ucithrowawayjobs Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	I can't find a canned opener that feels congruent with me, can we discuss how to come up with them? Read "Models" by Mark Manson. The whole point is that you should be avoiding canned openers as they've been done a million times and they've become dull.	/r/seduction	30/11/17 08:27 PM
0	Got rejected Read "Models" by mark manson	/r/seduction	30/11/17 08:25 PM
2	I faced probably my worst rejection ever. She chose a guy on a computer screen over me. They both sound like nutcases -- don't look at it as you weren't good enough, look at it like you dodged a bullet. Anybody girl that'd do that isn't a girl you'd want to be in a long-term relationship.	/r/seduction	22/11/17 05:34 AM
10	How to approach on campus? An hb9 or hb10 has nothing to gain by being bitchy or mean to you, and she doesn't have to prove anything to you. Same thing with other aspects, such as wealth -- the people that I've found to be the most entitled, stingy, and "flashy" with their money are people who are insecure about their wealth, think they don't have enough, and have to prove to others about how much they have. Several things I'd recommend. First, if you haven't yet read "Models" by Mark Manson. Good guide to inner-game, and…	/r/seduction	22/11/17 05:30 AM
1	[deleted by user] The issue is that you're trying to look for a girlfriend in a club -- just to be frank, women usually don't go to clubs to enter a long-term relationship. What you have to ask yourself is what your idea woman is who'd be interested in a long-term relationship, and where they would go. So maybe they'd go to an art gallery because you like artistic women, so you go to that. Or maybe you like women who are fit, so you could meet them at a yoga place or a gym. So these aren't going to be women that'…	/r/seduction	22/11/17 05:28 AM
3	Is dating in high school pointless for me and should I wait until college? Every girl I've been with has never showed me romantic interest in me at first until I talked to them and got to know them for a little bit. Secondly, the fact that you have aspergers could contribute to you not being able to effectively read when other people are interested in you romantically. My suggestion? Read "Models" by Mark Manson	/r/seduction	18/11/17 06:52 AM
2	I think I know my biggest problem, and it scares me a little Yep -- it's all about that inner game my man. Develop your confidence. Keep hustling and working hard, you're gonna make it.	/r/seduction	17/11/17 08:26 PM
1	I recently got home from living with Mystery & Beckster for a month, here is what i learned to get started. Just curious what you were dong with Mystery and Beckster? Quite the interesting match-up.	/r/seduction	17/11/17 12:59 AM
2	What is a good comeback to a woman brushing off this opener? How so? In another comment you said you wanted to put those women "in their place" because they didn't want to talk to you and they sound bratty -- honestly, I wish I had the amount of entitlement you did. What do you think will happen when you put those women "in their place"? Do you think suddenly they'll become attracted to you? Do you think suddenly these women will want to talk to you? It sounds to me like you only want to do this because you want to get back at these women for not respondi…	/r/seduction	15/11/17 03:48 PM
1	Is it wrong to save your virginity till marriage? Still the same concept, just flipped genders.	/r/seduction	15/11/17 03:42 PM
2	What is a good comeback to a woman brushing off this opener? You just said that you want a "snarky" comment to tell women when they don't respond to you positively.	/r/seduction	15/11/17 06:30 AM
2	I think I know my biggest problem, and it scares me a little Read "Models" by Mark Manson	/r/seduction	15/11/17 06:27 AM
3	Why is it creepy for a guy to follow a girl for a while before approaching? Following them or approaching from behind is a big no no.	/r/seduction	15/11/17 06:26 AM
4	Is it wrong to save your virginity till marriage? I wouldn't say it's inherently immoral to do so. It really depends on your value system. But I'll say this. Only do that because you believe it's the right thing to do, not because somebody told you that's what you should do. However, if you truly believe that you should save your virginity until marriage then there's nothing wrong with that. Just know that'll limit your progress with certain girls, especially if you're in college	/r/seduction	15/11/17 06:24 AM
5	How to befriend girls at college? Creating study groups, joining groups on campus, going to events on campus.	/r/seduction	15/11/17 06:22 AM
4	What is a good comeback to a woman brushing off this opener? Frankly, it sounds like you have a massive sense of entitlement and ego issues. I'm just asking for a good snarky comment to make if a woman straight up lies and says she doesn't read just because she doesn't feel like talking to me. The only reason you want to do this is to make yourself feel better about the interaction, and to massage your own ego and self-entitlement. First, you're making the assumption that she says she doesn't read because she's lying to you -- that's not true, there's man…	/r/seduction	15/11/17 06:21 AM
1	I’m a 21 year old guy who’s still just as afraid of hot girls as I was when I was 15. no problem. best of luck	/r/seduction	14/11/17 05:41 PM
1	I’m a 21 year old guy who’s still just as afraid of hot girls as I was when I was 15. Well, the main reason for that (from my understanding), is that they believe that these women get complimented many times daily so telling a girl she's attractive won't really be that big of a deal to her. So PUAs came up with this idea called "negs", which is basically backhanded compliments that seem good but actually put her down a peg or two. Again, the issue with all of this is that you're being incredibly manipulative. If you think a girl is cute, or hot, or whatever, and you don't tell he…	/r/seduction	14/11/17 05:39 PM
1	Not being needy vs being way too aloof/uncaring? From reading your posts, it seems like you have a massive fucking ego that needs to be fixed. Frankly, the fact that women are approaching you and you're rebuffing their advances is idiotic. Either that or you're deeply in the closet, which I doubt. Forget all this stuff about "making women chase you", or whatever the hell PUA books say as a technique. If a woman is already interested in you, why go out of your way to "make her chase you" and make things more complicated than it is when you coul…	/r/seduction	14/11/17 03:46 AM
18	I’m a 21 year old guy who’s still just as afraid of hot girls as I was when I was 15. Exactly -- this is all anecdotal of course, but I've found that in general the worse a person is doing the higher sense of entitlement they have because they're trying to prove something. An hb9 or hb10 has nothing to gain by being bitchy or mean to you, and she doesn't have to prove anything to you. Same thing with other aspects, such as wealth -- the people that I've found to be the most entitled, stingy, and "flashy" with their money are people who are insecure about their wealth, think they …	/r/seduction	14/11/17 03:38 AM
15	I’m a 21 year old guy who’s still just as afraid of hot girls as I was when I was 15. Your problem ultimately is a result of your sense of entitlement. What do I mean by that? It means that you have a massive amount of entitlement, and I can immediately tell that from your post. Your issue isn't rejection, your issue is you think those people going to think negatively of you after they reject you. I wish I could be so entitled as you as to think that anybody gave a shit about whether I was rejected or not. Secondly, most women won't go out of their way to reject you in the worst …	/r/seduction	14/11/17 02:03 AM
3	"I'll let you know" Stop reading into shit too much -- she means she'll let you know. If she doesn't respond back, then you know she's not interested. If she does decide to tell you a time she's free, then you're good. Stop assuming women are playing games with you	/r/seduction	13/11/17 10:59 PM
2	[Question] help an oblivious girl out Yep, just try to be more forward than you think you need to be when flirting with men. Especially if you're simply looking for a hookup. Seriously, even going up to a guy, grabbing his arms and complimenting him on his muscles could be subtle. Unless you literally pull out your tits and ask a guy to grab them, then there's still going to be a question to the guy of "is she flirting with me or not?". So try to be as explicit as you feel comfortable with Going up to a guy and complimenting him on …	/r/seduction	30/10/17 10:49 PM
4	[Question] help an oblivious girl out I'm not sure what "curve" means in this context, but I'll say this: Men tend to be very subtle in terms of hitting on women. Why? For several reasons: They're not sure if she's taken. If the guy can quickly tell that she's taken (e.g. if the woman says "I have a boyfriend back home that I miss) then it's easy for him to just transition into a normal conversation if he's subtle about it. If they believe that you're not interested or are taken, then they'll just have a normal conversation with you…	/r/seduction	29/10/17 11:14 PM