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FundamentalsuglyandIknowit1234/r/seduction12/02/22 10:12 PM
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I loooove your mindset. I wish more guys were like this…. THIS is exactly why I stopped dating. Why I had zero interest in it eventually. Almost no guy thinks the woman he is approaching is special. It’s all just meaningless to them, theyre so indifferent. It’s like the worth of one woman is the worth of one man or woman to a woman divided by 1000. How the hell am I supposed to be attracted to someone who isn’t even that interested in me but only pretends to be? It’s crazy. I am surprised you do…
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:04 PM
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I agree with this because most of the advice on game feels like manipulating tactics to me. You need to pay attention to someones feelings and decision and respect them. However, I can understand how difficult it is when people don’t want you when you are very attracted to them. I am still figuring out how to get over it myself
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:56 PM
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Not true, you just don’t count the ugly women
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:53 PM
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Can you please make some kind of list of these mistakes? Will be really helpful I think.
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:50 PM
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Well said, its like selling yourself and when the product is subpar such as when you’re ugly it will be really hard. You have to find out which people are interesred but if it’s a very small group and you don’t feel attraction towards them it sucks (I find almost everyone attractive but I only rarely fall in love and I need to experience being in love).but if you see it like sales, rejection gets a bit more bearable.
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:48 PM
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Why don’t you give examples of this? The game which worked that you saw several times. Maybe it helps people if it wasn’t manipulation
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:45 PM
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Whst do you mean by that?
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:24 PM
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Better than 99% posts in this sub imo. But maybe thats because I feel depressed right now. However it was nice to read even though it seemed a bit… like you are on drugs or something….
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:56 AM
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Ok that is different. I want a relationship with commitment, casual sex is not what I want unless it is with someone I am in love with. But even that is too much to ask. I am glad that with your state of mind your chance of happiness is greater
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:25 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:23 PM
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No, I just don’t want that anymore. Maybe if I use drugs or something. I don’t like the crimes associated with it though. Seems selfish and also dangerous with all the contamination.
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:37 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:37 PM
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Yes and it made me miserable but its reality for me seeing as I rarely fall in love and always get rejected and a relationship is torture for me when I’m not in love
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:45 PM
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Love and romance is only pleasurable and worthwhile to me if I am in love with the person I am in a relationship with. If not, it is more like torture.
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:36 PM
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Thanks but if a person I am in love with can’t see it its not useful to me. I only want to be attractive because of my goal of getting mutual attraction. If I can’t get that I could as well be ugly, doesn’t matter anymore
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:36 PM
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Wow this is a coincidence. I was wondering this as well, since people always say “if they don’t find you attractive give up” but then what is seduction good for anyway. Only for good looking people who could have had the person they’re attracted to anyway. Just make them even more attractive, not make a difference between unattractive and attractive like someone like me needs.
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:03 PM
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Beauty.
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:07 PM
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Nothing
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:07 PM
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Don’t care about that anymore
/r/seduction15/02/22 05:56 PM
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No there isn’t, so you can’t have it.
/r/seduction15/02/22 05:56 PM
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I do not want that. Period. Still trying feels like torture, I rather “give up”
/r/seduction15/02/22 05:55 PM
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Yeah but I don’t want to fuck some random horny guy. I need to be in love to want to be intimate with someone, otherwise I despise it. I rarely fall in love and if I do they always reject me harshly, even if I do everything I possibly can to actively try to seduce them. They really ruined my life and I still hate every single one of them.
/r/seduction15/02/22 05:03 PM
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I am not going to send a photo, sorry. Thanks for the advice, yeah I guess all the people I fall in love with just do not fall for my type. Sucks but that’s life
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:15 AM
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You were the one suggesting me “fucking with as many girls as possible”, something which, if I would even have been interested in such a thing in the first place, would only be possible with lesbians. But maybe it was just a general advice meant for no one in particular idk
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:12 AM
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Because they have the traits that are commonly considered attractive, that people considered pretty by most people have, and I don’t, I only have traits that are in lists like on this sub about ugliest body parts. Yeah but you cannot get bigger breasts and ass from the gym, I am eating a lot but stay skinny, and makeup is fake it is misleading people, and I already have the best haircut for my face shape
/r/seduction13/02/22 04:28 PM
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Hmm I wouldn’t even call that being an asshole. Just not being a doormat
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:12 PM
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Lol lesbian women don’t want me either. I am too ugly for them as well.
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:10 PM
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That I wouldn’t get happy from it. I feel miserable at the thought of having a relationship with someone I am not in love with.
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:10 PM
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I am female lol. But my female family members all are more attractive than me. I inherited most of the features from my dad etc. Which is bad in my case. So their experience is not representative at all for mine
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:09 PM
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Yeah this is what I think as well. Can’t you shave or is this a lot of work in your case? Unfortunately most women say they prefer taller men. Personally I don’t really care unless they are shorter than me, because I am quite short myself. it could be that women are prejudiced, I was prejudiced in the past as well because often dark men I met behaved like drug addicts who didn’t read much, only listen to hiphop music etc. But when their style and personality aligns more with my own I can find th…
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:06 PM
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Thanks for the advice but seeing as I’m an ugly woman this means I am f ucked considering nothing I say or write is going to make a difference in contrast to when men compensate like that. So it means I have to focus on women I guess but I Don’t know if lesbian women are more like heterosexual women or more like men in this regard
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:58 PM
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Sometimes NATURE is the one being negative, but when we can’t change it all there is left as an option is accepting, but it doesn’t mean then the person accepting it suddenly is negative imo? It’s a fact and they have no choice
/r/seduction13/02/22 10:32 AM
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Yeah this is what I firmly believe as well. I really want to believe everything people wrote her as answers. But deep down I don’t at all. I have the feeling that people feel uncomfortable answering what they really feel about this topic somehow. On the other hand, people never had problems with being mean to me because I’m ugly irl so why should this question be any different?
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:47 AM
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Can you describe how money made you succesful at women being attracted to you?
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:42 AM
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Thanks, do you have experience with this yourself? I try my best to create other positive qualities but it is difficult
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:41 AM
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Thanks that is what I believed but I haven’t had success with money either and still trying to improve my social status. I know love can’t be bought, but I think that af a certain point of ugly like me people are just excluded from the possibility of finding real mutual attraction so the next best thing is paid intimacy however often those who offer it are not attractive and the ones I am attracted to do not offer it in my case
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:39 AM
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Thanks, I agree personal care is important
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:37 AM
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Thanks but at which point do you think realism has to end and become ungrounded optimism instead? I only drew this conclusion because I was insulted and ghosted by the people I found attractive as soon as I confessed my feelings. These people were varying degrees of attractive, one called himself unattractive and didn’t have much experience so it also isnt always caused by my taste in people.
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:36 AM
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Thanks but will that make her attracted in the same way as good looks do?
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:33 AM
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Thanks for replying but have you actually asked those ugly people if they ever felt really happy with each other, like being very attracted, having great sex, liking being intimate etc? Too often people just get together out of desperation and it does not say much about the quality
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:32 AM
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Thanks, I agree that personal care is very important and it can be improved
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:30 AM
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Could you give examples of that?
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:29 AM
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I don’t know but can be
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:29 AM
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Thanks but that was not what I meant. I meant whether it was capable of making her interested in him on the spot like looks do.
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:28 AM
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I have none, none considered attractive anyway, or the ones I have are so basic everyone has them
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:27 AM
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Thanks for your reply but are those things that make you immediately attracted to a guy as soon as you discover them, like, you are in a conversation and when the conversation is good you want to kiss him for example?
/r/seduction13/02/22 12:27 AM
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What do you mean? Ego stroking? Will that really work in making the other person more attracted or just more prone to use you for narcissistic supply? I guess that’s at least something, but still
/r/seduction13/02/22 12:26 AM
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Thanks for the answer. I don’t think it is subjective at all though. No one ever called me pretty, I have been asked out once in my life and that relationship lasted two weeks and I never can get the people I am in love with. I have several traits that are known for being unattractive.
/r/seduction13/02/22 12:24 AM
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That was a beautiful comment, thanks for the effort you put in this long reply. I guess it is better to have a mindset like this than a negative one, but it takes some spiritual growth. I am glad you achieved this yourself and are able to inspire others in this way. inner beauty perhaps also gets stronger from having experienced hardship when you are able to deal with it in the way you do. It serves as an example for a lot of people I think.
/r/seduction12/02/22 06:05 PM
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Maybe this explains it a bit? https://visioneyeinstitute.com.au/eyematters/emotional-state-affect-vision/ https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1474704918761104
/r/seduction12/02/22 04:38 PM
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I am really sorry your wife passed away. That is so sad and really cruel but I am glad thst you at least are able to think back with gratitude about the time you spent with her, because you as well couldn’t have had that as well indeed. Still, life can be so cruel sometimes. Anyway, nice picture and I am dealing with rejection because of my looks as well right now and this post made me feel a bit better about it. Often you just don’t get what you want in life and there is nothing to be done abou…
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:50 PM
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I don’t need one ;)
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:23 PM
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LOL! That is the best thing I’ve read yet in this sub
/r/seduction09/02/22 01:27 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction09/02/22 01:00 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction09/02/22 12:59 PM
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I am looking for a psychological connection. For me this is really weird. It is based on my previous crushes. For example lets say I fell in love with a guy named Peter before and he disliked a guy named Rick. Later it turned out Peter was a douchebag. Then I would meet another guy named Rick and would be more susceptible to fall in love with him. There are also certain qualities that need to be present at all times such as loyalty, loneliness (so that at least I feel wanted) and talent at seduc…
/r/seduction09/02/22 12:47 PM
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Exactly
/r/seduction09/02/22 10:29 AM
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Exactly lol
/r/seduction09/02/22 10:28 AM
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I hope the girls you are actually interested in will do the same instead of wasting their time replying to you
/r/seduction09/02/22 10:28 AM
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I wish there were more people thinking like you
/r/seduction09/02/22 10:26 AM
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Are you a woman posting this as a man so you hope men will change their behaviour? Because I don’t think its related to gender. People ghost because they have too much options and are being rude. When people get too much attention they will automatically see others especially ugly people as below them and not worth reacting to. Sometimes its impossible because of the sheer volume and will not be worthwhile, most of the time its just a combination of arrogance, maybe disgust and laziness imo. The…
/r/seduction09/02/22 10:24 AM
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As a woman, this doesn’t really excite me much to read. I don’t want to feel like anyone is disappointed in me or looks down on me for example, but maybe there are guys who can shake their heads in a way that does not come accross as belittling. If I read it I don’t think it will work. But maybe this is different in reality, after all I never even experienced this situation. I do agree with the advice to look at a woman though. Do not look away but be a little confident.
/r/seduction09/02/22 10:18 AM
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Yeah, especially when it wasn’t even seductive but more like an insult
/r/seduction09/02/22 07:01 AM
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This is why I stopped dating men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:53 PM
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Laughed out loud at this
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:30 PM
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Exactly wtf. That seemed schizophrenic and arrogant
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:30 PM
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