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"Two christmases!" OMGLol
/r/askTRP12/08/13 05:32 PM
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Good to hear things seem ok. That must have been a real TV moment, dropping that line over dinner. Your dad has some serious balls.
/r/askTRP12/08/13 05:26 PM
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How's your parents marriage now? How did your mother take it?
/r/askTRP12/08/13 05:15 PM
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Say "thank you for the pleasant evening" and point her to the door or say you think she should leave. If she was EVER going to fuck you, that would have been the time (you asking her to leave), if no then, then it would never happen.
/r/askTRP12/08/13 05:04 PM
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However, when anyone gives you any honestly constructive advice that doesn't have to do with what a prude your wife is, you assert that she deserved your infidelity. I can understand there being miss-understanding, my point is not that the infidelity was ok, just that there was a reason for it, i.e. it's not without a cause. My experience is that no matter what she has done before, it's trumped by the fact that I was unfaithful. I lost a lot as a result of the affair, job, home, family and was e…
/r/askTRP12/08/13 04:56 PM
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Thanks for the comment, we've got a magic wand, a big purple one. edit: actually just after reading your link to your other comment and it's quite good. Also, why do you say it's too late for anal?
/r/askTRP12/08/13 04:27 PM
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If she isn't over it, have you apologized? Spent the last 1 & 1/2 years apologizing.
/r/askTRP12/08/13 03:57 PM
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I'm almost convinced he's a troll. Look, I'm just try to work things out, I'm going by the symptoms as I see them and trying to find if anyone else can make sense of them more than me. It's really helpful for me to get an fresh point of view, even if it's that POV is based on the limited info I've provided. I originally thought this was a RedPill issue (as you can see from my description). This be legit.
/r/askTRP12/08/13 03:46 PM
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To answer 1, they happend pretty much because I had given up on my wife, I was living in her country and had been for 3 years, told her I was very unhappy there. Her reaction was "meh", I took that as she didn't really care about me and started looking around. The girl I messed around with turned out to be a complete bitch and revealed the whole thing to my emplyer and then my wife. 2) Don't know what to say to this.
/r/askTRP12/08/13 03:02 PM
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I agree.
/r/askTRP12/08/13 02:33 PM
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This is probably the most incitefull comment on here so far. I don't think it's full on hating me with her vagina, but there is an element of that. You are right it's structural, with kink and dominance not solving it. She doesn't hate me though, just sometimes when she's reminded of what happened, she gets enraged.
/r/askTRP12/08/13 01:57 PM
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after you publicly humiliated her by cheating It wasn't just her who was humuliated, I lost my job and litterally had to leave the country, starting my entire life from scratch, and it's only now 1 & 1/2 years later that she was willing to come back only after I had gotten a house and car. She isn't blameless for the affairs either.
/r/askTRP12/08/13 01:19 PM
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She moved in a month ago after you cheated on her twice? It's not like she didn't deserve it, I had ejected from the marriage mentally and emotionally after what she had done (not an affair, but kidnapped our child, and then attempted to force a life changing decision onto me (decided she would spend the next 5 years studying and staying somewhere I didn't want). If we didn't have a child I would have finished with her long ago. Do I regret having the affairs, yes. Do I regret letting her do tho…
/r/askTRP12/08/13 08:38 AM
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AAAAnd this is what my problem seems to be (also other stuff).
/r/askTRP11/08/13 11:26 PM
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Alcohol is usually best way to get women dirtier. GOD WHY AM I BLOCKED AT EVERY TURN!!! SHE STOPPED DRINKING YEARS AGO!!!!!!AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAgggggggggggg.............
/r/askTRP11/08/13 10:09 PM
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Well, give her credit for making the correct assumption, unless it was for you. Even if it was for me, she'd say no.
/r/askTRP11/08/13 10:03 PM
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It's not a good thing that she started crying when you used dirty talk. You'll want to find out why that happened. Ask her. The first time she started crying was a week ago, I put in a lot of effort into forplay, lots of kissing all over the body and touching, attempted cunninlingus. She said it reminded her of "when I was with them", i.e. the other girls. Although we've had sex and done this(lots of foreplay) plenty of times since that happened (see the update). For dirty talk, we've done it be…
/r/askTRP11/08/13 09:59 PM
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I suspect she sees herself as the good girl (Madonna) within the context of your relationship. Oh yes, she likes to think she's a good girl, and not like other women, and better than the others (TM).
/r/askTRP11/08/13 09:50 PM
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Age is early 30's for us both. Suggestion of a physical is a good idea, I'll go that done. I don't think she's checked out of any part of the relationship, but that there is a mental block. She is happy for me to fuck other women, but I always come home to her. Would love this arrangement, not likely to happen though.
/r/askTRP11/08/13 09:48 PM
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I don't care what she wants at this point, I'm trying to figure out how to get what I want.
/r/askTRP11/08/13 09:46 PM
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I've been on her ass for anal since the begining, this is nothing new, I didn't even ask her to use the gag, I'd just got it with the other stuff.
/r/askTRP11/08/13 09:40 PM
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Madonna-Whore complex Interesting but it doesn't make much sense, as in she see's herself in this way? Or are you suggesting I have the complex?
/r/askTRP11/08/13 09:22 PM
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Also when we've talked about it she's said she enjoys sex, and like I mentioned she was happy enough with the costumes.
/r/askTRP11/08/13 08:32 PM
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Doesn't seem to be, she does enjoy it most of the time, and can mastrubate to climax while were having sex.
/r/askTRP11/08/13 08:30 PM
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Have you read my other comments? Tongue in cheek, I've no idea on how to get her to talk about something shes doesn't want to express.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 12:19 PM
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Maybe I should just randomly slap her in the face.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 09:35 AM
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At the beginning of the marriage I was young so any sex was good. It has been better before, it was better in March but has gone downhill since there. Not really star-fish sex, but for example, when doing doggy she'll put her head to the pillow and not really make any noise or move. Missionary is star-fish, occasionally it's legs in the air missionary.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 02:29 PM
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We have spoken quite a bit, she has no fantasies (or won't tell me).
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 02:13 PM
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No, but we're not talking about a sexless marriage, just the sex isn't good.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 02:02 PM
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if she objects tell her to shut the fuck up. This is where I've been getting stuck, I'll go to do something and she's "no", if I keep pushing it she can get really angry.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 01:48 PM
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She could if she was stupid, but she's not, so she wont.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 01:26 PM
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She's my wife, thats not a problem.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 01:09 PM
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Don't know why this is being downvoted, solid advice, don't sugar coat it, other wise you might eat that too.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 12:00 PM
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She gasps a little.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 11:49 AM
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We're close enough, so it's not about being connected. We've been married 10 years and in that time I've gone bald (well still got hair left but it's thinning so I shave), I've gotten really hairy (so I back wax, nose pluck and generally trim) and I've put on weight, got a small beer belly. I'm pretty muscular but not very well defined. If sex is happening so regularly the funamentals are ok, but I guess it's not flipping her whore switches. I'm guessing this isn't a problem with being alpha, I'…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 10:55 AM
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Good idea, we're generally silent apart from the bed banging.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 10:43 AM
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Forgot to mention, I'm TRP all the time now.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 10:17 AM
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