ugly_5ft_4incher Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Economist: Height preferences in relationships are just as strong today as they were two decades ago As depressing as always	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/06/26 10:59 AM
17	Researchers find sexual double standard in sextech use: Men who use sexual technology are viewed with more disgust than women who engage in the same behaviors, a sexual double standard in which men face harsher social penalties for using devices like sex toys, chatbots, and robots. Aren't men just viewed with more disgust period?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/12/25 12:34 PM
22	What is your relationship with masculinity like? Like a standard shoved in my face everywhere that I cannot live up to. I have the wrong body and mind. People treat it like something ethereal or religious sometimes, like it encompasses more than it is. In reality: qualities or attributes regarded as characteristic of men or boys. It's a convenient way to get men to do things, which may or may not be in their best interests depending on the situation.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/25 08:13 AM
10	I used to starve myself It's going to be hard to make people care that much about men's feelings, especially men perceived as lesser.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/12/24 10:47 AM
15	Societies financial/success expectations of men IS their version of bodily autonomy. Women also have sexual and physical expectations for men, looks, height, dick size.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/01/24 10:45 AM
17	Did anyone else develop a complex about how "scary" they were to women? No, I'm 5ft tall, I feel like a leper. But I don't think I'm scary.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/01/24 11:26 AM
24	masculinity on the left I feel the masculinity talk is overblown, unnecessary, and isn't really the problem. I'm fairly biased since I'm not really masculine. But I feel like men just aren't wanted unless they have proven themselves useful. In fact, I feel people just don't like men that much.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/01/24 10:08 AM
3	End of (male) cultural romanticism - now what? No more playing games, just straight up, you DTF? If you're attractive, I guess.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/01/24 01:13 AM
1	What would not having a "defeatist mindset" actually change if we are being honest? I wonder if some of these guys are dealing with similar situations and feelings. It's different being actually unattractive or unwanted.	/r/AllPillDebate	01/08/23 10:30 PM
2	What would not having a "defeatist mindset" actually change if we are being honest? Congrats. You're better than me I guess.	/r/AllPillDebate	01/08/23 10:28 PM
8	Postive masculinity is still something vague when you think about it. I don't deny that men and women are different. But that's all that masculinity is really, what I mentioned in the previous comment.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/04/23 05:33 PM
22	Postive masculinity is still something vague when you think about it. I don't really care much about the concept of masculinity or femininity. Masculinity is just a set of qualities, attributes, behaviours, and actions regarded as characteristic of men or boys. In the end to me it seems mostly used for people to tell men how to act and behave. The same can be said for femininity.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/04/23 10:52 AM
5	how pressured do you guys feel get laid or be seen as someone who gets laid? and how do you deal with that? Same pretty much.. unfortunately.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/01/23 02:35 AM
1	How to square support from economic equality, with support for sexual liberalism which creates sexual inequality? How in the world is it great for them? Because they don't have to have a partner they don't want. They can have more "casual relationships" with men they do want, or none at all. The same number of women as men will end up single. That's assuming people pair up 1 to 1. However, that doesn't have to be the case.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/01/23 01:29 PM
6	How do I make peace with the fact that practically no one has progressive views on the role of men in society? Well, I certainly feel similar. I have that small dick, I'm also short and not that "masculine," shall we say. I feel like my body is a joke. Honestly, it really is. There's no positive about it, there's no place where someone like me is wanted unless it's to be a joke. There's no real way to make peace, I'll just have to learn to be unbothered and be more masculine. I can not really expect much from people in this regard. I don't think calling it out or arguing will work because people don't ca…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/22 01:47 PM
7	What can be done to help solve the under/desexualization, sexlessness, loneliness, etc. of so many men? Is there really an approach that can fight this? Beside a horrible war, or something else that's not on the table, or we wouldn't want for obvious reasons. Not really. I suppose you could make sure less men are born, but It's not really something on the table. I mean most of the table things could work but, it's a bit grim. Make polyamory a thing, sexbots, have more gay or bisexual men? I guess you could remove all the shame from homosexual relationships and see if that relieves the pressure.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/09/22 01:07 PM
5	What is your definition of masculinity? I don't know if I'd have a strict definition, I'd associate masculinity mostly with strength. Mental, physical anything really, all of it seems about being strong one way or another. Femininity I don't really have strong one word association with, a couple that would come to mind are nurturing, sensual, beauty, sexual, caring. It's a fairly machine learning way to look at it. Truth be told femininity just seems less focused, less defined. Maybe it's because I don't really think about it to much.…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/07/22 11:23 PM
4	Does anyone else on this sub feel completely alienated from traditional gender roles? (rant/personal confession). I feel similar although I mostly think my physical body is not up to standard so to speak.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/06/22 12:44 PM
53	Women oversharing their partners' private lives with their friends - is it a problem? What can we do about it? I'm honestly not sure. I guess she wouldn't mind, otherwise it would be hypocritical for her to do it. I mean don't women dislike "locker room talk"? I guess your sister might not mind. But that comes down to the question, does she do it because she doesn't care about his feelings, or because she legitimely thinks it's an ok thing to do? I hope it's the latter rather than the former.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/22 02:05 PM
69	Women oversharing their partners' private lives with their friends - is it a problem? What can we do about it? Do you think your sister would mind if the guy did the same thing?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/22 01:53 PM
3	Coming up with an alternative phrase for "incel"? I think there will probably still be a negative stigma? connotation? Where you to describe these problems even under another word, not as much though. I remember the "forever alone" community being hated before incels became more prevalent. You could just make something up like the unwanted, the leftovers.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/01/22 12:14 PM
11	Men across America are getting vasectomies 'as an act of love' It's estimated that the success rate of a vasectomy reversal is: 75% if you have your vasectomy reversed within 3 years. up to 55% after 3 to 8 years. between 40% and 45% after 9 to 14 years. For a quick Google search according to NHS UK	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/12/21 07:50 PM
17	Men across America are getting vasectomies 'as an act of love' Think about how much men could gain in terms of parental equality if it became a rite of passage for every man to get a vasectomy before getting his driver's license (or at graduation, or whatever). They could then get it reversed if they plan to have kids as consenting adults. Pretty sure reversal doesn't work for 100% of men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/12/21 07:08 PM