ulovemoe Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Q4M: For the men here who have suffered with dating struggles where they want to find a partner but can't, were you able to open up to your male friends about your struggles? If so, how did they respond? And do you believe we should talk more about this as men? One thing I've heard people say is that therapy can go beyond simply being a treatment for some specific issue, and is good even for people who are mentally healthy. I.e. a lifestyle to adopt, if you can afford it time and money-wise. In other words, while many people see therapy as the mental health analogue to a doctor/the hospital, it should instead be seen as the mental health analogue to going to the gym, or perhaps more precisely to getting a trainer at the gym. Logically it makes sense th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/24 11:06 PM
0	Are passports bros horrible people ? Bitch, your name is literally "Gojo's Lower Half". You're just a sexist, misandrist pig.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 02:36 AM
6	Are passports bros horrible people ? Wow, what a psychotic line of questioning for a stranger on the internet. Is it that hard for you to believe someone might have a strong connection to someone from another country?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 02:33 AM
5	Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.” that you are not particularly interested in us specifically Do you expect every man who approaches you to be interested in you specifically, for reasons other than your looks? How would they be able to know these reasons before approaching you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 08:46 PM
2	Women punching too high in dating if you are chasing him then he's not on your level. If you are chasing, the guy's above your pay grade. This is false. If you are chasing, it means they are not as interested in you as you are in them. Not that they are "above your pay grade". Not even that they aren't interested in you at all. Simply that you are the more interested party. The notion that everyone has a one-dimensional "value" or "league" or "pay grade" in dating needs to die.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 07:01 PM
6	I often hear women say "I have attractive male friends with awesome personalities, but I don't like them that way." If they're attractive, why aren't they attracted to them? That is not the same thing at all. You actually dated this person. This is talking about if you met your ex before you started dating, noted he was attractive, noted that he had an appealing personality, noted that he was rich, and still decided to not date him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 08:21 PM
4	the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in dating *wary "weary" means tired. "wary" means cautious/careful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/23 04:07 AM
1	Are average men really "struggling" to get relationships with girls? Ever hear of something called "punctuation"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 03:57 PM
3	Do you think mens attraction itself is misogyny? He entrusted Christ to a WOMAN. This is misleading. He didn't "entrust Christ to a woman." If he did, that would imply that God had the choice of entrusting Christ to a man or woman, and chose the woman. If this were the case, then exactly what would entrusting Christ to a man entail? Would Joseph have pooped Jesus out of his butthole instead of Mary in that case (both still virgins)? Or would a holy stork have dropped Jesus off on Joseph's lap one day? Christ had no choice but to be born to a w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 03:17 PM
3	Q4W: Is it safe to assume that women that don't respond to respect and vulnerability are probably emotionally unhealthy and not worth it anyway? Red pill, pick-up artist	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 10:35 PM
2	Guys don’t seem to be on the same page about submissive partners Being submissive is in a way worse than being a slave What the actual fuck? EDIT: For those who are wondering, yes, EulenWatcher said the above, and followed it up with a supporting argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:28 AM
6	Simping is making dating absolutely unbearable and guys are enabling and reinforcing terrible behavior on both sides. How is changing a tire about physical strength? Do you think women have a significantly harder time changing tires because they are weaker? Do you think men are dead-lifting their cars when changing a tire instead of using a jack?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 07:56 PM
1	Nonverbal consent Men in the US at least are specifically taught that no "no" does not imply "yes". Only a "yes" means "yes". This is what I was taught in both middle school and high school health class.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 03:15 AM
6	Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point? Gods, do I really have to spoonfeed you guys pre-chewed relationships? You literally elected to participate in this discussion. Why did you have to say this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 04:03 AM
9	Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point? That is a first move. If it's still not too late for you to feign ignorance and pretend like you weren't actually interested, then you haven't actually made a move.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 03:47 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread False.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 03:09 AM
1	Do the men in here that struggle to get laid not have any women in there social circles? It's 'volcel'. I had to look this up too because I was also confused. Incel = involuntary celibate, whereas volcel = voluntary celibate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 02:31 AM