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I've investigated several.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 07:03 PM
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looks like you are content to just bury your head in the sand and wish away reality. OP describes other guy as an orbiter, then goes on to say that other guy is a douche, that bare-backs other women (classic bad-boy Alpha). Self-delusion for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 06:25 PM
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Agreed, and worse case scenario, one punch homicide. Dude 1 punches Dude 2, Dude 2 hits his head with enough force, brain swells, Dude 2 dies as a results of Dude 1's actions. Violence puts you in her frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 06:20 PM
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I figure something like this isn't just a switch you can turn off. Changing how you perceive the world is going to take some work. But, that's what we are all doing here, we had a perception, call it a 'moral code' if you will, about how to treat women. Then TRP comes along and shows us that our perception in this regard is completely false, that we've been duped. And we start down the road to overwrite our old paradigms by reading the sidebar material. TRP is something that you can't be lead to…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 05:57 PM
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It's definitely about morals in some way, mixed with some old fashioned values. Your "morals" don't make you any better than anyone else, they area an arbitrary set of rules you have, to make you feel superior to other who don't possess your morals. My father doesn't smoke or drink, and thinks he's superior to anyone who does. Your morals are no different. Your morals don't make you superior, they make you a prisoner, a 37 year old virgin, who's extremely shy and has social anxiety, because your…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 04:24 PM
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You are answer shopping, hoping someone on here will agree with you, that you should stay and 'save a ho'. You're already telling us what you don't want to hear, hoping somehow that telling us "...dump her. That's easy", will direct us to agree with you and offer how to advice. Doesn't look like it's going to happen. Time to next her and work on you.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 06:50 PM
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It's like worrying about what religious fundamentalists are going to do....not my problem. Feminists and religious fundamentalists have one thing in common - they want the law of the land to reflect their ideology. Sit idly by at your own peril.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/15 06:21 PM
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When it's all boiled down in LTR's, a man brings his resources and a woman brings her looks/sexuality. When the relationship ends, the man is still required to provide his resources.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 01:28 AM
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Aww, come on just one more, and it's seasonal too! https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=vtfD5dgQvPk&feature=youtu.be
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 03:47 PM
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Wasted breath, but when my sons were in their mid teens, I suggested they ask men that they respected, what they would do differently, if they had it all to do again. That way it's not dad giving them 'dad advice'. Like I said, wasted breath. Youth is wasted on the young. - George Bernard Shaw
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 03:39 PM
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If OP is in uni, I assumed a level of intelligence that would lead him in the direction you have suggested - business owner - manager/mentor. He can stay single, work his own hours, have time for lifting, and always be improving. Good, better, best, never let it rest, 'til your good is better and your better best.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 03:25 PM
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if you can afford it Can the OP really afford not to get a lawyer? Leave college/uni and get a trade. Trades are screaming for people and if you are half decent, the pay is quite good.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 02:10 PM
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Exactly. And make him feel like shit if he spends a dime of it on himself.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 09:46 PM
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It's entirely possible that when she says "I pay the credit card bills", that by "paying" she means makes the payment, i.e./ transfers the money from their/his account.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 08:40 PM
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A man comes into a bar and sits down next to you Was seriously expecting a punchline. Very solid comment, but I'm still a little disappointed.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 08:15 PM
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Don't worry about one-party and two-party consent laws just do it. Let her calls go to voice mail, she is consenting to having her voice recorded by leaving a message. Same is true for texts, she knows that it is a written record, so it's all fair game.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 07:53 PM
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Take a look at http://stronglifts.com/5x5/ There is a free app for your SmartPhone (as long as your phone's not BlackBerry). Program starts with an empty bar and builds from there, five pounds at a time, minimal equipment and time commitment (30 to 45 minutes to start). Read the full site and watch the videos. Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 08:08 PM
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Ian Ironwood has a great article for this very purpose. http://theredpillroom.blogspot.ca/2012/05/dude-got-minute.html?m=1
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 07:50 PM
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83% of all statistics are made up on the spot. 49% of all people know that.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 08:39 PM
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p.s Will you still object if I quote the Koran instead? In my original comment, I was going to see if I could dig up a couple of quotes, just for the reaction, but laziness got the better of me. As for the bible being the "best book ever written": I hope you don't mean fiction, because there are certainly more interesting and entertaining books, with better character development, the main character goes from age 12 then we don't hear anything about him until his early 30's; it certainly isn't a …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 09:18 PM
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"self defense." Self-defence suggests merely defending yourself, gaining enough time and space to get away from volatile situation. I think you are talking about sticking around to fight and see who is the better fighter. Most bar/club fights occur when someone has been drinking too much, or it's the end of the night and they have 'fuck or fight syndrome' and they ain't gettin' laid. Usually easy enough to avoid if you keep your wits about you. Going to the ground in a real fight is the last pla…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 09:17 PM
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Irony is my problem? stop projecting your decisions onto others I tolerate others beliefs, I just find the irony particularly poignant; TRP as a concept, but not willing to question their comfortable beliefs in yahweh. And yes, I realize it isn't productive, but neither is quoting a bronze age book of myths. I guess I was glad that I wasn't the only guy on here that wasn't quoting the bible. End rant!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 01:57 PM
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It's the irony that gets to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 12:03 PM
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zombie jesus Thank you for this, getting pretty fucking sick of bible quotes and christian this and that. Surprised there isn't a cross in the new banner.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 06:55 PM
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I was agreeing with /u/ChuckBronsoncomedy. Finding the right woman as /u/PoliticalIylncorrect suggests is too large of a crap shoot to even consider. Keeping all of the "boxes on the checklist" checked, until death do us part is a Herculean Task. I understand and agree with your assessment of SMV, but marriage is TRP on hard mode. And the consequences of letting any of it slide through aging and possible sickness, or even just life, IMO outweigh the rewards.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 09:42 PM
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Dude's not going to age or get sick ever either.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 05:15 PM
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social pressure and shame, something religion and patriarchal societies did really well. I believe that religion gave the illusion that it kept women from their hypergamous nature; however, the fact that women are still stoned for adultery shows that even threat of death is an insufficient deterrent. http://www.answering-christianity.com/bible_adultery.htm Social pressure and shame do not override peoples' nature. The rest of the post was very good, that was the only point I wished to comment on…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 05:13 PM
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There is no question that TRP is a huge paradigm shift. Every guy living a BP existence, who is ready to accept TRP, is going to have his own ah ha moment. Being made aware that there is an option to being the Nice Guy, may be what OP's buddy needs to start the process; all OP can do is plant the seed.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 12:05 PM
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Because we were all so smart before we found this place. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. Tactfully explain TRP to your buddy, what he does with the information is ultimately up to him.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 12:30 PM
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Offer her a reward, with a realistic goal weight and timeline, then don't budge on either.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 05:32 PM
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I'm glad you didn't take it as a personal attack. My dad did something similar when I was a kid, long story short, I got a hundred dollar tennis racket for ten bucks (not quite forty years ago). Dad took it back to get a cheaper one, the store said it would throw off their books, got to keep the good racket. Grew up with a similar good guy outlook, got me no where but mediocrity. Keep the aspects of your life that you feel add value, be they moral, physical or otherwise, jettison the rest. Grow …
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 06:15 PM
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Pandora s box The more I think about this, the funnier it is.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 03:55 PM
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being a righteous person Your righteousness is a construct of your own making and means little to anyone but yourself, but at the end of the day you have to look at yourself in the mirror. An extreme example for sure, but righteousness in other cultures can take the form of beheading someone that doesn't share their sense of righteousness. If you don't want to fuck married/involved women, then don't, but don't believe that it makes you any better or worse than anyone else. I scorned her to go ba…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 03:50 PM
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Trying signing up for a public speaking course. A couple good ones are Dale Carnegie http://www.dalecarnegie.com/events/public-speaking-courses/ ToastMasters https://www.toastmasters.org/ I've known several people that have overcome similar issues as your own, by taking public speaking courses. Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 02:16 PM
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I believe it's called answer shopping. Ask a bunch of people what they think and wait until someone agrees with you. Kids will ask dad and when he doesn't give them the answer they want, they ask mom and hope for the answer they are looking for; I used to punish my kids when they tried to pull that shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/15 07:46 PM
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Taking a vacation is a reward. Taking her on a vacation at this stage is like giving your dog a treat for shitting on the carpet. OP needs to work on OP.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/15 12:32 PM
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Caught me off guard...threw up in my mouth a little!
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 06:19 PM
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Congratulations on beginning your journey, but it's a constant journey, not a destination. You're in this for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/15 05:16 PM
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haven't started lifting yet, but I have a plan to start when I get back from my next business trip Why wait? Most decent hotels have some sort of fitness equipment, maybe a treadmill. I don't travel as much as I used to, but I will call the hotel(s) I'm going to be staying at and find out what equipment they have and make a plan for my workouts before I leave. If they don't have a gym, ask about gyms near the hotel, call the gym and find out how much it will be on a daily basis. Worse case scena…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/15 05:20 PM
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When someone tells you to "man up". It's usually to try and pressure you into doing something you don't want to. ...and against your best interests! FTFY.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 03:13 PM
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As others have said, my first thought was to go through the levels of Dread. The link is already in the comments. She feels that everything is stable, she has her husband, her house, her stable husband's income, and now it's all complete with baby makes three; time to sit back and coast. Shake that shit up with some dread and make her realize it can change in a heartbeat. Dread plus MAP in IMHO the answer, and if it isn't, then, as Athol says, you're in a the best place to move on with someone n…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/15 04:28 PM
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Sounds like you and I are about the stage, wives too, though my kids are a bit older. Hormones could be messing with her system. We're quite fortunate to have found a doctor that is trying to balance out all that shit. Best of luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 03:34 PM
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As others have stated, boys are taught by society that they need to 'court' women, to show how great they are as LTR material. The 'nice guy' in the story has shown her his Provider side, and then stated his romantic intentions once the ground work of the relationship has been laid. In all likelihood, it's what he's been told his whole (BP) life, I know that's what I'd been told; I look back at my own life, pre-RP and cringe.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 03:08 PM
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I lit into a male co-worker recently when he mentioned that he'd had a "Princess Party" for his daughter. Setting every man in her life up for a lifetime of servitude.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 02:05 PM
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Despite having lots of dread going for me, my wife is not attracted to me... I recall reading a paper about ten years ago (I've spent a short time looking for a citation - no luck, but will look harder if someone calls me on it). The general idea was that women seek out new genes for future children, either leaving their partner, or cuckolding him. She already has a child with your genetics and increases chances of children surviving as a result of genetic diversity. With the information present…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 06:43 PM
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These types of covert contracts can lead to a bit of a martyr syndrome, where you start to feel like you are the only one doing what needs to be done. OP try changing your attitude to more of a, 'this thing needs to be done, it's my house, I'm the Captain, I'll do it'. I don't know your wife, but I suspect she will follow your lead...in time.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/15 07:37 PM
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I wasn't suggesting any such thing, merely commenting on the efficacy of prayer. Edit. But this brings up an interesting point, why we don't "Talk about fight club". Those who are still plugged in don't want to hear a dissenting argument, or even acknowledge that there is another point of view worth considering, and will defend their paradigm with great emotion.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 07:08 PM
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I want to make a pill for those who think this option is not an option. You want to talk about fight club. A man who is living in the BP world will reject MRP because it clashes with his paradigm, and won't try it until he is at the end of his rope. One of our mantras here is 'don't talk about fight club' and I suspect the reason for that is that it challenges long held beliefs that one has to discover on one's own https://youtu.be/S16EHfKRLfc?t=34s Borrowed from Dr_warlock's post on the main su…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/15 04:28 PM
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Prayer helps....once we see past the illusions and false promises. Thanks for the chuckle at the irony!
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 04:06 PM
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I think that most of us have arrived here in a round-about way, having tried just about everything else. To quote General Beringer in 'War Games', "Goddammit, I'd piss on a spark plug if I thought it'd do any good!" Most of us were at the end of our rope, it was try this Red Pill thing, whatever the fuck that is, or divorce. We read the sidebar, slowly enacted what we'd read and things slowly started to change for the better. To a few it might be that they have to know someone's take on 'the why…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/15 01:46 PM
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From what I've read of this post and your previous post, you still treat her like she's your mother. And she has no idea how to deal with this man-child, who can't even seem to grasp how a GPS works, or how to use Google Maps. You're a grown ass man; women look to us to make decisions and solve problems, not to have to hold our hands. In as much as you see her fulfilling a 'mommy' role, by default it makes you her child, she has to hold your hand and help you with everything, and by telling her …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/15 12:55 PM
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Holy fuck, what did I just read? I could only read a paragraph or two at a time; my head's still reeling reading about this guy spinning his wheel at break-neck speed.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 08:22 PM
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SHIT! Was going to ask for an autograph.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 06:22 PM
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As I said, it can be location and workplace dependent. Or maybe you're really Chad Thundercock posing as mild mannered /u/Craterefumant.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 05:53 PM
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Just because a girl doesn't like a man she can gets him fired? I'm not sure how you arrived at me saying that from a humorous video, but what the hay, I'll play along. Short answer, yes! Getting a man fired for inappropriate workplace behaviour is location, and sometimes workplace dependent, but... The whole issue comes down to the woman's perception, if she feels threatened enough (read 'creeped out') and the workplace has a zero tolerance policy, then yes, termination can result. Not many wome…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 05:12 PM
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I became much fitter, more affectionate and patient. The difference that your added fitness brought to the table was probably negligible, kind of like putting an extra ten dollars in a wallet already stuffed with hundreds. If you want to see some real improvements in how your wife sees you, you are going to have to read the sidebar; however, along with MMSLP, as others have suggested, this is an excellent quick view of how your whole paradigm is wrong. http://theredpillroom.blogspot.ca/2012/05/d…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 01:44 PM
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Initially I was agreeing with your point about removing attention. I didn't like how it read, edited it and took out the part where I was in agreement (I do still agree, but it didn't move the conversation forward) and should have made it a stand-alone comment. Moved to it's own comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 01:43 PM
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I agree on all points. I wasn't suggesting that "being near tall guys doesn't make you small", but can create the illusion of shortness. My oldest is a huge fan of Napoleon, and I've absorbed some of it I guess.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 05:22 PM
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I've read the difference was the lack of standardization of measurements, making the English believe he was 5'2" when in actuality he was 5'7", as you say. Also, there was a standard height for the his elite guard which made him appear short by comparison.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 04:59 PM
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The difference between being called a 'creep' and giving her 'gina tingles is the degree of Alpha vs beta.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 04:51 PM
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The visual. http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=f76_1323277426&comments=1
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 03:26 PM
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Allowing yourself to become beta over time is kind of like allowing yourself to become overweight and soft. It took time to become overweight, it didn't happen overnight; like getting your hard body back, become Alpha isn't going to happen overnight, it's going to be a long road of hard work. And just like getting into shape, you can't stop and sit back on your laurels. MRP is a journey, not a destination.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 02:58 PM
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I don't understand where you're coming from. I'm not trying to argue with you, but I'm confused by your vehemence about this. There are a few people on here that are quick to jump on anything they deem as weakness, misspoken, or their interpretation of a few lines of text. These are just other people on the internet, if you haven't already, there are those you'll take a kick in the pants from and those you'll ignore. Like a buffet, take what will work for you and your circumstances and discard t…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 11:50 PM
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Agreed. Like a bird looking at a guy in a glider and wondering what all the fuss is all about.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 05:20 PM
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Not angry, more surprised, not at the fact that AWALT, but that the OP has been through this so many times with his wife that it is normal. Has /u/whinemoreplease retired?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 08:01 PM
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After it passed by a 116-to-5 vote in New Zealand's parliament, Gareth Hughes, one of the four Greens MPs to vote against the bill, said it was overly broad and “risks limiting our freedom of expression”. Gareth Hughes was immediately charged as the first person in violation of the new law, and is up for early release in 2017.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 05:47 PM
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she called me 2am that night (11 PST time) and then again first thing in morning to fess up. Normally these are trickle truth, after the fact, only when she gets drunk and accidentally lets them slip, or someone threatenes to tell her... Normally ! WTF, this is normal? NEXT!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 03:43 PM
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Where I was going with this is, that as a wifely obligation she has sex with him in the manner that gets him off the quickest, no touching, no foreplay. Reading the post again, OP sounds like a teenage girl who got a car for her 16th birthday, but doesn't like the colour and is throwing a fit about it. I believe he should continue to read, improve, up his SMV and see if she becomes a bit more submissive.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 04:57 PM
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I didn't like her comment to the carer, and that it was disrespectful and I won't tolerate this kind of behaviour. I'm unclear what you mean when you say you "won't tolerate this kind of behaviour." Unless you have thought of a way of dealing with her behaviour, saying that you won't tolerate, it without a plan of action, is a hollow threat. You are continuing to tolerate the intolerable, which by definition makes it tolerable.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 04:44 PM
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An overturned case is a start. Of course a good way around the whole mess is to make paternity testing mandatory and legislated.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 11:09 PM
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Spinning plates is a sideshow trick, spinning plate...meh. Fuck, I am such a great writer that on top of what is typed, is everything else you've attributed to it. I believe you may have inadvertently created a false dichotomy. But, please, feel free to call it whatever you want.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 08:51 PM
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It'll never happen, but I'd love to see a court ruling where cuckolded husband is awarded tens of thousands of dollars from an ex-wife, for having been duped into raising someone's kid. Oh well, back to reality.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 06:59 PM
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Spinning plates is a sideshow trick, spinning plate...meh.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 06:53 PM
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Does doggy finish you quickly? It could be that she is taking control to get her wifely obligation over with as quickly as possible, ie/ no foreplay. Straight to P in V and done until next time. Is it possible that foreplay, for her, is only for Alphas?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/15 10:28 PM
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Regardless of what form of gratitude it takes on, IMO it's still a covert contract. It is also possible that this behaviour is so engrained that you may not be recognizing your true nice guy motivations. Do the errand for her because you want to, with no expectations, if you don't want to do the errand, don't. If you feel you are being taken for granted, stop doing nice things for her. If you check out any threads over on TRP, you'll notice the pretty girls have beta/orbiters doing all of their …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 10:35 PM
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I expressed my unhappiness to my wife that I felt she took me for granted (too much "run and fetch" type tasks with no gratitude The, "with no gratitude" part was what got me. This IMO is a covert contract, I did something nice for you, now I get sex right? You had it set up in your mind that if you ran her errand then maybe a BJ or a little PIV would be appropriate payback. It sounds like you marriage is, as you said, "at rock bottom", so why bother doing anything nice for her. Act as though it…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 09:55 PM
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Love that article.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/15 01:57 PM
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I believe my wife's reasoning for cringing is, as I said, that it's condescending, that is, that wives have to be placated or they'll make your life 'unhappy' or at least I think that's what she has always meant. As for my own, current understanding of what I think this means, giving up one's own happiness, or making your own happiness dependent on someone else's happiness is a fool's errand and a waste of potential. Prior to beginning my MRP journey, when the kids were still home (one is back f…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 04:03 PM
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Thanks, this is very timely for me and I appreciate /u/ElGuapoMiguel for the link to MMSL forum post. Last couple of weeks I've been feeling absolutely nothing, I'd rather play some cards on my tablet before bed, than have to Game my wife for some Duty Sex, with her pulling me on top, so that my attempts at foreplay are rejected (no foreplay, let's just get this shit over with, or at least how that has always felt...covert contract?). Mid-left crisis indeed, I find myself thinking, is this all t…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 04:55 PM
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Happy wife, happy life, was my dad's mantra while I was growing up, hell it still is. A couple of months back he and I were having coffee and he repeated this trite, I jumped in and told him that the exact opposite was true. As an aside, my wife has always cringed whenever he has said, "Happy wife, happy life" and later when we're alone she tells me how much she hates that saying, that "it's condescending". Wish I'd understood the real reason she hated it, would have saved myself a couple decade…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 04:42 PM
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Go MGTOW. Jerk off constantly. Die of autoerotic asphyxiation. That line cracked me up. If you think she is going to go the DV route, I would suggest doing your best to record (audio and or visually) your interactions with her. This saved a work colleague who was arrested, recording got him released and helped him out in future proceedings. If you know you're going to stay, do the most you can to improve your SMV prior to pulling the pin, IMO Athol's MAP is a pretty foolproof way of getting to w…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 04:27 PM
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I used to work with a girl who would do this, she would know the right answer, but she would check with everyone in the office until she found someone that would agree with what she wanted. You are answer shopping hoping to find someone to agree and I'm not going to be the guy that tells you to stay with your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 08:52 PM
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As you said, Everyone can find a passage in the bible that suits their purpose. Holy texts, the ultimate circlejerk for their adherents.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 06:28 PM
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I agree with /u/dandar4600, /u/UEMcGilland & /u/jacktenofhearts on all counts. I recall your previous posts regarding your wife staying over at the apartment of the other guys. I suspect that she views you as a gullible pushover for believing that she was just staying there to get away for a bit. She will assume the same will be true of you when she tells you it will be an amicable, mediated divorce. Telling you that it will be a mediated divorce will be like leading the lambs to slaughter, she …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 05:34 PM
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I believe the correct term is...a pasted on smile.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 02:29 AM
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I agree with you regarding her snooping, but as you said, Reddit is easy enough to get onto without having to root through someone's phone.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 03:12 PM
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I agree with you on this. Deleting, in my opinion, would come across as being ashamed of your RP stance, and a little pussy-whipped. I also think it's an excellent opportunity to "own your shit".
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 07:20 PM
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It's tough, trying to undo 50+ years of programming. The hardest part is trying to covertly plant RP ideas into my sons' minds, I feel I've done them a great disservice with my previous BP fathering.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 06:37 PM
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Used to be that guy. On the plus side it took me to TRP and from there MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 04:19 PM
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Hate speech laws restrict true freedom of speech. If an idea cannot stand up in the marketplace of ideas then it will wither and die. Laws and punishments are not required. I don't believe this is PPD.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/15 07:21 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex. How is that a gross thing to say?
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/15 07:02 PM
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There is a difference between a sector of society being oppressed and the OP's boyfriend not wanting to be in a relationship with a woman that will obviously be with other guys with or without his consent.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/15 06:59 PM
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The female advantage in this case is the ease with which women can obtain sex. She is basically asking him to be her cuckold and he opted out.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/15 06:46 PM
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A WOMAN ATTEMPTS TO USE HER GENDER TO GAIN ADVANTAGE I posted this earlier, but I feel the comment applies here as well. The difference is that she wants permission to be a slut and still remain in a relationship with him. Now before you go off and start explaining there is no difference between a guy sleeping around and a girl doing the same thing...as a dude, look at how much effort the average guy has to put into getting laid - dinner, entertainment for the evening, on and on, with no guarant…
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/15 06:44 PM
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The difference is that she wants permission to be a slut and still remain in a relationship with him. Now before you go off and start explaining there is no difference between a guy sleeping around and a girl doing the same thing...as a dude, look at how much effort the average guy has to put into getting laid - dinner, entertainment for the evening, on and on, with no guarantees of sex, versus how much work a girl has to put into getting laid; basically for a half decent looking girl, all she h…
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/15 06:31 PM
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She has her old friend from home town bachelorette party. Calls me two in the morning, tells me she ran into old friend... Long story short, ended up holding hands and kissing him, he's married... Will never know if this is trickle truth or not... Oh...I think you know!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 03:12 PM
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a piece of paper doesn't make you more committed to a person Check local laws with regards to Common-Law relationships. Some places have laws on the books where six months of co-habitation gives all the same rights as marriage. Don't even let her keep a toothbrush at your place!
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 03:16 PM
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Can you imagine the outrage if a husband had a 'list of chores' before he had sex with his wife or got her something? As the major breadwinner, this would be met with a 'Star' rating for money for her for everything, even if it meant I had to take over the grocery shopping.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 03:11 PM
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Her lawyer probably told her that the judge would not be using real pepper spray. It would start a bad precedent of an eye for an eye type of justice and no judge is going to allow someone to be assaulted in his courtroom. The victim should have said no to the judge's scheme and let her do the time (also white knighting).
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/15 11:54 AM
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Funny you should say that; I work in a new government office, not a lot of employees in our particular office. There are 3 washrooms, men's, women's and handicapped; not a urinal to be found.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 10:54 AM
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I understand your main point. I was suggesting that the BP mindset is attempting to be different than all the other "asshole" guys. The BP doesn't realize his strategy isn't really different, or that it is a failed sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 03:47 PM
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I have kids and would want to know. I've said on here several times, that DNA testing should be legislated & done ASAP after conception.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 03:16 PM
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the beauty standard in western countries wouldn't be an underweight, narrow hipped, sterile androgynous model. I suspect that the body type you describe is as a result of the designers' choice, female models yes, but closer, as you describe, to a pubescent boy, which I think is the designers' preference.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 03:14 PM
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Just any guy who seems to offer something different than the usual guys. Reading that line made me think of BP sexual strategy, being different than all the other asshole guys, ie. I'll be nice, be her friend and I will be different and will be rewarded with sex. We all know it doesn't work, but may be a source of BP thinking...well that and feminized society.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 02:58 PM
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Look at the means of accomplishing MRP goals, time away from home, working out/getting fit, creating friendships with other men, etc. Other than quality time spent with your kids, video games accomplishes none of those.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 06:57 PM
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My kids are grown now, but I used to play video games with them, to have something that was cool, so dad wasn't an old fuddy-duddy, plus it was fun. Years later we joke about how bad I was at it. As someone who has been that route, in hindsight, I would have spent the time doing things with the kids that got our asses off of the couch. I'm not suggesting we just played video games together, but the time could have been better used, teaching them more things that would be useful later in life. IM…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 06:52 PM
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As an French martial arts instructor I used to take seminars with/from would say in his very heavily accented English, "ït is all about the balaaaance". LTR's need a balance of Alpha and Beta traits. As /u/I_AMA_Naughty_Boy has said, unless you're willing to risk your wife stepping out on you with a man that will give her the comfort she needs, then I would suggest you add in a small amount of comfort for her. I believe Athol has a small section in MMSLP that suggests that women will sleep with …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 04:18 AM
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My own issues, as I work through my way through MRP, seem small when I read about a train wreck like this!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/15 02:22 PM
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Please go see a lawyer and start preparing your exit. It is possible your wife will give up her latest spin on the Cock Carousel to save her family but only if you are willing and able to end it. I doubt his wife would want custody, the kid would get in the way of her fun times, and it sounds like she has minimal involvement with the kid now. Dude should proceed directly to divorce procedures.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/15 02:16 PM
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"Look over there, a distraction!"
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 07:41 PM
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You sound like you have very recently graduated here from r/Deadbedrooms, and still have a DB's mentality. Begin with reading the material in the sidebar. MMSLP is an excellent place to get your bearings in the MRP world, it's like a RP Light. If you haven't already, start hitting the gym and lifting.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 05:21 PM
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Like the person who wants to believe that vaccinations cause autism - ignores the volumes of evidence against what they want to believe, but believes the one crackpot that says what they want to hear.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 03:48 PM
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I suspect that non-professional women (and White Knights) will fight it tooth and nail. Making sex available in the free market will devalue non-pros; why would men put in all the time and effort to court a woman when they could rent. This is the same reason women hate porn.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 03:07 PM
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Thought this appropriate. https://www.youtube.com/attribution_link?a=jm4ShUNeGIk&u=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DuivbBu1pXRg%26feature%3Dshare
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 06:14 PM
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Exactly. But it's hard to believe Mark Twain said it better than me.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 06:01 PM
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Making bad decisions, acting on them and having them fail is what we call experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 05:45 PM
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Does repeated sexual innuendo not make you seem obsessed with sex? I used to think like this too. What you're really doing (IMO) is being the nice guy, being her friend with the end game of being rewarded with sex. This sub is all about NOT being that type of guy. Most of us ended up here after a lifetime, prior to TRP, of treating women as our friends, being an orbiter, a Beta, with hopes that she would come to her senses and realize what a great guy we are, how we're not 'pigs' like all those …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 05:16 PM
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Agreed. There is usually a continuum of sorts when it comes to behaviour, with those women who submit readily to an Alpha, and it sounds like your wife at the other end.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 03:33 PM
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Most phone cameras have two (2) lenses, making them able to take selfies, with the screen facing you, or with the back of the phone, screen still facing you. Mom probably assumed the camera was aimed at her kids = Paedophile.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:24 PM
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Stranger abductions are far less frequent than Joe or the media would have us believe. Most abductions are committed by someone the child knows, and most often by a parent after a separation/divorce, often to cause emotional pain to their former spouse, or to gain custody when the courts have ruled against them. Joe certainly hasn't suffered with almost 6.5 million views for this video. Another boogieman to keep us all indoors afraid of our own shadows.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:14 PM
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I agree with /u/itsDAP, helping someone face reality by having them take on an imaginary friend that is a higher power in their life isn't really the best way to beat an addiction; it's just replacing one altered reality with another. Like replacing your crutches for a cane.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/15 01:13 PM
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Most places have an offence for reporting a false crime (Public Mischief where I'm from) with a sentencing range. So reporting your car stolen for insurance gains would be the same offence as falsely accusing someone of rape, but with different sentencing options available for the trier of fact/judge.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/15 11:12 AM
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Much appreciated.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 09:57 PM
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Despite some comments to the contrary, I think the drawing is pretty fucking epic. I wish the res was a little higher, I'd save it as a background for my laptop.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 08:21 PM
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I'm an Atheist, though, and I think your former 1400 year-old desert tent-dweller tribe rules are ridiculous... but no more ridiculous than any other religion. FTFY
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 11:54 AM
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In all seriousness, don't use machines, stick to free weights and keep lifting equal weights with both sides. With a machine the stronger side can pick up the slack for the weaker side; conversely, with free weights if 25 is too much for the weaker side, but not quite enough for the stronger side, both will even out over time. But, like all things in nature, nothing is ever identical, so you can expect a slight difference regardless of what you do. Want proof, really study your wife's tits, one …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 10:51 PM
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Stop fapping with your right arm, try your left hand for a while.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 07:27 PM
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I'll give that a try, but I think I'll let what I had recently said roil around for a bit.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/15 01:11 PM
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I have a work colleague that I tried to get to nibble on TRP since his divorce, dude was and continues to be seriously divorce raped. I'm paraphrasing, but after telling him some RP truths about women, he counters with, "You're trying to tell me that women aren't smart enough to want a man who is...insert BP drivel, that they really want an asshole for a man." I responded that it's been less than a hundred years since women became 'liberated' and that isn't much time to fight millions of years o…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/15 12:26 PM
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Note - If you ask she will say she is attracted to you, but clearly she is not. As has been said on here many times before, pay attention to her actions, not her words.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 02:48 PM
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It's also important to strike with the knuckles of the middle and index fingers; the wrist should be straight, creating a straight line with the two knuckles and the two bones of the forearm. The knuckles of the ring and little fingers don't have any bones supporting them beyond the wrist, and contact the wrist at an angle, this is one of the most common breaks for new strikers. With that in mind, hook punches should be thrown with the fist vertical, otherwise the knuckles of the ring and little…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 01:30 PM
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I had typed out a similar corollary, but deleted it, figured less was more as far as an analogy. I think that what you posted needed to be put up in it's entirety, some good examples and excellent points. Inspirational, thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/15 12:27 PM
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“I can’t lead because my wife is too strong/too smart/too bossy/too powerful/doesn’t like it/is a feminist/doesn’t give me a captain’s hat” In as much as desire can't be negotiated, leadership can not be negotiated either. Excellent post.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/15 11:53 AM
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MMSLP has a step by step plan for either getting your marriage to where you want it to be, or being prepared to leave your marriage. Marriage Action Plan (MAP), it makes you a better, more attractive you and if your wife doesn't react to it other women will when, and if the marriage is over. I will be looking up Marriage 180.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 07:46 PM
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Surreptitiously carry a digital voice recorder or use a voice recording program on your phone for all interactions. Any allegations of abuse or maltreatment put forth by her can be rebutted quickly to police. I know of a couple of cases where this has been a literal "get out of jail free" card.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/15 06:40 PM
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I was thinking about this earlier in the week. I do it because I value order, not to please her. When we do housework, or some other domestic chore for the good of the household, or for the our own sanity, we're doing it from a place where we are not seeking approval. When we do chores seeking approval from our spouse, we've developed a Covert Contract, looking for some sort of reward, or worse, look at our wife as a surrogate mother/parent, always looking for approval and validation for being a…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 07:40 PM
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objective facts And she accepts that?? /s
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 08:22 PM
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Excellent, good for you. Best of luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 11:12 PM
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I "handled" shit tests by commanding respect or explaining how her requests were unreasonable. This may harken back to your military days, but respect from your wife may come easier if not commanded. Internalizing MRP concepts gives her what she needs to follow, an independent man who finds her Shit Tests amusing, who doesn't care whether or not she has sex with him because he knows there are other women who are more than willing to give him the sex he craves (lifting and attitude). Women react …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 10:35 PM
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One of my past NCO's actually took a WSM (Whining, Sniveling Malcontent), who was close to retirement and turned him into a contributing member of the shift. Subordinates won't willingly follow someone who won't lead them. There will be exceptions to these types of things, there are no hard a fast rules when it comes to human interaction and peoples' personalities. If your wife won't follow you, despite you being a good/great leader, passing Shit Tests, displaying Amused Mastery and Outcome Inde…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 08:01 PM
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I work in policing, and have work for many NCO's. Generally I find there are two types: 1) Is the natural leader that people follow because they are Alpha, know their shit and generally make sound decisions; and 2) Is the Paper Leader, that relies on the authority that comes with Official Rules & Regulations, and SOP's. People don't follow him/her, subordinates tend to follow another subordinate that is Alpha, knows their shit and generally makes sound decisions - at which point the Paper Leader…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 06:23 PM
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Agreed, just pointing out the ridiculousness of hyphenated names.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/15 01:41 PM
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But then you're right back to where you were in the first place, fighting over whose name to use. You've just put the fight over onto your kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/15 03:59 AM
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I work for the government, I'm here to help!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/15 10:36 PM
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I agree with everyone else's points and would add that the whole hyphenated name thing is ridiculous. Billy Jones marries Jane Smith, they have - Little Johnny Jones-Smith, he grows up and marries Betty Williams-Armstrong - they have Suzy Jones-Smith-Williams-Armstrong. and the stupidity continues.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/15 09:31 PM
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that's something she whines about a lot in our discussions Why are you having discussions? Honest question. What are you discussing that each time it's discussed, that she brings it up? Less talk, more do. You say you've read MMSLP. Do you have an Action Plan, complete with an end game?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/15 06:20 PM
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I tend to see Alpha and Beta in movies and TV and hear both in music.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/15 04:22 PM
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I read in the asktrp post that you're in university. Why aren't you studying and spinning plates?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/15 04:12 PM
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OP, you sound very immature and not ready for this level of relationship. You can't seem to even look after yourself, let alone be the Captain in a relationship. I agree with some of the other commentators, get your self organized, to the point where you can look after you. The level of reliance you have on your girlfriend seems unhealthy. Your relationship sounds like you've adopted this girl as your ersatz mother.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/15 03:43 PM
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Had this exact (well close enough) experience sailing in Jamaica on our honeymoon. Fortunately we were inside a reef and not too far from shore. Thanks for the memory, I hadn't thought of that in decades. The rest of the honeymoon had plenty of foreshadowing of BP me; oh to know then what I know now!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/15 10:23 PM
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Whenever I hear about hypocrisy or a double standard when it comes to the sexual histories of men and women, it makes me think of how easy it is for a girl to get laid...here it is boys. A man has to either be Alpha or have other desirable traits, have some semblance of game, the confidence to approach... The 'Double Standard' is there because it is so easy for girls/women to just give it away; a man has to earn it.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 08:10 PM
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Brilliant. Using this. Royalty free! Enjoy. Looks like you're on the right path; continue reading, lifting and being awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/15 02:22 PM
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I think you handled it correctly, you made a choice and stood by it, then laid ground rules for future discussions, including suggesting that she give more thought to options prior to putting them out there for a decision. I used to get this fairly often as well. A reasonable choice is given by her, a decision is made by me, then within a few seconds to a minute, more choices are given. For me it was usually over dinner. I tend to handle it the same way. It happens less and less over time, as yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/15 01:46 PM
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My ex is burning all bridges that regard any potential of us getting back in the future. Why? Why would you want to get back together with this woman that would use her child as a pawn? Couples that break up and get back together still usually have the same baggage and bad habits that broke up the relationship. It sounds like she is living rent free in your head; kick her the fuck out! To echo others, your major concern should be your daughter's welfare. Both your ex and your mother are grown-as…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 09:55 PM
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Typed it incorrectly, then went "fuck yeah!". but I'm using it from now on! ...for a small royalty. /s
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:41 PM
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Old Perry probably figured that, "She won't have sex with him, after all, she doesn't like sex, she barely has sex with me, her husbank."
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 06:31 PM
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It's aversarial - it's playing against your partner rather than playing with them as part of the same team. BP reasoning agrees with your statement; however, those of us on here have found that BP reasoning has lead to unhappy marriages for us, with little sex. MRP is not about not being on a different team than your wife, it's about being Team Captain. Women are not biologically attracted sexually to men who treat them as equals, but are attracted to Alpha traits. LTR requires some Beta traits …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/15 01:37 PM
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Swingers Club? Giving my wife permission to fuck someone else doesn't seem particularly Alpha to me. Her rules make it sound as though anything on your list after dinner, is going to be way out of her comfort zone. I'm very sexually adventurous... How, if you've been with her since you were 22? Maybe a better way of putting that is, I was more sexually adventurous or I would like to be more sexually adventurous, or if you're involved in extra-marital affairs you could be more sexually adventurou…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 07:36 PM
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Is there a place like the university library where you could work on your cover letters? Maybe after a good afternoon of cover letter prep, treat yourself to a nice meal at a place that you like to go to, maybe call a friend and have a pint, then get back at it. If she wants to sulk in her room, she's going to miss out on the good times.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 07:07 PM
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I would get married again, but it would be with the proviso that I would know then what I know now. The 27 year journey with my wife would have been a much happier enterprise had I been the RP husband that I am working on becoming/maintaining (always working to improve). Any attempt at a mental 'Mulligan' takes my kids out of existence, so as someone else mentioned I'd have to do it all again. My father's mantra was always, "if mama ain't happy ain't nobody happy!", but oddly until my mother pas…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 05:33 PM
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Exactly the point I'm trying to make to the OP. I'm not trying to say 'YOU' in particular to the OP, just that denying the possibility is to deny women's true nature...especially when hubby has become Beta and pedestalized his wife, "Oh no, she would never!".
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 10:49 PM
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I suspect that most of us on here have slipped into Beta-hood in our LTR's, and attempting to redeem ourselves is what has brought us here. I am not saying that your wife has strayed, I'm suggesting the very real possibility exists that our wives may have strayed while we were Absent Captains, or Drunk at the Helm; hypergamy makes women masters at that game. Personally I believe a paternity test should be legislated for all pregnancies. I think it was /u/RPSigmaStigma that first suggested not us…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 09:41 PM
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I've been wanting to read SGM but it's hard to find time alone to just sit and read. A few pages at a time on a Smartphone or Tablet while you're on the shitter. Where there's a will...
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 07:27 PM
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Sounds advice. Women are masters of hiding extra-marital relationships (cheating). Not even considering the possibility is naive.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 06:13 PM
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gemini Seriously? I thought only women bought into that crap. Only you are responsible for you, don't go trying to blame the position of the planets and stars. I really hope you're kidding.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 08:47 PM
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Yeah. She's been on that wagon a while. I cringe too. Let's not go there. Be careful you don't get too much sand up your nose!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 07:19 PM
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no hot choreplay scene The only time your wife finds chores even mildly sexy is if another woman comments on how hot it was that you helped clean up after the party.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/15 10:29 PM
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Agree with u/NotABibleScholar, while you may not have consciously chosen to be Beta, you took the BP prescribed by society (as did most of us here). This is not your wife's fault, she was only reacting to your lose of SMV. I went through the same phases, the same anger, the same wanting to take revenge and make her feel the way she made me feel for so long. I still find myself having those thoughts, but I quickly dismiss them now. I agree with the OP in the dragging my feet with making connectio…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/15 10:17 PM
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Depending on where you are in your recovery, I really like the idea of money for a nice dress and/or lingerie...win - win. And don't forget March 14th, Steak & Blow Job Day.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/15 09:05 PM
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MMSL was Athol's first book and TMAP is a follow-up. MMSL was an epiphany for me, I was doing a pretty good job of wallowing in self-pity over on r/deadbedrooms. MMSL was the kick in the ass I needed. Athol is trained as a nurse, and offers some advice about meds and their effects on sex drive. Best of luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/15 07:05 PM
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Semen yes, sperm no. Not sure if OP is suggesting vasectomy = no ejaculation.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 03:31 PM
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Agreed, had mine snipped about 15 years ago (at least) and no difference. SunKist, all juice, no seeds.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 03:07 PM
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Plan a trip to the Caribbean, rent SCUBA equipment once you get there, and start spinning some plates. Problem solved. Get home, start/continue lifting, start/continue spinning plates and planning the next trip. Be awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/15 07:58 PM
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Yup, that's the one. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/15 01:19 PM
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OP get on with your life. Standard stuff, hit the gym, continue improving yourself, do the things you want to do. IMO this is a shit test to see how long you will put your life on hold, waiting for her. I agree with TomHIcks, dont acknowledge her if she isnt going to reciprocate. There was a post a few weeks ago about a guy who relishes when his wife gives him the silent treatment, he considers it a vacation from her nattering and nagging. Enjoy your vacation.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/15 12:38 PM
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Audio book.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/15 09:53 PM
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Added bonus, it takes his sense of validation out of his wife's hands.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/15 05:35 PM
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Basically, she has no desire to fuck me. Unfortunately you only see your own value reflected in the validation you get from having sex with her. When she gives you no sex, you have no validation = no value. Why would she fuck a guy with no value. She has the value that you give to the sex that you want from her. The more you see value in sex, the higher the price is going to be. That price comes in the cost of backrubs, diners out, or whatever hoop she wants you to jump through. Or, once again, …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/15 01:03 PM
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I've removed the source, thankfully these are editable. Agreed and as I said, I don't believe the source changes the veracity of the quote.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 09:43 PM
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Interesting. Always willing to learn, with citations of course. I don't believe the source changes the veracity of the quote.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 09:24 PM
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Agreed. Ask yourself what the purpose of your MRP journey is. Is it to make yourself more attractive to your wife? Probably. Or is it to make her understand why you weren't the man she wanted for the last X number of years? And what would that change? My advice is to forget any ideas you have of sharing any of this information with her. This is not done my committee, you have to make this change, she doesn't get a say in the matter. She only gets to enjoy the results.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/15 08:48 PM
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If she thinks she has a legit chance of doing better than you, she will dump your ass and fuck the other guy. Or, fuck the other guy and continue to reap them beta bucks, while you're none the wiser.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 08:24 PM
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"To learn who rules over you, simply find out who you are not allowed to criticize."
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 07:17 PM
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"She told me She was about to apologize and I just killed it" This was what I intended to comment on, but I'm late to the party. An apology is about admitting a wrong done to someone else. This was her taking a negative and playing the victim card, so that you feel bad about a situation that she caused. Most women are pro's at this. Never expect an apology from your wife. If an apology comes, take it, but never expect it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/15 04:15 PM
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Agreed, as I said previously, if you decide to throw caution to the wind and marry this girl... OP needs to get over this Oneitis, work on himself physically and internalize the sidebar information.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/15 11:32 AM
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I suppose I could hit EDIT, but I'm going to comment on my own comment. In the title it says Captain/First Officer MODEL. And I think that's what it's intended as, a model, & very apt analogy. I suspect we all arrived here because things had gone for a shit in our marriages and we were looking for a way to make things the way we thought they should be. I for one found this place after spending way too much time and energy on r/Deadbedrooms while reading MMSL, saw something about r/TRP while on D…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/15 03:08 AM
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I work in a profession where some have authority by title only. The people that are supposed to be subordinate to the TITLE ONLY authority figure, eventually end up being lead by someone with the actual ability to lead. Tell her you're the Captain and cock-up just once and it may just get thrown in your face. Lead, be the Captain and she will follow. Women talk, men do.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/15 02:01 AM
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I'm relatively new and still learning here too, but I think by "hard no", the OP is suggesting that there was no ambiguity about the no. it wasn't a, I'll keep going to see if I can overcome her Last Minute Resistance, it was a definite NO! As stated in the title, OP showed outcome independence, not concerned that he wasn't going to get sex now. LTR's can't be viewed with the same abundance mentality that a single RP male can just hit the bars and pick up a random chick. No, ours is a strategy f…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/15 11:34 PM
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When you and your wife have mutual mornings off, sit and have coffee. Obviously it doesn't have to be morning, or coffee for that matter, but set aside time for her to run these little gems by you. Having times like this set aside gives you an out for when its not convenient, like when you have to get up early for work the next morning. Discuss the arrangement ahead of time, that you find it keeps you both from getting a good night's sleep and then remind her when she starts in at bedtime. Then …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/15 10:52 PM
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OR you could make a list of every sex act and situation she handed out to randoms for free before, hand it to her and let her know every oe of these acts is now on the table for the asking (after all, all they did was ask) or she can leave. Not true desire. In this instance he's negotiated that she can remain in his life if she does X. Please see previous comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/15 01:43 PM
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A lot of good insight here. I'm not sure it applies in this case, it certainly seems that this girl has hit the wall and looking to settle down. Second last paragraph is gold.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/15 11:33 PM
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Negotiated sex, not something I'd normally agree with, but if she agrees, pound that pussy. Do it right and you got yourself a plate.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/15 09:09 PM
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She doesn't do those things for you because she sees you as a Beta Provider, slightly better than Beta Bucks. Beta Provider is someone that she is willing to settle down with and be exclusive to (for now). Beta Bucks is someone she allows to provide for her while she is still sucking Alpha cock. The problem with being a Beta Provider is that she may have a kid or two with you, but she will likely crave the Alpha cock sooner or later and probably behind your back. If you do decide to throw cautio…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/15 07:33 PM
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"Contemplating Divorce: At What Point is it Not Your Fault" What difference does it make if it is your fault? Your relationship seems highly dysfunctional. To what extent you are culpable for that dysfunction really shouldn't be the issue. Your wife is abusive, the first time you're a victim, the next time you're a volunteer, because you know it's going to happen again. The only way to end the abuse is to leave. There are many fish in the sea, as the old saying goes. There is a song and the chor…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/15 03:23 PM
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This lady's bubble is well off centre. If she also has access to any firearms, as you said, for "personal safety", it could go quite badly for the OP during one of her tantrums.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/15 02:58 AM
2

If your wife is responsive once things get going, there is a good chance that you just need to build up the sense of anticipation. Arousal is manifested in the groin, but it begins in the mind. Women need anticipation, there's a reason romance novels sell. Men are visual, we can see a naked woman and be raring to go. Think nudie mag or porn vs romance novel. Start early in the day, texts, touching. Keep track of her cycle, be aware that when she is ovulating she will want a pounding, other times…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/15 08:15 PM
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As the Professor suggested, don't hide your phone, but perhaps after you check it, put it face down. And while your Dread certainly seems to have done its job, be mindful that her accusations of cheating may be projection of what she was doing while she was in control of her BP husband. This is a never ending journey, don't be expecting that there is ever a vacation from MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/15 02:53 AM
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I was thinking of Athol's advice that any firearms should be locked securely away or stored away from the residence, duplicate keys made, etc. There is a small section on this MMSL. Your personal safety and that of your children should be something that you are starting to take seriously. Sometimes a little paranoia is a good thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/15 02:45 AM
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This is very sound advice. I know a fellow who's wife is a police officer, she made allegations that he had assaulted her during one of her 'outbursts'. She had him arrested, but he had video'ed the whole thing and was able to use it in later proceedings.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/15 02:40 AM
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Agreed...but, I can't seem to help noticing male characters who display either RP or BP attributes. I also find myself breaking down female characters' motivations. That said, I try to let it be just what it is, entertainment.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/14 02:25 PM
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except for Joseph when his wife got knocked up by some god and he was apparently ok with that. Thanks, that was frickin' hilarious. Joseph was the ultimate BP, should have just NEXT'ed Mary. Knocked up by god, yeah right! The bible is RP in an overly abusive father kind of way. But this is the wrong forum for that, see you over on r/atheism.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/14 03:08 AM
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Well written. When I first read MMSL and the Captain, F/O, the reference to Picard and Riker really drove the point home. None of the other Star Trek series had this dynamic. Great job fleshing out the concepts with this post.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/14 02:06 PM
2

I've re-read your initial post and believe that the crux is that if we RP men are about self improvement, why are we not also about improving the world. The second paragraph asks how men let feminism happen. In your point about "biblical worldview" were you referring to 1 Timothy 2:12 - I do not let women teach men or have authority over them.? If I have either point correct, please let me/us know and perhaps these points could be further addressed.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/14 01:40 PM
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By my understanding of the concepts, outcome independence is less about being punitive for a single incident of declining sex, whereas withholding affection would be more for an ongoing issue. At times, withholding sex can be a shit test, to gauge your reaction. Will you act like a beta and be supplicating in the hopes that she will change her mind and have sex with you. Will you act like a child and sulk when you don't get your way. Or will you act like a man that has other things to do. Is you…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/14 06:49 PM
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Red Pill is about wanting to know the truth vs what we have been told. For most of us that's a lifetime of indoctrination about the nature of female behaviour/psychology and sexuality. Married Red Pill, I believe, is about applying what we've learned about female behaviour and sexuality within the framework of our already existent relationships. As you stated, this is a "personal tool"; MRP is very much a personal tool that we use and apply individually to improve our marriages. In the process m…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/14 06:28 PM
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Stopping the mother-boy dynamic, it was one of those lightning bolt epiphanies. It just hit me that I don't need her approval. I am the man in the relationship and I damn well needed to act like it. I took stock of my assets and realized that I have quite a lot going for me, there will always be room for improvement, but I deserve to have the life I want and no one is going to come along and give it to me, I have go after my own goals, be my own Captain. Getting approval from my wife in that mot…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/14 05:01 PM
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Agreed, and more eloquent than I had stated.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/14 04:04 PM
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This was exactly what I felt, absolutely tons of anger at my wife for all the lost time (about 20 years worth), until I realized that it was me being BP that my wife wasn't attracted to. I did all the things that we have all been told we needed to do to get the marriage I wanted, including all that great sex that would be coming my way once I jumped through all the hoops. So much Beta! I had to come to grips with the fact that I was unattractive as a MAN! I did all the things to make her feel co…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/14 06:36 PM
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The article was an interesting read, but immediately I noted the... Unlike the Left, we of the Right don't despise our families The degree of the polarity of the two party system in the States never ceases to amaze me. Nothing to do with MRP, but from an outsider's view this looks really divisive and unhealthy.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 09:54 PM
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Say it in passing. My wife's father is sick in hospital and when my wife was falling apart over text (in-laws live a couple hours away), she told me I was her anchor. I told her I prefer to captain the boat, rather than be dragged along the bottom, and from there I told her I needed a First Officer. She has referred to me as her Captain a few times since, I'm starting to suspect she is possibly on this sub, or maybe reading my sons copy of MMSL. I don't have a throwaway, so she would see my post…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 09:31 PM
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I too have been having fun with my replies to the different things that my wife says, not even necessarily shit tests. Most of what she says now, I turn into a fun & funny sexual comment with lots of touching and escalation. My biggest issue was the whole allowing her to treat me like one of her children, getting over her 'giving me trouble' for something. I'm a grown-ass man damn it. Without me saying anything, she has actually started calling me Captain, I tell her she's a damn fine First Offi…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 06:45 PM
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If your wife were North American, I would say that she has returned to India to a former lover, or to the Cock Carousel. She married as she was approaching the wall in her late 20's. She attempts to justify her behaviour by assuming that you are cheating while she is away. Anyways you're enjoying your single life there right? Puts this frame of reference onto you, that you are obviously "enjoying your single life", so it's only fair that she get to enjoy her single life too. Her getting so upset…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 03:19 PM
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Old pussy, that is fucking awesome! The two of you, BluepillProfessor and strategos_autokrator come up with some amazingly clever and insightful replies. Thank you both.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 02:29 PM
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Agree and Amplify: "$100,000 for a weeks vacation? Lets make it $200,000 and the winner gets a personal sex slave for 2 months." Might want to define that the winner gets the loser of the bet as a "personal sex slave for two (2) months". Personal Sex Slaves outside the marriage can be costly...LOL!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 02:26 PM
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Use your phone to record one of her tirades, play it back to her when she's calm.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/14 07:19 PM
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When I told my wife that I would be gone in a heartbeat, it was the results of being asked what I would do. she has said repeatedly that I had better not cheat on her A commonality on here seems to be that people who have cheated tend to be uber suspicious and use this type of language. I will repeat my recommendation from before, read MMSL. I think it will help you address some of the issues.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 10:01 PM
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What you choose to do about her infidelity is entirely your business. When my wife and I first encountered another couple within our social circle where one of the partners had cheated, I flat out told my wife that I would be gone in a heartbeat, no explanation, just gone. In hindsight, I now see this as a bit of a double edge. On the one hand it's an Alpha move to let her know you would next her if she were unfaithful, but on the other hand, if you become Beta she certainly won't tell you under…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 09:03 PM
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Take her. dont ask questions or negotiate or set parameters or expectations. just go caveman. This. This has been working for me with more success than I'd ever thought possible. I was a long way down the path of "equality", where she had to be as much into it as I was, or obviously she didn't want to, and you certainly can't try to overcome any LMR or if her response wasn't at the same level as mine, it meant 'no' to me. Start touching early in the day and whenever there is an opportunity, a lo…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 08:55 PM
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it's pretty fucking atrocious and enables abusers to be abusive, and convinces men who aren't getting laid that the problem isn't them but women Quite the opposite is true. If the commenter of that particular pearl of wisdom had bothered to do some further reading, he/she would have realized that TRP explains the modus operandi of women and does not blame women for being women; that BP approaches do not work and what works in reality. As RP men, we know that the only person we have control to ch…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:06 PM
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Good looking does not equal Alpha. Alpha is a natural born leader. In male, female relationships it tends to translate into dominance, not necessarily in a forceful way, but a man that a woman wants to follow. If you haven't read MMSL http://marriedmansexlife.com/books/primer/ I would suggest that it's a good place for married men, or men who enjoy longer term relationships, to start. I've given it to my son's as a starting place for RP concepts (Red Pill in a more palatable format). Once you're…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 02:31 PM
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How do I save face while maintaining frame. Turn the situation around for yourself, as Dr.Xaos suggested, get a combination lock, then store the combo on a phone, DropBox or the like, on your SmartPhone. While you were at the hardware store buying a combination lock, also buy a set of bolt cutters, you save yourself the 40 bucks getting the storage company to cut it off, + added bonus, you get a new tool for your workshop. You also solve the problem that you created. I am irresponsible and that …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 12:07 AM
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I feel like this could be an opportunity to get her to stop being such a bitch You have no control over her changing, you are the only one you have the ability to change. She used to be really enthusiastic in bed, and frankly there are things that I would like to do to her that she's pretty reluctant about. I suspect that after you had proposed the good sex stopped once she knew she'd landed her lifetime meal-ticket, a.k.a. BB, she then went back to her old AF. It sounds like you've seen the tel…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/14 10:56 PM
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You're welcome. THAT GUY aka ufd.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/14 07:13 PM
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English is not your first language, yet you're command of it is better than a large number of native speakers, especially the written word. I am relatively new to this sub; I enjoy and learn a lot from your posts. Please keep it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/14 07:13 PM
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strategos_autokrator I really enjoy your insightful posts/responses, but there is one thing that I see repeatedly in your posts, and while I hate to be that guy, it's Brow-Beat, not Brown-Beat. I am now THAT GUY...fuck!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/14 05:25 PM
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Your hubby's sister sounds a lot like my sister. I'm not sure if anyone else on here has mentioned it, but a book that I believe might be of assistance with your husband wanting to please everyone is "No More Mr. Nice Guy", often referred to on here as NMMNG. Contrary to what the title suggests, NMMNG is a book about not trying to please everyone, not about no longer being nice. You had mentioned that your husband doesn't like to read; may I suggest an audiobook. And as was suggested earlier, by…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/14 12:58 AM
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I don't believe you are being honest with yourself. What I see: -Beta husband; -Domineering/take charge wife; -Absent/abstinent for a year; -Surrounded by Alpha males; -Monthly ovulation for two to three days where hormones run wild. I believe your hamster has taken the reins. I don't know you, I'm merely commenting on what I have read. And left wondering why such a strong woman married such a Marvin Milktoast?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/14 11:53 PM
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I think notmyuglyside was suggesting that you have a super-beta husband at home...that you will be away from for a year...that you will be around alpha men, lots of them...that as you said you like a take charge kind of guy...that you will be around alpha men, lots of them... a.k.a....Recipe for disaster. notmyuglyside, did I misinterpret?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/14 09:22 PM
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This!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/14 09:18 PM
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If the alcohol concerns you, mention it. You've been sober 7+ congratulations, so you know full well that you can taste and smell alcohol on someone else's breath, that's how you bring it up, if you wish. You don't have to tell her you found the wine, just that you hope it doesn't become a problem. Aside from that, congratulations.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/14 09:08 PM
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Agreed, as I said, a cautionary tale.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/14 05:58 PM
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Plus 25 here, but not sure what the value of it would be. How well you've incorporated the fundamentals is more important IMO. For instance, I'm sneaking up on 27 years married, but only discovered MMSL when I was about my wits end around 2 and 1/2 years ago. Since then I found TRP and much more recently this sub. The 20+ years I lived BP are of little to no value to anyone on here, other than as a cautionary tale. My point being that Flair says nothing about the degree to which you have incorpo…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/14 02:37 PM
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I don't like cats. Just try ignoring a cat.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 05:20 PM
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They are still "sob sister", but what's changed is the courts. Dude in this may end up being falsely charged with sexual assault/rape, and as one poster suggested, it may be a ploy by the wife to get all of the dude's assets in a divorce, by saying he's a cheater and a rapist, with her friend as a witness.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 06:12 PM
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Maybe you have the money and fitness well in hand, or maybe attitude was where you were most lacking, but once you have your attitude right, don't discount fitness and how it will affect your SO. To paraphrase MMSL, if you already make $100,000/year, adding $1,000 to it isn't going to give you much in the way of gains, but if you're all soft in the middle, hitting the gym will give you more gains. I don't believe anyone suggested that getting all 'roided up was the thing to do, maximizing all ar…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/14 12:39 AM
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I suspect there is not a marriage counsellor alive that is going to tell you the things you need to actually to do to improve your marriage in a RP way. You are the only variable that you have control over. Read the side bar material, the books, put it into action, improve your marriage and save yourself money and aggravation. I believe one of the best things you can do, is to keep track of your wife's cycle, and how that affects your interactions, both sexual and otherwise.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/14 02:04 PM
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Holy shit! I just found this sub from TRP and this is the first post on here that I've read, amazing! There are so many parallels with my own marriage. Initially, through reddit, I found r/Deadbedrooms, and found solace that I wasn't alone in my suffering. I was put onto MMSL and did my best to try to implement that, but without any other RP knowledge. Then through r/DB I found TRP, read voraciously, but while the ideas are somewhat universal, there were aspects that just never seemed to apply t…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/14 03:17 PM
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Along those lines, a submissive dog with a weak owner/without a leader, will become the de facto leader, it would prefer to be lower in the pack but without an Alpha, the dog has no choice. Fixing this situation is Cesar Milan's bread and butter. I have recently come to think of shit tests and women taking lead in relationships with this in mind. Fail the shit test and you are not the leader she thought you were, with the consequences that she become the leader,or she finds a true Alpha. Females…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 04:06 PM
1

I'm not sure if excess testosterone is the reason, however... Men tend to have a longer ring finger when compared to their index finger; the opposite is generally true for women. Kind of like saying, "men are taller than women"; it's a generalization. Ask your male and female friends to show you their hands, it's usually quite obvious.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 06:55 PM
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Can't count all the times when I was bartending that some honey would ask what time I was off and that she'd wait until I was done and we'd have a good time. Then she'd be gone before I finished stocking the beer fridge. No free drinks, just too drunk and horny to wait.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:07 PM
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Agreed. Canceled my cable/satellite for this very reason. Media tends to play to the lowest/largest denominator. Absolute garbage on television (for the most part). Crap content aside, a quick Google search shows Cosmo in the top ten on several rating sights; the magazines ahead of Cosmo weren't much better.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 04:16 PM
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Look up Sperm Wars. Basically if a woman in a LTR is having an affair/cheating, she will come home after her tryst interested in sex with her long term partner. The idea being that she is unconsciously pitting the men's sperm against one another. The man in the LTR with the woman subconsciously receives scent ques of the other man's sperm/semen will bang the hell out of her, attempting to pull the other man's seed out of his woman. Theory being that the shape of the head of the penis acts to pul…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 02:06 PM
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Case in point. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1168182/Catfights-handbags-tears-toilets-When-producer-launched-women-TV-company-thought-shed-kissed-goodbye-conflict-.html
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 04:15 PM
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As has been said before, all a woman has to do to have sex is open her legs, a man has to work for it (unless he's in that top 20%). A woman over 30 just has to re-calibrate who she is willing to sleep with.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 08:48 PM
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There are three prices in business... One price for customers, Double for friends, and Triple for family (or women who try to use coquettishness to get what they want).
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 05:54 PM
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beta blockers I see what you did there.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 12:41 PM
2

To play devils advocate for the other commenters, if some one perceives you as a certain type, it's very hard to change their opinion and you will often fall back into that role. When the pressure is on, we tend to fall back on familiar patterns of behaviour. If you are still wavering over whether or not to give your marriage another try, may I suggest Athol Kay's, "The Married Man's Sex Life Primer"? It is a ten dollar Kindle download and a relatively short read. The book explains some of the b…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 01:51 PM
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I initially posted it rhetorically, but yes both of those. Pussy pass in action!
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 04:05 PM
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If the genders were reversed, do you think the outcome would have been anywhere near the same?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 02:55 PM
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betas are the modern version of slaves. its great to have one, just sucks to be one yourself I believe the term is Eunich. Beta, a form of self castration.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 02:43 PM
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Does the why really matter? Move forward, better yourself. You may not even be aware of why you are going through your personal growth. But why wouldn't you want to be constantly improving?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 01:12 PM
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Actions without consequences. She will have learned nothing if you do not go ahead with charges. As you said, think about where you would be if the incident hadn't been recorded.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 11:24 AM
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Even Especially if doing that thing is "trusting" her. FTFY
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 04:18 PM
1

TRP = no sense of humour?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 02:55 PM
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Yeah, that was pretty damn good! Just enough sarcasm, wit, truth and humour; a little something for everyone!
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 01:51 PM
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And I don't even smoke!
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 06:10 PM
1

I'm horrible with future dates, I can sometimes remember the exact date something happened years ago, but future dates...forget it! I suspect women do this on occasion as a bit of a shit-test to see what reaction they will get, and they may or may not have told you. If you're as shitty with upcoming dates as I am, tell her, "if you didn't see me put in my phone's calendar, I'm not responsible" and call it done.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 05:33 PM
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Paternity testing is a must - Always!
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 05:14 PM
2

Had to read this again. Read - Their hamster drops. Must stop skimming!
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 04:54 PM
3

45+ years. And yes, WAY too many acronyms!
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 04:49 PM
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IMHO, being good in bed is a skill set - skill sets are acquired through practice and knowledge, just like game.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 12:47 PM
3

Don't you know race = religion!
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 09:04 PM
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I bet she didn't think gender was a social construct when she was spending her year in Europe finding herself ; ) Yeah, I read her short bio. For the rest of the article, I'm glad I didn't step in it!
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 09:03 PM
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Have seen the video, the change in her expression is hilarious!
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 03:49 PM
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while future hubby waited on pins and needles I see what you did there - sublime bowling reference.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 03:23 PM
1

About 30 years ago I tended bar, was a single college student. One of the other bartenders, guy in his 30's, told me about doing dancing/stripping at bachelorette parties. I asked him how the money was and he looked me in the eye and said, (paraphrasing) don't even think about it man, women get crazy with strippers, they'll rip your dick off. Didn't do it...hindsight 20/20! D'oh!
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 01:54 PM
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If all you want is a child, consider adoption or surrogacy...or a dog. Know that at some point you will show some form of weakness and/or fear and her sense of attraction will be gone. The stability of marriage is a ticking time bomb of her loss of attraction. Once that sense of attraction is gone it won't just be BJ's that she does not do. Her attraction will last until she has her children (make sure you DNA test any children to make sure you are not raising someone else's little darling). Bes…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 06:41 AM
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I suspect a little of both. It was about 20 years ago, I just remember his voice being low and grumbly. Went right out to the parking lot and told my wife, we laughed our asses off and still chuckle about it.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/13 11:43 AM
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One of those great 'kids say the darnedest things' moments.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/13 11:36 AM
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Kids are brutally honest. One day after swimming lessons when my son was really little, I was helping him get dressed after his lesson. A man with a huge pot belly came out of the sauna, buck ass naked. My son whispered something to me, but it was too soft to hear, so I asked him to repeat it. In a loud voice, he said, "that man sure has a small peepee doesn't he dad!" The man walked passed us and said, "that wasn't very nice for him to say, was it?". I'm telling that story at his wedding.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 05:15 PM
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