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| 1 | how does a guy build an emotional connection with a woman?Thats exactly part of the journey of life. The balance of risk and reward. In order to practice you have to be vulnerable and risk the pain and suffering. Sometimes it will suck. But sometimes it will be neutral. And other times you will get lucky… and after time you will realize it was natural and you can see in a system rather than individually. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 05:34 PM |
| 14 | How can you test a girl to see if she would let you get laid/ become fwb?Lets say you are more friendly (know the person more or just have a better connection)… have you had instances of them playing along to be nice? Have any info on discerning ones that are playing along? I know the answer is to not worry and charge forward, and react based on what you see. But wanted to see what ppl had to say | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | how does a guy build an emotional connection with a woman?Think of vulnerability as a risk but also opportunity to connect. It is risk/reward like anything. You have to risk saying those “cringe” things because that cringe may be justified anxiety because you are being vulnerable. Practice opening up even if cringe. You may find it fails and then maybe you can rethink how you said it, and reword the vulnerability next time. And it may be girl/person specific. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 05:32 PM |
| 0 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathBy the extreme logic, you could say we will all die anyways, why not take a chance to enjoy life | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 01:51 PM |
| 4 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathI think it is the competition mindset we have. Too much focus on succeeding in seduction with maximum optimal efficiency. It forgets the emotional and softer aspects of this “fun” “game”. But to me its about the person, the person is fun not the game. The game ( whatever the hell that means) is usually a social framework to stage the showing of each other skills or abilities as well as learning each others’ communication style and learning to improve communication with one another. Communication… | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Does showing too much interest kill your game long termSo i struggle with this because i don’t like the comparison game, and have a lot more “collaborative” a style. For me relationships (once i am in them) are very natural and easy. But i am in a phase where i want a few friends and to focus on growing my social connections etc. but i think your mindset helps because there is a reality to the “marketplace” or “economic” aspect. I still can use my less comparison based framework but you really helped me see how i will assume things because of pretti… | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Slept with 20 women in one year: Truing to deal with bad effectsI think it is the nature of power… not necessarily gender. Its hard to shoot for attractiveness for men and women because it is the most sought after usually (or attractiveness + “ducks in a row” or whatever other parameters. It is just an aggragate of categories in my mind). To have both there is less to choose from so more competitive. But we all value different things and categories so it is a difficult optimization game. | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 02:43 PM |
| 2 | What’s your view on a partner having casual sex?That affects sexual attraction. This can too but a woman can just lie about it and u can live in this desirable virgin fantasy. I think the main point someone made is it can signify a lack of self control…. But people can grow and change. I think these are outdated ideals because we didnt understand STDs and also because of jealousy (which most people ignore or dont accept they can have). I think the thing that is rediculous is the hypocrisy of your statement. It makes logical sense but is assho… | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 03:05 PM |
| 2 | People Having a Hard Time Accepting That You’re Higher Value Now?Why torture people (it is likely to breed jealousy, or the jealousy is already there). Just let it be and if they feel better feeling alpha why not let them feel good? If they are rude to you that’s different, ask for respect or stand up for yourself/respect yourself. But get laid because you want connection/to have fun. That’s being the bigger person right? | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 01:54 PM |
| 3 | I have never seem a guy spit game like thisIll give it a look! Thanks! | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 03:27 AM |
| 1 | How to keep confidence when dealing with 10sAny suggestions where to find this? Just google or any other better avenues. Definitely seems useful and never thought of it | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 03:09 AM |
| 6 | Women that wear super revealing clothes in public. What does that mean?I feel like a good analogy is when some dudes carry around guns or body armour… to “signal” they look tough. These women are “signaling” their seductive power or sexiness… but like you said may not be wanting the approaches. But would welcome a hot guy or someone interesting if they were open to it. Thats my guess | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 05:04 PM |
| 6 | I have never seem a guy spit game like thisI think this was the final puzzle piece i needed. I really appreciate your response. I think the crazy behavior is the uncertainty for those who don’t understand what these things mean (i had held it inside while i practiced and asked on here… or at least best i could 🙃). I feel that if they taught the appropriate knowledge that it may help alot of men with feeling less crazy. There will always be those who are purposefully unethical, but i think the fast technological changes (and resulting rap… | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 03:37 PM |
| 13 | I have never seem a guy spit game like thisDo meetings just mean different instances as in 2 sets of 3 girls. I assume not meeting the same group multiple times. And how are you choosing the person to get the number? Just pick one? Get em all depending on the vibe? Or could asking them to choose(im assuming not this one) | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 02:07 PM |
| 40 | I have never seem a guy spit game like thisWhat is 2x3 or 3x2 set? | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it actually that hard for short guys?Yeah i thought you meant 100%, but i do think because of the changing norms of society (women working etc) what is attractive for instance is shifting to be less extreme than this 99% level. You are right that it is harder (from what i read) for intelligent/successful women, but that is because they also have higher expectations and intimidate some men. I think the time away at the job (less quality time available) may be less valuable than the success or resources it provides for women. I dont … | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Is it actually that hard for short guys?This stuff has never been quantified dont act like it is universal lol. How do you explain cuckoldry fetishes if submissive is always weighted and valued the same. I think there are generalizations that can be made accurately but not in a monolithic way. I was more thinking intelligence and success can definitely be attractive in women. On average i think they dont give as much of an attractive boost compared to men having intelligence/success. But ur going to have people with less common prefer… | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 12:13 AM |
| 9 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingThese are the stereotype based on the asymmetrical nature. Guys also value meaningful relationships. From my perspective it seems most women are seeking LTR anyways, so its easier to de prioritize. I did not have as many casual sex encounters when younger (which more women have likely satisfied earlier in life), and so it still has value to me (separate from the testosterone difference that affects this too). Do you think it is fair to say you may have had a different attitude to casual sex (jus… | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingI think there is knowing and feeling/experiencing. I think women may know of it but do not understand what the scope of the problem. They will never feel or understand the experience (except for lesbians?) in the same way. Just like how us men will never understand the scope and experience the predatory nature of men (on street and otherwise). All relative and exceptions apply etc etc | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Personally, how do you balance seeing multiple women?Thanks. Followup, how long do you go for or is there a minimum or maximum time you shoot for at resturaunt/cafe? I can’t instinctively feel a good endpoint for hangouts in general but especially in a casual context | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Personally, how do you balance seeing multiple women?Where do you take them for something casual focused? Bar? Resturaunt? Do you avoid activities like kayaking or whatever random other activity? | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 01:25 PM |
| 4 | Personally, how do you balance seeing multiple women?How do you talk about women friends? Like whats an example of something you bring up? | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 01:22 PM |
| 1 | How should I start involving sex into conversations to make it normal when trying to escalate?Yeah its on the man, but im wondering once you have the right signals (touch barrier, staring at eyes and mouth, sexual talk), do you want to focus on changing location to apartment, focus on escalating to kissing then changing location to apartment? And should i just ask everyone back to apartment after first date with the signals i mentioned? Better to be slower on first date wait till second? Do you assess who is looking to hook up outright better over time (im sure). Just trying to connect t… | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | How should I start involving sex into conversations to make it normal when trying to escalate?So im starting to finally see it. Ease into sexual topics until she does then its on the table to talk about (again in a calibrated way). Are there any things to avoid or do once you get to that stage? Was wondering what is left on first date or a third date. How to know when to pull on a first date? Or should i focus on waiting until third unless it becomes obvious (and what is obvious someone wants to go back home with you). I want to learn how to assess hookup signals better ot maybe its some… | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel like if you're attracted to someone they suddenly become this very special person who you have to try hard to not fuck up?The issue i have with this wording is, some of us (me) are not use to being romantic or sexual with normal people. So you have to either get advice thats more specific, or try a bunch of things on your own and deal with shame and embarrassment | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Stuck in a loop and want to dieI have similar issues. Maybe formulate a few topics you like to talk about ahead of time for when you get nerves. Also focus on what she likes (ask what hobby or movie/song show etc), and expand upon that. A book told me one method is to pick keywords out of a certain story and then shift it to a new random topic. If she is talking about how a kid was doing her homework in school, segway and say “oh man I didn’t ever turn in my homework, were you a goody two shoes in school or did you do anythin… | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Stuck in a loop and want to dieI’ve had some success, not as much as you. But i think some of us will have heightened anxiety. Practice and experiences will lower that anxiety and remove it entirely like for you. But another approach is to accept that you are going to be like that and plan accordingly. Also practice in that anxiety state so you can sit with it more. Its to get out there and do it especially when you don’t want to. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Why bad guys attract more Women?Can you give an example of a thing you’d say (banter or otherwise) that most men don’t say? | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 01:29 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]No you are being lazy. Just read the books so you can be confident in what you are doing. If it isn’t just performance anxiety then you need to focus on getting her to your bedroom because you said you’ve made out before. So beyond what I said it is reading ways to get her back there. Which i would say just practice saying do you want to go back to my place or watch X show at my place? If she says no dont worry about it try again next date/hangout or with a different person until you get a yes. … | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 03:38 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Read ‘She comes first’ book. Seriously just read a few books on how to please a woman, then you can be confident. You can then lie to yourself if you need to but you can just focus on being a horndog. Thats my strategy for you. Know how to do all the right foreplay, drive her crazy before finally getting in there. 1) know the “technical skills”, through reading/research. 2) focus on being horny and her body and nothing else. Shut that brain down. Focus on boobies. In a way mindfulness which remo… | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Gay men are interested in me, but women aren't?I’m taking a complete guess here, and it might be worded incorrectly. But based on the stereotype of Men(masculine) being the pursuers and women (feminine) being the pursued… you could say its not about attraction but my guess would be you are not recognizing the asymmetric aspect of dating. Women (again i am generalizing from my standpoint), do not approach because 1) they don’t have to. They are more defensive and concerned with screening threats as they have plenty of romantic interest (again… | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Any older female virgins (>25)? How do you get over it?Hey i feel i’ve been working on being more social too. Im anxious but decent at being social at the same time. Its weird. But firstly id say dont worry about being a virgin! Id think its hot but you can read some books (She comes first is one i read as a guy but can help you with communicating to a guy maybe if u are worried about that at all). Just do some activities u like, meetups with board games or some social things and just push yourself! Push thru the awkward and keep at it. Also you can… | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 04:30 AM |
| 1 | My weird unexpected strategy to get girls to approachOh no it’s gone! | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 06:05 AM |
| 2 | My weird unexpected strategy to get girls to approachCould you give an example of something you can pick up from a dance partner that translates into potential information about a relationship? I thought that was very interesting but never had that insight before. Also any advice to get over dance anxiety? I’ve been wanting to do more dancing, but unless it’s a structured class my go to is too much alcohol. Fascinating read for all your comments here, love your perspective. | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 03:59 PM |
| 3 | My friend said I should treat women harsher…?Be more aloof (or more balanced/slow). They are assessing trust and have had experiences (this is me guessing) of other men liking them right away then they jump in bed and get burned. Its a logical situation of being pursued first (on average) which comes from social pressures. Thats what you can think of in order to not exude neediness or whatever. Also they don’t want to feel as commited just in case and if you give signs like you are lovestruck that can worry them because who knows maybe you… | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 03:57 PM |
| 0 | The reason you’re having so much trouble finding a partner who likes youHaha i haven’t cracked the code yet, but that’s sounds awesome. I feel like this shows an example how with women they can sometimes move on quickly and you have to capitalize on the moment, which u did. Maybe u could have followed up same night with a “convenient excuse”, or maybe snapchat is fine too. | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 01:33 AM |
| 0 | The reason you’re having so much trouble finding a partner who likes youNice, how did the scenario play out to get to the kiss? And how did you ask? | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Im mostly attracted to intellectual ladiesWork in science/engineering etc | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How to proceed from noticing girl is attracted to back to my placeI think i’ll figure this out eventually, and it’s different. Maybe, but with how connected the world is i don’t feel it’s wise. I’m just extra paranoid | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | How to proceed from noticing girl is attracted to back to my placeYou mean like grocery store? I guess i was trying to learn the whole hookup the same night thing. But i should do more of the organic meet people in public and go on date thing too | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | How to proceed from noticing girl is attracted to back to my placeThanks I appreciate it. Just need to fight alot of anxiety. I think what had me extra self conscious was dancing with her in front of these two guys(that were her friends). I prob shouldve just been confident but i froze thinking of looking weird in front of them. Im not use to escalation in public. | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 01:35 AM |
| 0 | How to proceed from noticing girl is attracted to back to my placeI don’t think i wrote it correctly… i did not stalk her. I more noticed her looking at me then followed(or approached as you say) to the dance floor and she seemed to be giving off good vibes and even danced into me (as in grinded her butt into me). I don’t know for sure. And i did make conversation (asking what she did for work and a few other small talk things… but didn’t know where to go from there) I ended up freezing up, getting nervous and leaving. May not have been a chance to pull becaus… | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 01:07 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I don’t really get hit on either. Completely different because i’m a guy but it does suck sometimes i agree. But if you flirt with some guys, some will flirt back. It may not feel as rewarding because maybe you think it isn’t them approaching you… but that it still will feel good and then maybe you will start to subconsciously give off a different vibe and that will make people approach you subconsciously. Part of me is telling myself this, i think we all need to put ourselves out there more | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Good “bets” to make with womenYeah that makes sense. I think it would be easier for me to go in w that mindset of kiss focus rather than back to my place focus. How many dates do you do like this then? The cliche 3? Also im assuming based on feeling but if u wanted to set a guideline when starting out? | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Good “bets” to make with womenNo i think it was after the touchy feely arm around moment because that made me think it was a good sign to. But at that moment i was freezing up because in my head i was thinking she wants me to kiss her (she even said ahh you look like you are overthinking). I felt awkward cause it felt really public and im a bit shy but maybe i should have went for it. It absolutely sounds like the better time to ask to come back though. | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Good “bets” to make with womenI already did a peck on the lips to end date #1. I think i just get confused knowing how to read when to ask someone back or if i ask her back after date one if i need to wait to not seem so pushy. | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 04:20 PM |
| 2 | How to make my boyfriend hot and botheredYou could try to convince him that you enjoy it he might be into it. It’s hard to fight the mindset that makes you resist “dominating” someone. But if he is thinking it’s for you… it might help. Maybe not but that could be the right framework | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 10:29 PM |
| 3 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.Just if there is an optimal time of night (7pm vs 11pm)… i assume it doesn’t matter | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 09:00 PM |
| 5 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.That makes sense. Do you see any issue going to the same bar repeatedly trying these things… like looking slimy or gross? That’s one thing that makes me a little hesitant to practice this more often is gaining some kind of reputation. I’m finding i am a bit behind the curve reading these social situations. Also do you find there is a better time to close girls? Like later at night because they want to enjoy themselves for a bit, or maybe earlier so you have some time to build rapport, or it does… | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 05:34 PM |
| 8 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.Thanks this helps alot. My guess is the bar is just the more practical course of action, unless you are flooded with girls on the apps and can sacrifice 90% of them. Which maybe i am in that situation but still need to grow an abundance mindset (I’m working on it). | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 03:07 PM |
| 22 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.How did you transition from bar to your house? A simple want to get a drink back at my place? Also for the girl you sensed was pretty into you, how would you invite her directly to your house? (I assume from Hinge/bumble) | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 02:45 PM |
| 7 | I was told I have "no game"I’m in a very similar situation to yourself… there are books like no more mr nice guy and some others. It’s the confidence thing as well as reading people. But because it deals in the land of emotion it takes wisdom/experience or like you said… practice | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 10:28 PM |
| 1 | I have a hiking date planned how do I end it with a kiss or makeout?Any good resources on improving kino? Especially in a bar setting? | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 07:59 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah i’ve still got some youth left in me but im 1 year from 30… and after being in a relationship for such a long time and never having done any of this i’ve been feeling anxious to make quick progress. I think last nite was a really huge leap forward for me so i’m really happy. I was that close to closing too! I dont even remember what she looks like, i was distracted by… you can guess. I’m motivated to go out again tonite and maybe put in little effort to see if i can make something happen at… | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 07:49 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]What are the best vacations for gaming women specifically? | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Dammmmmm i did not realize that missed opportunity haha. That’s great to know for next time thanks. Makes so much sense in hindsight but during i was just like “ooh this is sexy”. 🤦♂️. | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 07:26 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Thanks! I bet that would have been good to try. What if it is too loud, even in the bar area for conversation? How would that change those steps? And more importantly how does this change when i’m solo and she is dancing w her friend(just hope she is interested enough to abandon friend? Or does friend come along and u convince that to eventually happen?) And in my instance i had a friend with me so how do those steps change with that or be improved upon with a wingman?(im assuming he just distra… | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Should I try harder, or is she just not interested?After joking, flirting or touching, you just ask her back to your place? What words do you use? I was in an instance where this girl was into me at a club for instance, started interlocking fingers and seemed to be into it. May not mean anything but how do you suggest escalating to bedroom here? Should I have whispered let’s get out of here? She was also grinding w her friend in this example. What if she was isolated (Another was with me). | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 01:57 PM |
| 7 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):Thank you for posting this. It’s exactly how i’ve been feeling getting out of a LTR and feeling so lost, and i’ve always felt like i missed out on college years of fun and irresponsibility. I want to be “irresponsible” now but i’m afraid everyone around 30 is done with that… and idk if younger people would allow me to integrate as well. This gives me hope, and assures me that maybe focusing on career for my 20s wasn’t a total waste. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 06:52 PM |
| 12 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):This gives me such hope. House parties? | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 06:48 PM |
| 2 | When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation.How do u talk about relationship w/out ex’s in the convo? Just what you want/like in a conversation? And follow up, what if you want to leave casual relationship on the table how does that shape the “relationship” part of the talk then? | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Girls wont reply on Insta but in person there was lots of chemistry. What the hell..Maybe you can organize a outdoor group social to make such a thing possible. If you are in this situation (restrictions) alot of people probably are and if u get creative people might follow, and itll also have an impressiveness/go association for you | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Successful guys; what hobbies or interests do you have?That makes sense! Ima youtube it for the basics then find something. Let me know if you learn the escalating part | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Successful guys; what hobbies or interests do you have?If you go to salsa solo, do you just randomly approach a someone who seems solo and ask? Do you have any specific ways you approach that helps here? Have been wanting to take a stab at salsa and other dance | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Successful guys; what hobbies or interests do you have?I think it can help w awareness and reading the other person (being more focused on cues and cutting out anxious feelings). | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Keep in mind the fact that girls sometimes do shit that makes absolutely no sense and there is nothing you can do about it.Yeah that makes alot of sense. I think maybe it’s miscalculations because i’d think “losers” would be the ones fighting in the first place... so she is sabatoging both relationships in the example here for the high of attention maybe? But yeah it makes sense. I’ve got a lot to learn 😂 | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 01:36 AM |
| 8 | Keep in mind the fact that girls sometimes do shit that makes absolutely no sense and there is nothing you can do about it.What confuses me about this... is say it backfires on her and he doesn’t go for her... and she just put on this competition in front of her BF. Isn’t that going to strain the relationship? If its not that valuable to her j understand its a risk/reward situation. And even if BF puts up w that... won’t she be less interested because of BF putting up w that? Idk lot of confusion how this plays out positively over many iterations but id love to hear another perspective. | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Most common mistakes men make on datesMajor challenges are.... not getting raped. Its completely different and there are major disadvantages... you and i are just use to and focused on our really shitty problems. Empathy will help you realize that and allow you to improve your connection w women as well | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Hmm really. So ill keep focusing on my career and be successful to help w/ that part lol. Thats interesting and makes sense. Thanks for the hand delivered fun facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?So maybe im wrong because i was using my gut as a reference. However... what % of that is because of a guy cheating or girl vs mutual etc. idk we should just all be more forgiving and not worry about these things as much it is more stress than it is worth (although i guess it isnt as avoidable for some people...?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I mean look at all the men that leave and then remarry younger. It isn’t just resentment but I think it might be a part of the messy reality as well. Edit: i think temptation is more the issue. And it can grow bigger if there is resentment. But temptation will always be there when it presents itself and as you age that risk probably becomes greater if you arent as commited. Life is funny like that i guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 12:04 PM |
| 2 | The total lack of parenting in dating.I feel i have a very similar situation, and i’ve been learning now after a long break up. Pandemic has not made learning easy though... | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 11:56 AM |
| 1 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongOh stop, people here take things too seriously. You can be upset post breakup, i think the issue is making it so public because of the wrath of the interweb. But as long as she gets over it and doesn’t mention it or have the attachment when it matters it should be fine i’d think. Now if she puts him on blast publicly that’s a different thing. This might help her get over him faster if it’s closure. I might be biased cause i think it is cool. | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Compatibility and matches in dating and sexYeah i do well in person. Never realized the chemistry i could form in person until i broke up and had a different mindset all of a sudden. But i never really texted people in the past so i feel kinda stunted digitally... and always avoided social media for a unique anxiety reason. Now i’ve felt the need to use it more and have been slowly catching up. Definitely agree w the factual convo not generating chemistry. I think for me i never feel confident enough digitally to make those leaps of fait… | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Compatibility and matches in dating and sexYeah i always default to a more “fact” or interview question and lose sight of the emotional part. Thanks for the response this helps alot. The open ended part in your post also is a good idea for me to focus on. | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 06:07 AM |
| 3 | Compatibility and matches in dating and sexThank you for this, it was an amazing read and really helpful in a time i haven’t been able to practice or learn this stuff (or so it feels like). Just got out of a very long term relationship and then pandemic struck. Do you have any suggestions for practicing on online dating where my emotional reading is worse compared to in person? The whole covid thing makes it hard for me to figure out what to do but i am trying to practice anyways because why not. Maybe trying to strike up more random con… | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 04:42 AM |
| 15 | Sometimes, it’s just not worth pursuingStill can’t confirm this isn’t true in a sense. I definitely had this thought as a kid as well. | /r/seduction | 29/11/20 05:40 PM |
| 2 | A new perspective on approaching woman?Almost like a “set and setting” situation | /r/seduction | 27/11/20 09:49 PM |
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