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Quite disappointed with the comment section here and what's suggested by the post. Canceling stjdnet debt is great for everyone. I don't think we should blindly do the same toxic shit like making everything a gender thing wherever we feel it suits us. This is not a men's right issue.
/r/MensRights04/06/22 02:39 AM
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His (writing on his medical) situation regarding the circumcision was actually leaked a long time ago, which he addressed in the video. He didn't pull it out of thin air. Mew2k is literally autistic and well known - fondly - for his awkwardness/avoidance in social interaction/communication. But now he's also sharing literally his biggest and most personal secret, which is at the root of a life-long depression. Did you even watch the video with open eyes or did you go in looking for self-affirmat…
/r/MensRights05/07/20 08:47 PM
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No it's to show the logical inconsistency of how certain ideological takes misportray group identity and statistics. He noted that men are the one 'privileged' to be sent to war to fight and die, exposing the selectivity by which certain modern feminists claim the existence of a kind of patriarchy that oppresses women (and minorities) but makes life great for men. He effectively made a (valid) point about how men as a group are much more likely than women to be sent to and/or suffer from wars an…
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/20 07:06 AM
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A movement towards equality of rights will be a net gain in power for women, and that is a primal driver that underlies it, for all would know this instinctively, by an instinct that may be subconsciously driving reaction and action, even if rationalised on the surface with idyllic ideas. Not that I say it is a movement bad in itself, but a movement that requires awareness of this instinctive drive. Because we see exactly the same in the opposite directions: a movement towards equality of respon…
/r/MensRights27/01/19 01:27 PM
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Good Bot!
/r/MensRights26/01/19 12:02 PM
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Yes the trigger words that threaten peoples comfort zones... It's funny also how the tools and methods might be Orwellian, the way it perverts kind of hedonism and false idea of what is good, seems more reminiscent Huxley
/r/MensRights23/01/19 09:26 AM
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I agree in terms of personal responsibility, but entered the catch 22 situation that everyone who takes upon them this personal responsibility connects from the platforms that are able to make their voice loud. It would be different if it all was just the passive medium of television, but nowadays the consumption of media is intertwined with the engagement with - and most problematically - the perpetuation of information and media thereafter. This is a particularly powerful variable because on s…
/r/MensRights23/01/19 01:02 AM
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Thanks for making this an interesting discussion! Someone gave me similar responses on the things I said above, and I do admit I am still trying to get grips on the matter, but I stand with the general reasoning. The thing is, you're absolutely right on both of your thoughts: Humans have always been an angry, stupid mob. Technology (e.g. tv internet) has not made us "more extreme", at least not significantly at the level of natural disposition. But I sense you're already stumbling on how technol…
/r/MensRights22/01/19 11:33 PM
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Thanks for your thoughts! You're absolutely in that I've emphasised a technical explanation of the concept, and to a much lesser degree the roles it plays and effects it has in practice. I tried going into that in the edit, where your part on your personal experience resonates strongly with. This perspective of it being an intrinsic reality we need to supress is indeed one of the most fundamentally distorted perspectives. What I try to emphasize therein is that it forces people to believe that t…
/r/MensRights22/01/19 04:12 PM
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Well said, especially poignant in the last bit which emphasises how they're committing the sin of entrenching sexist perspectives themselves implicitly. But before we can do what you suggest we need a proper consensus on what entails f/m toxicity, to overcome the resistance that we should anticipate, so it can enter and survive in the discourse in a form that is conducive rather than mostly fueling more polarisation with new language. In turn it also allows us to set boundaries for what is not m…
/r/MensRights22/01/19 03:32 PM
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I've been lucky enough to have gone into the Red Pill Movie pretty blind. I think it was after seeing someone talk on Reddit about the interview you mention. The logical consistency is indeed too often too lacking, especially on the group/mob level. At least on the mob level there is the 'excuse' that the mob doesn't represent a movement or philosophy (if you would consider forms of feminism as a philosophy). But what can not be excused is giving a platform to mob mentality and even celebrating …
/r/MensRights22/01/19 01:55 PM
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Also this is what my greatest gripe is with the SJW construction and depiction of masculinity, for I view it as a deep moral transgression: People lack a conception of masculinity, or at the very least seem to be actively discouraged to even consider it a worthy thing to be thinking about. In that absence, there is a barrage of shit thrown at people that are vulnerable and still developing their idea of what masculinity entails - especially teenagers and children, both female and male - that the…
/r/MensRights22/01/19 01:04 PM
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Exactly! Thank you for this, I'm really glad to hear it. It's important not to let the bulk of the comments that are negative or just as closed-minded as what we're against, define the community.
/r/MensRights22/01/19 12:55 PM
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Yeah it's infuriating how it's become accepted to define all men in relation to a form of toxicity, and that toxicity as somehow masculine in essence. It's part of the bigger infuriating ideology of how everything bad in the world is due to some evil patriarchy. to me, masculinity means having integrity to oneself, a value of 'strength' - in the broadest sense - that helps the world, and seeing truth as a divine thing to pursue. But that's just words. If I would get as specific as possible I'd s…
/r/MensRights22/01/19 12:53 PM
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Thank you for the kind compliment! It's very appreciated since the it feels many don't like my comments in these threads, which makes me a bit pessimistic about the community in this subreddit. I was hoping the people here would be more receptive and encouraging of nuance here and not fall into the same trap the public discourse keeps falling in.
/r/MensRights22/01/19 12:23 PM
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Man I feel you, thanks for sharing. And this is exactly what I'm trying to convey. I used to feel like that too, probably because I never had a male role model, and it's pretty shitty. I'm glad you just try not to be a dick, but some people might feel that they are forced to make a choice, between being a dick and being "not manly enough" in the face of others, be it peers or potential partners. This is the problem I feel, because just because some choose the "don't act like a dick" route, doesn…
/r/MensRights22/01/19 11:22 AM
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I agree that that's a terrible implication, and absolutely disgusting that certain people actually act is if that's the truth. But to add more nuance, there is a legitimate risk of living your life and developing your being as if the goal is to become increasingly manly if and only if your ideas of what it means to be manly, is limited, crude, and not part of a more holistic and balanced view of life and identity. I think Terry Crews is a great positive example. He even wrote a book on what it m…
/r/MensRights22/01/19 11:10 AM
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I hate the use of the concept "toxic masculinity" too, but it's not that there is an idea that may have some merit. We live in an age without role models, where we have been so fucking "woke" we eroded the meaning that underlied gender roles, both good and bad. Most people will want to know and explore what it is to be a man or woman, but how do they know what is good and what not? Which qualities need to be taken in moderation? This is the issue. Not masculinity or feminity, but the lack of hea…
/r/MensRights22/01/19 10:23 AM
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Obesity =/= chubby, retard. Don't get me wrong, I'm against the fat pride bullshit, but my conception of chubby (some love handles, belly being simply not fat) overlaps with healthy body weights (per the BMI). And honestly if youre this eager to see manipulative communication everywhere that's quite sad honestly. Maybe the man was really just expressing his personal preference and view that chubby is ok. Maybe, you know, because it is. We need to reserve some space between the slim and fat, for …
/r/MensRights27/07/18 05:41 PM
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Dude let the man have his own preferences. I think he's just expressing that he would prefer to see a world where we don't need to be harsh on ourselves or others. I think he's commenting on the fact that /u/Celwind23 feels like she needs to work - perhaps suspecting it might be based on societal norms rather than personal alues - on her chubbiness, which he perhaps sees as a reflection of harshness in society. I don't think /u/fonduman is trying to change her standards, or suggesting it's wrong…
/r/MensRights27/07/18 11:38 AM
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If they only serviced women in training, there's no way they would have even been able to show up this sort of thing No I don't think it would've mattered. That one girl really has the worst attitude ever. Can't get anything through to her.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/10/16 01:31 AM
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