you meant as women can't be friends with men, but turns up you meant strangers can't be friend with strangers? I guess I didn't understand your actual point in here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 01:56 AM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.Well maybe I will burst your bubble, but it was in college environment. It's just that in different subject classes we used to not meet in previous semester until the next one we are situated to be in similar class until in the moment we finally sit with each other in accident. So are you referring to strangers? I thought college or university environment itself is still bigger you might not often meet each other. Well if you refer to strangers then it might not work, but university itself is ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.Well they didn't initiate talking with all of us, constantly not appearing in our class, not even joining our events that often, but we often pull them up to make them not feel let out in next semester and they are start joining afterwards and feel less lonely at least. Although some of them decided not to continue another semester which we can't help. She was seeing me at random places, but often we met in class and it just happened that she was sit beside me at that time I made presentation. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 06:54 PM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.There are 5 of them in my college, especially in my class. And I had one of the girl friend who used to be so kind accompanied me when I was failed at presentation and she consoled me for that because I was making stupid jokes that almost insulted the teacher, but she knew that I actually just want to entertain people and she encouraged me even comforts me. She became my best platonic friend I share stories with, and she knew I was lonely too at some degree. By the way, yep welcome to Indonesia … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 06:41 PM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.Well perhaps because I grew up in very different environment than how we often look at how friendship actually works that's why I start to see something that works outside of our mechanism. But alright I'll keep that in mind since that's fascinating. I never seen that kind of mechanism before. I often have my lonely friends truly being approached and asked to join multiple times just like how you described as it's like kindergarten. It's very collectivistic in nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 06:28 PM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think."Why don't all the lonely men make friends with each other? Why must women be involved at all? " Why can't all the genders be friend to each other? Why throwing up on only one gender when you can have both? Oh you can even add transgenders on the group too, right? Which does work to some of circle groups I know in college, those men don't date the girls, they just friend with them platonically, even add the lonely ones to not feel left out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 06:13 PM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.Well nothing, it's just that I thought both of genders are responsible to solve it, as society at large in systematic way or even individually. Such as them not having supportive family figures (remember it takes a village to grow a child?) or simply male and female friends to solve their loneliness as they want somebody in their life, in platonic way. Unless if this loneliness is actually about not ever experience sexual or romantic intimacy which is much more difficult to solve and can't be ea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 06:07 PM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.So basically you don't want such responsibility to be thrown at you then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 05:59 PM |
| 0 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.I just wish we can force it up and make it work for us too to make things fair, although it has to go for another years and years of cultural or societal revolution of men's position in society. Edit : come on guys don't you want to turn the table and change something instead of stucking ourselves in long-term injustice? Why you guys don't like that? Maybe forcing isn't the right word, more like we fight for our rights | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 05:32 PM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think."Fine, then they can continue to lie and we'll continue to dismiss them because they're not being honest about what they want and constantly trying to crouch their complaints in 'loneliness'" But even if they are being honest about it, what will women react with that? "Ohhh you just want some pussy" "Ohh so do you want us to indulge you on that?" "Ohh what so we have to pity you for it? Do you want arranged relationship?" and answer that in sarcastic manner Most women will still be dismissive ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 10:20 AM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.This passive aggression of a men's group for the perception of we are stronger than them is just alienating those men who actually wanting or even yearning for their own communities because they focus too much on the forest and not to the tree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 09:33 AM |
| 18 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.If that's how you think of it, then it has to go both ways. It's also not a men's job to fix your agony and suffering either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 09:24 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand how people are attracted to personalityPersonality is a recipe of good and great sex, and also the buildup through it (the flirt, the chemistry, the communication, intimacy). The ones who are selfish and egotistical even no matter how sexy they are will not care about your need for contentment and pleasure you seek from them. I prefer having sex with high-beat, seductive, passionate personality with so much care and empathy to me because she cares a lot about my pleasure and I would love to serve her to reciprocate even if she's unat… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/25 01:25 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsBtw I am curious since this is a bit out of topic, but how do you define low value men? Should they be a bit disfigured or how is it different between the low and ultra low | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 05:52 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsWell reasonably but "attractive" can be an option if they at least have it from "average" as long as they are reasonable enough to take advantage of, since they're not too good but not too bad either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 05:47 PM |
| 2 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsAm I the only one who saw some low value men get used pretty much by some women because those women love the attention for the sake of it and feel like a God when those men want her sexually (for hook up, relationship, and so on) ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 01:20 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsHypergamic nature of relationship in majority cases is never fair for a man who lacks a lot of things in themselves But what am I going to do with it anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Being a feminine straight man can be roughMan you are just like me, but I love violent movies and noisy cars and motor races, it's just that I am not informed too much about automotive stuff, I just love driving from one city into another and do some adventure. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/25 06:59 AM |
| 1 | “Women are wonderful” effect…Well it seems that he's being sarcastic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 02:43 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Males avoiding women at work are sexistWhat about a man trying to avoid a woman who are bringing cameras in the gym recording tiktok videos so that they can file false accusations for staring at them while they just minding their own business or just happened to look at their camera and the women accidentally without staring them? And another women who got helped after failed to lift bench press or saving them from any accidents but instead they accuse us for sexually harassed them or looking at them as weak? I don't call that sexist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Some men will always be unappealing to all women in a romantic sense.LELLL Well I feel ashamed that even a quadriplegic can get laid with lots of women lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 12:39 PM |
| 1 | I don't believe the majority of women prefer average sized penisesBut that means 6.3 inches are still saved from getting cheat on than larger than average penises, they won't find discomfort, will they? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/25 09:53 AM |
| 1 | The bar is in hell for womenExecutive of what type of business if I may ask? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 02:30 PM |
| 1 | The bar is in hell for womenYour welcome to make you have a great morning 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 02:26 PM |
| -1 | The bar is in hell for womenIt could be many things : Ex-convict, punk girls, druggies who parties too hard in nightclub and drink beer like drink a water, basically women who are in transgressive underground society. And it's also could be liberal too if some men who don't like them are conservatives bcs they often feel disgusted with their colored hairs and transgressive lifestyle. Or they just don't like that tattoo take away the body from the natural beauty which most men prefer instead of multiple modifications women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 02:09 PM |
| 2 | The bar is in hell for womenIt's not "shitty" men, it's just a man who don't like tattoo aesthetic or they just don't like such woman who live in a lifestyle associated with how much tattoo she has. Some of them are uncomfortable with it and some of them have bad ways to express their uncomfortableness. Depends on what kind of men though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 05:53 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the blackpiller called Wheat Waffles?Good to hear :) | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/24 05:49 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the blackpiller called Wheat Waffles?You are kind of too deep sinking yourself into the theory until you can't see reason of marriage beyond money or exploitation. It's dangerous way of thinking, you might as well sink too deeply until you don't know how it feels like to breath normally. It's like you just don't see genuine relationship as something that is not even rare or uncommon. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/24 04:00 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the blackpiller called Wheat Waffles?Well i am going to ask since i am curious and it's been 1 year, do you have very good sex life and no sign of dead bedroom at all like that user named TheUnsecure suggested to you? Sorry if it sounds to private to ask | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/24 03:57 AM |
| – | In the west, if you haven’t had one girlfriend or boyfriend by 25, something is probably severely wrong with youOr that person has a priority for creating great career and focus on their passion and put aside the need of girlfriend or women partners for the same of achieving goal and improving also actualize themselves. You call that as something absolutely wrong? Touch some grass buddy Very late to a party? Tell that to 30s men who are successfully dating younger or older women after they pick them up from bar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingStill attractive to me though. Not bad at all, even 30s women are going to make themselves and that guy's hair wet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?What about those who are in 30 or beyond 30, I'm curious to know the statistics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 01:53 PM |
| – | It's crazy how a lot of people would rather be lonely forever than give up their mile long list of standards that they want in a partner. Is this really what the world has become?What's wrong for being single and alone for the rest of your life? I mean I get it, humans are social animals, but being social has a preference. People are fine being single because they are already well of with themselves and don't need another, it's just out of the needs or desires. You simply can't be able to imagine such life because you've never understand people who love solitude, clearly there's a gap of our understanding here maybe because you live in different social environment that e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 07:15 AM |
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