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Go somewhere with a bar scene and things to do that you like to do. Big cities certainly work and they offer some anonymity benefits, as you can bomb with a girl and you will likely never see her again. But on the other hand, you feel like less of a part of a community so you have less opportunities to show social proof. I'm in a smaller city, but with a lot going on (lots of bars, clubs, etc.). It's tough for me to be anonymous since people know me most places now, but I don't mind this since I…
/r/seduction29/12/11 10:11 PM
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Good god, don't change your life around to get close to a girl. You have some serious oneitis here. This IS really creepy.
/r/seduction29/12/11 09:58 PM
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I'm here for those nights where you just feel you have a mind-blowing connection with someone, where you're on that same page and both think the other person is awesome. The nights when you meet a dozen new girls at a party and get them laughing and they get you laughing and you feel like all the possible paths going forward are amazing ones with amazing people. It's also so I can just be a more complete, mature, independant person - I don't like feeling helpless or that the world is out of my c…
/r/seduction27/12/11 06:40 PM
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It's definitely good to get some practice throughout all the stages. You want to get a good grip on how to transition, defeat LMR, and all that, so you don't mess it up when you have hot girl home and so you feel more confident and comfortable that you can go all the way. That being said, stay congruent with yourself and what you want (don't date someone you'd be ashamed to date). Personally also not a fan of leading girls on - if a girl makes it clear she ONLY wants an LTR and you only see her …
/r/seduction25/12/11 11:45 PM
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I can absolutely relate to this - I moved to a new town a few years ago and didn't know anyone. My advice: Work on making friends first. You'll feel better about yourself and will be more "Socialized" on a daily basis so talking to women will be easier. My story was that I spent a good 1.5 years in town, had few friends, and just focused on pickup and what I could do to meet women (even did a lot of online dating). Very little success. I didn't think about meeting friends, until I went to a netw…
/r/seduction23/12/11 08:42 PM
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I don't know that pickup in small towns is harder or easier (I'm in a small town) but it's definitely different. Definitely have to worry about getting a reputation, on a night out with a girl there's a good chance i'll run into at least a few people I know. On the plus side of this, it's great social proof, which is an amazing benefit. On the other side, though, you scared taking risks - it's harder to approach when you're being watched by the guy in your volunteer group (who could tell those c…
/r/seduction23/12/11 08:33 PM
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I've actually found this to be a surprisingly bad strategy (coming from a guy who used this strategy a lot). You don't want to be that guy who only thought of one joke and keeps saying it over and over. I've found it much better to bring up new things. For instance, a story about some awesome thing that happened to me that day. Basically, I think for texts you need to go back to "Attraction" where you're trying to DHV and show her you're awesome again. On the other hand, if it's been a while, it…
/r/seduction23/12/11 07:59 PM
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Yup this is basically my new favorite outfit (well, I like a zip up turtleneck instead of a v-neck, but w/e).
/r/seduction23/12/11 07:52 PM
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Buying new clothes and getting a haircut are 2 things I don't enjoy doing but always am very glad I did. I tend to slack on haircuts, especially, and let me hair grow out really long. Then finally when I get it cut i'm always like "Shit I look amazing, why the fuck did I take so long to do this?" Edit: that being said, for me it's totally an inner game thing. Having style probably helps with women otherwise, but honestly I think it's much bigger that I'M happier with my appearance and it shows.
/r/seduction23/12/11 07:49 PM
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Absolutely agree. I like the concept of making sex just come from the surface peripherally and letting the women "Jump on" the thread. If you're a guy and you make a sexual comment toward her without any sort of pretense, it's going to come off as really creepy and predatory. Much better to let her take the first step and make fun of her for being a creeper :) I still suck at sexualizing a conversation, i mostly try to play a game like "Never have I ever" and start off with something only vaguel…
/r/seduction23/12/11 07:47 PM
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Yup, I do this. I don't really notice a difference in my life, I just like looking at porn sometimes and I at least go 2-3 days without masturbating (otherwise I definitely get sluggish).
/r/seduction23/12/11 07:36 PM
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Yeah I mean you have to gauge her reaction and not straight up tough her inner thigh when you first meet her. But other than the obvious I find I just end up going with whatever is least awkard based on the way we're sitting.
/r/seduction22/12/11 11:58 PM
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"Funny. I suck at sexualising the convo, but kino comes naturally." Same here. Thankfully Kino is often enough to get her thinking sexually.
/r/seduction22/12/11 06:45 PM
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I generally just wing it - every time i've had a "plan" with Kino it's felt awkward and forced. Meh on Kino escalation ladder and the more detailed materials..it honestly seems like micromanaging it to a larger extent than it needs to be. I generally go with Touching=good and if she's responding to my touches or touching me after I touch her, then It's about time to kiss her. Here's my general list of what I do though: -Hug when you first meet to set the tone (I guess maybe not a blind date, but…
/r/seduction22/12/11 06:41 PM
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I agree with the general sentiment but I see it as more than that - though maybe i'm just framing it more positively. I know this kind of goes against what most people think, but I personally find Seddit invaluable in trying to connect with women on a more real, genuine level. I mean, before reading seduction materials, I was that guy who would go to parties and talk about my volunteer stuff and my job and basically all the boring stuff about how awesome I was. Sure, some girls were impressed, b…
/r/seduction22/12/11 06:29 PM
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The key isn't having something interesting to talk about. It's about being interested in what you're talking about. If you can speak at length and be engaged about guacamole, then that's a fine fucking thing to talk about. Subject matter is whatever, introducing yourself to women is much more about showing you're an engaging person and can be fun. In some ways, it can help if the subject matter is boring, because you're turning something boring into a fun conversation (shows you can be fun anywh…
/r/seduction22/12/11 06:18 PM
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Yet another "Magic Pill" post. Bullshit. This shit isn't holding you back unless it is. I know that sounds dumb, but seriously - everyone here who isn't a master PUA (and even some of those guys) have some issue holding them back. Fear of rejection, problems being comfortable sexually, being out of shape, etc. And everyone's gotta post their "Magic Pill" about how they wiped away their big problem and now everything is peachy keen. In most cases...guess what? It isn't. You worked on one area of …
/r/seduction22/12/11 06:08 PM
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Yeah, momentum is huge for me with this stuff, I have had to learn that. Taking long breaks is a great way to get yourself back to square one. The more active you are, the more "out of your head" and in "state" you will be.
/r/seduction22/12/11 05:47 PM
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Little different when you're in college or older and accidentally hit on a 15 year old. I live in a college town and often I worry about this since many undergrads still look super young, and they often dress the same as high-schoolers. I always make sure I tease out how old they are (e.g. by asking if they go to the local college). Edit: Undergrads are totally fair game for grad students
/r/seduction22/12/11 05:45 PM
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I'm a pretty big fan of Magic Bullets - I still go back to it pretty often as it's almost structured as a big "cheat sheet". Also the advice seems pretty general. As for actual routines and techniques, i'd read whatever you can get your hands on. A lot of that is trial and error and figuring out what fits you personally. I tend to be a pretty playful person, so things like thumbwars and Marry/Kill/Screw were huge for me, while some other techniques I tried out in some books (for instance, Roosh …
/r/seduction17/12/11 07:15 PM
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For me it works in measured doses. I find that engaging girls on a logical level doesn't work great right away and it feels kind of like a business meeting. Most people out at a club are in full-on emotional mode and switching into thinking mode is hard. But you gotta talk at some point about what you do and what you're passionate about, even if it's logical, otherwise it'll just look like you're a person without any depth.
/r/seduction11/12/11 09:30 PM
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Jesus, yeah. Nothing to do with the restaurant and everything to do with the energy he's proposing it with. Can easily be like "Oh man, I went to this AWESOME ice cream shop!", etc. Restaurants suck because you get stuck not being able to Kino, and you get stuck with a giant check more often than not. Also, eating a ton will not make you or her turned on. Tapas does provide you with a bit more room to have fun (as you try various things), but still, not some sort of golden ticket.
/r/seduction08/12/11 07:48 PM
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Nah this is generally bad. Same principle as buying girls drinks or dinner or gifts. Yeah it wasn't technically a gift, but same idea, you went too far out of your way to do something for her on a first date.
/r/seduction08/12/11 07:36 PM
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I agree. It depends on the girl. An entitled 8-10 who is used to getting her way will get turned on by telling her no. However, I do think this article applies to the 5-7, where getting her attracted isn't as much of a challenge as making her comfortable with you and ensuring the interaction keeps going positively. Lots of girls who lack confidence will lose even more by being told "no", because they probably have been told "no" a lot before.
/r/seduction08/12/11 07:33 PM
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I disagree with your disagreeing! I think vulnerability ain't a bad thing to show. But bringing attention to the awkwardness is almost always a bad move unless it's done WAY after the fact. If he's just engaging her in conversation and he's like "Wow, that was an awkward conversation earlier", that is NOT an attractive thing to say. For a couple reasons: She might not have found that HE was that awkward. He's revealing that he felt really awkward. People give you a lot more benefit of the doubt …
/r/seduction08/12/11 07:24 PM
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