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If you are a basketball player Don't know jack about basketball, couldn't understand
/r/seduction24/07/26 04:03 AM
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If you open 1000 conversations in the same shitty way, you'll still get as many positive interactions as if you opened 10 (i.e none)
/r/seduction24/07/26 04:00 AM
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No sex in 3 years. Haven't kissed a girl and almost year and half, last makeout (depending on what you consider makeout) was in late '23, when i did that and also kissed two more girls in a single night (my "prime", if you like). Not a single date in two and a half years, and last meaningful conversation was a year and a half ago (not the girl i said i last kissed, but a different one). Ever since, it's been just some chit-chat from time to time, and me ghosting and being ghosted. I study archit…
/r/seduction24/07/26 03:58 AM
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Just get used to it, eventually you'll give two shits
/r/seduction17/07/26 02:02 AM
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Bullseye!
/r/seduction23/11/25 08:15 PM
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I'm talking about men feeling attracted to women vs women feeling attracted to men by looks. Thats why girls with bigger ass/boobs and/or with prettier faces will attract more men (and most of them will stay around) than others. Meanwhile a guy with defined muscles and a sharp jawline might initially catch more women's attraction than other men but can easily lose those ladies if he fucks up. What you saw was men not being too selective, which is a different thing from feeling attracted or not. …
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:22 PM
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but if you're not her 'type' then you're dead in the water This is somewhat true for anyone approaching and for either gender: your personality doesn't match hers, she just isn't looking for men, she has a partner and respects her relationship, etc. But women's attraction doesn't work like a "brad pitt/gollum" switch, and physical appearance is nowhere as important for them as it is for men, though it does have its relevant aspects. That's why you may hear women that fall for guys they didn't li…
/r/seduction23/11/25 06:59 PM
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Most people you see in social media sell really shitty advice: corny phrases, carpet bombing with compliments, then asking for the girl's contact. But they built no connection, no attraction at all, she will forget about him the second they leave, and they'll be just another message to be left on read.
/r/seduction23/11/25 06:38 PM
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Becoming more attractive and learning the abilities to dominate the dynamics go hand in hand. To me they are inseparable from self-improvement. There is no thing such as focusing on one thing thinking that then everything will come by itself: if it does, you won't be able to tell which side is the good one.
/r/seduction23/11/25 06:31 PM
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There is rarely such a thing as "her type". Unless she only goes after guys with money, a car, etc, but why would you want that kind of woman around in the first place? You can't be rejected bc of personality if she didn't even get to know you. It means that your approach was shit: if she let you stay, it means you are an interesting person. Afterwards either she can reject you or you can leave her bc one didn't like the other's personality. If she was attracted enough to let you take her on a d…
/r/seduction23/11/25 06:27 PM
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Thing is, no one even tells you at least that tip
/r/seduction23/11/25 06:17 PM
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In my country, our most famous "PUA" (we don't use that term, we call them "seduction experts" or dating coaches) fortunately understood this. He is the first to say that there is no "one size fits all" type of advice, and that you can't live off canned lines (not forever at least) because interactions are dynamic.
/r/seduction23/11/25 06:15 PM
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Come to think about it, the other major problem that i can't (or I'm not allowed to) work on and have already experienced is the absolute lack of a private place (if you know what i mean). I live with both parents and sister, I'm never home alone, and there's no hotel in town (plus virtually no money for anything other than food, college spending, and gym). The safest option to get around this would be both taking a bus to nearby cities and getting a part time job (it's a no brainer for me, but …
/r/seduction20/11/25 03:16 AM
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Fair enough, still taking a bus to a nearby city doesn't sound bad
/r/seduction18/11/25 05:40 PM
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Point 10 is a bit tricky in my case. I live in a town (100k people) where everyone knows everyone and can't move out because I'm studying here right now (it's a major university hub in the region, some people even come from abroad to study here). Only thing i can do meanwhile is spending a couple hours in the main neighbor towns/cities (they're like 50km away): the main city in the region has 250,000 people, so I'm far from any "metropolis" so to say; and there is also a town in between with 100…
/r/seduction18/11/25 05:10 PM
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enough to stop ur advances but not enough to pout or be emotional Exactly. Accept it but don't let it affect you. Like not going "bUT i tHoUGhT yOu LIkeD mE" or some bs like that but instead: not now? Okay, whatever. [Retakes whatever subject they were onto]. You will get what you want later on, just don't try to rush things
/r/seduction18/11/25 03:42 AM
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There is some nuance because a no isn't always an end all no Further elaborating this, sometimes they do what i call "micro-rejections" to test you. If you react, she will read it as a red flag: you come out as desperate and maybe even creepy. She will feel 1) she can't trust you 2) you're not the man she thought you were 3) she had full control of the interaction and hence full control over you. If you don't react, on the other hand, you will be congruent with what she perceives of you (i.e. yo…
/r/seduction17/11/25 09:24 PM
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Also women use outfit and props to convey their personality. So by indirectly compliment their personality you stand out from 90% of men
/r/seduction17/11/25 09:08 PM
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There are a thousand possible explanations for it. Acting needy (there's also a plethora of ways of showing neediness), letting her have control over you, revealing your intentions too fast, not building actual rapport, etc.
/r/seduction29/10/25 03:23 AM
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Stop thinking ANYONE is out of your league. That will get the ball rolling
/r/seduction29/10/25 03:16 AM
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Passing the tests often means showing that she doesn't have any control over you, and this helps in mantaining or even building up attraction. Shit tests are IOIs in and of themselves, and it's their way of testing your authenticity, thus detecting whether you are trustworthy or not.
/r/seduction26/10/25 08:24 PM
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Because you don't have to pursue, you have to attract
/r/seduction01/10/25 03:48 AM
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This is not something you can solve with quick advice or tips. Seduction is about looking into yourself, questioning every aspect of your life, learning how to connect with girls and people in general, trying, failing, developing skills, changing your mentality and ultimately growing as a person and changing your life.
/r/seduction25/09/25 10:36 PM
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EXACTLY! What they often mean is "throw yourself at 100 girls and hope to get through at least 1". Like there's no room for improvement, and no way to improve success rates and level the field. Of course, making the first move comes with the risk of being rejected; but it's one thing being rejected simply because you laid yourself down at her feet and another is being rejected because she's already "taken". In fact, not only does seduction improve efficiency (i.e. less rejections), but also give…
/r/seduction24/09/25 11:50 PM
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"Be yourself" "Take 100 shots, you'll hit at least once" (like it was a numbers game) "It doesn't matter on which boat, you cross the river either way" (don't be picky) I think there are more, but for now i can remember those
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:13 PM
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I always say when my friends try to rush me: Don't try to run before you learn how to walk
/r/seduction17/09/25 07:28 AM
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Move on and get another girl
/r/seduction16/09/25 10:21 PM
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Today i facepalmed myself immediately after missing a chance. I guess that it counts as a baby step 😃
/r/seduction16/09/25 12:02 AM
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Because they know what they want (a nuce man), but not what makes them feel attracted (a strong man)
/r/seduction05/09/25 01:54 AM
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It's a nearly perfect choice. It's a simple and affordable plan, you spend just as much as you'd like to spend on someone you barely know, and you don't come out as stingy. The important thing of dating is not the food or coffee or drinks, but the chemistry you create with her.
/r/seduction03/09/25 07:36 PM
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Propose your own plan. You stand your ground, let her see you like (i.e. authenticity, pretty rare these days), and take a more dominant position. All of those traits will make you far more attractive
/r/seduction03/09/25 07:22 PM
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It also demonstrates leadership capabilities, which makes attraction go up
/r/seduction03/09/25 07:16 PM
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Don't. Just date her, and see what you wanna see in person, and not through a screen
/r/seduction02/09/25 10:36 PM
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Make female friends and have them introduce you to their single friends Not necessarily their friends, but also girls they meet on the spot might work as well. However, I think I have more feminine contact than my bestie, so I doubt i take her as a wing anytime soon. I had one good wing (we went the two of us three times and always got girls) but now he is in a relationship, so it's kinda hard to make it happen again.
/r/seduction02/09/25 03:47 AM
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Argentina, a country where people salute each other with kisses in the cheek or hugs (or both). Again, it's a complicated subject, because for one side, you can get to kiss girls (or more than that) simply by dancing with them (the dancing itself is like a mating ritual). On the flip side, straight asking a girl to dance with you is akin to jumping into a pool without knowing if it has water. It's just not efficient.
/r/seduction02/09/25 02:34 AM
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Even I don't understand how i pulled that off, it feels like that one night in a lifetime (where i live it's a bit easier to kiss girls, but that's talk for another moment). I haven't had sex in 2 years, and my last kiss was 6 months ago. I haven't kiss any girl (nightclubs aside) since i broke up with my ex. I have friends who have gotten much greater numbers (5, 10, sometimes even more in one night). Then i think once i could have gotten with an entire friend group (4 girls( but chose not to m…
/r/seduction01/09/25 09:30 PM
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Don't rush in any escalation, be it going from peck to deep kisses or using your tongue. Be gentle in every step you take. Don't grab her butt or breasts at the first chance you get. Start by grabbing her waist and neck, then move your hands slowly but surely to the hip, lower waist and chest/ribs, in a way that suggests you wanna touch those juicy parts. She'll probably grab your hand and put it herself in those places, but if she doesn't, watch her reaction. If she doesn't show any discomfort,…
/r/seduction01/09/25 09:18 PM
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I have a story that could have gone that way, kissed 3 girls in one night, and made out really hard with the second one (i touched her perineum and put my hands under her top and she bit my ears and caressed my groin). But I didn't ask for any ig (in my country phone numbers are considered more private info than social media) and didn't see her when i came out of the club (plus my wing didn't let me walk across the street and look for her), so i missed a great opportunity to have sex. Since then…
/r/seduction01/09/25 09:08 PM
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Move on to the next one, she's not the last girl in the world. Staying is a desperate/needy move. Take some time to analyze and learn from your mistakes so you can do better with the next girl. You need to lose to know how to win
/r/seduction27/08/25 03:34 PM
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Sky is the limit
/r/seduction25/08/25 12:14 AM
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I live in a 100k people town that - socially speaking- still works like any small town/village: everyone knows everyone; you hear 10 different gossips from strangers and about half of them involve people you know; and any mistake will haunt you, for a long time if not forever. It is a nightmare, so i can say that any small city or town where "everyone knows everyone" is no good
/r/seduction15/08/25 05:53 AM
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Also if you live in a small town it can be really uphill. even worse if you fucked up in your past and whenever you go people just won't forget it, so having good reputation becomes almost impossible
/r/seduction15/08/25 05:43 AM
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Nailed it
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:59 PM
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