tynolie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Fumbled at the 1 yard line, what to do differently next time?	Field Report	tynolie	/r/seduction	27/02/25 10:48 PM
4	Should I strike while the iron is hot? Or will it come off as too eager?	Escalation & Calibration	tynolie	/r/seduction	26/03/25 03:44 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How to respond Thank you, everyone else trying to be a clever jester	/r/seduction	29/12/25 11:26 PM
688	What are flirty signs guys miss? Was at a conference while in college, lots of other colleges there. I was in a group with my classmates and a few students from another school and we were tryna decide on a place to eat. Everyone was arguing about where to go when suddenly this cute girl from the other school comes up to me and goes... "Hey, there's this oyster bar at our hotel, how about we ditch them and just go there?" (We previously talked about a shared interest in oysters). Not even a flirt, but a blatant direct shot attem…	/r/seduction	19/12/25 04:03 PM
3	Stopped dating after success in early 20s I dont know anyone who felt like a loser at 21 Hi, nice to meet you.	/r/seduction	13/08/25 07:56 PM
38	WHAT EXPERIENCE PROMPTED YOU TO OVERCOME MR. NICE GUY SYNDROME? Holy fuck, that one would still be keeping me up at night	/r/seduction	11/08/25 12:02 AM
13	Have any of yall ever posted a photo of yourself with a dog that's not yours for your dating profile? Dogs are a plus to have on your profile. But don't mention the dog isn't yours unless its brought up in conversation.	/r/seduction	20/07/25 10:11 PM
6	Anyone ever experienced a random dude interrupt and hit on your date? This should be pinned to the sub	/r/seduction	23/06/25 03:16 PM
35	Girl lost interest after I asked for a kiss You asking for a kiss wasn't the problem. You most likely conveyed neediness either through the way you asked or through other actions throughout the date, or both. Asking for a kiss isn't fundamentally bad most guys just dont know how to do it without sounding like a desperate chump	/r/seduction	14/06/25 02:54 AM
2	Women Communicate on a Level Most Guys Don't Even See Yea i would've thought she was indicating her sister was into me lol would've totally fucked it up and went after the sister	/r/seduction	07/06/25 11:36 PM
4	Women love eye contact Great way to put it	/r/seduction	07/06/25 06:35 PM
2	I am 27 and never had a girlfriend. How do I cold approach 500 girls?please help me guys False. Inner game is literally just being comfortable who you are and owning up to it unapologetically. You dont hold your tongue because it may upset someone, you don't hide things you like because others may find it weird, you don't automatically assume people will dislike you because of reason x,y, and z. It's basically recognizing who you are and what you like, and making it your "shtick" in a way. You dont have to add or take away anything from your current personality, arguably other than …	/r/seduction	29/04/25 09:46 PM
7	How to move on from a girl you really wanted ? Time. Let this be a life lesson. Even if you did nothing wrong to cause this, at least you gain strength and fortitude from it. I fell in love with a classmate over the 6 month covid break in 2020, we talked otp every night, sent each other gifts in the mail, told her i was a virgin and she couldn't wait to take my virginity. We hooked up the first night back on campus and she ghosted me the next day. Haven't heard from her since. My only advice is to not put your feelings in too quickly, even i…	/r/seduction	27/04/25 05:11 PM
0	Exclusive with a good FWB, but not high enough frequency of sex In the sack?	/r/seduction	14/04/25 02:24 PM
2	What the hell do you talk about on the first date? Bro ive never been the social type either. The most asked questions people say to me is "why are you so quiet?" "Whats wrong?" Because I'm mute as shit and unapproachable. I never even kissed a girl until i was 19. All the social skills I have i learned from youtube, forums like this, and just forcing myself to talk to people. And even still I'm antisocial as fuck. But to help you out, there's nothing inherently wrong with asking questions but just dont ask boring one word yes or no questions. F…	/r/seduction	06/04/25 06:06 PM
6	What the hell do you talk about on the first date? Personally, I dont go into a first date trying to ask questions and "get to know" the person. I usually just focus on having fun and building attraction, seeing if we vibe in a playful way, whether we can bounce banter off each other well, etc. This keeps the mood light and the conversation flowing naturally to different topics instead of "what do you do for fun?" "OK next questions, do you want kids?". That shit makes a date feel like an interview, especially since most of the answers to the qu…	/r/seduction	06/04/25 04:37 PM
27	What kinds of things do you say to her when dancing so that you can escalate and try go in for a kiss? Only if your social awareness is so poor that you miscalculated a woman's interest in you to such a degree that she would press charges at just your attempt to kiss her.	/r/seduction	03/04/25 01:24 PM
1	What's your biggest "aha!" realization, that seriously increased your results? Can you expand on what you mean by frantic or silent?	/r/seduction	30/03/25 02:25 PM
18	How to disagree with women without being cocky? "No" "I disagree" "that's not true". Feel free to explain why you disagree if you feel it's warranted. Don't care about whether you come off as cocky or not. As long as you're not belittling anyone and have an open enough mind to be aware of when YOU'RE wrong and be able to accept new information, then who cares whether the other party(man or woman) thinks you're cocky.	/r/seduction	29/03/25 08:41 PM
1	Should I strike while the iron is hot? Or will it come off as too eager? True lol needed to hear this, thanks	/r/seduction	26/03/25 07:54 PM
1	Should I strike while the iron is hot? Or will it come off as too eager? Ok bro thanks for the advice	/r/seduction	26/03/25 07:54 PM
1	Fumbled at the 1 yard line, what to do differently next time? What would you say is the next best step? I'm currently going with act like nothing happened	/r/seduction	28/02/25 07:54 PM
1	Fumbled at the 1 yard line, what to do differently next time? True the texts were kinda lame. Im fully prepared for next time I see Stacey but I think the next time I see Lola will be pretty awkward	/r/seduction	28/02/25 02:20 AM
0	Fumbled at the 1 yard line, what to do differently next time? Your last paragraph is great advice, thanks. Worst part is in the moment I was thinking to myself "logistically this isn't sounding smooth". Should've gotten the number and planted seeds like you said. I know better now. I'm moreso upset that I texted(in such a childish way) but then again i don't think it fucked me completely.	/r/seduction	28/02/25 02:17 AM
5	Fumbled at the 1 yard line, what to do differently next time? Nothing outside of friendly. Never made any escalating moves on her and she never gave me anything that signaled "more than friendly". I'm totally attracted to her and im sure it's mutual attraction there but I never made a move because I was told by others that she has a boyfriend(but she's never brought him up before).	/r/seduction	27/02/25 11:03 PM
6	What age do y'all wanna settle down with a partner/have kids? Kids: never Partner: idk	/r/seduction	20/02/25 03:54 PM
5	How to react when another guy is stealing your girl 'your' girl? Or are girl you've only met a day or 2 ago?	/r/seduction	17/02/25 08:16 PM
1	Sending flowers to someone just getting to know. Doing it: risk coming on too strong or coming off as an easy simp Not doing it: no risk involved, as it is perfectly reasonable to not send vanlentines flowers to someone you've only been on 2 dates with. If there girl is upset at this, then I'd say you dodged a bullet, and you could even use her upset-ness to your advantage by staying in frame and telling her that it's only been 2 dates. She might be upset but she will respect you more for it.	/r/seduction	14/02/25 04:36 PM
4	Which one is better Depends on numerous factors. How long have you been dating her? How old are the 2 of you? Do you believe those feelings are mutual and reciprocated by her? Regardless, in most situations neither of those alone are good options.	/r/seduction	13/02/25 01:46 AM
1	A study by DatePsychology found that 45% of men aged 18–25 have never approached a woman in person for a date. Me	/r/seduction	11/02/25 03:24 PM
15	How long were you able to keep a FWB? Depends on what your desired outcome is	/r/seduction	03/02/25 07:52 AM
2	How should I reply to this ! Good advice	/r/seduction	31/01/25 06:29 AM
1	Am i too much ? You have to become outcome-independent. You have to realize she is just a woman, a human being, not some prized one of a kind angel. Regardless of how the relationship turns out, you will still be as secure and confident as you were before and find another girl. Honestly I have no advice on how to achieve this, but I'd definitely recommend not texting as frequently, especially avoid goodmorning and goodnight texts until yall are an actual official couple, do not send stuff like that or expect me…	/r/seduction	09/01/25 03:44 PM
1	Am I cooked? I gotta save this I have to say, it's not the same thing. At all. The commenter's suggestion lays out the problem and the solution concisely and comes off as a "take it or leave it" offer. Your message, while still conveying the same idea, is a long winded explanation and with too much investment("heres the plan for our other date!" "Only if you want to 🫶"). It comes off as if you desperately want her to respond and you're giving her too many free outs.	/r/seduction	02/01/25 03:29 AM
1	Where to find more content? Bobby Rio on YouTube has been the best source of "attraction building" content for men imo	/r/seduction	01/01/25 05:00 PM
2	Skill issue ~ I rarely know how to carry conversations So confusing having the male be F and the female be M lol thought he was effortlessly a mack for a second	/r/seduction	31/12/24 04:49 PM