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| 1 | Some girls are just really shy don’t take it the wrong wayWell, than that's something you gotta work on. He did absolutely right. Shot his shot, when you didn't reciprocate (and you didn't, doesn't matter if you like him or not, you gotta act) he stopped engaging. You did reject him, just wasn't intentional. | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 12:59 PM |
| 25 | Why do women say: "The bar is so low for men" yet to get any results from cold approach as an avg guy, the interaction has to be exceptional basically. And even then nothing is guaranteedThat are 2 types of bars. The first one is attraction - looks, social skills, confidence etc; the second one is kindness, Job, healthy conflict resolution. Women have really high requisites for the 1st one. The initial attraction, the "spark"; as for the second one... The ones that pass the first one usually don't care much about the second. If the guy is focused on getting laid, not necessarily that interested in climbing the corporate ladder and/or learning how to healthy communicate. That's w… | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 12:05 PM |
| 2 | How does one become less needy and narcissistic?Go to therapy, thats the best way, will take time, but will help. Now to be more practical. When you're interested in her ask her out BEFORE you like her. And remember, its a date, not a lifetime, if she says no, move on, no hard feelings, but cut her off. If she says yes, go, but don't create big expectations, again, its just a date. | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked?Being direct works for me, but only by also being nonchalant. Basically: I ask her out when I start being attracted to her, if she says yes, cool. If she says no, I don't speak to her again (actually I have the rule of two. Ask her once, she can say no, ask her twice, ,if she says no, bye. Unless she offers another time, than thats fine). Simping, per se, only to when we're formally dating | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 12:56 PM |
| 4 | How to respond to low effort/boring/vague messages?They're custom made to the profile haha, but the logic is: I try to think outside the box, something that usually wouldn't be mentioned. For example: she posts a selfie in the mirror and I can see a perfume on the background, I ask what brand is that and where she got it; if she's at a restaurant, I ask whats the dish at the plate and if she lhas the recipe (this is a good one for me, because I like to cook and show it on my profile). The starting part is the hardest for me, after I get a few re… | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 02:24 PM |
| 8 | How to respond to low effort/boring/vague messages?I have the rule of 2: Try it once, boring answer, try it again, if there's another boring answer I'm out. Yes, I use creative and non conventional lines, not only questions. The answers are not necessarily essays, just something more than "yes", "no", "ok", "I don't know". The rule of two can sometimes be broken considering context, tho | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Girl asked to be exclusive on second date—how to not give boyfriend?Look I get wanting exclusivity after 1 date, happened to me and my ex, I dont regret it. But both people have to be into it, if you're not, you're not. You didn't lie,or led her on. She wanted it, she wasn't wrong for asking (bit pushy, especially the not letting you leave after the 1st date), but she was wrong for the emotional blackmail. All in all, you were clear and direct, but you wanted different things - it happens a lot - lifes like that. Keep doing what you're doing | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 02:58 PM |
| 6 | A quick guide: why you should never try to win back an exI won't. I'll get some work done and go to sleep, better use of my time | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 01:00 AM |
| 26 | A quick guide: why you should never try to win back an exFucking hell man... I was literally thinking about breaking our 4 month no contact when this showed up. Thanks for this | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 12:11 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Got a crush on a friend, she said "I love you, but you don't make me horny", after that I realized that I held back most of my life. Decided that I would try to be more spontaneous and hit on more girls, that was a few months ago, got mixed results, but I'm so glad I'm doing it. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 05:11 PM |
| 3 | A few standards any guy should haveGood bot | /r/seduction | 29/12/20 01:54 AM |
| 2 | I think I'm going to be ok nowI'll steal this line, thanks | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 01:34 PM |
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