uchimala Archive

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7	Karma Your wife’s an idiot, but the boxing coach is just as bad. Shitty way to run a business, he needs a bad review for his lack of professionalism. He’s there to coach not f*€k the moms. I hope to god you find another boxing coach for your son. It’s probably really crappy for him to have to go there. Him talking to the coach is basically a shout out because he knows it’s wrong or at least really weird. He’s pointing out that he’s not cool with and in his own way is trying to stand up for his family …	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/26 05:12 PM
2	I need an honest advice please Yeah, but you cant ignore the emotional and romantic coversations she was having. Thats cheating. I bet she’s in contact now or will be in contact in a few days/ weeks. I cant tell you what to do, but I wouldnt trust her either. This has all the makings of a dumpster fire. I also dont know what your faith is or how morally conservative it is. She could just be using you as her public face making her a righteous person in the community’s eyes, but secretly her desires may be elsewhere. Just the f…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/26 02:37 AM
2	I need an honest advice please Yep, this seems like it could be big trouble. She’s tied to him in someway that seems really unhealthy. You moved way too fast. I can’t see how she was not cheating on you by staying in contact with him. The kink dynamic could be all sorts of things but I would bet they are all bad for you. If you are not replacing him in her kink she is not gonna let him go. I would demand to see all her socials and phone. You should probably have been out the door when you found out she was still in contact.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/26 01:58 AM
1	Do opposing lawyers in a sense ever work together? Not your lawyer. Lawyers often do know their opponents and often get along with them. Building a working relationship with the other side is always preferable. Think of it as a "trust but verify" model. When your opponent is trustworthy and both clients are reasonable a lot of money is saved. Lawyers that are jerks can be useful, but everyone knows them and they can make litigation expensive. That doesn't mean that you won't have to go to war over key issues, but it's done with respect and witho…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/26 10:04 PM
3	If youre getting divorced because your wife walked out or cheated on you do you keep this private? Be honest with your close friends and family. Let them know what is going on in your life. They will offer support and you need it. Don’t be ashamed as you did nothing wrong. Everyone else is on a need to know basis ie tell them if you want. Total silence usually lets the other person set a negative narrative. They aren’t going to say they were wrong and cheated. They instead may say you were a bad husband, abusive, it wasn’t a real marriage etc. and they are justified in their actions.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/25 02:43 PM
3	I'm out and about, expanding my sphere of influence, and the ladies I've been meeting... tattoos everywhere, filler, botox, injections, face lifts, augmentations, overweight, etc. What's happened to America? Where can you meet unmodified ladies these days? As I said, I didn’t learn about match makers until much later. I met my future wife on OkCupid. I hear that app sucks now but back then it was ok. I spent a lot of time putting together my profile and carefully vetted people. Aside from beauty standards and appearance, I looked at their relationship history, education and means. I wrote personalized messages and was pretty open. It took me about a year and half to meet my wife. We blended our families and had our own child as well. It’s doable f…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/25 06:09 PM
4	I'm out and about, expanding my sphere of influence, and the ladies I've been meeting... tattoos everywhere, filler, botox, injections, face lifts, augmentations, overweight, etc. What's happened to America? Where can you meet unmodified ladies these days? I was in your place 13 years ago. The apps were great for meeting a lot of women both young and old for hooking up, but a lot of people seemed to be serial daters. My situation was different from yours because I had a young son and wanted another family and wasn’t averse to marrying someone with young kids. I didn’t know about match makers at the time. You have to pay them but that shouldn’t be a problem at your present means. The benefit is that the matchmaker vets people for you so you don’t w…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/25 04:42 PM
5	I'm out and about, expanding my sphere of influence, and the ladies I've been meeting... tattoos everywhere, filler, botox, injections, face lifts, augmentations, overweight, etc. What's happened to America? Where can you meet unmodified ladies these days? Try a match maker. No kids or not wanting them, not fat, and no tattoos, good luck. Unless you want someone in their early twenties you will need help connecting with these women. The women that you want in their thirties are going to be very career oriented and may have limited time for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/25 08:43 AM
10	Do you ever fall for someone again the same way you did your first wife? Give it 5 years. I felt the same way. And no I don’t think love will be the same as it was with your first wife. Part of that can depend on age and the other part is experience. I don’t think I will ever be able to love like I did when I was first married, but having come full circle and having remarried, I wouldn’t want that. I’m not that person anymore. I know more and experienced too much. But, what I can tell you is that I love my second wife in a way I never loved my first wife. I know how …	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/25 03:41 AM