ughs1234 Archive

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11	Women are the beloved creation of Gods hand before they are temptation to you		ughs1234	/r/RPChristians	20/05/20 10:43 PM

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1	questioning male sex drive and porn use That verse meant that women were going to try to dominate men, in a way perverse to the natural course of nature. “Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you” And I know that gender is getting warped and blurred, you just kind of undermined a woman’s drive towards sexual sin, which I think is unfair, because just as I don’t understand the mind of a man, so you don’t understand the mind of a woman. I know testosterone does play an act in that, but I know a lot of women who st…	/r/RPChristians	28/05/20 04:58 PM
0	questioning male sex drive and porn use Women struggle with sexual immorality too. The temptation is there, women don’t just seek attention. Sex is addicting and a natural drive that we have, for you to dismiss sexuality for women as just being for physical attention shows how much you understand women in general. Sure, they are wired differently, but sexual temptation is sexual temptation. Just because men are more aggressive with it does not mean that the thoughts are there, just ask all the women addicted to porn and masturbation.	/r/RPChristians	27/05/20 11:58 PM
2	How do you resist the urge to keep chasing "better" women when you want a relationship You can talk to many girls at a time in the VERY beginning stages of dating as long as you don’t take any too far and it’s a brief period of time for you to find the right person for you. I think as long as you aren’t leading any on or sleeping with all of them, there’s nothing wrong with that. Watch to see if you have an issue with being content in general because if that’s the case, and if that’s something you’ve always struggled with in regards to more things then just dating(like with your l…	/r/seduction	27/05/20 11:20 PM
2	How do you resist the urge to keep chasing "better" women when you want a relationship There will always be someone “better”, more “compatible”, “hotter”. Human nature is a cycle of not feeling satisfied with what we are given. If you find someone who you hit it off with, are attracted to, and who seems like the kind of person who could potentially love and support you through difficult times, why not invest in that? Cut your wandering eyes by fixating your attention on the possibility of the one girl. Don’t lust after other girls during your time dating her, or you will find your…	/r/seduction	27/05/20 05:47 PM
25	Guys what is the first thing you notice on a girl? Speaking as a woman, I think the best way to try to get a guys attention is to be confident, be friendly, and use eye contact to show that you’re interested. Dress in a way that gives you said confidence and only wear makeup if it’s your own personal thing that makes you feel a little extra nice, don’t do it for the sole factor of attracting someone. Find someone that you naturally hit it off with, if it feels forced in any way, that would be a good indication to look elsewhere	/r/seduction	26/05/20 02:21 AM
1	Women are the beloved creation of Gods hand before they are temptation to you God holds everybody accountable for their actions, but don’t look down on an entire gender just because you have a bunch of predisposed biases towards them. That kind of thinking won’t serve you in loving others	/r/RPChristians	21/05/20 03:54 AM
1	Women are the beloved creation of Gods hand before they are temptation to you No, I wasn’t trying to, I’m sorry. I didn’t bring this with intent to be sexist, I just brought it because of the topic of lust being such a struggle for so many people. I just wanted to place it down, but I’ve commented some of my ideas.	/r/RPChristians	21/05/20 03:46 AM
2	Women are the beloved creation of Gods hand before they are temptation to you Good for you! That’s a difficult thing to do!	/r/RPChristians	21/05/20 03:43 AM
1	Women are the beloved creation of Gods hand before they are temptation to you That’s sexist and unchristian to say. God loves women and has a purpose for women and that just derails what God has created.	/r/RPChristians	21/05/20 03:42 AM
-1	Women are the beloved creation of Gods hand before they are temptation to you She was probably raped, keep in mind that she was brought to the palace, she did not come of her own doing. And it says that David laid with her, so we have no indication that it is what she wanted. Using the term chad is asinine and is a way of putting women’s natural sexual preferences down. Women go for a variety of men, the term chad is stupid and is only good for making other men feel bad and insecure about themselves for such unnecessary reasons.	/r/RPChristians	21/05/20 03:41 AM
1	Women are the beloved creation of Gods hand before they are temptation to you That generalization of women is not respectful or loving. I never generalized men when I was talking about lust, and I still refuse to generalize men when talking about it because I know it’s an issue for both genders, just as pride and not taking accountability for ones actions are. The thing this post was meant to take away was how morally wrong lusting after an individual was and how it can be corruptible to ones life and how it is like a fire that can consume. Lusting after someone in your h…	/r/RPChristians	21/05/20 03:36 AM
1	Women are the beloved creation of Gods hand before they are temptation to you It depends on the romance. If it’s erotic, then yes, but if it’s just romance at face value then no, only sex is lust. If a woman fantasizes about wanting a certain type of man emotionally, that’s the same as a man thinking of ideals or characteristics that are innocent in nature for his future partner. Women watch pornography too, especially since it’s so accessible in this day and age. Pornography is lust, erotic literature is lust. Romance books aren’t inherently lustful.	/r/RPChristians	21/05/20 03:09 AM
2	Women are the beloved creation of Gods hand before they are temptation to you Nathan ridiculed David and NOT Bathsheba and it was David whom God had punished and not Bathsheba. Nowhere does it condemn Bathsheba for bathing. That is like suggesting that a woman who is dressed in a certain fashion is advocating for rape against her. I don’t believe that lust when you’re single is good for your soul. I would love to hear your explanation as to how that is justifiable.	/r/RPChristians	21/05/20 12:59 AM
6	Women are the beloved creation of Gods hand before they are temptation to you And I would again, really ask you to recognize the fact that just because you are a man does not mean that my temptation is less difficult then yours. We live in a very overtly sexual society that shoves sex in our face every second of the day. Whatever you see is whatever you will process, and whatever you process is what will be on your mind constantly. Sexual temptation is difficult now, but I’m sure it was as difficult, if not even more difficult, during the Roman Empire when Christianity ju…	/r/RPChristians	20/05/20 11:55 PM
5	Women are the beloved creation of Gods hand before they are temptation to you I hope things get better for you, I’m sorry that you are being tempted so horribly. I’ll pray for you. I’m guessing you aren’t in a relationship, I think that definitely does help to some degree, but obviously not in every case. I hope God brings you the right person and this eventually subsides	/r/RPChristians	20/05/20 11:52 PM
1	Women are the beloved creation of Gods hand before they are temptation to you The Bible does not explicitly say that, and what David did was take Bathsheba into his own hands even though he had brothels of other women already. He took what wasn’t his and he is responsible for doing so, Bathsheba wasn’t the one who came into him first. I don’t know what her intentions were, but since the Bible is silent regarding that, let’s just assume she was bathing for now before we fill in space that need not be filled or assumed without context. In terms of being single, yes, the Bib…	/r/RPChristians	20/05/20 11:45 PM
2	Women are the beloved creation of Gods hand before they are temptation to you What you’re saying is similar to that of an alcoholic going into a bar and asking everyone to put down their drinks. There will always be attractive women and attractive men. I’m a woman and I struggle with sexual purity a tremendous amount and I’m not a man, so don’t assume it’s a male oriented issue and that men are the only ones who lust over attractive women. We, as Christians, are responsible for our gaze and for what goes into our brain. You can look at an attractive woman for a second and…	/r/RPChristians	20/05/20 11:34 PM
1	Should we guys listen to our mommas? Gotcha	/r/RPChristians	15/05/20 04:16 AM
1	Should we guys listen to our mommas? Thank you for clarifying, I can appreciate this a lot, and I think it makes many good points. I think that human nature and human sexuality and “courting” relies on men stepping up and showing women that they are the best “mate” available(obviously we are above animals, so let’s say that a man shows a woman that he is husband material). I don’t think that this example of “chivalry”, if it is even to be called that, is wrong, as a man naturally is to take the lead in relationships, but You’re rig…	/r/RPChristians	14/05/20 07:05 PM
1	Should we guys listen to our mommas? If I don’t due to time, what are some highlights? I’m not bashing your idea, I’m just curious and want to engage with the concepts	/r/RPChristians	14/05/20 06:51 PM
5	Modern dating makes me feel like I need to sin to get involved with women. No, as difficult as it is to see, especially in this day and age that’s just so hyper sexual, sex is intended for marriage and marriage alone. It’s a covenant for a man and his wife and to be enjoyed by them alone, it’s an act that binds the two together, never to be separated, and God takes it very, very seriously.	/r/RPChristians	14/05/20 06:41 PM
3	Modern dating makes me feel like I need to sin to get involved with women. If you are upfront with your morals, I can tell you with absolute certainty that a woman(the right woman) would not feel bored or disinterested with you. I’m young and I’m in college and when I started dating my boyfriend I had to be very upfront with my morals and religious restrictions on certain things(and it’s difficult, trust me, it can be really difficult to date with chastity) It’s not impossible, God has a way of bringing people into your life that you’re intended to be with. If you’re w…	/r/RPChristians	14/05/20 06:36 PM
0	Should we guys listen to our mommas? What is wrong with the “chivalrous bs” advice from a woman(who understands women) if what a woman truly desires in a relationship is to be desired and feel wanted(not sexually, obviously, but romantically). I’m not talking about becoming Prince Charming to attract women, I’m just saying that chivalry, in its essence, is not necessarily a bad thing.	/r/RPChristians	14/05/20 06:31 PM