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I wish schools taught this more. My ex and I dated from 14-19 and he coercive rped me almost every time. If I was not mentally prepared he made me feel bad until we did it. As a result from being mentally not ready, I was also physically not ready. He continuously blamed me if I was in pain or not wet enough making it my fault that I did not make sure I was prepared. I had no idea that this wasn't ok. I think one time I really felt violated and brought it up with him. He got very mad that I woul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:21 PM
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Sometimes I see other girls in the streets, and I just think "Women are fucking goddesses". Why men think we are touchable is above me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:48 PM
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I'm adding a TW for the R word Oh my god I could go on about this. I dated my ex from 14 to 19. He always complained I was not doing enough. I would get too tired being on top and he'd complain if I asked to switch. If it was difficult or I was dry, he'd blame ME saying I was "dehydrated" and ruined his day because I didn't prepare. I now realized I was not attracted to him and my body knew it. Sometimes he would force it. If I accused him of anything and asked to TALK about it he got upset I da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:01 AM
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I never expected my ex to be called out here, but thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:50 PM
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What is wrong with these people? Cartoons, especially ones aimed at boys (thanks CN) have done nothing but sexualize women and girls. Can we talk about how any women in some of these shows have their faces cropped out but their boobs and butt are on show? And most girls in those shows just wear crop tops and short shorts or skirts. Even Nick did nothing but display women and girls as sexualized objects
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 11:37 PM
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I live in a large city and there's an app that alerts me every time there is a cop called to an area within a couple miles from me. They give a description of the incident and other information. I see 'woman with pepper spray' show up a lot, and I'm terrified someone passing by my house will notice my pepper spray on my house keys and call the police on me because they notice I have a weapon. It's my only form of defense. I used to keep one spray in every bag I use but my boyfriend begged me to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:13 PM
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They don't even need to date you to want to do this. I had a group of male friends in college who did all of that to me. The other girls in the group drifted away and it was me and 5 guys. I think they wanted to watch me die. They still check my online profiles, one even reached out a few months ago to ask if he could "help me" with what had happened. The incidents occurred years ago. Men have no remorse or feelings. They just wanna watch women fail and never get back up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:59 PM
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Saving money is forever until you spend the cost of flowers on an OnlyFans to feed your porn addiction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:59 PM
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I saw this and I just couldn't. "We don't want to fuck animals, we want to fuck animals that walk on two legs and will talk to me!" Yes, you want to fuck animals and you need therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:54 PM
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Many of my ex's would get mad at me when I couldn't finish my food (Even if I paid for it)..... Then go comment on my weight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 10:09 PM
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I asked that question to my boyfriend one time, he answered with "I'm more of a face guy, I don't like to think like that" and I almost cried 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:28 PM
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I had a guy like that, but my rule was he had to make money playing those games. You can make a 6 figure salary with the effort if you're good enough. Clearly, my requirement was too much cause he said the reason for our breakup was we "aren't compatible". You'll beg for a girlfriend? You'll write essays convincing me to go out with you? Promises of buying me things, moving in, jewelry, and the moment I ask for EFFORT once we are together it's not compatible? We don't need men like that. I think…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:13 PM
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Thank you! I love rings with diamonds but not really big ones. I'm either thinking of getting one with small diamonds around the whole band (I believe they are called infinity rings?) or 3 small diamonds, similar to my mother's ring. I have a lot of time to think about it though because I'm still in college and saving for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:38 PM
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That's a beautiful ring. I've been looking to treat myself to a ring of my own for a little while now. My ex was the absolute worst. 5 years with him as well and he got me things I didn't like and then he would complain I didn't use them. It wasn't like what I liked was a secret. So as a f you to all my ex's who no matter how clear my interests were, blatantly will ignore me and then complain; I'm on the search to buy myself the nicest engagement ring because I'm in love with myself and I deserv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:32 PM
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Me before finding this sub and internalizing the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:18 PM
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She said he has redeeming traits but nothing about a guy that makes me angry all the time sounds redeeming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:57 AM
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Travel, friends, vodka. Hell yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:49 AM
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I also think something on pop culture / movies / tv shows. I was very influenced to start dating and was a pick me because of tv. Every female character would do anything for a boyfriend and well I followed after that idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:30 PM
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Thank you for sharing, I’m so sorry about what you went through. I’ve heard similar stories and I can’t even try to imagine what that feels like. I was very fortunate that any smokers in my family quit when I was extremely young after some health scares
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:10 PM
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A lot of what you said is how he feels as well. The nicotine is a stress relief and he only needed a cigarette when dealing with a lot of pressure which has not been often. I’m glad he’s putting his health first right now as well as mine since I am with him often. I also wish you the best, I can’t imagine what strength is needed to break such an addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:57 PM
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The greatest thing is I never had to nag him. We had one conversation, and I think he does want to break his dependence. He’s just been waiting for the opportunity to be in a better state. He only smokes cigarettes once in a while which is why I tolerated it and he showed he wanted to change. My job isn’t to change him (as I’ve learned from FDS), I only hope he takes this seriously and does quit for good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:51 PM
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What about Lizzo? I’ll be honest I’m not great about understanding music but I think Lizzo has a fair share of songs for women and about empowering women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:38 PM
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You’ve been together for 7 years, do you really want to wait another 2 before deciding to dump him? Or would you rather use those 2 years to enjoy the better parts of your 20s?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 03:14 AM
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I not only lowered my standards for the ugliest mf out there and looked past all those 🚩🚩🚩 for him to break my heart. I spent months crying over everything and even thought I should drop out of school. I was an absolute mess. I found FDS not long after and vowed to never do that again. Fuck him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:36 PM
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I’m in college and all the men are just about terrible. Sometimes you just have to work with what you got.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:20 PM
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Improve my confidence (More effort into clothing, makeup, feeling good about myself) Work harder in school and make more friends/connections Open my first credit card Avoid men for at least 6 months More water, less soda Treat myself once a month Go out and explore more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 09:21 PM
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A few months ago, I was in my freshman year of college. I was one of three girls in a group of 6 guys. The other girls weren’t around as much as I was. Needless to say they all ganged up against me, almost made me drop out, made me rethink my major (computer science) and destroyed my self esteem. I have never seen such an immature group of men, who refused to talk about their issues with me after I explicitly explained whatever their problem is I’d like to know to better myself. After weeks of t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 05:53 PM
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I was told a “friend” was going to ask me out about a month ago. For a 22 year old man, the sloppiness is unreal. Essentially he’s a man-child. Graduated college, lives at home, overweight, wears t-shirts from cartoons, baby faced, etc. Needless to say it’s a “no” if he ever decides to ask. But the fact that he thinks he has a shot with me is actually disgusting. Any guy not putting in effort to impress me is not worth my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 03:25 PM
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