TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

tyveill Archive

View 1 post and 49 comments by tyveill on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
11

tyveill/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 06:49 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
6

Her next man appreciates you. My current girlfriend said her last bf offered to buy her new boobs. I wish she would have stayed with him until after 😂
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 09:52 PM
1

Queen is perfect for myself and a girlfriend when she comes over
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/26 12:34 PM
1

There are financial, insurance, tax, and security benefits to getting married
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/26 02:17 AM
5

The guy groups do exist but they turn into just hot or not, "would bang" or "she's all yours" groups. Nobody takes them seriously.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 06:55 AM
8

I don't think you understand NPD. When it comes to conflict, it is not a weakness, it is blatant disregard for the other party.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/25 12:13 PM
3

I went so far into debt so fast I tried to reconcile with my ex just so I could get back on my feet. Financial impact of divorce really sucks. But dude, bankruptcy with $250k income would be incredibly irresponsible.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/25 03:23 PM
6

It sounds like you failed to reduce your lifestyle expenses enough. This can be the hardest part with divorce is dropping way down in lifestyle, cost of living, etc, but is the real trick to faster financial recovery.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/25 11:29 AM
1

I am tolerant and inclusive, which is why I don't support racist narcissists ✌🏻
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/25 01:19 AM
-4

Confirmed she has bad taste in men
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/25 09:12 PM
-5

I'm hoping you're not the Trumpster, because that is an indicator of poor character, never marry one
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/25 08:09 PM
12

You got off cheap, congrats.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/25 03:46 PM
19

I was taken advantage of in my 15 year marriage and it has devastated me financially. It seems like everyone I date is looking for the same thing, somebody to take care of or spoil them. Sorry but I've already been down that path and I have little more to give other than my time, which is something that I will freely give to the right woman, but because I don't want to completely blend our lives I'm seen as avoidant.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/25 03:45 PM
1

Much easier to do as the woman
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/25 07:44 PM
-2

The naivety of youth 😭
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 02:40 PM
9

Here's the thing. Humans are not wired for lifetime partnerships, we are wired for relationships of varying lengths, but not the rest of our lives. It's our egos that require a sense of security that makes us think marriage is a good idea. It's not. The women there who are expressing this (relationships fine, marriage bad) which seems to be most of them, are not wrong and I think most men would agree. The ones in there saying avoid men at all costs are the minority. So I don't think that thread …
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 01:58 PM
5

He is, a very narcissistic one. Shouldn't have married in the first place.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/25 07:26 PM
1

But if you're already feeling bitter towards here, nothing will fix this and it's best to divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/25 08:45 PM
3

Yes, and here is the problem with how most people approach trying to "fix" a marriage prior to divorce, they try to spend more time together, do things together to rekindle the romance, when what they really need is separateness! Desire comes from novelty, and when two people are in each other's proximity for so long, it is completely natural for the desire to fade. So.. instead of trying counseling and date nights, encourage each other to find new hobbies! Then after months of doing this, do so…
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/25 08:44 PM
1

🤣
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 11:24 PM
2

Look at my post history and tell me I'm a woman lol
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 10:50 PM
0

Which is why it would totally be a flex. Haha. I'm searching for one myself. I already know if I was targeting 20 year olds I could probably get laid this weekend.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 07:37 PM
-1

Yea I didn't say it's an awful thing, as long as both were consenting, it's fine. But it's not a flex. Show me the attractive 40+ yr old boss lady you bedded who has her life in order and knows what she wants. Seducing a 20 year old as a 45+ year old man is like stealing candy from a baby and then bragging on reddit how to do it.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 06:46 PM
7

Bro banging a 20 year old as a late 40s guy is not a flex 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 02:58 PM
6

The chance of ending up back together and it working out are very slim. That doesn't mean you should fight tooth and nail. Try to be amicable about the split, but don't let yourself be taken advantage of as you will feel it for many years. Divorce lawyers can help navigate this and are worth the investment.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/25 01:12 AM
0

Prenump protects your assets before marriage Assets gained during marriage should be 50/50 This is part of the definition of marriage - if you don't want 50/50 during marriage years, don't get married I can't think of any reason divorce judges would rule any other way
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/25 03:51 PM
5

Read the book "no more Mr nice guy" Very enlightening I have to fight my nice guy tendencies. Women do not respond well to it
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/25 02:33 PM
3

Having recently started having success on dating apps and this advice is exactly what I would say too. As a man, you have to pay for the app, the men who are able to see likes and send messages to women even before matching are the ones getting the attractive women on dates, and even then success rates are low. You have to be willing to fail a lot. Play the game, get used to the rules, getting frustrated will just mean you won't have success.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/25 01:58 AM
2

3 more years. I've been paying for 7. 10 years of payments for a 15 year marriage
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/25 01:09 AM
7

The financial hit hurts a lot, for sure, but you will recover. Try not to focus on it too much and just do the best you can with what you have. It get's easier over time. I'm 7 years post divorce and free of financial responsibility in just 3 short years! The sooner it happens, the sooner you get through it. 45 is young.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/25 05:25 PM
4

Low sugar, less processed foods. I start with a lot of fresh fruits and veggies and build around that. "A poor diet can be one of the main culprits for low testosterone levels. A diet high in sugar can lead to insulin spikes, which prevents your body from producing hormones like testosterone. Aim to have a well balanced diet that includes fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and healthy fats."
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/25 07:44 PM
5

Downvoting for the must get on TRT comment. Get your test levels checked. I'm 48 and have never taken or needed TRT. But I've also worked out regularly for decades and stay away from dairy and hormone altering foods.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/25 05:06 PM
7

All I have to say is dating apps will really kill a man's self esteem. The worst thing you can do after divorce (that I did and learned from) is to jump right into dating apps and assume the matches you are able to get are any indication as to the women you can attract. Dating apps work for women who want a hook up, and if you're a top 5% super attractive man you can score regularly. For the rest of us, you have to find women through common interests and possibly social media and take your time …
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/25 05:03 PM
2

Yea wtf with the comment about men dating single moms. That's like 90% of the dating pool at my age (48)
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/25 04:28 PM
7

This is nothing worth getting upset about, my dude. Take a deep breathe and let it go.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/25 10:25 PM
1

Good to know. Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 10:17 AM
1

No this is KS metro area, MCOL. We started the divorce process after 14 years of marriage (finalized in year 15). Is permanent alimony after such a short time really a thing? Crazy. I didn't hold her back from her career. She finished school while we were together and she's working the job that aligns with her degree. It just doesn't pay well. I thought permanent alimony is for cases one spouse put aside their career for family.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/25 02:44 PM
4

I'm sorry. I think lifetime alimony is extortion! :( I'm going to count my blessings with my 10 year sentence.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 03:34 PM
2

Brother that is so long! When does it end?
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 03:12 PM
2

So I've done some research on this and it looks like a court order is required when any circumstances change as far as child living arrangement. Since we didn't do that, and just agreed to adjust my monthly payment down when the kids moved in with me, I think involving the court at this point could risk me being ordered back payments for child support.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 03:10 PM
2

If it costs me anywhere above $5k to get changes made, it wouldn't be worth it to me, even though that's less than what I would save, it's less money between both of us.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 11:57 AM
2

How much longer do you have to pay cs and alimony? How long were you married? You really got fleeced. Sorry man.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 11:54 AM
3

Thanks, appreciate the advice
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 02:50 AM
1

Without context this is irrelevant. When we ran the calculations on divorce it came out to $824 for 3 kids. You could be in a much higher cost of living area or have a bigger wage gap. Also since we each have one kid living with us, shouldn't there be zero child support required?
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 02:45 AM
1

I think any calculators would increase my obligation due to my salary increasing over the last 6 years. When we did it initially the total came up to $824 so we rounded up to $900 ($300/child)
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 09:16 PM
1

I'm not really wanting specifics, just general advice. Is it worthwhile to revisit a divorce agreement 6/10 years in? It could save me $20-40k which I would put towards the kids college funds (she just spends it on her expenses). But it sounds like it's unlikely.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 08:08 PM
1

The only significant change has been who the kids live with. At divorce, all 3 with her. Currently 1 with me, 1 with her, 1 moved out adult. We did reduce the child support I pay her by $300/child. I'm only paying her for the 1 still with her.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 07:36 PM
1

When we initially divorced, she had all 3 kids. Now she has 1 and I have 1. I just reduced the amount I pay her, but we haven't adjusted the other way for the child with me.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 07:35 PM
1

Kansas. I'm seeing some sites say it's capped at 10 years and others say it's capped at 121 months. https://www.kansaslegalservices.org/node/255/spousal-support-maintenance
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 07:21 PM
2

Yes, Kansas alimony is limited to 10 years unless extended for special circumstances. We agreed to the max length at the time because it also corresponded with our youngest turning 18.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 07:19 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter