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ubersecurity_no/r/MGTOW25/05/18 12:34 PM
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Boys. Just make a rutine and always do her first. Thank me later.
/r/seduction24/11/17 01:22 PM
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I love to play hard to get :) I love to bounce her "you ain't getting any" ASD lines. I love to play along "yeah, sure you sleep on the sofa. Need a pillow" Im confident, smiles, sly, sublime, push, pull. I'm agnostic towards pushing to sex. It's there. It's on the table. At some point they break. I not asked or need to escelate manualy for the last 2 years imo. But I only go all way with say 1/10.. There match towards sexual energy, I need communication and "chemistry". So the holy grail is to …
/r/seduction24/11/17 01:17 PM
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You can get passed this by reframing your goals. You clearly master the game, why not try focus on master your own sexuality and get in synch with that ? Like if you goal was to give the girl the outmost insane experience ever ? Can you make her "beg for it ?" Rather than aiming for a "score", try lift your game towards mastering the sublime, tease, buildup. The "true masters" creates an enviroment where the girl simply can't resist and almost get angry when you do the hard to get rutine. You go…
/r/seduction24/11/17 12:59 PM
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The #meetoo thing is not relevant or something I realy care about. I been only nice to my girls, so why should I feel different ? Im secure on my values.
/r/seduction22/11/17 01:23 PM
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it's hard to find girls who: are reasonably attractive, don't have boyfriends/husbands, who are into me, who aren't going to put up a bunch of resistance to the idea of sex, who aren't just time-wasters looking for attention. One thing that's realy missing here is filtering, looking for redflags etc. Having experienced bad girls is also a thing. Many here just want one shot at one cruch. Be aware that you should have an rutine towards this. I been stalked, deathtreats and other crazy stuff. Girl…
/r/seduction22/11/17 01:17 PM
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They've lost the ability to use their imagination and have a blast. I taken me some time to be confy to ignore the norms and do the things I love without looking over my shoulders. And I get a bit flames for it to.
/r/seduction22/11/17 01:12 PM
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"Are you master of your emotions or do they control and overwhelm you?" In a way I see myself as "master of my universe". Everything in my life that's bad is my "fault". Everything that I want can be mine if I can "think it". I channel my emotions towards energy. They come and go, but help me lift. I try "lead" my way thru life, and emotions are part of it. When emotions comes at bad timing or overwhelm I steer myself a bit back, and try angle my direction/energy towards usefulness. I don't comp…
/r/seduction22/11/17 11:23 AM
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But fun when it get dirty or pics swap imo.
/r/seduction22/11/17 10:57 AM
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I not tired, but is on my list of things I would happy to try. As for travel, I always read up on the country culture/dating norms.
/r/seduction22/11/17 10:48 AM
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If you moving towards pure hookups, you also get many bots, premiums, fakes etc Just an pov.
/r/seduction22/11/17 09:47 AM
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Clean your room and your body is your tempel
/r/seduction22/11/17 09:27 AM
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"So what you're saying is to define my life according to my own ideals" Based on my life experience, yes. "societal ideals" are just constructions, you don't have to join in. Or like me, try "fake it" or just adapt to needed level to be below the radar. "Redpill" is just one directions towards "alpha" values, and I don't agree with eveything there. I see it much more as "your quest" towards "alphaness", than before/first. It's an selftransformation and an "journey" towards an "vision". The idea …
/r/seduction22/11/17 08:36 AM
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Use the cold/boring ones for this. And yes, a bit. But others are better to give your insight in how others "see you".
/r/seduction21/11/17 03:19 PM
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As an male this is the point where I expect and "you" as an girl to be a bit bored and snap something. When I "played" my game like this, I do it to get "confirmation" your into me. Note how he used his friend to fish to. The male here seems to be secure and played the game well, this is a an good thing imo. I bet he has already have an plan/thoughs to take out out or something, waiting for you to give some confirmation. Discuss, but I'm thinking sending the usual female "Look at me, I'm a bit b…
/r/seduction21/11/17 02:29 PM
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I get 2-3 matches a day (I don't swipe, just look at the one swiped me) I match them and see if anybodt start talking. 1/10 start talking. So I try get the talk over to snap. So 2-3 matches a day, one over to snap a week(ish) Not in the mood for dates, so I just keep them warm on snap and watch the well for red flags. I delete 2-3 on snap a week to to keep off the uninteresting ones. Will try bar tonight, old school and many years since.
/r/seduction21/11/17 02:14 PM
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You don't have to swipe.
/r/seduction21/11/17 02:06 PM
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You should smile and look forward to an awesome experience :)
/r/seduction21/11/17 02:03 PM
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"it's 90% his attitude, his distrustful nature of others, his rejection sensitivity, etc. There are no leagues." This is my thought process/angle at it. Or put it like this. The more you focus on "cleaning your room", getting secure, dealing with rejection the more secure you get. The more you "lead" your life, the more people will "follow" as in options/possibilities. As someone older and with autistic treaks. Fsck the norm. Do your own stuff.
/r/seduction21/11/17 01:27 PM
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Yeah. But they also very different. So I found "for the sake of argument" as balaced.
/r/seduction21/11/17 01:10 PM
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Goal with the chat is to be interesting and get an "date/meeting". Bonus is nudes on snap. It's also to filter imo. Are they on drugs Are they sluts Do they have some sanity in life etc.
/r/seduction21/11/17 01:09 PM
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When I was young my roomates hated me as I don't give a fsck when I bring girls and banged them in my room. I don't care they heard.
/r/seduction21/11/17 01:05 PM
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wine lubrication
/r/seduction21/11/17 01:04 PM
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Actions here should be in faq/top post imo.
/r/seduction21/11/17 12:04 PM
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"reading peoples body language" I spendt endless time study body language in various forms. I say it lifted my game say 25% Like when at a dinner place. Who is on a date here. Are the dates happy. (She looks bored, he's showing off and she thiks it's to much etc) Who are single here. Can i "see it" ? Do I get any looks ? etc.
/r/seduction21/11/17 12:00 PM
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"Women" should be careful to be used as group. But for the sake of argument, let's try. A female growing up get exposed towards "disney" idea of relationship. I.e She is pretty and get things from boys running to get "dates". When she get's older she starts getting "offers" towards her sexuality. So from her pov, her looks gives her threats. So where did she learn/been aware that just friendship are at equal terms ? No where. She could just "can you hold/gimme/drive me" all her life. She not eve…
/r/seduction21/11/17 11:57 AM
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This should be top post imo.
/r/seduction21/11/17 11:44 AM
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Embrace what's refeerd to as "alpha values" Spending a few years moving towards this have improved every espect of my life, and made me secure in every arena. Moving towards "leading" my life moved focus from running after, to getting offers. It works. Females follow "leaders" who have a plan and mission in life. Start with "cleaning your room." Not how much better things feel and how much less stress it is to lay down "shit to do" list and execute. Now imagine how you would shine, be confident …
/r/seduction21/11/17 11:43 AM
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I do techno/EDM/trance myself and RTFM towards identify molly usage. Just saying you should be aware the pro/cons towards chatting with girl that might be on drugs :)
/r/seduction21/11/17 11:35 AM
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"miss the taste of strawberry when we made out bae, you up for thegame/food/beer<thing> on wensday ?" (Adapt text towards your age/culture) No reply, move on. Even if she don't reply and you see/meet her. Give her a good smile/look, but keep beeing with the boys etc. Keep some "distance". She right, she will come over and chat.
/r/seduction21/11/17 11:31 AM
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"If she’s attracted to you, it’s likely the sexual tension is already there... " My list of "confirmation": She mimic my body moves, slang. Bite lip, tounge thing. Hair thing. Hands not in xross/reserved. Sly smile. Pickups if I reframe/go odd. Tracks is back to the "flow" Checkout my ass, abs etc as I walk. Becomes a bit childish. Don't flish when I do sublime touches, ie. We take this bar "Takes hands on shoulder" and "moves" her. In my experience a half a bottle of wine get them to openup tow…
/r/seduction21/11/17 11:24 AM
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It's called "the game" for a reason. "Her saying 'okayy sure' to a lunch date" Work on that bro, she said "yes" kinda. So I ask you "when ?" :)
/r/seduction21/11/17 11:10 AM
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Viagra gives you Iron, cialis gives your "support wheel" (You still need stimulation) A few rounds with cialis might give you confidence and help your mental though process. A few ideas: Try identify your primal drive/Sex preference. Your triggers.
/r/seduction21/11/17 11:01 AM
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I use to hire airbnb a bit off city. (Bring food, wine, snaks) Or try reframe it. Like. Oh, bea. We need to go to your place. My place is shit. Sorry (In an funny way) Dating/meeting girls keep your game up. After some time, I get better and filter "uninteresting" ones. But I needed to be in the game to get there. Also wonderful way to have a date and train to not have sex as "goal". Also learn/understand more, dare to ask how they see you etc.
/r/seduction21/11/17 10:57 AM
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I going out tonight, and for fun I will try some moves and be focused on how I think/move/adapt. Been a few years since I did bar rounds/stuff. I prob aim for just using my eyecontact to try get some attension and steer it towards they coming up to me. Should that fail I try execute some variants and test. My goal would not be to drag them home, more hungry/interested and some nudes on snap.
/r/seduction21/11/17 10:48 AM
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What makes you think beeing an "interesting person" provides good sosial/convo skills ? (Open question) Further. Marketing your personality towards what group and with what goal ? POV: The way your "popularity" works imo is what you actualy do. The "popular" group in your sosial world, have "properties" that appel towards them. A tip would be to spend time analyse and understanding your local dynamics.
/r/seduction21/11/17 10:36 AM
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Cool, I like how you reflect on the comments. There's no right/wrong. Only better/bader imo. I myself use part of your suggestions, but for other motives and different contekst. So it's not "wrong". Ie. At some time sex has to be discussed, and I want to read out where we at. I prob use and long/short thing as an "shit test" more to check how prude she is. Ss in are she confy talking about it ? I can be subline, like an hint "towards 50 shades" a bit long pause with a smile to "read off" if she …
/r/seduction21/11/17 10:30 AM
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Agree. There hookup/tindergame<->pickup artist/bar areas where this might be fitting. But the goal there would be to get the snap/phone to move to date/flix. I think the guide misses one big point. The girl needs to feel secure. Girls get dpicks, rapejokes and what not daily, how about a few icebreakers to make her lover her guard and feel confy ? You should be nice. You going to be imtimate with someone. This is very sensitive area where you are nude. Require some communication, beeing nice you…
/r/seduction21/11/17 10:17 AM
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It's the usual cat/mouse game we play at that age imo, where we develop out consept of relations ship and imtimate settings. IDK, but just guessing young males getting the drive, beeing insecure and just trying "to get some" from fast track guides. Very fast to loose focus on beeing an "ok person", communicate and other needed skills for an reasonable good experience. I staed before that I blame media a bit for this. There no current tv shows that gives any useful consepts towards "healty hookup…
/r/seduction21/11/17 10:05 AM
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Get more tindermatches/chats.
/r/seduction21/11/17 09:27 AM
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Up your profile, maybe be a bit more direct of your intensions ? Also just using Tinder gold get you all the current matches to prefilter, and if you wait and only reply to matches who say hi you kinda have the game up ?
/r/seduction21/11/17 09:23 AM
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Older male here: There very different "hooking up" at 15-20ish vs more "adult" like when 25++ I think this are using wording/thoughs that reflect young age and from an male pov. Again claimed "if you want to bang a girl" kinda advise. There's mostly elements from the usual rutines here, but imo a bit badly written and missing some points I would hightlight/focus on. I like "Building sexual tension is more about what you do and not what you say". The sublime things like looks, smiles, touches, li…
/r/seduction21/11/17 09:19 AM
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As in beeing sociopathy ? ;D I know you did't mean that, but I said it to make sure you have an clear picture/mind. Rejection, fear, uncertanity are normal and maybe needed to be and grow as humans. But: Don't take Tinder as an "dating app" to serious. I see it as an "hobby" more to get something to do than to realy find a girlfriend. Having more plates spinning removes my "onetis" like behaviour and thinking, and rejection just means I move to other more interesting subjects. "Clean your room" …
/r/seduction20/11/17 12:27 PM
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Save anything from any crashed date in your safe.
/r/seduction20/11/17 12:01 PM
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Thanks. Feel good you got the idea. Stay safe.
/r/seduction20/11/17 11:59 AM
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Give some time to reflect and "feel" your way on next partner. Things sometimes just don't work, think/adapt, retry.
/r/seduction20/11/17 11:56 AM
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How did it go :)
/r/seduction20/11/17 11:54 AM
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I also said "move on", so I'm with the others. The reason for beeing over polite and set an proper appology is to level it down so when you move on, you have as little as possible ground for her to downtalk you later etc. Aik this is the best reply to the cards you have. Just imagine how complicated it will be if you get to sex with the level of communication here. So I say clean everything, and move on with as little as possible. Let her think about the kiss and how strange she played her cards…
/r/seduction16/11/17 02:15 PM
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Feel free add me on snap with an pm if you want. Happy to spar/coach
/r/seduction16/11/17 02:05 PM
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I think you should lift yourself from speculating and feelings things towards this. See it this way. If you had bad sides, they would prob say so ? So as far you know your ok. Dating means you need defence towards rejection, so part of the game.
/r/seduction16/11/17 01:48 PM
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Tinder is tinder, so what did you expect ? Personaly I don't focus or spend time on those who fall out or loose interest, as they like you said don't communicate anything feedback I should adapt to anyway. In generaly I play "hard to get" and only respond to those who start's dialoge and are active. This give higher odds for those I actualy end up meeting. Unless you get some feedbacks, you should't be sad or take it personaly.
/r/seduction16/11/17 12:28 PM
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Say sorry you felt this way and make sure she get's an full apology and move on.
/r/seduction16/11/17 12:19 PM
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Suggestion: Try score an backup date at the sisters prome, so you could ither play your date if needed towards your target, or just try her as plan b. Point is that having option makes you secure and avoid the onetis thinking towards her. Always have option!
/r/seduction16/11/17 12:15 PM
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40 here, I always bring a Cialis in my pocket if I'm in the hunt mode and could be on an ONS or new date etc. I had same experience and think it's chemistry. To agressive or "Dude, bring it out" without any forplay or dialoge don't work for me.
/r/seduction16/11/17 12:12 PM
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