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uhhthatguy/r/seduction07/12/14 04:20 PM
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uhhthatguy/r/seduction22/11/14 07:22 PM
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I'll take your response one step at a time. First and foremost, I'm not a RedPill guy. I actually just went to the sub for the first time last night because I was curious what it was all about, and I am definitely not a fan of what they're all about (at least at first glance, I shouldn't judge heavily because I didn't give their philosophy more than a minute of my time). Next, I did get to know her throughout the date, but didn't include most of that in the post. There were other issues, which I…
/r/seduction08/12/14 02:58 PM
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My suggestion for this is basically what /u/Rockpyle said: work on your inner game. To actually answer your question: yes, there is hope for you. You asked how to develop confidence if you keep getting rejected. I'm inclined to respond with my own question: why do you think the two are related? Self-confidence is not tied to success with women (at least it shouldn't be). I boiled down confidence to one thing for me: knowledge. If I know a lot about something, I'm comfortable with it. For example…
/r/seduction08/12/14 04:39 AM
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I love that you included the palm gesture (body language is one of my favorite things to learn about). To answer your question, I suppose I'm not sure if that was her intention; they very well might have been done with that intention. This is one of the things that is most tricky in my opinion, determining why people do what they do. Good insight, it never hurts to consider other options!
/r/seduction08/12/14 12:38 AM
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Ha, I like your style!
/r/seduction07/12/14 11:41 PM
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Hey man, I didn't write this up because I wanted to show the world how dignified I am. It really isn't that sort of thing. I think people (myself included) can benefit from a reminder that attraction doesn't begin and end with the way a person looks. That's all I was shooting for.
/r/seduction07/12/14 10:14 PM
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Y'know what? You're right when you say I should've just taken her where I wanted to go and just led the way. You're totally right on that. On the other hand, I'm not a fan of sweeping generalizations. Saying "women don't want to make decisions" is dangerous, because some will. And as far as saying she wants to be "sucked into my frame," well, I'm inclined to agree with you there, too. Solid feedback, thanks.
/r/seduction07/12/14 09:45 PM
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This is a solid response.
/r/seduction07/12/14 09:37 PM
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I disagree on both points. As for the first point, it is just that, a general rule. As we both work a job that employs us on weekends, in addition to her schoolwork, Friday was the only option for a first time. I understand what you're saying here, and might be compelled to agree if the circumstances were different, but I was working with what I had in this situation. As for the second point, perhaps I didn't explain well enough. After I suggested a handful of places to go, she said whatever I w…
/r/seduction07/12/14 09:34 PM
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I agree with what was said here. Nice name, btw. And OP, don't be afraid to use that space bar.
/r/seduction28/11/14 11:03 PM
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Man, you gotta work on that inner game! no "fast as possible answers" are going to solve this problem for ya, dude. To be honest, even if you are able to get into that mindset of an alpha, it won't be genuine until you feel it from within first. Some guys will say that you just need to tell yourself that "you're the man" or that "you deserve to be the alpha in ___ situation," but I disagree with that. In my opinion, you'll start to act like an alpha when you become one. Don't try to act like you…
/r/seduction26/11/14 05:00 PM
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This is my progression from sober to drunk: Scanning the place and looking for cute women. I'll occasionally make small talk with those around me/approach. Once the buzz starts to come, the approaches get easier and the conversation is much more smooth. I'm just having fun and not worrying as much about...well, anything really. And then I have that extra beer or shot. And suddenly whatever that girl or guy is saying is way less interesting that the fucking SWEET TUNE THE DJ IS PLAYING. Fuck I go…
/r/seduction26/11/14 04:54 PM
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She becomes a Pivot. I'd say read up on the classics in this regard. Basically she provides instant social proof to those around you.
/r/seduction26/11/14 04:50 PM
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I usually think it is a bad idea to ever tell a girl you think she's attractive, for a few reasons, but to be honest, I think it was fine in this regard. Ya played it cool, didn't get weirded out by the other girl laughing, and were genuine with her. You might've come up with some clever response if you really thought about it, but you were on the spot. In essence, I'd say try the number, as her saying she couldn't type well might've meant she put the wrong number in there, which means you've go…
/r/seduction26/11/14 04:46 PM
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Okay, everything about this stuff is different for every person, but in this regard I almost always say the same thing: take text game, roll it into a ball, and toss it into the trash can. The whole point of learning this stuff is to make your interpersonal experiences better, be it for sex or just having more fun with folks. With that in mind, I think it is silly to try to advance any relationship through text. So many things are important to interactions, such as body language, tone of voice, …
/r/seduction26/11/14 04:39 PM
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That was a really good breakdown, man. Thanks for the response!
/r/seduction25/11/14 02:58 PM
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You sound like a good fella to sarge with. I did basically the same thing. Went back to my table and chuckled before talking to another girl.
/r/seduction22/11/14 11:20 PM
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I'd flip the gender dynamic and ask her when she's going to stop hitting on you and finally take you out.
/r/seduction22/11/14 11:14 PM
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Personally, I would never try to seem grateful when dealing with a woman. It could come off as a DLV. On the other hand, the hand on the lower back is a great way to escalate kino with her, as it is friendly, but not necessarily sexual.
/r/seduction22/11/14 11:03 PM
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Yeah, I do think it is a good idea, but I also think it would be worth it to be a part of it. Something like meeting with all three of you there to make contact before anything happens.
/r/seduction22/11/14 11:00 PM
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Man, I have one piece of advice that i really believe you should consider: think about it. Think it through completely to be sure it is something you want to do. The fact that she considers herself bisexual without having actually been with a woman could be trouble. I previously dated a woman like this and it was a serious source of confusion for her. It should be something you talk through completely with her before deciding on. Also, make sure bringing in another partner is something you'll bo…
/r/seduction22/11/14 09:57 PM
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Are you in a situation where you're already in contact with her? I mean are you two in similar social circles?
/r/seduction22/11/14 09:38 PM
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The options are endless, man. Just do something where you can hang out, so don't do a movie or anything like that. That's a "we are already comfortable with each other date." Try to do something fun so that she associates having fun with being with you. Try rock climbing together, or go on a hike.
/r/seduction22/11/14 09:37 PM
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Just as /u/coughcoughpow said, so much of communication is through body language, which I believe would be a great place to start for you. Body language is actually one of my strong points in the field, so I can attest that a lot gets said and achieved through effectively communicating by raising your eyebrows instead of saying "really?" or turning slightly away instead of saying "I'm not a fan of what you just said." I can even imagine turning it into a bit of a game for you. Once you get to a …
/r/seduction22/11/14 09:35 PM
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Man, it is so simple, but you're absolutely right: agree and amplify. I appreciate the suggestion, amigo. Also, to be clear, I didn't take it to heart at all. I know some folks will react negatively and that those aren't the sets for me. I'm just looking for feedback on future interactions, which is exactly what you've given, so thanks!
/r/seduction22/11/14 09:32 PM
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Haha yeah that is definitely a big change. Don't sweat the small things, man. It is just a change that you'll have to adapt to.
/r/seduction11/11/14 04:34 AM
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Fair warning, you should take my advice with a grain of salt, just as you should do with anybody else on here. That being said, I think letting Tinder affect you in any way is a bad idea. The whole point of it is that it is fast and easy to say yes or no to, so it lacks commitment from both parties. I know its tough, but I'd suggest forgetting about that match.
/r/seduction11/11/14 04:24 AM
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Are you the guy who sat around and got upset, or are you the guy who went out and talked to other women to fill the space she left? Reacting angrily is about the worst thing to do.
/r/seduction11/11/14 03:18 AM
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Hmm, interesting. First off, thanks for the reply, I'd rather hear about the sub's flaws now so I can put some blinders on. Also thanks for the suggestions for reading/viewing material. RSD, DeAngelo and Mystery are all well-known names to me, but it won't hurt to revisit the foundations. I agree with the blind leading the blind bit, at least from what I've seen over the past few days. I'm no guru, but it definitely appears that many basic questions have been asked over and over, and are often a…
/r/seduction11/11/14 01:05 AM
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Yeah I meant the guys who take BioChem and Anatomy courses. Those are two very serious majors at my university, so the folks I know in them were all really dedicated. Just another example of different programs!
/r/seduction11/11/14 12:59 AM
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/u/____---__-_ said it relatively succinctly, I think. I'll try my hand at it as well. Confidence is being cool; cockiness is telling people you're cool.
/r/seduction10/11/14 11:04 PM
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Congrats, man. Sounds like you got just what you wanted out of that situation, I'm glad it went well. A few things I think could have gone even better. First, laying it all out there and telling her she's beautiful after only saying a few words to her seems risky to me. It is sort of putting the ball in her court. With that said, good job "being busy" that day, whether you actually were or were not. My only real advice would be to capitalize as soon as you see her next. All she knows about you a…
/r/seduction10/11/14 11:02 PM
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If you're in search of a short term (one night) thing, then I disagree with you here. Typically, yeah, I personally wouldn't bother with the girl that is surrounded by guys all night. It is a lot more work than talking to the cute girl who is just with a couple other girls. However, really attractive women draw attention to themselves in one way or another, so if you're after that type of woman, you're going to have to deal with competition. That's just my two cents.
/r/seduction10/11/14 10:51 PM
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Okay, I'm quite interested in your opinion here. I haven't frequented this sub in about two years, and only recently decided to check it out again. I'm surprised to see the term "old school PUAs" referring to some of the principles I view as being staples of this community. I've seen a lot of what appear to be inexperienced guys saying things like what you mentioned here (sour grapes in your words) and I'm worried the community has shifted from guys who share their experiences and make each othe…
/r/seduction10/11/14 10:47 PM
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Just goes to show how different schools are. Also is your experience with "Exercise Science" as a major different from Kinesiology? Because Kinesiology is no joke.
/r/seduction10/11/14 10:35 PM
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Lumping all women into any category doesn't work. Some women will be intimidated, some won't, but this goes for just about everything else. If they're asking you what your major is, you say PoliSci, then she says "okay" then you're just as much to blame for the dead conversation. Unless she has a specific interest in what you say, it has a good chance of being a boring answer. This is just like asking the old and boring "where are you from?" It is a boring question because "Maryland" is a boring…
/r/seduction10/11/14 10:34 PM
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I would advise against doing that. Not only does it set a precedent for yourself to rely on your friend for reading situations, but he won't know the whole story. You're probably going to leave something out and it could potentially be significant.
/r/seduction20/11/12 04:16 PM
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I agree with most of what you've said here. However, I think seddit is viewed of as more of a community to bounce little things off of each other. As SelfAmuse pointed out, the community becomes diluted with a wider audience, and because this particular community stems from the hyper-popular reddit, it is inevitable that more and more AFCs will frequent this forum. This means less real knowledge of The Game and other associated information. If a shift back to the roots is what we are after, it w…
/r/seduction20/11/12 04:07 PM
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I did this last year and woke up with a dollar in my boxers, but had no idea how it got there. My advice is to use it as a way to escalate kino. After you have laid basic ground game, tell her if she puts a dollar in your pants, you'll dance for her.
/r/seduction27/10/12 11:13 PM
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