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| 2 | So this woman has been sleeping on this scrotes brown pillows prior to this?!!!lmao oh my god... the justifications. sadly, I bet it was woman who said that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:23 PM |
| 4 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏The grooming was so strong. By the time women in my life were actually telling me this (nearly word for word) I was too far gone and just took offense. “Are you saying I’m NOT mature for my age? Are you saying my boyfriend isn’t AMAZING? Wow you’re really rude, shut up.” I cringe soooo hard now. They were completely right. I wasn’t mature for my very young age. He was a crusty dropout who couldn’t even hold down a part-time minimum wage job. When I finally dumped him (after letting him dominate … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 11:53 PM |
| 8 | Ladies can I have some input please? Why do you think we go for NVM/LVM? Utter useless scrotes , narcissists, cheap, porn sick, cheaters, ghosters? What do I need to work on for myself until I can get therapy?Same, I thought it was normal. I didn’t realize I had other options. I didn’t even consider being single as an option. Edit: thankfully I came to my senses eventually. Then I quickly met the man who would become my husband! If I’d have still been wasting my time around clowns, my heart wouldn’t have been open to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 11:02 PM |
| 18 | This is such a mess. He didn't do one thing right or research anything or even make sure the ring came on time. This is anything but romantic.Yeah but it was HIS day off! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:54 PM |
| 13 | I needed FDS ten years agoI needed it at like 13 or 14, because that’s when grownup manbabies started trying to get in my pants. In hindsight it’s completely disgusting but as a young girl I had no idea. I thought it was a compliment. “Ooh a guy in college likes me? Wow he must think I carry on a conversation just as well as a college woman would!” Yeah I really thought that. Turns out they were just predatory dudes who aren’t good enough for women their own age. I learned so much toxic, misogynistic BS that took years (… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:46 PM |
| 27 | The men are realizing, we are leveling up. Their 2 hour long conversations, about a book they read in 2001, no longer interest us. Filling up their egos, no longer interest us. Being with them, while they suck up the energy of a whole room, no longer interest us.Back when I was still dating, I remember so many guys shaming me for having things to say. Excuse me for having life experiences and actual thoughts to talk about! But back then I didn’t know FDS so I’d be shamed into silence, and rely on them to hold up their end of the conversation instead. Can anyone guess how well that went? Not only do guys like this mostly just talk about themselves, but it’s not even interesting things either. They say stuff like “oh, I mostly just play games” and then ra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:27 AM |
| 161 | ExactlyD-Day is the day a partner finds out about an affair or cheating incident. I first heard the term on Chump Lady which is a fantastic blog about life after a cheater. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:30 PM |
| 21 | A dad correcting a pickme auntieI’m so glad you brought up that episode of Lizzie McGuire. I re-watched the show recently and was FLOORED when that episode came on. Her own mother is teaching her that horrible, toxic lesson. She basically said she is OBLIGATED to date the creepy guy who doesn’t shower, just because he asked her out. I was like 11 or 12 when that show was on, and I can’t believe I uncritically accepted that message. I can’t understate how appalled I was when I re-watched it recently. So glad I’m not alone in no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:22 AM |
| 100 | How it’s starting to feel around FDS in light of recent bansDisgusting, yes. Surprising, no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Dude...Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 06:55 PM |
| 23 | Dude...Half my drinkware is “real” and the other half are jars that used to hold pasta sauce. I can’t help but notice I ALWAYS reach for the jars! They’re the perfect shape and size. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 04:00 AM |
| 12 | Dude...Omg... Do you have a link to that? I love jars lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Male Dismisses Claims that PornHub is knowingly facilitating Sex Trafficking and Child Pornography because one of the sources links to Fox News. It’s better to potentially be supporting child rape than take a risk defending a conservative!So because he doesn’t like one of the sources you provided, all the other ones are invalid as well, even though they all state the same facts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 04:00 AM |
| 11 | good boy will let her take a shitFor real. Meanwhile my husband is on fucking chemo and sometimes has to run out of the room mid-sentence to avoid literally shitting himself. And do I love him any less for it? No, because I’m a decent human being who can recognize his HVM qualities like having an impressive career, paying our rent, cooking for us, building us furniture from scratch based on my vague descriptions of what I want. But for the most part, men are mostly ridiculous infants, who will reject a woman based on stupid cri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 10:27 AM |
| 4 | good boy will let her take a shitYUP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 04:43 AM |
| 5 | Quarantine & LVMI refuse to believe OP is serious. I’m suspicious this is a bored dude trolling this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 11:16 AM |
| 1 | God forbid a man EVER calls me a HOE. What the hell is going on with relationships these days? 🤢Agreed! I’m so surprised by people’s takes in this thread acting like she’s saying this as a positive thing. It’s clear she’s calling out male trolls for being thirsty and desperate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 11:00 AM |
| 9 | Reminder: never give over your life and your body to an emotionally immature LVMThe woman gave him a quarter century of her life that she’ll never get back, and carried all four of his children, and he’s turned off that she no longer looks like a teenager. Wow. Just wow. How much you want to bet he’s not much of a looker himself... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 10:42 AM |
| 1 | People are dying but let me make it about how men are suffering since they all can’t get home cooked meals.Well, if they’re stuck inside anyway, it’s a perfectly good time to learn how to cook. There are literally thousands of recipes for free just a search engine query away, not to mention all the recipe videos on YouTube that break everything down into simple steps. When a man claims he can’t cook, what he means is he is unwilling to put forth effort for something crucial, and that he can’t follow even the simplest directions. Those are two major red flags. I used to be such a pickme and now I’m so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 10:37 AM |
| 94 | good boy will let her take a shitI knew a divorced mother of five who claims she never pooped in her home bathroom when her ex-husband was home. Not one time in over a decade, she claimed. She said if it was an emergency she’d go to a nearby convenient store. Honestly one of the weirdest things I’ve ever heard in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 09:41 AM |
| 4 | Mexico's president, ladiesDoes this photo remind anyone of a certain current American presidential candidate? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 12:35 PM |
| 22 | ....What? That...is absolutely revolting.Hmmmm which of the genders is known for never washing their hands again? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 12:23 PM |
| 3 | What the meanest thing you’ve said to a guy who deserved it?I’m confused. You were already at the restaurant, but when he arrived he asked if you were ready to go to the restaurant? The one you were already at that he met you at? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Y’all heard him!!This Miles dude is publicly criticizing his own girlfriend and speculating about breaking up with her, on a public platform. If he’s posting with his real name, that is seriously disrespectful. He could have that conversation with his gf privately instead of publicly putting her down to compliment a woman he probably doesn’t even know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Another woman who initiated, was more invested, and paid for his shit is treated like garbage and dumped. Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men...That was painful to read. Why would she even WANT to be with a guy like him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 08:06 PM |
| 3 | HVM don't begrudge women for screening men. They understand why we need to do it.I don’t mean to derail but notice how nearly every post about HVM mentions him having sisters? Or being raised primarily by a mom, or being raised in a matriarchal household with aunties and grandmas... I’ve also noticed it offline. When you meet a man who just exudes HVM-ness and respectful gentlemanliness, just wait until family comes up. Guarantee he starts talking about having lots of sisters, speaks highly of his mom, was raised in a female-led household. Does anyone else notice this? Obvio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 09:22 AM |
| 2 | And that’s that on that.10/10 would blaze up with Shaggy and eat quad-decker sandwiches with him. Platonic male friend goals 2020. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 09:11 AM |
| 2 | FDS is NOT and will NEVER BE anything like The RedPill or MGTOW, and we are NOT incels. They’re playing tiddly-winks and we’re playing expert level chess.Agreed!! I always wished I had an older sister. If I’d found this sub ten years ago (or a similar environment offline) it would have saved me soooooo much trauma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 08:48 AM |
| 4 | FDS is NOT and will NEVER BE anything like The RedPill or MGTOW, and we are NOT incels. They’re playing tiddly-winks and we’re playing expert level chess.That’s funny, sad, cringe, and also kind of infuriating all at once. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 08:46 AM |
| 2 | FDS is NOT and will NEVER BE anything like The RedPill or MGTOW, and we are NOT incels. They’re playing tiddly-winks and we’re playing expert level chess.This is so true. There is never any discussion on FDS about how we can trick men, make ourselves seem better than we are, find men with weaknesses to prey on, manipulate men or force them to change. Our entire “strategy” here is just to leave them when they show themselves to be LVM and (optionally, if possible) find a HVM. That’s it. No lying. No trickery. No manipulation. Not comparable at all to PUA strategy at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 08:44 AM |
| 13 | And that’s how you do itWas anyone else irritated that she left the game there for him to keep? Them shits are like $60! If he cared about her so little to cheat on her like that, he probably wasn’t all that hurt by this and still enjoyed the game. If it were me, I wouldn’t have left the game, my key, and his breakfast. That’s closure. I’d have made it look like I was never even there. Let him sweat. Let him wonder what it was that made me leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 08:24 AM |
| 6 | Don’t send long paragraphs explaining how you feel to men who don’t careIt really is dehumanizing. Never, NEVER again!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 08:13 AM |
| 3 | The Return of the ExI’d take this with a grain of salt if it was during college. For any college-aged individuals, it is a wise move not to alter any pre-determined college and early career plans for someone they’re dating, especially if they haven’t been dating a super long time. Take for example a couple that meets in senior year of college and hit it off really well, but then they find they’ve both committed to different grad schools or internships really far sway from each other. If that were the situation - an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 10:46 AM |
| 46 | Might I suggest an escort?Imagine trying to get someone to spend time with you by advertising how boring your evening is... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:14 PM |
| 97 | Not dating related but wtf..Typical behavior from men who refer to adult women as “girl” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Working as a Postpartum Nurse has raised my standards tenfold. Here’s why.They confuse “traditional” with “don draper wannabe” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:40 AM |
| 6 | Women, stop wasting years of your life begging and pleading with your partner to go to a doctor for his obvious issues. You are burning yourself out and it's not your responsibility.The parenthetical in your first paragraph reminded me that in many parts of the world, the idea that medical/dental debt can be life-ruining is such an absurd idea that you had to explain it in a parenthetical. And yet in the US we are like “is universal healthcare even possible? who knows...” like, the rest of the world. That’s who knows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 12:12 AM |
| 42 | But you were sleeping and eating just fine when you cheated though...I agree with you. It’s a red flag to have no platonic female friends, because why can’t he be friends with women? Yet the “longtime close female friend” thing can be such a red flag when you aren’t sure yet if he’s a good man or not. When I first met my now-husband I was cautiously optimistic about the fact that he had a mixture of men and women as close friends. But nothing I ever saw in any of their interactions ever sent up the red flag for me. As I got to know him I realized he came from a f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 11:50 PM |
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