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You have men's studies classes, they're called History classes.
/r/MensRights22/05/11 09:13 PM
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3 second rule. Walk into room, see set, within 3 seconds approach.
/r/seduction29/12/10 08:01 PM
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oh its definitely better to keep hold of as many as you want, but I just think that if one is becoming too much trouble, why bother?
/r/seduction29/12/10 01:14 PM
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wait, you have only one girl for two months? You could increase that number. If you have oneitus, well, that'd be your problem. If you just want a fuck buddy, then why are you spending so much work on this one when you could just go pick up another? Spread out your time between more women.
/r/seduction28/12/10 04:00 PM
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the dance floor is a trap, do not try to game there. No girl is impossible, just more difficult. If you built social proof first, you might have had a shot once they sat down. But then again, they're just one set, and at a club there are tons of sets. Just move on =)
/r/seduction28/12/10 12:28 PM
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There is too much information out there to keep up with. And if you want to add new DHV activities to your life to better yourself along with your game (motorcycle, rock climbing, etc.) you don't have time to learn everything. But here's the thing, you don't have to learn everything. If what you're doing is working, and consistently working, you probably don't need to learn much more. Just keep going till you're a natural and work with what ya got.
/r/seduction28/12/10 10:59 AM
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I've tried telling girls a few times that I'm a pick up artist. Its never worked for me anywhere close to opening. In comfort once, when asked what I like to do, I thought it'd be a good DHV. Turns out it worked, but I had to actively tell the girl that I wasn't picking her up. In seduction phase, telling a girl exactly what she's feeling (and being right) is a great routine I use that only escalates further.
/r/seduction28/12/10 10:56 AM
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This is the best response possible for this post.
/r/seduction27/12/10 03:28 PM
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You can't game in text. At least not well. If you must text, use it pretty much to set up something to go out. Better to call though. Best to see her in person.
/r/seduction26/12/10 04:26 PM
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Canned material is great, but looking at some of Mystery's videos, he himself says that you should create your own material. When referencing one of his stories, he says use it if you must, but create your own stuff. So use the canned material if you must, but its much better to use stuff thats relevant to you.
/r/seduction26/12/10 04:23 PM
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Increase kino. Profit.
/r/seduction06/12/10 05:39 AM
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Neil Strauss' Rules of the Game is a pretty good 30 day step by step program. A lot of game should be made up by you, so really this should be just a stepping stone to creating your own material.
/r/seduction03/12/10 02:44 AM
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Neil Strauss' Rules of the Game is a pretty good 30 day step by step program. A lot of game should be made up by you, so really this should be just a stepping stone to creating your own material.
/r/seduction03/12/10 02:44 AM
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if you're not comfortable with calling her for setting something up, you can send her a short text. I'd say something like I'm playing guitar [here] at [time] if you wanna hang out. When she comes you can kino this time and tell her she can tag along back to your place for a movie if you want. Not the best pick up, but its relatively easy and nonthreatening.
/r/seduction02/12/10 08:14 PM
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my general advice is not to text sober, let alone drunk. Phone calls > texts for pick up. That doesn't mean start drunk dialing. Do not use your phone, give it to a friend if you have to. Drinking is fine, I've done many drunk pick ups, but they were sloppy. If you want to actually be pretty good a pick up, do it sober, or at least not drunk. You've already lowered your value with black out texts, not any great way to salvage the situation.
/r/seduction02/12/10 07:46 PM
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make new friends, don't bring your roommie unless you need help with that.
/r/seduction26/11/10 03:34 AM
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I think you're blown out with this one. That being said, there's no reason not to use her as social proof. You said you're good together, so let the friendship be. Take her out with you on your arm, and pick up other girls. She'll either get jealous and make moves towards you, say she doesn't want to do that, or just be a good pivot. Or she'll be a bitch and not want to be friends with you, which isn't much different from what you're dealing with right now. She's got issues, issues that you migh…
/r/seduction25/11/10 08:33 AM
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I think pinging is useful either when you can't show your value very well (facebook, text) or when you haven't spoken to a target in a long enough time.
/r/seduction25/11/10 08:23 AM
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call her one evening, get some conversation in, build attraction and comfort that way. Sometime in the conversation, you can invite her to something casually, she'll be more likely to accept.
/r/seduction22/11/10 08:03 PM
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don't build attraction via text. It takes too much and is an easy DLV. Phone call > text
/r/seduction22/11/10 08:01 PM
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Freeze outs should work nicely, just so long as you NOT MAKE IT A BIG DEAL. Both of Mystery's books have information on freeze outs and Last Minute Resistance. How you can turn it around is let her initiate. Its counterintuitive to freeze outs, so pick one.
/r/seduction22/11/10 07:58 PM
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I feel that text speak is a huge DLV, unless the girl loves it. As for this sending messages to friends of friends thing, why should you need to? If you're a PUA, you should always have new girls to talk to, and not need facebook to begin with (unless using it as a tool like in the facebook game thread) Go out, face to face interaction beats all other interaction.
/r/seduction22/11/10 07:49 PM
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really good perspective and tips, as well as a way to use facebook to help game rather than ignore facebook entirely. Keep up the posts!
/r/seduction22/11/10 07:42 PM
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Scam School episode 63 and 64 are a really awesome live show that Brian did on persuasion and other social psychology. Entertaining and informative.
/r/seduction21/11/10 07:09 PM
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Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini ISBN 978-0061241895 awesome, really gets into the science behind persuasion. Also gives a lot of applications. Essential NLP by Steve Bavister and Amanda Vickers. great for learning to control your emotions and state, especially with anchors. Also teaches you anchors you can use during routines and Kino escalation. Cheats Cons Swindles and Tricks by Brian Brushwood. This one you can't actually buy, you have to either meet Brian himself o…
/r/seduction20/11/10 12:44 PM
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hey, I'm just going off of anecdotes, videos and articles/books, just as if I said Mystery, Style, Ross Jefferies or any of the other gurus can get any girl he wants. This guy is known to be a PUA guru, and makes millions off of this stuff Then he would have to know something, and be able to do something, wouldn't he? His Cocky Funny strategy has certainly helped my game.
/r/seduction17/11/10 09:26 AM
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It should go without saying by this point, but it's also Seddit consensus that you should never ask a girl for "her Facebook" instead of her number. Always ask for her number, not her email address, Facebook, or IM. Definitely. Phone is always better than the alternatives. I agree with you on making it no big deal with refusing her, but there can be some benefit for some people to accept facebook friendships with girls they're gaming, especially if they're new. They'll probably be blown out of s…
/r/seduction17/11/10 09:22 AM
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For AA, I'd just suggest the 3 second rule and blow out of some warmup sets when you sarge a club or bar. Just enjoy yourself and you'll better your mood. For Self Confidence, it'll come with success, but success comes with self confidence. A great way to control your emotions, frame, and confidence, is using NLP. It'll teach you anchors and other techniques that'll let you control your emotions and become more confident at a touch of your anchor (like pressing two fingers together, or another a…
/r/seduction17/11/10 09:18 AM
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he can get and has gotten any girl he wants, there must be a reason he chose her. I wouldn't judge her just on her looks.
/r/seduction17/11/10 09:14 AM
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Don't call her tomorrow, way too soon and it looks like you're needy/don't have other friends/girls in your life. I'm not normally a fan of texting, but in this case it could work very well to just text her on Wednesday afternoon saying you'll be at the place where your friend is DJing. One, she comes and you have a blast, she already said she wanted to go there. Two, she flakes, and you sarge and find more girls. After that just call or text her next week, probably a Tuesday since she probably …
/r/seduction17/11/10 09:02 AM
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I've always been a fan of calling, simply because you can increase rapport more easily and much more of it. Text is easy, especially if you're not able to articulate easily on the phone. But hey, use what works best for you, success is success.
/r/seduction17/11/10 08:58 AM
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I have a few routines that use my small pad of paper. I'll pull it out for one of those and keep it out, just draw random things, be it a stick figure comic of what she said, a kitty with a party hat, something funny that she'll wanna keep. I'll give you a routine to use with a pad of paper. Essentially, you challenge the set to figure out how to draw this: A circle with a dot in the middle. The rule is they cannot lift the pen. Answer: you draw the circle, bend the paper over, move pen on the b…
/r/seduction17/11/10 06:39 AM
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call her and invite her to somewhere awesome. Make sure its an "you're welcome to tag along" invite, not a lets be romantic and date and scare her off invite. Change venues or stay the same, doesn't matter all that much. I don't suggest dinner beforehand, you can bounce either to a restaurant or your place after drinks that way.
/r/seduction17/11/10 06:36 AM
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you should tell her something along the lines of "I have something really awesome I have to show you!" but actually be specific about it. It doesn't have to be completely awesome, it can just be a video or pictures or something. But, you have to play it up. If you make it sound awesome with enthusiasm, she'll respond in a positive way. PM me if you have more questions =)
/r/seduction17/11/10 06:32 AM
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Oneitus sucks. Try for her though, you're friends, you've hung out, its fun. A lot of times to get a girl you're already friends with, you really have to DHV the shit out of her. Why? Because she already knows your value, and if you're leader of men, preselection. But go for it, do something really cool like skydiving or rock climbing and tell her she can tag along.
/r/seduction17/11/10 06:29 AM
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texting is not how you game. Gaming should be face to face, with phone calls to time bridge. If you can avoid using text, except for certain uses like Delightful_White's "That guy you were just flirting with is WAY out of your league" text right after you number close (located here http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/e6ak0/fr_ive_reached_a_new_level/ ) Essentially, I don't think you DHV'd enough/at all, and your opener of > "would it be wrong if I’d rather you did badly on them so you can…
/r/seduction17/11/10 06:27 AM
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I was trying to make it hard for her to refuse when really getting to hang out with me should be the best part with no need for any excuse. You're the prize, not her. She's just lucky enough to be apart of your awesome life. Thats how you should be thinking.
/r/seduction17/11/10 02:55 AM
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her mentioning a boyfriend is probably a shit test. Just proceed normally like intjpua said.
/r/seduction17/11/10 02:53 AM
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text her later saying you're busy, but you're going to X bar/place on Friday, she's welcome to tag along.
/r/seduction16/11/10 08:55 PM
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Messaging isn't the way to run game. I say try to meet her in person, eventually mention reddit and go on from there.
/r/seduction16/11/10 08:53 PM
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If an opener works, then its successful. I just prefer using an opener that leads to a story I can DHV with. once you'd been talking to them for a while, there's no way they're going to remember the first thing you said unless it was particularly hilarious/ballsy. I disagree, I've had girls, when trying to reinitiate conversation, go back to the first thing I said that night. Just depends on how memorable you make it.
/r/seduction16/11/10 08:41 PM
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Cooking is a definite plus. The reaction I get from telling sets I cook is always great, especially when I get into specific dishes like Creme Brulee and Chicken Marsala, both very easy to actually make. I say definitely have an artistic hobby. Cooking can be it, but so can drawing, painting, design. Learn to draw simple things like cats and use it in field, works like a charm.
/r/seduction16/11/10 06:17 AM
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I say always run game on every person, girl, guy, sets, whatever. I'm not saying kino escalate guys, but just be an interesting person to talk to. If you can be just an interesting person to your HB9, she'll naturally open on you, at which point you can use one of your openers without it being awkward. It sounds like you've already left a first impression, so coming out of nowhere with game might be a bad idea, and also make it awkward with your other coworkers. If you do decide to run game on h…
/r/seduction16/11/10 06:13 AM
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Yeah Facebook isn't the way to garner attraction. I say go for asking her out, even if it is an AFC move. Worst thing that happens is she turns you down. Suggestion: get numbers, not Facebooks. Let her facebook you if anything.
/r/seduction15/11/10 10:00 PM
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Ten night stands > one night stands
/r/seduction15/11/10 08:13 PM
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What I see here is you giving her IOIs and escalating Kino but not IODs or Push Pull. I think if you pushed her away after not responding to your touch, she would have missed your touch and increased.
/r/seduction15/11/10 08:11 PM
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I think you need to test her. Make her miss you, give it a week of mostly ignoring her. Meet other women, make her jealous. If this is successful, she'll probably be open for you in June. If it fails, well, it most likely would have failed during your time apart.
/r/seduction15/11/10 08:07 PM
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You have some reading and watching to do. Also, move on, you're out of this one.
/r/seduction15/11/10 08:02 PM
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What I see from this situation is that she likes the attention you give her, and doesn't really have any plans to actually date you. You gave her too much interest in texting everyday, and you didn't have sex when she slept over. If she was more attracted to you, she would have changed her plans to hang out with you. Oneitis sucks, move on.
/r/seduction15/11/10 07:59 PM
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I'd just avoid doing activities that you pay for. Walks, sightseeing, etc. are usually free. Food though, thats another story. The way I do it is saying its not a date with the invite, then as an IOD later. You can still escalate, but when the check comes just don't make a big deal about it. Even tease her. Just don't go overboard on it.
/r/seduction15/11/10 07:53 PM
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3 second rule. When I'm out and in a shitty mood, I just open shit sets to get into a more talkative mood. I'm usually blown out of set, but I at least laugh a little and move on to better sets and a better time.
/r/seduction15/11/10 07:47 PM
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Good lines except for the opener on the HB7s, but solid game. Definitely stealing your text line =P
/r/seduction15/11/10 07:44 PM
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