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| 2 | Any indisputable rules of outer game? | twothirtythrower | /r/seduction | 22/06/18 08:28 AM | |
| 2 | What are you favourite/most powerful 'outergame' things? | twothirtythrower | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 10:05 AM | |
| 1 | to chase or not to chase? | twothirtythrower | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 08:38 AM |
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| 1 | Any indisputable rules of outer game?Yes, As I said, with manson I got a few results, although it never felt like 'game'. It was either an instant blowout ('nope, you're not my type', 'sorry not interested', 'oh that's sweet but I've got a boyfriend', 'Ewwww….'..) or it was a very positive reaction which usually resulted in a pull despite me not using any 'game'. (and the positive reactions/pulls were very rare) With Julien, I found his breaking rapport, commanding opening style to be absolute suicide on UK girls, and would result … | /r/seduction | 22/06/18 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Friends think I'm weird and creepy for cold approachingliterally every guy gets laid through work and social circle. Spend enough time with someone and assuming she thinks you are somewhat good looking (and don't have a very unlikeable personality), all of the 'switches' tend to get flipped and she's attracted to you | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Is there any required reading? Line any foundational books i should be reading?I'm not sure it really matters? In a way, there is no 'game' when you consider that every single rule is disputed and contradicted by different coaches. I read mysterymethod first. ''Be very indirect. opinion openers, routines, stories. Only show intent after she does. Make SOI's about something non physical. Be aloof. Make her chase'' didn't work for me. Girls thought it was weird to start telling them stories without even knowing them. They were like 'WTF'? lol. Also, negs never worked. Even p… | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 04:18 PM |
| 3 | SO IT'S JUST THAT EASY?To be honest, I think it's still a massive numbers game even for the pros. Remember that video that Kong of SimplePickup made where he filmed himself unedited for like an hour hitting on girls. He got close to a 100% rejection rate! Also, most of the good pros are good looking and gaming in tourist destinations hitting on girls who are likely to be way more receptive than most girls since they are on holiday/travelling. Long story short, I don't think i'd pay for coaching! | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Is game oversold?What about other aspects of game, like social status and money.. will these be dealbreakers even if you're just aiming for a fling? I don't think so. For one night stands and stuff, I don't think your job (or lack of one) etc really matters much at all. Besides, you could always just lie and say you have a well paid marketing job lol. I've lied massively before to help me get laid! | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 08:34 AM |
| 3 | Is game oversold?I guess it depends on whose definition of game you are using? Someone like Mark Manson seems to believe that game is basically something that you use on girls who are already somewhat into you ('maybe girls' and 'yes girls') but that 'no girls' (maybe girls who think you aren't physically handsome or whatever) can't be got with 'game'. But someone like mystery believes that you can basically make any girl in the world attracted to you by saying special lines and stuff (negs, DHV stories etc) I s… | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Game works wonders guysHe'd need to look like Jeremy Meeks for this to be a true story lol | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Kesia Noble on UK vs US differencesPeople that leave England always seem to miss it, because they miss the sense of humour. We''re quite a funny bunch. We have to be. The country's a mess and the weather is shit. I don't want to make English people sound horrible. There are obviously tonnes of awesome Brits. And in truth I think attitudes vary a fair bit from town to town. England is a small place with tonnes of very different accents. I love how US people often expect us all to sound like Hugh Grant, and then I introduce them to… | /r/seduction | 14/06/18 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Kesia Noble on UK vs US differencesIt's a very different place socially. I was actually just watching a completely unrelated youtube video where a Brit guy is in America and he's a competitive eater and goes around to restaurants eating loads of food, and he said ''I love it in America. Back in England, if someone sees me with lots of plates of food they treat me in a very hostile way and they are suspicious, but in America people are just so friendly and talkative and interested in what you are up too''. It made me think about h… | /r/seduction | 14/06/18 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Kesia Noble on UK vs US differencesIt's a very different place socially. I was actually just watching a completely unrelated youtube video where a Brit guy is in America and he's a competitive eater and goes around to restaurants eating loads of food, and he said ''I love it in America. Back in England, if someone sees me with lots of plates of food they treat me in a very hostile way and they are suspicious, but in America people are just so friendly and talkative and interested in what you are up too''. It made me think about h… | /r/seduction | 14/06/18 07:49 PM |
| 4 | Kesia Noble on UK vs US differencesYeah, it's all day game and always on Foreign girls. I want to see infield from Brits hitting on other brits in bars at night, but there's almost ZERO out there on the entire world wide web! | /r/seduction | 14/06/18 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Kesia Noble on UK vs US differencesAmericans don't know how lucky they are when it comes to cold approach pickup. There needs to be a UK seddit and a scandinavcian seddit lol. It's a different game, seemingly | /r/seduction | 14/06/18 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you avoid going it with good looking friends?I find that being 'gameless' is fine if you are super hot and she is into you because of that. I see it all the time. (less with old girls, but all the time with the hot young ones) I feel like game only really works on old girls. Young ones are just too superficial If you are way below her in looks, I don't think you can have a shot in my experience. | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Multiple guys competing for same girl. What would you do?knew I had to polarize and make my interest known to her Wouldn't that actually be the wrong move in terms of game? (unless she'd already shown lots of interest in you first) Anyway, sounds like she WAS interested in you whether she showed it or not since she reciprocated positively so it's all good. I guess the answer is to just escalate from here!? | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | What are you favourite/most powerful 'outergame' things?are there things that you try to do/say in every set that you read about somewhere in the PUA world out of interest? | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | What are you favourite/most powerful 'outergame' things?yes, that sort of 'link' certainly seems to be required in order to make it smoother and less contrived, I think | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | What are you favourite/most powerful 'outergame' things?but the value here is in his ability to get you the listener invested in the story. That's the demonstration of high value. That's what DHV means in real life interesting. Never had it explained like that. I always thought it was about subtly telling her you were a leader of men, had lots of hot girls after you, had money etc etc I'll watch the vid | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | What are you favourite/most powerful 'outergame' things?ok | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Guys, how can you do this?true. I've used it all so far though, to be honest. I just try everything since everyone disagrees anyway so may aswell (cold reads, negs, false time constraint, roleplay, tell her 'she's trouble' like Todd, SIO's, kino et etc etc) I can get the girls that are as attractive as me, but the super hot young ones are literally impossible and only seem interested in the very good looking young dudes. | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 02:50 PM |
| 1 | What are you favourite/most powerful 'outergame' things?I do like the idea of 'stories' ever since I heard about DHV stories. I have a few issues with them, which are likely something I'm doing wrong. The main way I've heard of them being taught is like you open a girl using anything 'Hi" I'm Julien''(opinion openers seem to be very out of fashion) and then quickly go into like ''Hey, check this out. I was with my boys in Vegas and had just dumped my model ex girl'' and it seems both really incongruent, overfamiliar and braggy/obvious. I guess part o… | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Guys, how can you do this?what are the most usful things too 'apply' with cold approach pickup in your opinion? I mean, half the community seems to say 'what you say doesn't matter' and the other half who believe in 'outergame' seem to disagree on every single thing. SO it can be really confusing to even know WHAT to apply! | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 10:49 AM |
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