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Or I am like every other human who has ever existed. Humans, like many other animals, are biologically social creatures.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/01/21 10:53 PM
-1

Lol, better than living alone and unfulfilled.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/21 05:22 PM
-10

Childless marriages are fucking awesome. My wife and I are both decent earners and have been able to basically do whatever we want, when we want, and use our shared expenses to lower our overall cost of living. She cares more for my well-being than a roommate or business partner, and keeps me mentally and emotionally stable. It’s a great situation. Find someone who has the same goals and who brings as much to the table as you do.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/21 01:09 PM
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For real. For some people, having to choose a “housewife” form of living is a form of “slavery” in the same way. Basically shitty marriages will leave at least one person feeling taken advantage of. Good marriages are a partnership.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/21 12:02 PM
29

Almost all contracts that have been deemed unenforceable by a court, had at least one lawyer saying it was legitimate.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/05/20 12:54 PM
9

Thank you for sharing that. I hope things have gotten better.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/12/19 11:16 AM
12

Unfortunately all of her poor decisions will affect her children.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/11/17 10:05 AM
647

Borrowing money from acquaintances just to go out to the bar? That's not a red flag, that's a flag on fire.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/05/17 04:20 PM
1

You can thank religion and republicans for teaching kids that safe sex is bad and that God will help 'in mysterious ways.'
/r/PussyPassDenied25/05/17 04:17 PM
2

If a driver rates a passenger low, then they won't get paired up again. If you write uber a letter detailing how bad your experience with a rider was, they might do something more about it.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/17 07:48 AM
1

It doesn't matter who HR is. They care way more about protecting the company from being sued than they do about not offending a manager. Especially for a ridiculously easy lawsuit that would be.
/r/MensRights16/01/17 04:01 PM
2

Let's be real here... High school boys AND girls are entitled assholes. Teenagers tend to think of themselves as the center of the universe.
/r/MensRights05/07/13 08:58 PM
-1

Becoming old doesn't make you a saint, but it would have been reasonable to amend the bill to look out for old divorcees until they die off. It doesn't mean we have to carry on bad legislation into the future.
/r/MensRights05/05/13 05:51 PM
6

Man, it sure sucks to have to be an adult huh?
/r/MensRights05/05/13 02:34 AM
3

I would just post a men's only sports (or whatever is popular with guys in your area) and beer party. Have every pay a nominal fee at the door (all proceeds going to a cancer charity) and have a blast. I think that would be the best counter to a gendered charity event.
/r/MensRights14/04/13 01:05 AM
16

Basically He/She means "Pretend you didn't see this, things like this cant possibly happen"
/r/MensRights11/04/13 10:22 PM
5

I feel like not knowing the full situation, specifically about the dowry demands and the child, makes it really difficult to have a full understanding of the situation. This isn't like a typical western marriage, and perhaps shouldn't be judged like one.
/r/MensRights07/04/13 08:55 PM
2

One of the things that really gets me is that it doesn't seem like she had any vendetta against him. He was just a pawn in her game. And she won.
/r/MensRights06/04/13 02:40 AM
3

You're telling some guy on the internet "Fuck You" for having some different opinion than yours, and you think I'm the one being dramatic?
/r/MensRights01/04/13 04:02 PM
279

That's what happens when men are viewed purely as a money making utility for the family. They can't be victims because they are basically living appliances.
/r/MensRights31/03/13 07:55 PM
70

I'm bracing for downvotes, but this whole thing seems fucked. If he didn't do it, then it's fucked up to convict someone based solely on one person's verbal testimony. If he did do it, then using video evidence of a wedding (where you are supposed to pretend to be happy around family that you may otherwise hate) seems like a shitty standard to judge behavior. I'm not sure where I stand on this. It seems like definite gray territory.
/r/MensRights27/03/13 03:47 PM
1

I think it was fair, because in school you can't have an "eye for an eye" mentality. Kids need to be taught that violence is not an answer (even if it is an appropriate reaction). This happens all the time in same sex disputes as well.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 05:41 PM
4

I agree.... But seriously, could you be around 2003 Dennis Rodman for more than a day? (that was a joke)
/r/MensRights08/12/12 08:12 PM
2

She's been charged with a felony, given a restraining order, and been put on electronic monitoring with possible additional charges. Not exactly a slap on the wrist. My main concern is that she didn't have the restraining order placed sooner. It seems like the guy certainly reached out to police enough times.
/r/MensRights01/12/12 03:17 PM
1

I had it done at 16. Completely my decision and 8 years later still very happy with it. I wish I had it done as an infant because it is VERY painful to go through as an adult. I know my experience won't be popular here, but it's the honest truth.
/r/MensRights30/11/12 10:38 AM
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Wtf kind of evidence put him in jail? She just made up a random story about what happened when she was ten and that was all they needed? That is some scary bullshit.
/r/MensRights26/11/12 01:56 PM
2

From my male and female friends it seems like women give out blow jobs way more easily then men who consent to eat them out. Guys are always saying how they only do it within a relationship because they don't want to be eating out someone who it getting around, while most women I've been with treat it as go-to foreplay.
/r/MensRights22/09/12 02:54 PM
1

I never understood these things. I mean, I guess it's makes these women feel empowered, but a rapist won't really care how empowered you feel when he's picking out people to attack. No one ever asks to be raped, and I honestly don't think anyone was really implying that it was these women's fault, they were just talking about cold, dirty truths. These demonstrations really do nothing to lessen the chances of anyone being attacked by a rapist. In fact, I'd imagine rapists are probably big fans of…
/r/MensRights13/09/12 04:31 PM
2

Judging by his post and comments, it doesn't look like they really tolerated it very much.
/r/MensRights13/09/12 04:20 PM
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I'm as much for men's rights as anybody, but are you really saying what these men are doing isn't wrong or harassment? Would you be ok with women doing the same?
/r/MensRights10/09/12 12:43 AM
3

Maybe it's because I live in Texas, but most women don't actually get offended by offering help unlike what you hear by reading stuff online. I have however, seen many men yell things out of cars to women just walking down the street. I'm not saying that those ultra feminists don't exist, it's just that comparing an uncommon thing with a much more common one seems misleading.
/r/MensRights10/09/12 12:34 AM
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Yeah, we should all fight for the right to verbally harass people. This is what the men's rights movement is all about, empowering assholes. /s You would hate it if a woman openly harasses a single dad in park with his kids, but you don't see a problem with men sexually harassing women in public? Talk about double standards....
/r/MensRights09/09/12 08:55 PM
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In all honesty, is anybody taking this seriously? It's basically a femdom fetish post on some lame poll site/message board. You could go on Mr Poll or any of those other similar sites and find the same thing. It's annoying when this stuff gets posted here because it gives the impression that we are desperately seeking things to get mad at. There's plenty of legitimate stories out there to be concerned with, don't waste our time with this shit.
/r/MensRights31/08/12 01:59 PM
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The problem I have with the financial abortion idea is that, unlike an actual abortion, the mans child still gets born. The child still has to grow up, get fed, go to school, wear clothes, ect... . With women, they get the option (yes it's unfair, but nature isn't fair in this regard) to terminate the whole life of the fetus, therefore terminating all of the related costs of pregnancy and raising a child. A financial abortion simply isn't the same as a real one because the end result ends up wit…
/r/MensRights27/08/12 12:17 AM
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So how would that happen if the man decided he didn't want the kid? Forced abortion? I get the ideology behind why you want, I just don't get how that could practically happen. What specifically would you think would be appropriate to do to handle that situation?
/r/MensRights26/08/12 09:33 PM
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I see that, and I'm all for that BEFORE conception(male birth control pills, vasectomy, condoms, ect). After conception how would that possibly work? Everything after takes place in the woman's body. You shouldn't be able to force someone to endure pregnancy (provided abortion is legal) and you shouldn't be able to force someone to endure an abortion. I guess I just don't see the solution, what would you suggest?
/r/MensRights26/08/12 07:41 PM
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Yeah, like I said, it's more of link/troll bait around here. Most logical people realize that sperm doesn't magically appear inside a woman and that consenting to unprotected (even one sided unprotected) is putting yourself at a major risk. Its mostly about the amount of trust you choose to put into your sexual partners.
/r/MensRights26/08/12 04:06 PM
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Not to drag this out, but what exactly do you disagree with?
/r/MensRights26/08/12 03:53 PM
1

I think you're agreeing with me? What you said aligns almost completely with what I said. Like I said, once the man cums in her, the ball really is in her court. There's nothing you can do to change that other than keeping your sperm out of her.
/r/MensRights26/08/12 03:47 PM
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If you look at the comments to a lot of submissions supporting that notion you'll see that most people are logical and agree with you. A lot of the gripes about child support aren't about the act of supporting a child, it's about the way it's carried out and the way people abuse the system. Many women have tried to use child support as a way of revenge against former partners and have even stuck them with supporting children they didn't even father. There's also the fact that men don't usually g…
/r/MensRights26/08/12 03:27 PM
3

She's pretty stupid for doing what she did as a married teacher, but still, seeing as the students were of legal age, she shouldn't be going to prison. Her husband is also an idiot for sticking around.
/r/MensRights18/08/12 11:23 AM
1

Is this the onion? How's about letting my bathroom habits be my own private business. I can use my equipment however I feel comfortable and I will never feel guilty for that.
/r/MensRights17/08/12 05:15 PM
2

I feel the same way about those Dr Pepper 10 commercials. Wtf does a soda have to do with being a man?
/r/MensRights10/08/12 03:39 PM
3

As a bi guy I do agree with a lot of what you said. Guys are generally easier and more fun to date because they have different expectations than most women do. It's usually more relaxed and the sex is definitely better and more direct. But I will mention that crazy/asshole behavior is not gender specific and the only two people I have been able to truly love have both been women. I have had awesome experiences with women and terrible dramatic experiences with men. Being a shitty partner is more …
/r/MensRights05/08/12 04:44 PM
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The image seems to be describing someone who was in the act of raping. If you are caught trying to rape someone, you ARE a rapist. There's a big difference between being accused of something and being caught doing something.
/r/MensRights30/07/12 03:03 PM
5

In all honesty, a girl who posts this definitely isn't worth dying for.
/r/MensRights30/07/12 02:47 PM
1

That's true, and exactly what's pushing it forward.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 05:34 PM
2

Couldn't she be arrested for attempted rape, or at least coercion?
/r/MensRights24/07/12 04:31 PM
2

Commenters on these sites are always terrible. Have you checked out the regular comments on CNN, Fox, or MSNBC for any given story? They are all sexist, racist, homophobic or just filled with religious zealots. The story itself gives the guy a fair view, makes him seem like he was just reacting to a high stress situation (though I don't agree with what he did). All this judging by comments is really stupid. Most sites don't have an up vote (and more importantly) downvote system like reddit has, …
/r/MensRights24/07/12 04:27 PM
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It originated from the time when most women were housewives and the men generated the income. Whenever they would divorce the woman would often be forced into poverty (with children), giving men considerable leverage in the marriage. Alimony was meant to be a way to compensate women (legally, the lesser earning spouse) for thier sacrifice of abandoning the workforce to stay at home and raise a family. It also gave women more courage to leave a marriage, without feeling like they would be homeles…
/r/MensRights23/07/12 08:21 PM
1

I hope you're not a fireman or a cop. I'd hate to have validate my character for you to be able to save me.
/r/MensRights23/07/12 12:51 PM
2

An is used when preceding a word beginning with a vowel. A is used when preceding a word with a consonant. An apple A banana A hero
/r/MensRights23/07/12 08:00 AM
2

Solid advice though
/r/MensRights22/07/12 09:20 PM
4

That's not necessarily how being a hero works...
/r/MensRights22/07/12 09:08 PM
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It is shitty to expect a man to sacrifice himself for a woman, I just don't like the focus being on the genders of those involved rather than the act itself. Also, my ex girlfriend thought at one time that my life was in immediate danger and she pushed me out to save me, theoretically sacrificing herself. In reality there was no actual danger and she was completely mistaken, but still, she was willing to give her life for me on a split seconds notice. It might not be a common notion, but it does…
/r/MensRights22/07/12 06:53 PM
2

Im pretty sure I've read stories where this has happened to women. I think this one was treated as especially notable because of this guy's celebrity status.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 06:36 PM
9

Yeah, we don't need valor or heroism being passed on to the future.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 06:26 PM
8

I work at a news station and haven't heard anything about that
/r/MensRights22/07/12 06:24 PM
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Nothing wrong with protecting someone you love. I would hope I could react the same way.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 06:24 PM
3

I've always said that if I have kids I'm going to raise them to be courteous and polite to anyone, not just a certain gender. Hold doors open for anyone behind you, always offer your seat to someone who looks like they need it more than you, let someone else go first, but only because you're polite, not because you owe it to women as a man. I feel like real chivalry should be used to make a specific person feel special or singled out. Treating that one person better than everyone else because th…
/r/MensRights17/07/12 02:29 PM
2

Sorry man, you obviously seem to have a great handle on yourself. I have no idea why I would have assumed you were a child.
/r/MensRights17/07/12 09:37 AM
1

Ah, forgot it was still summer break. Nevermind then.
/r/MensRights17/07/12 05:40 AM
0

There's a ton of crazy radicals on both sides. If you get scared from this, then you are validating it. Things against men are bad, but there is no possible way you could do anything like this to half of the population. This is just... really really stupid.
/r/MensRights16/07/12 03:03 PM
0

Females, women, ladies.... That's what they are called. Please don't call them "The Important Sex". It only makes us all look childish and petty. That attitude does nothing positive for the men's rights movement.
/r/MensRights16/07/12 02:29 PM
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Yeah, tried that. Just got more pixelated and unreadable. Im looking at this through alien blue, does that cap the resolution on some images? (or am I doing it wrong?)
/r/MensRights01/07/12 06:00 PM
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I usually don't bitch about these poor res images, but how the hell did y'all read this? Edit: Alien Blue and safari displayed it really badly. Saving it to my photos worked perfectly.
/r/MensRights01/07/12 05:19 PM
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Is this really offensive? Really? C'mon guys, it's this kind of complaining that makes us all look like whiney jackasses. This is just a dumb image, I can't even force myself to care about it. Let's talk about real shit and get off this petty Facebook shit. People ARE allowed to have a sense of humor, and one of the things that always bothered me about the mainstream feminist movement was their ability to make everything so thoroughly politically correct that nothing could be funny without it be…
/r/MensRights29/06/12 06:45 PM
-6

Yeah, I found that hard to believe.
/r/MensRights17/06/12 10:46 AM
1

Yes. This is important.
/r/MensRights16/06/12 11:11 AM
2

Does anybody else get bothered that it's called "reverse" discrimination. Yeah, it's a small beef, but discrimination is discrimination, regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights05/06/12 01:51 PM
6

Well, about 34% of statistics are made up on the spot.
/r/MensRights03/06/12 02:49 PM
1

There's all sorts of crazy people (yes, even professionals) who have stupid ideas for ruling people that no sane people would follow. Nothing really to see here.
/r/MensRights30/05/12 08:53 PM
2

Honestly, if I had a human brewing inside me, making me huge and screwing with all my hormones, I wouldn't mind people giving me a break like this. I don't find anything wrong with accommodating less than able bodied people.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 03:46 PM
1

Ok, saying "just as much" is quite a stretch. Currently about 3.5% of adults in the US identify as gay (gay, lesbian, bi). That's still a considerable amount of people. I'd be willing to bet that more closeted homosexuals would come out when the idea of being in a gay relationship becomes more accepted and less taboo.
/r/MensRights26/05/12 05:42 PM
3

That's fine. I just like any movements that chip away at the traditional roles of gender. I see a slightly conservative slant in this sub, so I thought this point might make some people think of this as more than a religious/moral issue. In all honestly I'm not really for the institution of government sanctioned marriage for anyone. I think the sanctity of marriage should only be valid in the eyes of whatever religious institution you adhere to and the government should just see it as a contract…
/r/MensRights26/05/12 03:24 PM
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I think fighting for gay rights could be a major positive step for Men's Rights in general. It seems like a lot of anti-male sentiment comes from the stereotypes men face when it comes to relationships and the "common" male attitude towards women. Imagine a future where judges deal with just as much homosexual domestic issues as heterosexual ones. The obvious choice to side with the mother wouldn't be so prevalent if both were mothers or if the mother didn't exist (egg donors/adoption). I could …
/r/MensRights26/05/12 01:50 PM
3

You kind of wonder if the school could just sue her back. I mean, it basically amounts to a massive scam. It's a good thing I'm not a judge, I would throw her to the wolves.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 06:03 PM
2

Sounds like harassment. I'd say get a restraining order. She may have lies, but you'll have real documents.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 05:20 PM
10

I haven't read all the stories about this, but are they actually refusing to prosecute? I thought this was a fairly recent development and that they were "investigating" what actions to take next. Again, if someone has info of them refusing any potential penalty for her I'd like a source. Edit: read your response. That IS sickening. And really guys? Downvotes for asking for a source? There's a lot of trigger happy posts that go on here, I think it's important that we understand all the facts bef…
/r/MensRights25/05/12 05:15 PM
1

I believe that legalizing gay marriage could have a major positive effect on family courts for men. Though, it would take a while.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 06:30 PM
3

After reading the article it seems like this is very consensual and based around these guys' fantasy of being with a domineering woman. Seems like a more vanilla way of living within a fetish. Some guys like this sort of thing, I don't really see anything wrong with it. (Now, if they tried to make this a mainstream thing or make this an expectation of men, then there would be a problem)
/r/MensRights21/05/12 05:52 PM
3

Go and try it. If not you can get a block on her number through your phone company. Whatever you do, stay away from her as much as possible. Shes going to start feeling really sorry for herself over the prospects of raising a kid on her own and pregnant women (despite the circumstances) can gain a lot of sympathy. Remember that you still have so much more life outside of her messed up choices and that you owe her nothing.
/r/MensRights21/05/12 03:48 PM
4

Agreed. We already know that radical bigots exist on both sides. It's not news. Focusing on that is basically micromanaging a movement, not to mention that it's just asking for troll bait
/r/MensRights21/05/12 02:20 PM
1

I didn't think anyone was arguing
/r/MensRights21/05/12 12:19 PM
2

Very true. But the statistics show that it happens much more frequently in men's, and male prison rape seems to be the type that is most trivialized. No prisoner (or any person) deserves rape, regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights21/05/12 11:21 AM
3

No worries. http://www.thesunchronicle.com/articles/2012/05/17/news/11502417.txt 10th and 11th paragraph.
/r/MensRights18/05/12 08:36 PM
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We are not barbarians. To punish someone by making forcing them to have sex is degrading and inhumane. We, as a modern society should be above this.
/r/MensRights18/05/12 08:13 PM
3

Just gonna add that he DID admit to licking her breasts and having consensual contact with her. Getting involved with the girlfriend of the guy you're trying to lock up is VERY stupid for a man in his position. Not that she isn't scum, but he walked right into this trap.
/r/MensRights18/05/12 05:26 PM
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Good to hear that this is being seen as more than a hilarious joke and default part of the male justice system. I hate that society thinks men deserved to be raped for even petty crimes.
/r/MensRights18/05/12 05:11 PM
9

Just to add to this, I had the opposite treatment growing up. My parents circled my sisters like hawks and left me to figure stuff out. It also may have been that I was the youngest, but I definitely had way more freedom and privacy than they did. I think my dad warned my mom to not go looking for certain things that she didn't want to see.
/r/MensRights15/05/12 10:05 AM
8

Are you still living with her? If not, you need to get rid of that stuff. It won't help you heal
/r/MensRights12/05/12 12:42 PM
15

He tried to deny her the right to vote and JUMPED in front of the car to do so. He deserved it.
/r/MensRights09/05/12 11:19 PM
4

This is basically what I'm talking about. It seems like an undistributed middle type of fallacy. Just because a movement, a politician, and a party can share certain qualities doesn't make them similar to another. I feel that republicans can support MR causes much easier because thier base is generally older and supports more traditional gender roles. Traditional gender roles are NOT equality. We need to move from the past and present into a future where things can be equal. I feel like going to…
/r/MensRights06/05/12 01:55 PM
1

It says they were cleared on DNA evidence and that they arrested the wrong people. That sounds like a reasonable reason to drop charges to me.
/r/MensRights04/05/12 02:29 PM
1

Chose to have mine as a teen. No regrets at all (except some very painful morning woods)
/r/MensRights30/04/12 01:50 PM
3

The statement does sound misguided, but does make better sense in the context of the situation. This girl was publicly humiliated in a way that could very well last for the rest of her life. There's no telling who saw those, who saved them, and who might try to later use those against her. It should be treated as a serious crime. I am totally in agreement with how this went down, it's just that the one particular statement made it sound like a woman's privacy is more important than a man's. Seei…
/r/MensRights22/04/12 04:29 PM
1

The argument that people who want this to pass only want lower child support payments really got to me. Isn't time invested into your child worth more than money? I think choosing time with your kid over just cutting a check is a respectable choice and shouldn't be looked down upon. It baffles me that people can argue so blatantly against equality.
/r/MensRights21/04/12 02:26 PM
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Maybe his fondness for naked boys is why he feels the need to force them to surgically alter their genitals the way he likes. I don't understand these pro circumcision advocates. I mean, I personally prefer to be cut (I chose to have it done) but I feel no need to tell anybody what to do with their OWN junk. I mean, it's like forcing women to get implants because some people think they look better. My penis, my decision.
/r/MensRights21/04/12 02:06 PM
3

I appreciate this lady recognizing what men do for her, and instead of seeing it as an insult (the damsel in distress thing) she feels as though men deserve the same courtesy. I hold doors for anyone approaching, with special consideration for old people, and offer assistance for anyone who needs it. That's how I plan on raising my kids too, that courtesy applies to everyone. And if you want to use traditional chivalry, use it to make a person feel singled out and special, not as a penance to a …
/r/MensRights20/04/12 11:37 AM
2

I know people are wanting the woman to pay and not the county, but I feel its important that the county has a penalty in this. The main way to peoples' minds is through their wallets, and maybe if they see the way they treat the accused as a potential liability, they might try harder to keep the damage to that person minimal. Hopefully this sort of thing might put ends to perp walks and long holding times for those accused of these crimes.
/r/MensRights20/04/12 02:05 AM
6

Come on guys... Are we gonna give every angry middle school blogger the attention they crave? This is just stupid.
/r/MensRights20/04/12 02:00 AM
1

This was 3 years ago. Sounds like some sensationalist nonsense
/r/MensRights20/04/12 01:52 AM
2

I'm not sure what this whole thing is implying, but friend zoning doesn't seem to be a problem for MRAs. It seems like if they had been friend zoned in the first place, most men wouldn't have found themselves in the MR situations they are in. MR issues don't usually seem to involve women refusing guys sex.
/r/MensRights17/04/12 01:42 PM
1

Eh, not worried. This would never happen. Men are still half the population and would only let chivalry and social structure push us so far. Extremists like this do more to rile people up and trivialize their own movement than any real harm.
/r/MensRights15/04/12 01:30 PM
5

I completely agree. I've always thought that the first step towards gender equality in family courts is allowing gay marriage. Divorces, domestic violence, custody disputes, and more will now have to be determined on the actual actions of each party, not the sex of them. It may take a few decades, but soon you will have judges who will have seen enough violent women and uncaring mothers to give any father a decent chance.
/r/MensRights12/04/12 12:50 PM
3

I'm sort of curious if there is any child support going his way.
/r/MensRights09/04/12 05:15 PM
4

You're not really real, are you?
/r/MensRights09/04/12 04:17 PM
2

Absolutely! And you are very welcome here. Beware that there are trolls and sexist douches that lurk around these parts, but for the most part we just want true equality. Thanks for your support, both sides have real issues and we need to work together to overcome them.
/r/MensRights09/04/12 11:47 AM
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She lost her kid, integrity and went bankrupt because he sued her. Still does not seem like even close to enough. If I was her current husband I'd be terrified to be alone in a room with her.
/r/MensRights09/04/12 11:39 AM
2

Take your evidence and get a restraining order before she can act. If you have any bruises or scars I'd recommend you get a dr to verify those too. I know it sounds extreme, but your consequences could be much worse if you don't.
/r/MensRights03/04/12 05:34 PM
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It's not about sympathy. Any reasonable person would sympathize with these men. It's about FACTS and misrepresentation. Sensationalist posts and half truths only muddy up our cause and common goals.
/r/MensRights03/04/12 05:22 PM
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Thank you. It's easy to mix certain injustices with other malicious injustices. False rape claims and false being convicted for murder aren't exactly the same.
/r/MensRights03/04/12 04:56 PM
1

I got that. I just though that with all these circumcision posts that I'd mention that I got the choice for myself, made that choice and was happy with it.
/r/MensRights03/04/12 08:39 AM
0

Based on what?
/r/MensRights02/04/12 02:32 PM
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No one should be altered without consent. I didn't infer otherwise. My parents had the same opinion and fully supported (and payed) for it when I decided I wanted it. Though, it was painful, and for that reason I wish it had been done when I was too young to remember, but my parents obviously would not have had any idea of what my wishes would have been. So all in all, I feel like I was very lucky to be afforded the choice.
/r/MensRights02/04/12 01:46 AM
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I did. I'm glad I had the option. Happy with the results. It was painful, but everything turned out great.
/r/MensRights02/04/12 01:37 AM
1

Eh, got cut at 16. Pretty happy with it. Downvoted? Sorry my honest opinion/experience doesn't mesh with what you want it to be. I am totally in support for men's rights, but maybe this attitude towards dissenting opinions has something to do with why this sub has such an awful reputation.
/r/MensRights01/04/12 11:22 PM
9

Should definitely report it to the police. I've never been to NYC but alot of trains have cameras that he could use as evidence.
/r/MensRights01/04/12 07:54 PM
1

Am I the only one that thinks its weird to scope out women that aren't readily visible? I mean, what are the purposes for this app?
/r/MensRights01/04/12 12:13 AM
9

No. Do you really have to ask? Or do you want to just bring out the people who would actually say yes?
/r/MensRights30/03/12 05:16 PM
3

I understand that many more males commit suicide than females, but is acknowledging these non descriptive individual stories really conducive to the movement? I mean, unless he was facing discrimination or some sort of divorce or injustice is this really relevant?
/r/MensRights30/03/12 04:56 PM
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I have a feeling he took the plea deal in order to avoid some sex offender sentence and potential separation from his kids. I'd bet the judge gave him a choice between the plea and a risky gamble in court. I know a guy who was a youth minister and got falsely accused of raping a girl in his congregation (he had asked her boyfriend to leave after he kept disrupting the service and she got very mad). He took the plea because they scared the shit out of him because he would have been labeled a sex …
/r/MensRights20/03/12 08:01 AM
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I guess it's hard to tell online, but no one is getting pissed off, it's just a discussion. And my whole point has been about free speech.
/r/MensRights19/03/12 06:40 PM
12

No, what makes it a matter of free speech is that he was punished at all. The initial post shouldn't have put him in this position.
/r/MensRights19/03/12 05:44 PM
55

Lets just say this guy is a major dick. How is it right to gag him of his free speech? Where do we draw the line at what people can say and what they talk about? It's like the whole westborough debate. Just because you don't want to hear it, doesn't mean you can control other people's opinions. The whole idea of gagging people like this is a practice I do not agree with. Btw, thanks for bringing in outside opinions. This place can become a circlejerk really fast.
/r/MensRights19/03/12 05:04 PM
13

Awesome. I hope the wife realizes how stupid this has made her look (and the judge too)
/r/MensRights19/03/12 04:55 PM
1

Well, they have to protest .... Something, right? I mean, we really need to get those arm pit laws off the books!
/r/MensRights19/03/12 10:33 AM
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The only thing I like about this is that the man can claim his money back if he is proven not to be the father. If she can't pay then he gets some of her property or she goes to prison. It's good to at least see some consequences for theft/paternity fraud.
/r/MensRights19/03/12 10:30 AM
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Maybe a link or something? How am I not going to believe them when you give me no information to go by? EDIT: So if you would have given us the chance to, you know, actually READ this for ourselves we may have seen that she DID test positive for knock out drugs which actually makes a rape allegation plausible. I'm a guy and have been slipped something like that before. I woke up in a stairwell with broken ribs, stolen phone and hardly any memory of what happened. Apparently I got myself into a l…
/r/MensRights13/03/12 04:50 PM
4

Wtf? So she actually was raped and used as a prostitute? I'm sort of confused because if I'm reading this right, the cops believe he DID rape her and but didn't charge him, while she spent time in jail for lying under duress. Please let me know if I have this wrong because none of this makes sense.
/r/MensRights13/03/12 04:40 PM
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Yeah, I found that pretty offensive. How would it sound if a man were to offer a big wet kiss to a victim he assaulted? Sounds like she is really trying to trivialize her actions.
/r/MensRights13/03/12 03:41 PM
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Wow, what provokes people to push their luck like that? She could have actually gotten away with it if she just toned down the bitchiness. Serves her right. I hope they make an example out of her. Do you have the source for those Facebook posts? That seems like a massively stupid move.
/r/MensRights13/03/12 03:36 PM
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It's hard to know if her story is true at all (it does seem weird for her to make a point of him being male) but I'm glad the guy decided to press charges. People need to see that it's wrong for anyone to attack anyone, and the gender of the victim does not absolve the crime.
/r/MensRights13/03/12 01:14 PM
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Thank you, the sensationalist posts and the whole practice of leaving out key facts on this sub is getting out of hand. I wish people would give us some credit for being as smart as most of us are, and not some trigger happy idiots.
/r/MensRights13/03/12 10:16 AM
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I'm just going to say it, let's please not rush in defense of Rush. Call me paranoid, but I see feminists trying to use things like this as bait so we can come to his rescue and then be lumped into the same bigoted category as him. Yes, the arguments toward free speech have some weight, but this seems like a trap that would totally sully the movement and turn a guy like Rush into some sort of representative for what we stand for (in the eyes of anyone paying attention). Guys like Rush DO NOT fig…
/r/MensRights13/03/12 10:02 AM
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Agreed
/r/MensRights11/03/12 06:01 PM
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It seems like you're crossing some lines though. You're focusing much more on the potential motivation, which is handled more in the investigation, than on the actual crimes that were caught happening, which is was led to their immediate charges and detainment. The girls were still charged for their part, they were just caught doing something less severe. The case is still pending and no one has been officially punished yet.
/r/MensRights11/03/12 04:49 PM
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Sure, or the boys could've have brought them along to look badass or impress them. That's all pure speculation that neither of us know for sure. That's why more info would be needed.
/r/MensRights11/03/12 04:31 PM
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What bothers me about that mind set is, while I may be bigger and stronger than the average woman, a weapon can quickly equalize size differences. Why would I trust someone who is unstable enough to attack strangers to not carry around a knife or a gun? I have people who depend on my life and family who loves me, and I am not going to risk serious injury by sitting and taking a potentially lethal attack just because the assailant is a woman. I would not be sorry for defending my life, be it a ma…
/r/MensRights11/03/12 03:19 PM
2

While I'm not sure I completely agree with it, (because the article doesn't have a whole lot of info on the girls' role) it seemed like the boys did the more severe crime by actually breaking and entering. I think I'd need more info on this to see if it was really unfair.
/r/MensRights11/03/12 12:21 PM
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What a boss Hmm... Not sure why I'm getting downvoted. He's showing that he did something great that he absolutely didn't have to do, just because he's a great father. He seems to have just as strong (if not stronger) connection to the kid that any adoptive father could have with a child. It doesn't look like this kid was forced on him by the courts or that it was something he got duped into. He genuinely loved this kid and did more for it than most men would be willing to do. He WANTED the kid,…
/r/MensRights10/03/12 02:10 PM
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Shouldn't freedom of speech come with a freedom of social consequence? From what I understand, no one is pushing legal action against Rush, they are just reacting to the exact things he said, and choosing not to hear him anymore. That seems like freedom to me.
/r/MensRights10/03/12 12:28 PM
1

While I actually agree that something should be done about people harassing strangers on the street, I just wonder where the line will be drawn. I hate assholes who cat call and embarrass strangers just to make themselves feel cool (or whatever they get out of it, because it definitely isn't sex), but I can already see this being used against unattractive people who may simply be walking up and trying to introduce themselves (the way normal, peaceful people meet new people). I know that's a sort…
/r/MensRights09/03/12 04:26 PM
4

100%
/r/MensRights09/03/12 12:16 PM
1

I'm gonna say let's not step up in support of Limbaugh. Seriously, that guy is a tool, and his comment was way out of line. It was really more of a liberal vs conservative values issue and much less of a gender rights one. I really don't want to be associated with someone who takes Viagra but looks down on women using birth control. Hypocrites do not help our cause.
/r/MensRights06/03/12 03:56 PM
3

I couldn't view the video, but from the article it sounds like the teacher was, in fact, using poor judgement. I mean, yeah, those questions might make learning math more interesting to some older kids, but to teach them to 3rd graders just seems like an obviously bad idea. I didn't find any comments about it being "boyish" or masculine. The guy really did seem sort of stupid for taking children's education guidance from an obviously offensive source. I'm sure he was judged harsher for being mal…
/r/MensRights05/03/12 12:46 PM
2

Why the blatantly misleading headline? He's not being investigated for leaving his wife, he's being investigated for possibly having an inappropriate relationship with a girl as a minor. He would be in this position if he were married or not. All this sensationalist stuff makes me wonder if we are as trigger happy as OP thinks we are.
/r/MensRights03/03/12 06:42 PM
1

I'm not saying the system isn't flawed. I'm saying that as it currently is, these fathers need to prepare themselves. The game is surely fucked, but they still need to play it if they want to see their kids. It's US as a society that needs to change these rules to make it fair, and unfortunately, we are really far from that. Ideals won't win custody, even if they are right. I don't doubt that he may have gotten a much better shot if he were the mother, what I'm saying is that he didn't help his …
/r/MensRights02/03/12 04:58 PM
4

How are we not projecting the same thing with all of the female teacher stories we see on here multiple times a day? I'm just saying that y'all are judging on the same double standard that you accuse feminism of. The point is that guys like this bring a certain scummy level to the movement when y'all praise them like this. And honestly, alot of people think negatively of us to begin with. This sort of thing is obviously inappropriate no matter what the genders are, our values should consistently…
/r/MensRights02/03/12 12:32 PM
2

So you're just as bad as they are?
/r/MensRights02/03/12 12:09 PM
8

Really, y'all are upvoting this? I'm glad I didnt have to be fun enough to keep my dad around. This guy might not be doing anything illegal, but the fact that he had obligations to his family and a certain responsibility to the girl and her parents as a teacher makes him a scumbag to me. I have a feeling y'all wouldn't be praising a woman in this situation.
/r/MensRights02/03/12 11:38 AM
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If he didn't commit a crime, then what is the problem here?? I'm having trouble understanding what's keeping him in prison? And how can you test a child for pedophilia? If he were even attracted to someone his own age he would be considered guilty. I live in Austin and I can't believe this bullshit goes on in my town.
/r/MensRights02/03/12 11:21 AM
3

This whole thing is totally messed up, BUT he would have had a much better time getting custody if he wasn't involved with drugs as well from the beginning. I know she was just as guilty in that regard as well, but she used her mother as an example of stability, where as he was speaking as a recovering drug addict. I imagine the courts become as jaded to them as anyone else dealing with recovering addicts. YES, the courts did fuck up, and YES this probably wouldn't have happened if the genders w…
/r/MensRights02/03/12 11:07 AM
2

This logic.....isn't logic.
/r/MensRights28/02/12 01:55 PM
9

Yeah, I agree. I just meant that the selfish action of a few terrible people have horrible effects on the majority of us who conduct ourselves like decent human beings. Id be scared too if I were in a position of power, it's just way too much to risk.
/r/MensRights21/02/12 06:41 PM
16

The sad part is that the number of women who would falsely accuse a well intentioned mentor of impropriety is very low compared to women in the workforce (similar to the fact that the number of men who actually rape anyone is very low compared to all men). The people who abuse the justice system hurt real victims, innocent men, and keep beneficial platonic relationships from ever even forming. Really sad if you ask me
/r/MensRights21/02/12 06:27 PM
1

I don't think they have much to do with us. Aside from that, to me, they largely seem reasonable.
/r/MensRights17/02/12 01:15 PM
7

That's really terrible that you had to go though that, but it's good that you didn't fight back. All you had to do was defend yourself and you could be in a very different situation right now. I'm honestly surprised that they took your side despite you being in the military, seeing as how most stories lately largely assume a vet to be some sort of a violent threat in these calls. I hope your girlfriend gets help, whether it's physiological or hard justice. You're stronger for making it through t…
/r/MensRights17/02/12 12:52 PM
5

There's nothing sexist about choosing to sacrifice your life to protect someone you love. I know plenty of women who would do the same. He did something honorable, true selflessness (not the kind chosen for you) should be revered.
/r/MensRights15/02/12 06:59 PM
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When I was in school, alot of the girls would always talk about how much they wanted to bang the male coaches. Statutory rape is usually consensual, male or female, but still very illegal. And to use a position of authority to have sex with minors is even more unethical. Women shouldn't get a lesser sentence because the stereotypical boy wants it. The law should go both ways.
/r/MensRights14/02/12 03:15 PM
3

That's horrible. Were you arrested? Did you ever say anything to your neighbor?
/r/MensRights13/02/12 10:44 PM
5

No worries, thanks for the answer!
/r/MensRights13/02/12 06:19 PM
6

I'm not really looking for anything. It was just something I started thinking about. It might not be belittling in your case, but some people can be pretty rude to other peoples views, especially if they aren't all that popular and come from the other side of the fence. I'm not looking to instigate anything, it just seemed relevant because a lot injustices seem to occur at the end of relationships (divorce rulings/custody issues/accusations)
/r/MensRights13/02/12 06:08 PM
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I kind of feel like it should be pointed out that it is not your typical feminist that attacks those advocating men's rights. It's the radicals that call for supremacy and push things too far. Feminism has legitimate points and it's true that one gender does not have all the advantages over the other. We need to stop this whole Us vs Them, Boys vs Girls mentality and start approaching these things as overall social issues. Yeah, some feminist movements have infringed on our rights, but that is n…
/r/MensRights13/02/12 03:32 PM
3

I couldn't find a written version of the news report, but it was mostly focused on the gender gap between males and females in college, and how to get more men and boys into school.
/r/MensRights11/02/12 11:47 AM
2

Good to hear. It would be a great thing for the mission of equality to be a collaborative goal rather than a war.
/r/MensRights10/02/12 06:13 PM
5

Yeah, as a man, that stuff bothers me too. I have a hard time aligning myself with the Men's Rights movement because it seems that only 50% seems to be rational discussion of very real and very threatening issues and the other half is bitterness towards women in general. That gender based hatred is what I think pushed (mainstream) feminism over the edge from a very legitimate need for equality to a call for supremacy. I personally don't want to be a part of a movement that keeps making the divid…
/r/MensRights10/02/12 05:50 PM
1

Totally agree with you. The bad thing isn't the legitimate reasons for alimony, it's how it's abused and enforced. Too often the receiving spouse seeks way more than their fair share and the system sets up a "debtors prison"(which is technically illegal, and for good reason) for those who can't cut it. Not to mention the social stigma around stay at home dads who try to use it for themselves. I think Texas has the right approach to alimony. It's very limited and has a main focus on getting the r…
/r/MensRights10/02/12 02:50 PM
1

Could you elaborate? That sounds terrible
/r/MensRights10/02/12 02:42 PM
1

You'd get better advice from 4chan or a crazy hobo. Yahoo Answers: Dumb questions, stupid answers.
/r/MensRights10/02/12 02:38 PM
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Ok, I can see that. It doesn't seem like they cared much about his mental health at all, just about how much of a threat they perceived him to be. And the result left him in a much worse place than where he started. It's a real shame
/r/MensRights07/02/12 03:33 PM
3

I think the issue isn't that it wasn't consensual, but the double standard put on statutory rape laws. A lot of statutory rape charges come from consensual sex, but the men charged are judged and punished far more severely than women for the same crime. It also brings up the question that if he was too young to give legal consent to the adult women for sex, then how can he be held responsible for the child born from the "rape" that he was the "victim" of? It basically allows women who prey on yo…
/r/MensRights07/02/12 03:27 PM
11

This is totally WTF and a complete injustice, but how is this specifically a men's rights issue? Just wondering in case there is some other context to this situation I don't know about, I'm not too knowledgable on veterans issues/rights.
/r/MensRights07/02/12 03:09 PM
12

Didn't really bother me too much. He goads her on and teases her, and she goes to some cartoony measure to get her yogurt. Like most commercials, this is just showing two adults behaving like children to get a cheesy message across (don't screw around with my yogurt). I know some people might think this commercial endorses female abusers, but I bet those people also think PePe Le Pew encourages rape and Bert and Ernie promote homosexuality.
/r/MensRights06/02/12 04:04 PM
1

I agree. Maybe it's just because my family was so poor that there was no expectation them paying, but I really feel like it gave me a lot of discipline to get my shit together. Plus the jobs I had to get to put me through school are what helped me land a real job after I finished. It would have been nice to have the help, but with all my parents did to raise me, I never felt entitled to it.
/r/MensRights06/02/12 02:30 PM
4

Insinuating that she deserved to be treated that way gives me a strong sense that you're only trying to troll us. Please please please, never have children. No kid deserves some "one last hurrah" beating from an angry parent. I have never met a person who hasn't made their parents angry at some point or another. That is NOT how to deal with the situation. And her being female is irrelevant.
/r/MensRights13/11/11 06:48 PM
3

I think after he kept coming back into the room to keep hitting her it was obvious that he was expressing more anger than discipline. He went way beyond trying to correct her behavior and started releasing his frustration on her. That's abuse, and yes, I am judging him, but that's easy to do with a 7 minute video. At the end of it, I really didn't care too much about the context.
/r/MensRights13/11/11 10:15 AM
6

He abused his kid. Period. It doesn't matter how his family treats him from that point on. I can't feel any sympathy for him. Life doesn't usually treat people like that 'fairly'. This guys situation is really not a men's rights issue and by associating it with the movement, you're perpetuating the stereotype that we defend people who honestly ARE monsters.
/r/MensRights12/11/11 04:32 PM
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An abused child not treating an abusive father well.. What would you expect? I'd probably hate the fucker too. This isn't a men's rights issue. Sometimes abused children don't turn out 100% well adjusted.
/r/MensRights06/11/11 06:44 PM
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