You as a man have to check off a laundry list of things to a potential woman while the woman says if you can't handle her when she's shitty you don't deserve her at her best.
A man must be tall, active, successful,strong, dominant, responsible, good with kids,good at sex etc etc etc. For a woman, if you can't handle her at her worst, you don't deserve her at her best.
Had an older woman follow me around at a bar telling me I was good looking and she loved how tall I was. After.a few.drinks she actually grabbed my crotch asking how big it was and I swear 3 seconds after her hand leaves my crotch and I'm about to punch a bitch, my best friend walks in and yells "AUNT JODI! HOW ARE YOU!" and gives her a big hug. Aunt Jodi is a sexual assaulting pig Ryan.
"I don't understand it. Every night I put on my sweat pants and t-shirt with my hair in a pony tail. I think he loves it when I dutch oven him. Why won't he fuck me? He is broken or gay." PFFFFT