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| -2 | Expecting the man to pay is abusing outdated gender normsIf a “man” doesn’t have enough money to go on dates he has failed as a man. She should use she/her pronouns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 08:29 PM |
| – | Let's talk about age gap relationships, specifically when the woman is the younger party.Again OP, see? I’ve summoned the spinster circle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 02:19 PM |
| 10 | Let's talk about age gap relationships, specifically when the woman is the younger party.See OP? This is what I’m talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 02:17 PM |
| 6 | Let's talk about age gap relationships, specifically when the woman is the younger party.Older women resent younger women having access to higher-quality men. You find the same thing with broke men whining about gold diggers and having to pay for dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 01:42 PM |
| – | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry areYou are basically correct but people don’t want to hear it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 02:30 PM |
| 4 | Endless Buffet Perspective Modern Dating; It's unlikely to work for Majority of Men.Some women will fuck you after a few dates. Some will fuck you faster than that. Some will take longer. I’m not sure why you think this is an earth-shattering revelation, OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Being in Hookup Culture Is The Norm for Single Women, But Not For MenI’ve posted the data on here before. OP posted studies and then said he doesn’t believe them because women under report. Having the same arguments with pathetic incels over and over becomes tiresome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 03:22 PM |
| 18 | Being in Hookup Culture Is The Norm for Single Women, But Not For MenOh my god not this again. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. All the reliable data we have suggest that the top-20% most promiscuous people (so not top-20% quality or attractiveness, just promiscuous) have a lot of sex with and among each other. After that, the middle 60% of people date and partner up into monogamous or serially monogamous relationships. The pool of men among the undateable bottom is probably slightly larger - we might be talking about 30% vs 20%. But the Alpha Harem theory is incorrect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?Yes. Lots of men with high incomes are total sperglords (programmers, engineers, etc.) and don’t know how to leverage their income into being successful with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 01:48 PM |
| 0 | Opinion: Biggest benefit of dating men over womenWho cares? If you want a woman to apologize to you you’re probably better off being “bi”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 01:16 PM |
| – | Women Are Having Significantly More Casual Sex Than Men, They Just Share The Men.That’s contradicted by what I just told you. You are factually, actually, medically retarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 01:31 AM |
| 4 | Women Are Having Significantly More Casual Sex Than Men, They Just Share The Men.I am telling you: you are wrong. The vast majority (around two-thirds) of men and women in 2022 reported having only a single sexual partner. Other than that the numbers are pretty close: men are more likely to have had 3, women 4, but men are disproportionately in the extreme outliers. For all age demographics, except young men, the sex they had was mostly within the context of a committed relationship. Even more than that, the top 20% most sexual men and women are responsible for 50-70% of all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Women Are Having Significantly More Casual Sex Than Men, They Just Share The Men.The top 10% of men sucking up the top 80% of women has been repeatedly disproven. The most promiscuous 20% of men have sex with the most promiscuous 20% of women. The next 60% of men and women couple up with each other. The bottom 20% are incels and femcels respectively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Women Are Having Significantly More Casual Sex Than Men, They Just Share The Men.This has been proven false over and over. The higher STD rate is because it’s easier for pussies to get almost every STD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choiceskill issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Men who have had a lot of casual sex have worse pair-bonding abilitiesBro you aren’t damaged, you’ve just gotten older | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Do some red pill podcaster bro’s have legitimate points? (context below)Most people date within their socioeconomic class. Men values jobs and education a little less than women, but people overstate this. Folks are imagining a rich man who dates the prettiest girl from the trailer park but that’s more of a trope than a real life thing. Most rich men marry wives from rich families. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Is it legal for men to meet with each other and discuss their feelings?That’s called a gay bar, dude. But yes, it is legal to hang out with your bros and do fun things. Go camping, go fishing, go play some sports, play board or video games, drink. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 01:33 PM |
| 11 | Western women's dating options are shrinking.Inferior men sterilizing themselves out of the dating pool is good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 01:27 AM |
| – | If a woman is nice to you: advice.lol no. Most people want to have fun, flirt, and have good energy with people. Yes you shouldn’t pester anyone for sex because that’s lame loser behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:30 AM |
| – | If a woman is nice to you: advice.This is bad advice for most men, who are too cautious when approaching women not too reckless. You should assume most women want to fuck you but you should also be respectful and kind. Feel free to flirt with or ask anyone out, but be chill and drop it if they reject you. The current strategy of berating men for talking to women means only the weirdest, most socially disagreeable men talk to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:17 AM |
| – | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenNone of those men are attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:59 PM |
| -1 | Men want fairness in mainstream culture and discourse, not any female subjugation or violation of women's autonomy.Your flair identifies a woman. You would not, and could not, understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:26 PM |
| 0 | Men want fairness in mainstream culture and discourse, not any female subjugation or violation of women's autonomy.Achievement, struggle, conquest. To burn your enemy’s village and hear the lamentations of their women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 08:54 PM |
| -2 | Men want fairness in mainstream culture and discourse, not any female subjugation or violation of women's autonomy.Weak, pathetic men want fairness. Strong men want our birthright, and modern culture is just one more exciting conquest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Men's and women's experiences are not equally hard.Huh? The default male experience is not never being able to have a sexual or romantic relationship. Most men have sex, most men have girlfriends, most men get married. This is yet another example of the bottom 20% tier of undateable, unfuckable losers speaking for all men. Most of us don’t have your problems bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 03:20 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most women that say they can't orgasm from PIV intercourse have never fucked a guy that knows what he's doingThis is totally wrong. If you are consistently making a woman cum you can do whatever you want without her leaving you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 10:59 PM |
| – | "You're not competing with other men, but her peace of mind" actually you are competing with her situationshipsGenerally, women don’t like “situationships” as much as men do. Most situationships stay that way because the man wants it to, not the woman. You are definitely competing with other men, which is why you should try to beat them. Loyalty, commitment, and being a good man are traits that most women value and that will place you above other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important?Most of these studies don’t control for genetic effects and are unreliable. Involved fathers have an effect but this is much more at the low-IQ, low-conscientiousness genetic end. But the kind of men to become deadbeat dads are themselves genetically low-IQ and low-conscientious. So there’s a hidden inherited effect here. A father who would be involved is more likely to produce kids who succeed regardless. The sort of people getting sperm donors are already comfortable, educated elites and so an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 02:42 PM |
| 7 | Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why?Sex comes with higher consequences for women: possibility of pregnancy, more easily contracted and more harmful STD risks, and susceptibility to male violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:08 PM |
| 5 | Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why?Because women find themselves in something similar but slightly different: Situationships. Men will fuck an average-to-pretty girl who wants to fuck them, and will keep sleeping with her. They just won’t commit. Women usually (but not always) won’t fuck men they would not at least try a relationship with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Some redpill beliefs are more delusional than the average person.“Yellow don’t mellow” is cope. Most older Asian women look like wrinkly grannies. Asian “men” are anything but. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 05:20 PM |
| 5 | What's the best strategy for betabuxxers?Men can have “local” high status, or the appearance of high status, without actually being high status. Consider a musician or comedian who does shows around their city but is otherwise mostly unknown. These kinds of men tend to sleep with a lot of women. They are probably poor and their status, objectively, is low. But people go to shows where they are on stage, appear dominant, and have a crowd cheering for them. They might be totally broke, but they have status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 02:47 PM |
| – | Why is the Anglosphere so obsessed with age gaps?<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 05:43 PM |
| 9 | What does the term "man child" exist but not "woman child"?Youthfulness is desirable in women and contemptible in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 02:07 AM |
| 1 | If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laidYou shouldn’t be pursuing low-status trashy women anyways tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 04:48 PM |
| – | If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laidEducated, high-status women do not generally date felons, drug dealers, and pill heads. As I stated, some low-status lower class women do preferentially date criminal or criminal-adjacent men. This is because those men tend to be low in neuroticism and high in extraversion, which reads as high-status to dumb people. It also reads as able to protect their partner, even if the reality is those men are most likely to hurt their partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 04:35 PM |
| – | If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laidNo, women strongly prefer high-status assertive men because those men were most likely to protect them from the sexual predation of low-status, aggressive men who cannot otherwise get women except through force. A high inhibition, low aggression man is less likely to hurt a woman but also incapable of protecting her from the men who would hurt her. Not to mention that any children will inherit his neuroticism and passivity which are negative survival traits. Women still seek out sex and relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 04:19 PM |
| – | If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laidSex for women has significantly higher potential for downsides than men, so it makes sense for them to be more discerning. Women are likelier to face physical or sexual violence from men than the reverse. Women face the additional danger of pregnancy. Generally, women are more susceptible to STIs and the symptoms of those infections are more severe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 03:50 PM |
| 6 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.First of all, where do women say that? Second, sure some women likely have higher requirements for men they are just going to fuck. That isn’t because the men they date aren’t hot enough to fuck, it’s because women generally prefer dating to just fucking but will just fuck if the dude is hot enough. They prefer to date, it does not mean they’re fucking men in order to get revenge on you. I’m not sure what you mean by men were flipped off by women they were dating when they suggested hooking up. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.That’s true but these dudes would say location doesn’t matter because all the women only sleep with the top 10% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 10:20 PM |
| 9 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.lol no I’m agreeing, that’s just directed to all these weirdo posters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 07:41 PM |
| 39 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.This sub is full of men who are in the bottom quintile for both attractiveness and social skills convinced that their experience represents the average. You’re a freak buddy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 07:36 PM |
| 7 | Men are having less sex, but women are somehow contracting more STDsWrong again loser. There’s been a significant decline in condom usage, likely because of the prevalence or birth control and the functional defeat of HIV and commensurate decrease in messaging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 03:55 PM |
| 3 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"Tbh I don’t know many women who actively identify as “demisexual” and claiming that would be a red flag in and of itself. If you’re including women who say “I don’t like to hook up” then many women are like that after their college days. I’m not sure when you mean as “prime”. Lots of people have easy, empty sex in their 20s and then realize that did not get them what they want. This happens to men too. Yeah I did not mean women who sleep with some men while simultaneously entertaining another as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 03:35 PM |
| 13 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"You’re comparing different numbers to each other. Also, if you presume that all of those 30% of men actively want sex and are frustrated in getting it, then they represent not the average man but the bottom third. The sexlessness numbers for women also show women at 20% sexless. So the bottom third of men and fifth of women are unable to have sex. The average man or woman is having sex if they want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 03:32 PM |
| 16 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"Plenty of average looking men have casual sex in college. Below average looking and behaving men will have more difficulty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 02:59 PM |
| 23 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"Yeah I dunno man. You’re going to have to be more specific where you see these views. If you are comparing growing up to being in college, yes people were more willing to hook up with strangers in college. As they age they tend to dislike casual sex as it makes most people - men and women - feel kind of grody. It is true that some women do sort men into a “just bang” category and a “boyfriend” category, and might delay sex with the boyfriend man. This isn’t about valuing the “just bang” guy more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 02:52 PM |
| 0 | If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of themMost modern men are genetic failures though, so this would be correct and right for women to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think Western Birth Rates are so low?The economic burden argument makes no sense: birth rates are highest in the poorest places on Earth (Niger, Mali) and lowest in some of the wealthiest societies in human history. Social support like welfare or parental leave has a marginal, at best, effect on this. When it comes to America specifically, the decline is primarily due to two things: fewer teen pregnancies and fewer marriages. Adults who get married have only slightly lower birth rates than in the past. I suspect, but can’t confirm,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 02:43 PM |
| 37 | Are women not getting approached anymore?Women spent the past ten years yelling that they never wanted to be approached at work or in most non-bar/party/club settings. Men listened. One of the funny downsides of this is the only men who still approach are more likely, rather than less, to be creeps due to their inability to follow social norms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 01:06 PM |
| 5 | does social proofing on attraction show how women have lower levels of free will or independent thought?The reverse is true, in the sense that men date women who are more attractive to other men as a form of social status. However men’s attraction is based on standards that do not require social proofing to establish: youth and beauty. Women’s attraction is more based on status, some of which can be objective: wealth, education, relative youth, ambition, etc. However status also depends on how others perceive you, so women’s attraction relies on that too. Tldr: Both sexes want partners who are des… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Who even are these “top percentile men” that are allegedly getting 80% of the dating results?Those studies are deliberately or mistakenly misinterpreted by the badly motivated or the stupid. Women rate men less attractive than men rate women, and it is not in a bell curve so much as a decreasing slope. This does not mean that women exclusively date men they find attractive. Women are much more willing to date men they find less-attractive for other reasons than men are willing to date women they find less-attractive. Also, women find men more attractive as they increase in emotional int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 04:48 PM |
| – | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatWould you rather marry a beautiful woman or an ugly one? A smart one or a stupid one? A kind one or a mean one? All those traits are to varying extents heritable, and by selecting for them you are engaging in eugenics. Women not wanting to be with whiny losers is not a genocide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 01:34 PM |
| 5 | Texting a girl: Keep it short and simple or she will run!Neither of these are the correct response. Girl: baby I’m feeling insecure Guy: why beautiful/gorgeous/babygirl/whatever? Be an active listener without being a smotherer or an asshole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 08:08 PM |
| – | The more you meet women, the more you realize they're all the sameAll women are emanations of the Divine Feminine. That is beautiful, not lamentable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 02:34 PM |
| 6 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatYes, there will always be a man with a bigger club waiting for you to rest. That’s why you don’t. Every one of your ten thousand genetic forefathers figured this out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 11:17 PM |
| 15 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatYou ARE fighting other men. Go to the gym, get a better job, get a nice haircut, gain an interesting hobby. That is the contest, you are just lucky enough that death is no longer on the line. The fight for your own posterity is happening every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 09:32 PM |
| 15 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatPrepubescent men and women did not have strikingly different death rates. Infant mortality was very high but that affected both sexes. Premodern men had to fight and kill in order to pass on their genes. All you have to do is exercise regularly and have a decent job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 09:14 PM |
| 38 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatAs an average throughout human evolution only about 40% of men have reproduced, as compared with 80% of women. Prehistorically this ratio was even more lopsided than in historic times. So yes, most men are not fit enough to reproduce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 07:48 PM |
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