ukspf Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Should I tell oneitis girl I don't want to see her?		ukspf	/r/seduction	31/10/18 11:23 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Best way to respond without entertaining her? Yeah I know, maybe is usually another no I would just say - cool, let me know when you're free Then you're free to get other options, while the balls in her court. If you never hear from her again, she wasn't that interested	/r/seduction	12/02/19 06:51 PM
3	Mixed signals in bed? She wanted to make sure you would stop when she wanted. It allows her to feel safe, so yeah obviously good that you paused. just don't freak out, slow down, show her that you're comfortable with whatever happens	/r/seduction	09/02/19 11:02 AM
3	How to be more masculine despite my weight? Yeah weight should be entirely dependent on how you feel about it, obviously as long as it's healthy, stick with what makes you feel confident. But. Some girls will want a more muscular man, and to be honest getting bigger is the most overtly physical way to project masculinity. You're already working on a dominant mindset, as long as you can carry that across in social situations without being an ass, keep doing that.	/r/seduction	03/02/19 10:58 PM
4	Tips on how to seduce a “daddy issues” girl? Not much info to go on here, just a terrible question. In general? Specific girl? Any background? But all that aside, probably not worth the headache.	/r/seduction	03/02/19 10:46 PM
1	Corey Wayne's book, does it include information on Texting vs calling? If I remember correctly, I think he recommends the less is more approach. Basically unless you're trying to set up a date don't text/contact. If she gets in touch with you, assume she wants to meet and make a date, in as few steps possible. The phone is not for handing out information, it's a tool to get dates. I've been guilty of texting too much, and also too little. So there's definitely a balance, but the hard part is not over thinking and second guessing	/r/seduction	17/01/19 12:05 PM
1	Setting up date over text I don't see a reason to respond, she said she'd let you know. In the futute though, if she's not sure withdraw the offer. It was a missed opportunity when she said if not day z. You should have said something like 'sure why don't we just agree on day z? it sounds like it's better for both of us' Maybes have been the bane of my life.	/r/seduction	12/11/18 01:11 PM
1	Is this a bad idea Totally agree. Also try putting some distance between her and yourself. Don't initiate any texting, if she does keep it positive, but cut it short after a few texts max. If you see her be positive and joke around, but keep it short, don't try and force the interaction. It'll either help you move on, or she'll miss you. Moving on should be your primary goal though	/r/seduction	12/11/18 09:36 AM
3	19 and never been loved before need advice Everything you can. Find interests, hobbies, and just learn. You're still really young, so don't worry, you've got plenty of time. You could start by reading some books, Models by Mark Manson is highly recommended by most here. Get out and meet more people in general, never pass up any opportunity to hone your social skills. Take more action, it doesn't sound like you've approached many girls. Rejection is something we all face, regardless of race, appearance, whatever. The sooner you get comfor…	/r/seduction	10/11/18 11:11 PM
1	Girl ignored my confirmation text? Ok, keep doing whatever works for you. I'm not saying you shouldn't have a strategy, but following a script isn't for me, I'd rather work on my actual communication skills. Personally I find it's better to follow the path of least resistance, working with women with a genuine interest. They make it easy because they like you, why bother with ones that make it hard work? I've been there before, it's an inefficient use of time. Work smarter, not harder	/r/seduction	10/11/18 12:32 PM
2	Girl ignored my confirmation text? If I have to think in that much depth about my 'perceived social' value and 'strategy' she ain't worth it. If she was interested she'd reply. If she genuinely couldn't make it, for whatever reason, she'd come back with a counter offer	/r/seduction	10/11/18 09:02 AM
1	Witty response to this scenario? Does getting arrested count? You could always touch a boob, just one though.	/r/seduction	09/11/18 08:54 PM
2	Girl ignored my confirmation text? I wouldn't do this. Texting anything after she failed to reply to a confirmation text, is going to be seen as pandering. Girls aren't stupid, just because you changed the subject doesn't mean she forgot about what you sent previously. Just wait to hear from her.	/r/seduction	09/11/18 08:41 PM
3	Looking for Ping Texts to send after not replying Just leave it, that's the best option. I know.	/r/seduction	08/11/18 08:32 PM
11	Is asking her name soon after the open a 'question of doom'? I don't think it really matters. I have used something that Corey Wayne teaches, where you ask the girl her name, then you say something like - "it's nice to meet you 'her name'" but you don't offer yours. The idea being that the interested ones will ask you for yours, it has worked for me. It's an opening for her to continue to the interaction and show interest in you.	/r/seduction	06/11/18 07:54 PM
2	I want to be sure she’s definitely not interested but can’t Been there, and it sucks. At the end of the day you can't take back how you acted and what was said. It's hard, but think of it as an experience to learn from and move forward. I recommend you read Models by Mark Manson, I'm about a quarter through it after seeing it recommended alot on here. I had doubts, but so far it has helpfully highlighted problems with my own mindset	/r/seduction	04/11/18 08:46 PM
6	I want to be sure she’s definitely not interested but can’t Girls will very rarely tell you directly that they're not interested, ghosting should be taken as a definite 'I'm not interested'	/r/seduction	04/11/18 06:56 PM
1	Went from incel to 100+ laycount, where to go from here Therapy	/r/seduction	04/11/18 06:51 PM
1	If you were attractive, how would you go on getting a girlfriend? That's a good point. I would say it's important for guys not to overestimate the importance of looks though, it's definitely an edge, but not on the same scale as a girls attractiveness.	/r/seduction	02/11/18 07:56 PM
1	If you were attractive, how would you go on getting a girlfriend? Looks aren't that important. I've had girls comment on my appearance, heard that loads of girls were into me through freinds. Lacking social skills/pickup, whatever, negated any advantage handed to me by looks. At best I'd consider them as a tool to help you get away with an extra fuck up or two, as long she's into you. I'd work on social skills/game, and apply the theory in real life	/r/seduction	01/11/18 08:48 PM
1	Should I tell oneitis girl I don't want to see her? Thanks, I appreciate the comments. Just writing it down made it pretty clear I should fuck her off. Wish I'd found this place earlier	/r/seduction	01/11/18 05:49 PM