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| 731 | when men expect us to bear the brunt of domestic duties | MOOD FOR LIFE | ughthanksbutno | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:07 PM |
| 3 | ladies, it's our job to teach these men because they can't be bothered to you know, learn about our bodies or ask us what we like. do the work like always or don't complain!! | LVM LOGIC | ughthanksbutno | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:15 AM |
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| 458 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviori’m a gay woman with ADHD but you won’t see me ever stalking a woman thru a grocery store. men take one diagnoses and run with it. men be like “you can’t blame me for my faults and behaviors i don’t work on bc i have mental issues!! you should feel sorry for me!!” women are only allowed to coddle men and their depravity - if we call them out we aren’t empathetic enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 05:20 PM |
| 27 | posted by a large account on instagram. everything in this is bad but the phrase "bad little girl" gives me major pedo vibes. i hate that this is so normalized.a LVM’s dream girl. down to be abused, orgasmless, and believes romance is a $6.99 meal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 03:30 PM |
| 24 | Bumble BFF is full of pickmeishas, MLM scammers and wannabe “influencers” 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏽♀️I will never understand people who put that much value into the pseudoscience of astrology. Those are the people who never seek actual answers for their problems and just blame it all on “the moon” or some sh*t. It’s entertaining and fun, but the moment you try to explain myself to me, telling me i’m “like that” bc i’m a virgo/leo cusp, I bounce. The moment you determine my value by my birth chart, I show you the door. my god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 08:27 PM |
| 26 | This is getting traction in a FOOD GROUP I’m in, and I cannot describe how unenthusiastic I am with cool-gamer-girl pickmecultureasami is the type of woman i aspire to be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 08:44 PM |
| 100 | This is getting traction in a FOOD GROUP I’m in, and I cannot describe how unenthusiastic I am with cool-gamer-girl pickmeculturesome pickme shipping this pairing when korra ended up with the most beautiful, intelligent, and supportive woman in the world?? my god | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 06:19 PM |
| 114 | Liberal feminism gaslights women into being complicit in their own oppressionpreach it! I will never not be mad over how our movement, the one that was supposed to benefit women, give us power, and remove us from patriarchal standards, somehow transformed into something that still keeps the needs and wants and expectations of men in mind. it’s horrifying how libfem ideology accepts our exploitation and oppression because what? we can be “independent” now? we can profit from the male gaze? and if you don’t subscribe to this “cool girl” version of feminism, you’re a prudis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:08 AM |
| 78 | Can we talk about how LVMs have a love/hate attitude toward lesbians?in my 17 years of being openly gay, i’ve found that men LOVE lesbians @ first bc they think that they’re gonna “turn us” but when they’re swerved and denied, they explode. dudes think porn is real. and that their dicks are so magical a women who has never felt sexual attraction to men will suddenly change their mind. it is hilarious yet baffling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:35 PM |
| 41 | My boyfriend is contributing nothing but wants all the say in our new house. How do I nicely ask him to be reasonable?I highly doubt she can be swayed to leave this leech. The nerve! His credit probs be sh*t and he will have to be left off the mortgage so she’ll shoulder the financial burden wherever they move to. All for a man with no ambition, she’s been dating for two years, who thinks he deserves the world with no effort on his part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:38 PM |
| 98 | Do you run into men demanding your attention and getting angry when you don't give it to them?Women are supposed to drop all activities when men holler @ them. You working? Too bad. Enjoying a hobby? Too bad. Minding your biz? Too bad. Anyone, man or woman, who demands constant attention is shown the door ASAP. I got a life boo, and you’re not my whole life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:07 PM |
| 124 | Banned from other subs just for being a member of FDS?I got banned from two subs I’ve never even commented in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 10:12 AM |
| 134 | Men are the reason the True Crime genre exists.The “true crime” genre is basically femicide disguised as entertainment. I stopped listening to true crime podcasts, watching the Identification Discovery channel, etc. 90 percent or more of stories told are of men beating, raping, stalking, and murdering women. Sure, there are some exceptions, with men as victims but these cases are not common. I can’t stomach it anymore. “Stay sexy and don’t get murdered!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:21 AM |
| 3 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?dang you spend some COIN. I had to leave room in my hobby budget this month for my second passion: art collecting LOL. rock on grl!!! music feeds the soul. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 11:03 PM |
| 2 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?M-Audio Keystation 88 MK3! It took me like, 6 months to decide on which one I wanted. For how little it costs in terms of MIDIs, it’s a gem. I almost went for the same one but with full weighted keys but the semi-weighted keyboard is where it’s @! In LOVE. I’ve named her “Lo” and we are now a bonded pair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:49 PM |
| 26 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?I just added an 88 key MIDI keyboard to my production setup. Working on really delving deeper into my creative hobbies. My mental health has been a bit wonky lately so hoping I can quell the anxiety with some sick beats and classical compositions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:17 PM |
| 47 | Any experiences with red flags in dating women?I’ve only dated women my whole life so I’ve been around the WLW block. The one thing I make note of immediately is what I call “over abundance.” Women bond quickly, move quickly. A woman that is all about you immediately raises the biggest red flag. The type to latch on after a two hour date are not about YOU. They are trying to distract and/or distance themselves from insecurities or life dilemmas that you will inevitably be forced to shoulder the burden of. There is no flattery in intensity. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 07:09 PM |
| 7 | Are there any successful women here with tattoos?I am heavily tattooed. I even have one on my neck (hidden by hair but still) and I climbed up the corporate ladder anyway. How well they’re tolerated depends on the job and industry, but most employers don’t give a damn. It sucks you have to cover them up, but, it’s just what it is. Having tattoos doesn’t automatically mean you’re never a desirable job candidate nor is it an indication of what you can or cannot do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 05:25 PM |
| 60 | Waiting to have sex pays off. It doesn't matter how famous he is.what really bothers me about all this MGK biz is how much the tabloids and media are paying attention to Megan now she’s dating him. she’s been hypersexualized since she was a teen, then she was thrown out like trash, but now she’s with a whiteboy rapper and suddenly she’s front page news again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 09:59 PM |
| 19 | I’m sick of being canceled on because 30 year old men somehow still can’t pace themselves with alcohol and act like frat boysI’m practically straightedge. The moment someone admits to drinking to excess or with any frequency, they’re gone. A drink on holidays or special occasions is fine, but anything more I just cannot deal with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 09:06 PM |
| 23 | I just left my porn addicted boyfriend, he was my first everything and I feel so stupid because I am struggling so much and I want to go back to him, please give me motivationthe “i’m sorry i never gave you the chance to help me” should solidify you did what was right. it is his job to do work for himself and if he cared about you or your relationship he would do his own work, it is never on you or women to lift men up and “fix” them. if he wanted to, he would. respect yourself and your boundaries. no doubt he’s gonna crawl back when the dust settles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:16 PM |
| 15 | Ladies, if a man waits until you’re engaged to tell you he gets off to farting in your face, it’s clearly YOUR fault for not making him feel more comfortable 🤡🤡🤡leave it to men on reddit to defend garbage behavior. if they’re telling you how wrong you are, you’re probably in the right. it’s not “judgy” to draw a line @ sexual habits, interests, etc. they’re incompatible and that’s that. next comes him guilt tripping into her into it. girl needs to pack her bags and go. respect your own boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 07:43 PM |
| 38 | This has to be a joke...if it’s not this is reaching new levels of pick me status.“I love how they execute situations” slayed me. this is a man karma farming but still a LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:33 PM |
| 42 | Davina McCall everyone - Pickmeisha supremeif this is the case, the Identification Discovery channel wouldn’t exist nor 2000000 true crime podcasts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:35 PM |
| 34 | We're like a small city!NDA signed THEN blindfolded | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:41 PM |
| 20 | How to date when you have everything? To date or not to date?this 100%. i rely on no one to pay my bills, thusly, i’ve been single for nearly 3 years. i’m so self-sufficient the idea of a relationship seems like a chore. it’s just me, my dog, my money and my independence. it’s a beautiful life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:16 PM |
| 110 | We're like a small city!we would all need to train like the ladies who inhabit Themyscira because incels would attempt to breach our borders on the daily with guns, bombs, and body odor. they would hand out pamphlets nearby decrying our misandry, rallying all the other butt-hurt men to nuke us out of existence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:10 PM |
| 438 | Guess I'm Strange AF Thenmen can refuse to date a woman just for a hair being out of place and he’ll be told “you’re supposed to have standards!!” but we refuse to date a broke momma’s boy with anger issues who can’t get it up and suddenly we’re hypercritical spinsters who don’t live in reality. I wanna laugh and cry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:03 AM |
| 20 | I've noticed that a lot of women here have toxic mothers. While it's true that mothers are often unfairly scapegoated for all of society's woes, it's important to remember that mothers also socialize their children to perpetuate patriarchy.my mother didn’t want to be a mother, but because abortion was considered shameful, she kept the pregnancy which resulted in twin daughters she wanted no part in raising. but she did raise us. to cook, to clean, to provide all the emotional labor needed to prop up others. taught us our value is in what we do, not who we are. exist but in the shadows. have a voice when spoken to and only when spoken to. I used to think she was a strong and independent woman, as she was single the majority of our … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 11:18 PM |
| 7 | Another gem from my Facebook group 😂this is an oldie but a goodie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 11:20 PM |
| 44 | Sigh.I have a coworker who told me to smile and I said “no” so firmly without sparing him a glance. his eyes bugged out of his head. a female coworker butted in with “bet you didn’t expect that!” bc women usually comply just to “be nice” or hope it’ll send them on their merry ole way. f that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 09:58 PM |
| 73 | Sigh.you can’t even act neutral or else you get the dreaded “oh come on, smile!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 09:16 PM |
| 41 | I’m waiting until someone tells her that if a man is willing to rape a woman he wouldn’t care what her underwear says....and that rapists know exactly what they’re doing. Also yes that is a woman victim blaming in the comments.this is vile. is a man intent on raping you, who is probably ignoring your verbal “no,” going to suddenly see “did I consent??” on your underwear then suddenly have a change of heart? girl is trying to straight up profit from an epidemic of violence against women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 08:10 PM |
| 43 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menI think men have just become enraged that they can no longer force women into servitude and loyalty. Women are allowed options and standards and we can make our own way in life without “needing” a man to survive and without this leverage, men aren’t getting worshipped and served as they did for centuries. Their anger at women being “choosy” is truly just anger at no longer having all the power. They direct this fury at us because how dare we expect more when they have no desire to give it? They … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:01 PM |
| 61 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.“gold star” lesbo here. 100% real and 99.99999% homosexual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:09 AM |
| 167 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeI think they just have a cheat sheet of inflammatory language to use to put down or piss off women. Pick one from this column, one from that column, and voila!! Women pwned!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 07:38 PM |
| 505 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeAs a lesbian, not a once have I thought to myself, “dang, these girls on this sub really enforce heteronormative and patriarchal ideals.” I come here because I do not fear being sexualized or demeaned for my orientation. Women here support each other regardless of sexual orientation but women aren’t allowed safe spaces, so in comes the criticisms. Dorito-crusted male fingers furiously type away baseless accusations to “knock the females down a few pegs” or whatever. Nothing new. BTW I loved this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 07:15 PM |
| 5 | Katherine McPhee is pregnant with this 70 y/o man. She is 36. What do these two even remotely have in common? Just ew.david foster: off the record | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:51 PM |
| 133 | Katherine McPhee is pregnant with this 70 y/o man. She is 36. What do these two even remotely have in common? Just ew.have you seen the doc on him on netflix? the man is talented but absolute scum. she’s like “yeah he’s really bad @ communicating and abandoned his kids for women and it’s always career before everyone but, I love him and I’m working on training him.” girl WHAT!?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 01:16 AM |
| 17 | Who taught men to say "sorry you feel that way"?bingo! indeed it is. my mother has a copy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 11:22 PM |
| 31 | FDS as a WLWfuckboi lesbians make me grateful i’m strictly attracted to femmes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 12:32 AM |
| 78 | FDS as a WLWAs a lesbian, I look back on years and years of dating and am astounded by the amount of awful, red-flag ridden women I’ve allowed in my life. I think as women we tend to give each other more leniency because how can a woman be all that bad?? turns out there are just as many low value wlw in this world as there is LVM. I’m sorry for that girl’s actions on your recent date; I can’t even wrap my head around how she deemed that appropriate. may the odds be ever in your favor! sadly dating is no eas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 12:13 AM |
| 121 | The importance of learning to think "not my problem" when a man tries to make you responsible for any of his issues or mess or dickas my grandmother liked to say, “not my monkey, not my circus.” we do not exist on this earth to make others’ lives easier. we do not exist to mediate. we do not exist to serve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 12:49 AM |
| 117 | Amy WinehouseAmy is a forever fave. Though some of her music can sound “pick-me” it’s not like Lana level where she romanticizes abuse and neglect. Her music spoke beautifully of the pain of addiction and love, and how those commingle and argue. Her music had themes of obsession and remorse, desire and pain, and all the absolutely human flaws that come with existing as a broken woman searching for a meaning outside of herself. But, I’m a diehard fan so my analysis is p bias. She was as mad as she was brillia… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 12:07 AM |
| 2 | She dodged a massive bullet here.I can’t even fathom, at nearly 32 yrs old, dating anyone under 29 and dudes my age want girls who can’t legally enter a bar. so damn gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 05:22 PM |
| 55 | Online dating... should I try again or am I being ridiculous?Don’t even bother dating until the general public can get vaccinated. People on dating apps rn are looking for attention and not interested in “more,” are distracting themselves from the stressors of the pandemic by wasting your time, or are purposefully ignorant to the risks of meeting up with a stranger who may or may not take precautions which is a red flag in terms of decency. Don’t risk your health. Men will exist when all of this settles down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:07 PM |
| 8 | Poor ring is so teeny tiny, it’s almost invisible. But I guess she has to love it or be rendered a scheming gold-digger, amirite?!?! 🤪💍a ring pop probably costs more than that ring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 04:40 PM |
| 25 | Correlation between PickeMeism and childhood narcissistic abusemy twin sister and i were raised by a malignant narcissistic mother and no father. my sister, successful, beautiful, and intelligent ended up with a man she needs to mother, coddle, and stays with because “it could be worse.” she learned in youth that she must appease to be valuable, keep quiet, and to ignore her own needs so she can benefit others in her life. she could get any man but chooses men who never truly see her worth and expect her to give, never receive. I’m gay so my experiences dif… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 04:37 PM |
| 27 | Yes, FDS ladies preserve warm and positive vibes for those who deserve them and say no to the restI get so many negative responses from men at work for sounding dry. It’s just how I speak - flat and nonchalant. men think that once we see them and they bless us with their words we should automatically turn giddy, welcoming, and grateful. my office manager once, after i bid him a good morning as i came in, remarked “always such a ray of sunshine” sarcastically. i am not changing the inflection in my tone to make a man happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:18 PM |
| 11 | Misogynistic scrote wants neurosurgeon wife to do all the housework. Tired wife hires a maid with her own money. Scrote calls it financial abuses. You cannot make this shit up 🤦🏻♀️men ain’t shit. if my wife was a neurosurgeon I would devote my waking non-work related hours to maintaining the household and supporting her. house? spotless. meals? cooked and labeled in the fridge for when she gets home. laundry? folded and sorted by color and print. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 09:05 PM |
| 28 | I think I miss being singleI feel this deeply. I’m much more “myself” and happy when not in a relationship, and when in a relationship, I feel my identity is slowly being chipped away so I can fit neatly into the other person’s existence. no thx. been single nearly three years, will probably be single for the remaining years I have left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:09 AM |
| 14 | Onlyfans creators marketing themselves by radiating pickme energyprobs with the three dollars he got from Game Stop after selling back 42 games | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 04:30 PM |
| 13 | LVM on hinge sending me sexist messages “you sound smart for a woman” to get my attention and get me to respond. I ignore. Now some of them have stooped down to this level. Really? Does he even have anything to show off? I’ve seen more muscle on a chicken leg.i would totally comment on that dad bod with “nice before pic, where’s the after??” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:29 PM |
| 15 | Thankfully all the comments said he was in fact the a**holea jaw condition that affects the joint that’s critical to jaw movement. it can cause pain and dysfunction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 06:59 PM |
| 12 | To me this screams predatory older man looking for a younger inexperienced woman/teen to manipulate.hence the quotations LOL he’s probs the type to hastily crumple an ATM receipt into his pocket so he doesn’t have to acknowledge his checking starts with a $0. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:34 PM |
| 68 | To me this screams predatory older man looking for a younger inexperienced woman/teen to manipulate.i’m guessing naming a brand new expensive console is his lowkey way to flaunt “wealth.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:58 PM |
| 59 | So glad he is her exi’ll hop on this banana laffy taffy love train. would eat my weight in them if i could. them and banana runts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 10:52 PM |
| 13 | At least animals don’t fake love 😂🤷🏻♀️hard to remember a face when all your looking at is the body. standard male. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:04 AM |
| 95 | I’m really enjoying looking at some men’s reactions to this Pornhub situationmen don’t experience empathy, i’m nearly positive of that. women and children coerced and trafficked and raped? no damn opinion. millions of porn vids slashed and million remain? the injustice!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 01:47 AM |
| 43 | I am disgusted.I pray for her young daughter. Will be taught having a man is more important than having her dignity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 09:43 PM |
| 100 | I am disgusted.an ex coworker of mine would rage to me about her husband’s ex texting him even tho he was the one who initiated contact. keep in mind the man cheated on this coworker when she was 6 months preggo with his child and gave her an STD as a result. every time i tried to remind her it was a two way street, she insisted on casting all the blame on the woman and/or women. still boggles my mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 08:23 PM |
| 27 | Am I bugging or is this a real thing? The first thing I thought was “sounds rapey to me” I’ve had this happen to me, but idk how the person could really be sleeping. A lot of folks in the comments agree that it’s a thing.this is a rare condition that, if he had, he would probs inform his GF beforehand, not after an episode. this is a fetish for him and that “diagnosis” is an explanation to make her not question it and to accept very disturbing behavior. this is a rapist’s strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 02:44 PM |
| 18 | I'm getting flashbacks to every first date monologue a LVM put me through - Never again!my sister’s bf loves to prattle on as though he’s some sort of scholar on every subject and you can feel the enthusiasm and interest drain from the room as women side eye each other. they completely ignore non-verbal cues to stfu bc why wouldn’t everyone want to listen to what they have to say?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:57 AM |
| 29 | Vetting: advice needed please. He is very devout orthodox Christian. Liturgy for him was at 0700 today. To make it clear, he seldom forgets I just don’t tolerate this behavior.obeys the word of g-d only when it suits him. most “religious” men tend to be this way. godly on sundays, the other six days of the week? fair game. it doesn’t count if you repent! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 10:49 PM |
| 4 | Most straight males see bi women as harem generatorsif i ever speak to men, and the conversation includes relationships or whatever, i go out of my way to specifically not include gender (“they” only) bc as soon as they hear me, a “conventionally attractive” non-stereotypical lesbian, mention being with a women, their eyes glaze over and their brain stops and suddenly my sexuality becomes objectified and fetishized. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:40 PM |
| 115 | Clueless scrote in the dating over forty whining about how his "date" wasn't an "adult" because she didn't want to talk about his dick after only 1 "date". Then has the NERVE to advise the rest of us that he did HER a favor and DOING US a favor by putting PSA in the subject line.they’ve known each other a week, if that, went on one walk date and this man thinks going in depth about sexual preferences is the next logical step? LOL. she was an “adult.” she bounced like a respectable adult would. him? he’s a boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Ah, the disguised Netflix and chill. They have adapted. (Ps this is a doctor).we both thank you for the compliment!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:48 AM |
| 11 | Ah, the disguised Netflix and chill. They have adapted. (Ps this is a doctor).no one should be entertaining dating right now. until there’s a vaccine available to the public, women should not be allowing randos who haven’t washed their hands since their momma made them do it before dinner in adolescence, anywhere near their bodies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:46 AM |
| 33 | Ah, the disguised Netflix and chill. They have adapted. (Ps this is a doctor).a DOCTOR is hanging out with friends and trying to get some OLD action?? let that speak volumes about his character. nearly 280k deaths rn and a DOCTOR is trying to offer up some Netflix and chill? flabbergasted tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:42 AM |
| 98 | People who say their partner is HV before 6 month in, and people in here supporting it?Men putting their best foot forward is a calculated choice, as it is for most people in the dating world. Men know the bar is so low for them, women will swoon over anything “extra” they provide. Women let their guard down when they feel they finally caught someone worthwhile and men know how to manipulate that. It is fine to be excited by a man’s attentiveness and “respect,” but women need to remain critical and vigilant throughout the entirety of a relationship. Labeling someone HV early means… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:42 PM |
| 12 | 'Before I respect you, I want to know all aspects of you. Let's exchange detailed photos of us physically'. My best friend found this gem in the wild 😂using filler to pad the word count in college essays really stuck with this man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:07 AM |
| 10 | My friend sent me this pic of a pickme throwing herself at her boyfriend (who just told the pickme he was in a relationship). How much do you wanna bet he still cheated with her a few days later?pickmeisha and lvm, a textual showcase of nitwit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 12:46 AM |
| 211 | “I love a woman with a sense of humour.” Translation: she must laugh at my shit jokes.men tell dad and dick jokes and think Netflix should offer them a special | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 12:43 AM |
| 13 | A co-worker was let go today because of his actions towards me...He made his bed and he can lie in it. A grown man made his own decisions and his decisions cost him his job. Men rarely think they’ll suffer consequence, so they act how they please when they please. I understand your guilt and self-doubt, but camaraderie is not an invitation to push boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 12:33 AM |
| 7 | Queer FDS followers?a lot of the queer community has embraced polyamory bc it is seen as some alternative way to get what you need emotionally and physically bc “one person can’t do it all.” i don’t get it tbh. if someone needs more than me i don’t need them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 01:20 AM |
| 11 | Queer FDS followers?lesbian here. i stopped dating over a year ago bc i encountered a lvw who scared me off dating entirely. the worst part for us wlw is that we assume women are emotionally intelligent, mature, and stable. after that mess, i started to realize my love for women was making me ignore obvious red flags. luckily this sub has let me see what to watch for and what to not tolerate. maybe i’ll date again but if that happens, i know to VET VET VET. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Not sure if this belongs here, but I can't take a man with bad spelling and grammari look for use of the oxford comma and pay special attention to the lack of it LOL unabashedly choosy. poor spelling, grammar, and/or sentence structure signals low effort or they’re not on the same wave intellectually. both are a no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 10:57 PM |
| 7 | What in the PiCk Me I’M a CoOL GirL Hell is this????!!!how is binge drinking on the reg a positive trait?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:05 PM |
| 5 | how do we get rid of toxic friends?with my best friend of four years i legit did a slow fade and eventually blocked without explanation. she was draining to be around and was surrounded by drama with lvm, other friends, and family. on top of all that, was always lowkey jealous of my successes and she simmered with anger if i ever achieved anything. unsurprisingly, also a master of making every conversation turn back to her and her shitty life. one of those one-upper people. these people tend to not care about you as a person, onl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:00 PM |
| 87 | Dating 2020: This is so delusional, creepy, low effort, and in bad taste. Not to mention, I could be his daughter.does this seriously work for men? how many beautiful young women are getting vulgar messages and going, “I’d love to watch him take a viagra and still not get me off in 3 hours.” ???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 08:00 PM |
| 6 | Not even his girlfriend.this fake af. who wakes up @ 6am to make their notyet bf what looks to be challah, which takes over 3 damn hours to prepare and bake? if it’s real, i hope it was Rosh Hashanah and she already had plans to make it. no man worth that effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 06:07 PM |
| 6 | when men expect us to bear the brunt of domestic dutiesf a relationship i want what Abbi and Ilana have | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:01 PM |
| 28 | Teehee I stole your man!i don’t think too much logic is involved in their pursuit. it’s all about winning the “prize.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:51 PM |
| 117 | when men expect us to bear the brunt of domestic dutiesthat sub should be required reading for women before they have a child with their man tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:31 PM |
| 86 | Why you should never date gamersany whiff of an obsession with “gaming” and i’m out. hobbies are cool and all but when gaming becomes your sole motivating factor to live and your life revolves around it, there’s a problem. girl needs to pack it up and call it a day. there’s no salvaging that relationship. no matter how good of a man he is, the one minute total she gets of his time and attention a week is not worth that level of aggravation and neglect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Tips for my OLD bio to ward off LVM seeking hook ups..?there’s no fool-proof method to avoid LVMs looking for a body. pretty sure most men don’t even read the bios. if you’re not hideous, you’ll get a right swipe. that’s pretty much their only guideline. vet thoroughly and do not explain away anything fishy that makes you second-guess because they SEEM high value. trust your instincts. you could put something like, “looking to be part of someone’s future, not just their present” or something but, as stated earlier, most men ignore bios. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:30 PM |
| 181 | 🤡*Circus music slowly gets louder*🤡“you know that man that literally nobody but me wanted?? yeah i got him!! you haters can go home and hug your standards! me? I’ll be with MY MAN. the one who only “sees” me when i’m naked. he’s mine 🤡” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:32 AM |
| 17 | Grown Men with Room Matesfor real. i’m not trying to relive my college days. i don’t want to shimmy out the front door as quietly as possible to avoid the awkwardness before the birds wake up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:25 AM |
| 124 | Grown Men with Room Matesit would be a red flag because i live alone and the last thing i want is someone treating my apartment as an escape to their situation. i live alone for a reason. visits? sure! can you come by practically every night so we can have “us” time? no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:56 PM |
| 43 | When they expect us to melt after merely stating the obviousany generic compliment a man gives you deserves a “i know” in response and nothing else | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 08:56 PM |
| 15 | These fly out stories never end well and these women never learn....my immediate thought upon that kind of offer would be (sadly) “wow, it sounds like he has no plans of me returning and there’s a billion bad scenarios that could foreshadow” not “hot damn!!” truly baffling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 12:35 AM |
| 101 | These fly out stories never end well and these women never learn....the whole “pay your way here and i’ll take care of the return flight” should have set off the alarm bells. she legit flew out with a one way ticket expecting a strange man to come thru?? girl..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 08:45 PM |
| 11 | we literally can’t even sleep in peace...woman: breathes men: 👀 what that mouth do tho? can’t even exist without being sexualized | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:42 PM |
| 155 | This has to stop. The bar is SO low for men!the whole “you’re fertile” bit rubs me the wrong way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 03:27 PM |
| 294 | Yikes.i hope the FBI gets wind of this and gets the IP addresses of all her “customers.” nasty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:39 PM |
| 10 | Pick-me Sh*tshowshe speaks from the purity standpoint men seem to have about women and obsess over. marking your skin makes you impure. we are taught our value is in our complacency, being virginal, being innocent, and not standing out. tattoos go against that so naturally, it’s considered “bad” and a sign of a “dirty” woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:30 PM |
| 21 | Pick-me Sh*tshowit depends on the artistry of the tattoos in terms of their quantity. if she has a hodgepodge collection of 20 dollar tats from some dude in a kitchen, yeah, she’s probably a LVW. as a woman who has spent thousands on a full sleeve and sporadic work elsewhere on my body, I wouldn’t consider my form of self expression a sign of no standards and low moral compass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:03 PM |
| 2 | “Omg it wasn’t even me!” No surprises here but thought it might entertain you all.tbh i think POF is for LVW to find LVM. no insult to OP, but from what i’ve seen, the site is literally the worst of the worst. you log out of that app and feel physically dirty from all the trash there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:50 PM |
| 22 | I know I'm done, should I make it known or just cut contact?if someone, two months into dating, takes out their frustrations of life on you in any way, it’s a bad sign. still in the “honeymoon” phase and he’s pulling back from communicating with you in a way that shows no ounce of respect. block and delete. no farewell, no explanation of why. he’s not going to repent and do a 180. he’s not going to give you a logical reason that will put your mind at ease and provide you a sense of closure. you’ll forget about him soon enough so spare your dignity and pe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:18 AM |
| 4 | I feel like this is trying too hard? Would you guys consider this pickme behavior?she’s basically just saying that her man can not only sit on his butt @ home, he can also sit on his butt @ his family’s home too. i get that this may seem cute, and getting along with a partner’s family is important, but she doesn’t exist to serve her man and his family. totally pickmeisha mentality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:24 PM |
| 16 | Man takes a woman on a walking date and she calls him over later to try to initiate sex.... This can’t be real. We’ve found Queen Pickme!this is incel fanfiction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:01 PM |
| 48 | 1. Why does he think it’s okay to drink alcohol in a house with strangers in a town I’ve never been? 2. Why is he so persistent that we drink alcohol on our first “date”?“I want you uninhibited by the drank and in unfamiliar and/or isolated territory so I can either pressure or force you into sex bc sober and comfortable you would never agree to touch my junk.” block his predatory ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:16 PM |
| 14 | Hell, nahmy mother likes to say, in order to keep a man happy, you gotta “fuck ‘em and feed ‘em.” makes me dry heave whenever she spouts that “wisdom.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Baby you come up to my waist, you need a bar stool to get up in my face, who invited you?this song is my JAM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 06:56 PM |
| 16 | The lesbian wage premium - Evidence for the wife (or husband) penalty shows up in what researchers call the “lesbian wage premium.” Across years of research, women who have never lived with a male partner make more money than women who have.as a lesbo with has never been with a man or lived with a man, i can attest to this being v true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 05:15 PM |
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