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I figure something like this isn't just a switch you can turn off. Changing how you perceive the world is going to take some work. But, that's what we are all doing here, we had a perception, call it a 'moral code' if you will, about how to treat women. Then TRP comes along and shows us that our perception in this regard is completely false, that we've been duped. And we start down the road to overwrite our old paradigms by reading the sidebar material. TRP is something that you can't be lead to…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 05:57 PM
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It's definitely about morals in some way, mixed with some old fashioned values. Your "morals" don't make you any better than anyone else, they area an arbitrary set of rules you have, to make you feel superior to other who don't possess your morals. My father doesn't smoke or drink, and thinks he's superior to anyone who does. Your morals are no different. Your morals don't make you superior, they make you a prisoner, a 37 year old virgin, who's extremely shy and has social anxiety, because your…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 04:24 PM
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When it's all boiled down in LTR's, a man brings his resources and a woman brings her looks/sexuality. When the relationship ends, the man is still required to provide his resources.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 01:28 AM
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Aww, come on just one more, and it's seasonal too! https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=vtfD5dgQvPk&feature=youtu.be
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 03:47 PM
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Wasted breath, but when my sons were in their mid teens, I suggested they ask men that they respected, what they would do differently, if they had it all to do again. That way it's not dad giving them 'dad advice'. Like I said, wasted breath. Youth is wasted on the young. - George Bernard Shaw
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 03:39 PM
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If OP is in uni, I assumed a level of intelligence that would lead him in the direction you have suggested - business owner - manager/mentor. He can stay single, work his own hours, have time for lifting, and always be improving. Good, better, best, never let it rest, 'til your good is better and your better best.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 03:25 PM
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if you can afford it Can the OP really afford not to get a lawyer? Leave college/uni and get a trade. Trades are screaming for people and if you are half decent, the pay is quite good.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 02:10 PM
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Exactly. And make him feel like shit if he spends a dime of it on himself.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 09:46 PM
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It's entirely possible that when she says "I pay the credit card bills", that by "paying" she means makes the payment, i.e./ transfers the money from their/his account.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 08:40 PM
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A man comes into a bar and sits down next to you Was seriously expecting a punchline. Very solid comment, but I'm still a little disappointed.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 08:15 PM
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Don't worry about one-party and two-party consent laws just do it. Let her calls go to voice mail, she is consenting to having her voice recorded by leaving a message. Same is true for texts, she knows that it is a written record, so it's all fair game.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 07:53 PM
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Take a look at http://stronglifts.com/5x5/ There is a free app for your SmartPhone (as long as your phone's not BlackBerry). Program starts with an empty bar and builds from there, five pounds at a time, minimal equipment and time commitment (30 to 45 minutes to start). Read the full site and watch the videos. Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 08:08 PM
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83% of all statistics are made up on the spot. 49% of all people know that.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 08:39 PM
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I was agreeing with /u/ChuckBronsoncomedy. Finding the right woman as /u/PoliticalIylncorrect suggests is too large of a crap shoot to even consider. Keeping all of the "boxes on the checklist" checked, until death do us part is a Herculean Task. I understand and agree with your assessment of SMV, but marriage is TRP on hard mode. And the consequences of letting any of it slide through aging and possible sickness, or even just life, IMO outweigh the rewards.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 09:42 PM
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Dude's not going to age or get sick ever either.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 05:15 PM
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social pressure and shame, something religion and patriarchal societies did really well. I believe that religion gave the illusion that it kept women from their hypergamous nature; however, the fact that women are still stoned for adultery shows that even threat of death is an insufficient deterrent. http://www.answering-christianity.com/bible_adultery.htm Social pressure and shame do not override peoples' nature. The rest of the post was very good, that was the only point I wished to comment on…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 05:13 PM
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There is no question that TRP is a huge paradigm shift. Every guy living a BP existence, who is ready to accept TRP, is going to have his own ah ha moment. Being made aware that there is an option to being the Nice Guy, may be what OP's buddy needs to start the process; all OP can do is plant the seed.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 12:05 PM
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Because we were all so smart before we found this place. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. Tactfully explain TRP to your buddy, what he does with the information is ultimately up to him.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 12:30 PM
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I'm glad you didn't take it as a personal attack. My dad did something similar when I was a kid, long story short, I got a hundred dollar tennis racket for ten bucks (not quite forty years ago). Dad took it back to get a cheaper one, the store said it would throw off their books, got to keep the good racket. Grew up with a similar good guy outlook, got me no where but mediocrity. Keep the aspects of your life that you feel add value, be they moral, physical or otherwise, jettison the rest. Grow …
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 06:15 PM
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Pandora s box The more I think about this, the funnier it is.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 03:55 PM
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being a righteous person Your righteousness is a construct of your own making and means little to anyone but yourself, but at the end of the day you have to look at yourself in the mirror. An extreme example for sure, but righteousness in other cultures can take the form of beheading someone that doesn't share their sense of righteousness. If you don't want to fuck married/involved women, then don't, but don't believe that it makes you any better or worse than anyone else. I scorned her to go ba…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 03:50 PM
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Trying signing up for a public speaking course. A couple good ones are Dale Carnegie http://www.dalecarnegie.com/events/public-speaking-courses/ ToastMasters https://www.toastmasters.org/ I've known several people that have overcome similar issues as your own, by taking public speaking courses. Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 02:16 PM
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Caught me off guard...threw up in my mouth a little!
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 06:19 PM
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When someone tells you to "man up". It's usually to try and pressure you into doing something you don't want to. ...and against your best interests! FTFY.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 03:13 PM
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As others have stated, boys are taught by society that they need to 'court' women, to show how great they are as LTR material. The 'nice guy' in the story has shown her his Provider side, and then stated his romantic intentions once the ground work of the relationship has been laid. In all likelihood, it's what he's been told his whole (BP) life, I know that's what I'd been told; I look back at my own life, pre-RP and cringe.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 03:08 PM
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I lit into a male co-worker recently when he mentioned that he'd had a "Princess Party" for his daughter. Setting every man in her life up for a lifetime of servitude.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 02:05 PM
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I wasn't suggesting any such thing, merely commenting on the efficacy of prayer. Edit. But this brings up an interesting point, why we don't "Talk about fight club". Those who are still plugged in don't want to hear a dissenting argument, or even acknowledge that there is another point of view worth considering, and will defend their paradigm with great emotion.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 07:08 PM
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Prayer helps....once we see past the illusions and false promises. Thanks for the chuckle at the irony!
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 04:06 PM
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Holy fuck, what did I just read? I could only read a paragraph or two at a time; my head's still reeling reading about this guy spinning his wheel at break-neck speed.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 08:22 PM
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SHIT! Was going to ask for an autograph.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 06:22 PM
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As I said, it can be location and workplace dependent. Or maybe you're really Chad Thundercock posing as mild mannered /u/Craterefumant.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 05:53 PM
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Just because a girl doesn't like a man she can gets him fired? I'm not sure how you arrived at me saying that from a humorous video, but what the hay, I'll play along. Short answer, yes! Getting a man fired for inappropriate workplace behaviour is location, and sometimes workplace dependent, but... The whole issue comes down to the woman's perception, if she feels threatened enough (read 'creeped out') and the workplace has a zero tolerance policy, then yes, termination can result. Not many wome…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 05:12 PM
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I agree on all points. I wasn't suggesting that "being near tall guys doesn't make you small", but can create the illusion of shortness. My oldest is a huge fan of Napoleon, and I've absorbed some of it I guess.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 05:22 PM
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I've read the difference was the lack of standardization of measurements, making the English believe he was 5'2" when in actuality he was 5'7", as you say. Also, there was a standard height for the his elite guard which made him appear short by comparison.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 04:59 PM
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The difference between being called a 'creep' and giving her 'gina tingles is the degree of Alpha vs beta.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 04:51 PM
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The visual. http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=f76_1323277426&comments=1
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 03:26 PM
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Agreed. Like a bird looking at a guy in a glider and wondering what all the fuss is all about.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 05:20 PM
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After it passed by a 116-to-5 vote in New Zealand's parliament, Gareth Hughes, one of the four Greens MPs to vote against the bill, said it was overly broad and “risks limiting our freedom of expression”. Gareth Hughes was immediately charged as the first person in violation of the new law, and is up for early release in 2017.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 05:47 PM
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An overturned case is a start. Of course a good way around the whole mess is to make paternity testing mandatory and legislated.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 11:09 PM
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Spinning plates is a sideshow trick, spinning plate...meh. Fuck, I am such a great writer that on top of what is typed, is everything else you've attributed to it. I believe you may have inadvertently created a false dichotomy. But, please, feel free to call it whatever you want.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 08:51 PM
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It'll never happen, but I'd love to see a court ruling where cuckolded husband is awarded tens of thousands of dollars from an ex-wife, for having been duped into raising someone's kid. Oh well, back to reality.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 06:59 PM
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Spinning plates is a sideshow trick, spinning plate...meh.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 06:53 PM
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I believe the correct term is...a pasted on smile.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 02:29 AM
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a piece of paper doesn't make you more committed to a person Check local laws with regards to Common-Law relationships. Some places have laws on the books where six months of co-habitation gives all the same rights as marriage. Don't even let her keep a toothbrush at your place!
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 03:16 PM
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Can you imagine the outrage if a husband had a 'list of chores' before he had sex with his wife or got her something? As the major breadwinner, this would be met with a 'Star' rating for money for her for everything, even if it meant I had to take over the grocery shopping.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 03:11 PM
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I understand your main point. I was suggesting that the BP mindset is attempting to be different than all the other "asshole" guys. The BP doesn't realize his strategy isn't really different, or that it is a failed sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 03:47 PM
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I have kids and would want to know. I've said on here several times, that DNA testing should be legislated & done ASAP after conception.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 03:16 PM
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the beauty standard in western countries wouldn't be an underweight, narrow hipped, sterile androgynous model. I suspect that the body type you describe is as a result of the designers' choice, female models yes, but closer, as you describe, to a pubescent boy, which I think is the designers' preference.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 03:14 PM
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Just any guy who seems to offer something different than the usual guys. Reading that line made me think of BP sexual strategy, being different than all the other asshole guys, ie. I'll be nice, be her friend and I will be different and will be rewarded with sex. We all know it doesn't work, but may be a source of BP thinking...well that and feminized society.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 02:58 PM
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I suspect that non-professional women (and White Knights) will fight it tooth and nail. Making sex available in the free market will devalue non-pros; why would men put in all the time and effort to court a woman when they could rent. This is the same reason women hate porn.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 03:07 PM
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Most phone cameras have two (2) lenses, making them able to take selfies, with the screen facing you, or with the back of the phone, screen still facing you. Mom probably assumed the camera was aimed at her kids = Paedophile.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:24 PM
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Stranger abductions are far less frequent than Joe or the media would have us believe. Most abductions are committed by someone the child knows, and most often by a parent after a separation/divorce, often to cause emotional pain to their former spouse, or to gain custody when the courts have ruled against them. Joe certainly hasn't suffered with almost 6.5 million views for this video. Another boogieman to keep us all indoors afraid of our own shadows.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:14 PM
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Whenever I hear about hypocrisy or a double standard when it comes to the sexual histories of men and women, it makes me think of how easy it is for a girl to get laid...here it is boys. A man has to either be Alpha or have other desirable traits, have some semblance of game, the confidence to approach... The 'Double Standard' is there because it is so easy for girls/women to just give it away; a man has to earn it.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 08:10 PM
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Typed it incorrectly, then went "fuck yeah!". but I'm using it from now on! ...for a small royalty. /s
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:41 PM
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Old Perry probably figured that, "She won't have sex with him, after all, she doesn't like sex, she barely has sex with me, her husbank."
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 06:31 PM
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I've removed the source, thankfully these are editable. Agreed and as I said, I don't believe the source changes the veracity of the quote.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 09:43 PM
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Interesting. Always willing to learn, with citations of course. I don't believe the source changes the veracity of the quote.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 09:24 PM
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If she thinks she has a legit chance of doing better than you, she will dump your ass and fuck the other guy. Or, fuck the other guy and continue to reap them beta bucks, while you're none the wiser.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 08:24 PM
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"To learn who rules over you, simply find out who you are not allowed to criticize."
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 07:17 PM
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it's pretty fucking atrocious and enables abusers to be abusive, and convinces men who aren't getting laid that the problem isn't them but women Quite the opposite is true. If the commenter of that particular pearl of wisdom had bothered to do some further reading, he/she would have realized that TRP explains the modus operandi of women and does not blame women for being women; that BP approaches do not work and what works in reality. As RP men, we know that the only person we have control to ch…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:06 PM
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They are still "sob sister", but what's changed is the courts. Dude in this may end up being falsely charged with sexual assault/rape, and as one poster suggested, it may be a ploy by the wife to get all of the dude's assets in a divorce, by saying he's a cheater and a rapist, with her friend as a witness.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 06:12 PM
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Along those lines, a submissive dog with a weak owner/without a leader, will become the de facto leader, it would prefer to be lower in the pack but without an Alpha, the dog has no choice. Fixing this situation is Cesar Milan's bread and butter. I have recently come to think of shit tests and women taking lead in relationships with this in mind. Fail the shit test and you are not the leader she thought you were, with the consequences that she become the leader,or she finds a true Alpha. Females…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 04:06 PM
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I'm not sure if excess testosterone is the reason, however... Men tend to have a longer ring finger when compared to their index finger; the opposite is generally true for women. Kind of like saying, "men are taller than women"; it's a generalization. Ask your male and female friends to show you their hands, it's usually quite obvious.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 06:55 PM
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Can't count all the times when I was bartending that some honey would ask what time I was off and that she'd wait until I was done and we'd have a good time. Then she'd be gone before I finished stocking the beer fridge. No free drinks, just too drunk and horny to wait.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:07 PM
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Agreed. Canceled my cable/satellite for this very reason. Media tends to play to the lowest/largest denominator. Absolute garbage on television (for the most part). Crap content aside, a quick Google search shows Cosmo in the top ten on several rating sights; the magazines ahead of Cosmo weren't much better.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 04:16 PM
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Look up Sperm Wars. Basically if a woman in a LTR is having an affair/cheating, she will come home after her tryst interested in sex with her long term partner. The idea being that she is unconsciously pitting the men's sperm against one another. The man in the LTR with the woman subconsciously receives scent ques of the other man's sperm/semen will bang the hell out of her, attempting to pull the other man's seed out of his woman. Theory being that the shape of the head of the penis acts to pul…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 02:06 PM
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Case in point. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1168182/Catfights-handbags-tears-toilets-When-producer-launched-women-TV-company-thought-shed-kissed-goodbye-conflict-.html
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 04:15 PM
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As has been said before, all a woman has to do to have sex is open her legs, a man has to work for it (unless he's in that top 20%). A woman over 30 just has to re-calibrate who she is willing to sleep with.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 08:48 PM
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There are three prices in business... One price for customers, Double for friends, and Triple for family (or women who try to use coquettishness to get what they want).
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 05:54 PM
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beta blockers I see what you did there.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 12:41 PM
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To play devils advocate for the other commenters, if some one perceives you as a certain type, it's very hard to change their opinion and you will often fall back into that role. When the pressure is on, we tend to fall back on familiar patterns of behaviour. If you are still wavering over whether or not to give your marriage another try, may I suggest Athol Kay's, "The Married Man's Sex Life Primer"? It is a ten dollar Kindle download and a relatively short read. The book explains some of the b…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 01:51 PM
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betas are the modern version of slaves. its great to have one, just sucks to be one yourself I believe the term is Eunich. Beta, a form of self castration.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 02:43 PM
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Does the why really matter? Move forward, better yourself. You may not even be aware of why you are going through your personal growth. But why wouldn't you want to be constantly improving?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 01:12 PM
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Actions without consequences. She will have learned nothing if you do not go ahead with charges. As you said, think about where you would be if the incident hadn't been recorded.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 11:24 AM
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TRP = no sense of humour?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 02:55 PM
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Yeah, that was pretty damn good! Just enough sarcasm, wit, truth and humour; a little something for everyone!
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 01:51 PM
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And I don't even smoke!
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 06:10 PM
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I'm horrible with future dates, I can sometimes remember the exact date something happened years ago, but future dates...forget it! I suspect women do this on occasion as a bit of a shit-test to see what reaction they will get, and they may or may not have told you. If you're as shitty with upcoming dates as I am, tell her, "if you didn't see me put in my phone's calendar, I'm not responsible" and call it done.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 05:33 PM
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Paternity testing is a must - Always!
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 05:14 PM
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Had to read this again. Read - Their hamster drops. Must stop skimming!
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 04:54 PM
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45+ years. And yes, WAY too many acronyms!
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 04:49 PM
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IMHO, being good in bed is a skill set - skill sets are acquired through practice and knowledge, just like game.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 12:47 PM
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Have seen the video, the change in her expression is hilarious!
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 03:49 PM
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while future hubby waited on pins and needles I see what you did there - sublime bowling reference.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 03:23 PM
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About 30 years ago I tended bar, was a single college student. One of the other bartenders, guy in his 30's, told me about doing dancing/stripping at bachelorette parties. I asked him how the money was and he looked me in the eye and said, (paraphrasing) don't even think about it man, women get crazy with strippers, they'll rip your dick off. Didn't do it...hindsight 20/20! D'oh!
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 01:54 PM
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If all you want is a child, consider adoption or surrogacy...or a dog. Know that at some point you will show some form of weakness and/or fear and her sense of attraction will be gone. The stability of marriage is a ticking time bomb of her loss of attraction. Once that sense of attraction is gone it won't just be BJ's that she does not do. Her attraction will last until she has her children (make sure you DNA test any children to make sure you are not raising someone else's little darling). Bes…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 06:41 AM
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I suspect a little of both. It was about 20 years ago, I just remember his voice being low and grumbly. Went right out to the parking lot and told my wife, we laughed our asses off and still chuckle about it.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/13 11:43 AM
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One of those great 'kids say the darnedest things' moments.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/13 11:36 AM
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Kids are brutally honest. One day after swimming lessons when my son was really little, I was helping him get dressed after his lesson. A man with a huge pot belly came out of the sauna, buck ass naked. My son whispered something to me, but it was too soft to hear, so I asked him to repeat it. In a loud voice, he said, "that man sure has a small peepee doesn't he dad!" The man walked passed us and said, "that wasn't very nice for him to say, was it?". I'm telling that story at his wedding.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 05:15 PM
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