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The fact that NT people act like just saying exactly what you mean is a lesser form of communication has always been wild to me. Just because the majority of the people feel uncomfortable with a superior way of communication doesn't make their preference logically and objectively inferior. I play the game. Successfully. But it's insipid in my humble opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:18 AM
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That's a fair argument. Wish I still had the access I had to the academic databases that I had in college. Misinformation is rampant. A lot of the research is inherently biased. Still. Appreciate you being level-headed and not attacking me personally. Hope you have a great day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:36 PM
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My bad on this. Too dismissive. I'm driving so trying to be concise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:30 PM
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Men and women are not the same. More male geniuses and more male idiots. The bell curve distribution shows that. There are plenty of women who are more intelligent than me. My sister, my grandmother, one of my friends, etc. But on the extreme ends of the curve, there is more varience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:29 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:24 PM
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Why would you go through the effort of bringing up Savant's IQ only to act like IQ is not significant when it's pointed out that her IQ wasn't actually the highest? Is being "right" in a discussion with internet strangers more important to you than being intellectually honest? The second question is rhetorical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:26 PM
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The number of people replying to comments in bad faith is legit wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:30 PM
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What is VAWG?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:06 AM
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This is an observation that I feel is ignored by women. And because "mids" and "fatties" are known to be more obvious, a lot of women play even harder to get to not be in that league. In my experience, it's the cute 6.5 girls who go out of their way to nor be obvious. One coworker I had in college who was around a 6.5 gave me zero IOIs, but we eventually hooked up when I shot my shot while drunk. She later told me she was into me the whole time but "doesn't chase guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:49 AM
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This is always an interesting thought experiment. A female version on me would have a college degree, nice apartment, good job, paid off car, lift weights, play rugby, be decently fit, muscular, etc. It would be a no brainer. I'd 100% date the female version of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:14 AM
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For a lot of men, they will not really experience a "prime". I'm beginning to see that "meh" is the reaction of most women towards most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:44 AM
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NGL OP. Based AF
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:09 PM
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Fair enough. As far as I'm concerned, there will always be bad actors in any space. I've seen plenty of female centric spaces on reddit where women advocate for dehumanizing, lying, abusing, and seeing men as subhuman. They just don't get nearly the backlash as their male equivalents. Misandry isn't taken nearly as seriously as misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:14 AM
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Before all of the Red Pill spaces were destroyed, men had constructive conversations amongst themselves on how to improve and reach their goals. Now that all we have on reddit are co-ed spaces, the message has become watered down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:49 AM
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Your last point is severely overlooked. Essentially, every fat person I have ever met is lazy, undisciplined, and irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:18 PM
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Effort required is probably one of the biggest factors that I observe. I feel that alot of the lower tier women have similar standards to higher tier women, leading men to focus their efforts on the women they actually want. For most men, time and resources are limited, so expending a large amount of either on women they barely even want is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:51 AM
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This is it. It's such a simple thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:30 AM
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Yeah. For sure. I've been earning more over the years. I have a college degree. It's less about meeting the people with similar interests, more about not meeting their standards earning wise. I have success dating in general. I'd just like someone closer to my education level, income level, etc. I'm becoming more realistic about who I'll be able to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:27 AM
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As someone who was raised middle class and is effectively socially middle class but realistically working poor, I feel this. Even as I try to integrate with people at my class level, I don't really fit in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:13 AM
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Seriously, when you say “men want more” what are you talking about? I’m willing to bet that a feminine woman that isn’t fat, can cook, and has a low n-count will attract 90% of relationship-minded men. In my experience this would be considered high standards. Which is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:35 AM
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If people are so concerned with the idea of 18 year olds being consenting adults (full stop), why are there not major pushes to codify age gap restrictions into law? At the end of the day if it is two fully adult human beings who are consenting then I don't see the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:57 AM
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Or they just want fulfilling relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:25 AM
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I understand that. Guess the marketplace is inverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:52 PM
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So even I'm a religious environment, you were unable to find even one devout, chaste man?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:37 PM
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Is this serious? There are a plenty of wholesome men who want a relationship at any age. They just might not be the top guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:28 PM
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This is gold. You're right. Doing the "right" things consistently for a extended period of time with no results creates a cognitive dissonance that really messes with your psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:19 AM
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I think this is an under-rated observation. Most of the women I have had sex with, I only did because they wanted to have sex with me and I like sex. About 2/3 of the women I have had sex with, I would have never actively pursued them for sex. Women have no true equivalent to this. The equivalent to this for a woman would be having sex with an unattractive beta orbiter because he's willing and you're horny. You don't find him attractive. You would be caught dead in a relationship with him. But y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:35 AM
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Yeah. That's exactly what I've observed in my relationships and interactions with women. An almost all or nothing sort of thing. As a guy, I honestly don't have that. I kind of care about how a woman makes me feel but in more of an, is she annoying or crazy way so I can avoid them. I gain positive feelings for women over time just from them liking me and sticking around. Since I'm already attracted to them and I already enjoy being around them, it's very straightforward. I do not envy women in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:03 AM
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I may just be weird, but fiery and tense aren't at all what I look for. Just am I physically attracted and do I get along withe them. As far as the initial criteria. I hear about a spark, sexual tension,etc. But honestly none of that makes a difference to me. Sometimes it's there, sometimes it isn't. But I'm a guy so there are alot of women who can pass that initial criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:25 AM
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I feel this. I went through something similar. It felt great but women were repulsed. Went back to a more masculine, stoic frame, and it immediately changed. Women incentivize the same behaviors they demonize
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:42 AM
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And vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:51 AM
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I've noticed that women tend to overestimate their physical strength in general. I'm not sure why. I believe that they would be better off with a realistic outlook.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/21 11:24 AM
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You have a point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 02:36 AM
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Same. Sometimes I look at the picture and it's decent. Then I look at the bio. Lol. Kids are a deal breaker.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 07:49 PM
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One of my buddies,who has been through 2 divorces, is preparing to marry his third wife. He has kids with the second one. He keeps pressuring me to go on and settle for something before I miss out. He literally encourages me to take single moms and/or fat chicks just so I can have a family, etc. Most of my friends are stuck on the plantation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 07:41 PM
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I've been watching all of those. I actually found this after those. The dating profiles and real life examples just drive the point home so powerfully. I'm doing well and in life personally but no real success dating the women I'd like to date. I've began to get alot of attention from single moms, older women, fat chicks, girls from my past who rejected me, etc. My loneliness tempts me to give in and settle. But then I see these posts and realize that they just want a bailout/retirement plan. So…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 05:24 PM
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I'm so glad I found this subreddit. Let's me know I'm not just making this stuff up in my head.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 04:13 AM
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I've only very recently been introduced to the various pills.so yeah. Alot of my past situations can be explained by the fact that women have a considerable amount of leverage in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:20 AM
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I'm not arguing that or any of your points honestly. I just haven't been able to get the girls I want into relationships. Not even complaining about it. Is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:40 PM
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Perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:03 PM
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I don't have an argument for that. I've put alot of effort into dating but have not found someone that I wanted to date who also wanted to date me on the same level. I've had plenty of hookups and FWBs but no girlfriend. Every woman I felt that way about didn't reciprocate, and vice versa. I know I should probably just settle, but I get enough casual action that it's not something that is urgent for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 09:05 PM
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I intentionally passed on multiple relationships in college that I knew I would only be interested in for the experience. Result? 30 years old and never had a girlfriend. Part of me wishes I had gone for the "starter girlfriend". But all of those girls went on to find guys who truly wanted them, and I had my fair share of fun anyways. Everyone wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:35 PM
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I've resisted dating single moms so far but the pickings are slim out here. I've heard nothing but bad things from every guy I've know who has dated them. Essentially exactly what you said. Ok for sex and FWB, but absolutely can't take them seriously for LTR or marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 09:59 PM
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This is something that I believe is overlooked. I'm black and I wouldn't date a white woman with white kids, because I can't even pretend or visualize those kids as mine. But in practice I don't date single moms, so that's not really an issue in my life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 12:22 AM
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This is the core of the issue. I've found many women who fit exactly what I want. My ability to filter isn't the problem. I'm just not attractive to those women. The women who are interested in me are women I have zero interest in. So I've been working on myself. Physically, financially, mentally, emotionally, spiritually. And the level of women who show me interest has risen. I don't think men have qn issue filtering. It's just hard to sit on the sidelines. The temptation to settle just to play…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:29 PM
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The fact that I know you're right, but I still love sex is wild honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:06 PM
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I really think the fact that lower level women expect the same exact effort is overlooked. I'd rather put in the work and attempt to date women I genuinely want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:21 PM
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..ⁿ 8th⁹0⁵ I
/r/seduction07/05/21 09:00 AM
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..ⁿ 8th⁹0⁵ I
/r/seduction07/05/21 09:00 AM
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This is probably the best explanation I've seen on why people stay single even if they have prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 02:33 AM
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That's something that I've always noticed. If a guy wants a girl who isn't overweight, has long hair, is feminine, etc. That guy is told his standards are too high. For my father and grandfather, that would be the minimum standard. I feel that women as a whole have let their physical standards fall in a big way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 08:55 PM
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